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Hound is nothing but trouble during his owners’ vacations

DEAR ABBY: My daughter and son-in-law’s dog, “Zeke,” is a poor houseguest. We have kept him several times while they were vacationing.
This last time, a long weekend, was very stressful.
Zeke is a hound dog (58 pounds) and stubborn. He jumps on furniture, jumps up to the kitchen counter and dining table trying to steal food, urinates in the house (not all the time, but often enough), doesn’t want to stay outside in the backyard unless someone is out there with him and, when he is outside alone, he constantly howls. He also chases our cats.
Whenever it’s muddy in our fenced backyard, he must be taken out to the front yard on a leash or he will catch a scent and run off. There are also potential sparring matches with our own dog that must be monitored, and at feeding time, they have to be separated.
Our daughter’s last trip was to be for 12 days. We said we didn’t want to keep him for that long, but we would continue to keep him for short stays. This has been a sore spot with her ever since. She feels Zeke is our “granddog,” and we should keep him anyway. I do not know how to handle this without causing any more bad feelings.
Please advise.
ABOVE AND BEYOND IN TEXAS

DEAR ABOVE AND BEYOND: Your daughter’s dog is too much dog for you to handle and, in addition, poorly trained. He isn’t your “grand” anything.
Stand your ground and quit trying to placate your entitled daughter. She should be grateful that you’re willing to take responsibility for the dog even for a short time. If that isn’t enough for her, “bow-wow” out by refusing to take Zeke at all. He’s her dog, and the problem should be hers, not yours.
DEAR ABBY: I am an empathetic person, and because of it, most of my friends and family members share things with me that they are going through in their lives. I feel pain with and for them, and have shed many tears with these people.
Most of the time, this is something I am happy to offer. I understand that not everyone has the same level of empathy or the skills to “be there” when people are going through a rough patch. But right now, I thought it might be good to share some things I have noticed when the roles were reversed and I found myself needing to share with others:
1. It’s not a competition! Now is not the time to share your similar experience. Let the person sharing just talk and resist the urge to relate your own stories.
2. Don’t try to offer solutions unless they are asked for. The majority of the time, the person just needs to say it out loud to someone, and then they are able to get their head or heart around it and figure things out.
3. Just listen. That’s all any of us want. We want to feel heard and important and that we matter. Listening can provide that to the person who is in pain.
Abby, thanks for letting me be heard. Even the strongest friends sometimes need someone.
LEARNED FROM EXPERIENCE

DEAR LEARNED: AMEN! Life is about learning and growing. There is much wisdom in your letter and a practical lesson for those who sometimes put their foot in their mouths because they only want to help.
Thank you for sharing.
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SW Louisiana continues to dig out; here's how you can help

The work of recovery goes on in southwest Louisiana four days after Hurricane Laura hammered the region with 150 mph wind. Private as well as public resources are being brought to bear on power outages, water shortages, and feeding and sheltering those left homeless.

As of Monday, Gov. John Bel Edwards said:

--324,000 homes and businesses remained without power as of 3:30 p.m., Edwards said. The map at poweroutage.us put the number at 285,000 at 5 p.m.

Power in central Louisiana is being restored relatively quickly, but infrastructure damage in Cameron, Calcasieu and nearby areas means extended power outages there, Edwards said.

A virtual army of 17,000 utility linemen is at work on the outages, the governor said.

--More than 100 water systems remain offline, either because of power outages or, as a matter of more concern, damage to the water systems themselves.

--At least 14 ,000 evacuees remain in hotel rooms hired for the purpose in Louisiana and Texas.

Here are some ways you can help:

--Vitalent, the company that collects donated blood in this region, has been hit with a triple threat -- COVID-19, summertime's added demand on the blood supply and reduced donations as hurricanes Marco and Laura approached. You can give blood at the Morgan City donation center, 1234 David Drive. The hours are 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Monday through Friday.

To schedule an appointment to donate call 877-258-4825 or visit http://bloodhero.com. Holiday hours may vary. Please call 985-384-5671 to verify hours on holidays.

--The Red Cross is providing 33,000 meals a day in storm-damaged areas and will soon take over the shelter program. To give to the Red Cross, go to https://www.redcross.org/donate/donation.html/, click on the Donate Now button, and then find Hurricane Laura in the drop-down menu.

--The Baton Rouge Area Foundation is playing emergency host to the Southwest Louisiana foundation. Donations to http://foundationswla.org will go to grants in the affected area to help tide people over until federal aid becomes available, said John Spain, executive vice president of the Baton Rouge foundation.

In the 24 hours ending at 3:30 p.m. Monday, 5,000 people had donated more than $300,000. Verizon pledged another $500,000, Spain said.

Cheniere LNG has also pledged $500,000, Edwards said.

On the public sector side, nearly 6,200 Louisiana National Guard troops have distributed 1.3 million liters of water, 800,000 meals ready to eat, 100,000 bags of ice and 20,000 tarps for temporary roof repairs.`

The U.S. Army Corps of Engineers has been assigned by the Federal Emergency Management Agency to run the Blue Roof roof tarp program in the six parishes already declared eligible for individual assistance: Allen, Beauregard, Calcasieu, Cameron, Jefferson Davis and Vernon.

In addition to protecting property, the program will be able to make some damaged homes livable and reduce the pressure on the hotels being used as shelters, Edwards said.

People in the six parishes can register at http://www.usace.army.mil/blueroof or by calling 1-888-roofblu.

DSNAP, or expanded Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program benefits, aren't yet available in Louisiana. When they area, people in the affected areas who already received SNAP benefits -- food stamps -- will receive the extra benefits. Those who think they may be eligible should register now at http://dcfs.la.gov/dsnap.

Five new COVID cases, one death in St. Mary

The Louisiana Office of Public Health reported five new COVID-19 cases in St. Mary Parish in the 24 hours ending at midday Monday. One new fatality was also reported for St. Mary, bringing the pandemic death toll to 70.

The five cases raised the pandemic total in St. Mary to 1,762.

St. Martin's case count was adjusted downward from 1,964 Sunday to 1,962 Monday. Assumption had three new cases for a total of 667.

The death toll in those parishes remained the same: 56 in St. Martin and 22 in Assumption.

Statewide:

--324 new cases Monday raised the pandemic total to 148,193.

--19 deaths raised the toll to 4,787.

--21 fewer COVID-19-positive people were in hospitals, lowering the total to 882.

--11 fewer people are on ventilators for a total of 132.

Officials: Levee improvements paid off

While frequent comparisons have been made between Hurricane Laura and Hurricane Rita, for St. Mary Parish, it was Rita along with Hurricane Ike that provided the bench mark for the current level of protection from storm surge.
Since those two storms, the St. Mary Parish Levee District has installed floodgates on the western end of the parish on the Yellow Bayou and Hanson and Franklin canals and is working on a floodgate on Bayou Teche to protect other areas of Franklin. That project is scheduled to be complete later in 2020, and will protect the Eastwood Subdivision, among other areas.
The floodgates com-pleted since Ike worked as projected during Laura.
“Some of the investments that have been made in the levee system over the last few years are certainly paying off in those particular areas,” levee district Executive Director Tim Matte said.
While there was success, there still is a disconnect with the numbers the state gives the parish for projected storm surge, St. Mary Parish Office of Emergency Preparedness Director David Naquin said.
He said the storm surge numbers the parish receives don’t factor in all current protection improvements.
“It makes a difference,” he said, noting that projections for inundation in some areas don’t materialize because the parish has levees in place to protect those areas.
Therefore, the local levee district has to convert the projected storm surge totals given to them to factor in the additional protections, Naquin said,
Naquin said the parish will be looking to get the state updated on the levee protections in the parish as soon as possible so the parish receives accurate num-bers in the future.
While the protected flood structures worked as planned, Matte cautioned that they only are built to meet a certain level of protection and may not provide relief from every storm.
“For example, if in fact Laura had hit Vermilion Bay or hit more directly on the west end of the parish, those same structures that I’m saying protected us, might not have been sufficient to protect us to these higher levels, so there’s always that storm that’s bigger than the levees you have,” he said.
As for updates since Rita and Ike, the Yellow Bayou and Hanson Canal floodgates installed since Ike kept water from the Centerville area where U.S. 90 was underwater in previous storms.
The Franklin Canal floodgate also has kept water from flooding the Pecan Acres area in Franklin, an area that flooded in Rita and Ike.
Since Hurricane Barry, the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers has raised levees near Cabot Corp. in Franklin. The facility flooded during Barry, but it didn’t flood during Laura.
The parish also has raised the Yokley Levee, which extends from the pump station in Franklin to the Charenton Canal.
“I don’t know if they would have been topped in this event, but there again, we’ve added some protection there,” Matte said.

Morgan City, Berwick grads sign to play for Mississippi college

Two Tri-City area baseball players are continuing their careers on the collegiate level at Southeastern Baptist College in Laurel, Mississippi.
Morgan City High alum William LaRocca and Berwick High graduate Bailey Thibodaux joined the first-year program, which is a part of the National Christian College Athletic Association.
LaRocca said that he learned the school was having an open tryout through his summer ball coach, Brett Dore’, and attended.
“Thankfully, I made the team,” he said.
While it is undetermined where he will play, LaRocca said he is working in the middle infield.
During his high school career, LaRocca was a four-year varsity starter who was an all-district selection all four years. He was an honorable mention pick as a freshman, earned first-team honors as a utility pick and was a second-team pick as a shortstop, both as a sophomore. His junior season, he was a second-team all-district pick as a utility player.
Additionally, he was a Louisiana Sports Writers Association Class 4A All-State honorable mention selection as a sophomore.
LaRocca said he is excited to be a part of this new collegiate program.
“We all are,” he said. “We have a lot to prove, and we really have nothing to lose being a first-year program.”
LaRocca said the players want to prove to all schools that didn’t offer them what they missed out on.
“We’re all just really hungry, ready to compete,” he said.
LaRocca said things are a lot different from high school with early-morning workouts and then after class, having hours-long baseball practices.
“It’s fun,” he said. “You just got to really enjoy baseball.”
As for Thibodaux, he will be a left-handed pitcher at Southeastern Baptist.
Thibodaux, who kept training after high school in hopes of getting a tryout somewhere, said he learned of the school via Dore’, who also told him about the tryout.
Thibodaux had enrolled at Nicholls State University in Thibodaux where he was pursuing a dietetics degree when he found out about the tryout.
“The next thing you know I’m now playing baseball again,” he said.
Thibodaux was a pitcher and first baseman at Berwick High School where he was a member of the baseball team for four years.
As for being a member of a first-year program, he said, “It feels like we’re going to be a part of a legacy that we’re going to build here. It’s a big part of history. Coming from a small town in Louisiana to all the way to Mississippi is pretty crazy, too.”
He said his goals for the season are to “get better, grow mentally and physically” and work towards his degree.

JAMES 'JIM' JOSEPH ANSLEM

James “Jim” Joseph Anslem was born in Morgan City to Pete and Hazel Anslem on October 7, 1948. He died at his home at the age of 71.

If any of you knew James, you knew his love for the great outdoors; hunting, fishing, crawfishing, and a little bit of shrimping. He was also a boat captain for many years, working at C&H Boat Rentals. He loved being with family and friends. He also could throw down an awesome crawfish boil.

He left behind six children, Jamie Anslem Carpenter and her husband Chris Carpenter, Julie Anslem Pruis and her husband J.T. Pruis, Joy Anslem Sanders and her husband Ronald Sanders, Jason Elmo Anslem and his wife Jamie Anslem, Mark Griffin and hife Annette, Crystal Griffin Green and husband Greg; 15 grandkids, Micaela, Jaylen, Eban, Omry, Ezra, Breanna, Cody, Alexus, Angelle, Hunter, Malynn, Donavon, Eriq, Gage, and Caroline; two brothers, Johnny Anslem and wife Pat, Michael Anslem and companion Elaine; sister-in-law, Shirley Anslem; a host of nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Olize and James Scadlock and Ivy and Irene Anslem; parents, Pete and Hazel Anslem; his wife, Corneila Adams Anslem; one brother, Gerald Joseph Anslem.

A private family gathering will be held Tuesday, September 1, 2020.

BEVERLEY MARGARET WILLIAMS HAMER

September 1, 1927 — August 30, 2020
Visitation will be held on Monday, August 31st from 7-9 p.m. at Hargrave Funeral Home. A celebration of her life will be held with a funeral mass at Sacred Heart Catholic Church on her 93rd birthday, September 1st, at 10 a.m. Following services, Beverley will be laid to rest in the Morgan City Cemetery.
Beverley is lovingly remembered and survived by her three children, Gregory Hamer Sr. and wife, Brenda, of Morgan City, Milton Hamer Jr. of Baton Rouge, and Connie Hamer of Morgan City; her nine grandchildren, Valerie (Jay) Leblanc, Tracie (John B) Hover, Greg (Shannon) Hamer, Kristy Hamer, Milton (Erica) Hamer III, Otis (Becky) Fabre Jr., Cori (Eric) Leblanc and Cyrus “Russ” Giroir; 13 great-grandchildren; and five great-great-grandchildren. She was happy to see the birth last week of her first great-great-granddaughter, making it five female generations.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Fredrick (Fred) and Edna Williams; five brothers, Meryl, Robert “Dickie”, Francis “Tuttie”, Clyde and James Williams; three sisters, Natalie (James) Coleman, Patricia (Russell) Breaux, and Bettie (Tony) Duval; and the father of her children, Milton H Hamer Sr. and their great-grandson, Brandon Fabre.
Beverley was a lifelong member of the Catholic Daughters and a Charter Member of the Krewe of Galatea.
While her grandchildren and great-grandchildren brought her immense joy in her later years, she liked nothing more than going to a Mardi Gras parade and traveling all over the country to see family and friends as long as her health allowed.
Pallbearers will be her grandsons and great-grandsons, Otis Fabre Jr., Cyrus (Russ) Giroir III and Cyrus IV, Parker Green, Milton Hamer III, John Barrett Hover Jr., Conner, Garret, Cooper Leblanc, Gregory Hamer Jr., Hugh and Gregory Hamer III. Interment will be in the Morgan City Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers donations can be made in her name to either Sacred Heart or Holy Cross Catholic churches.
In keeping with government mandate regarding limited gatherings, Hargrave Funeral Home can accommodate 150 guests during the visitation and Sacred Heart Catholic Church can accommodate 100 guests during the services. All guests are required to wear masks upon entry of the funeral home and church.

BOBBIE O. PAUL

March 10, 1933 — August 29, 2020
Funeral services celebrating the life of Bobbie Oxedine Paul will be held Wednesday, September 2, 2020, at 2 p.m. at Ibert’s Mortuary in Patterson. Following the service she will be laid to rest in Ibert’s Memorial Park Cemetery. Pastor Tommy Fromenthal and Pastor Herb Stanley will conduct the services. A gathering of family and friends will be held from noon until service time.
Bobbie was born on March 10, 1933, in Ferriday, the second of six children born to Ebb and Letha Oxedine, and passed away at her home in Patterson at the age of 87 on Saturday, August 29, 2020. On June 25, 1950, she married the love of her life, Carlie Paul. After moving around with her husband following oil field work, they settled in Patterson where she has resided for the past 62 years. Bobbie was a loving wife and mother to all. In addition to her two children, she helped raise several of her siblings, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. A Christian woman of deep faith in the Lord, Bobbie’s deeper calling was that of a prayer warrior. She prayed for everybody she crossed paths with and never shied away from sharing God’s word. It was that faith that led her to take in countless people in need, providing shelter and food, living out Jesus’ words that whatever you do for the least of these you do for me. Her home was truly open to all. She will be missed beyond measure and will be fondly re-membered by all who were fortunate to have known her.
Those she leaves to cherish her memory include her daughter, Vickie Paul Melvin; her son, Carlie T. “Teddy” Paul Jr. and his wife Rita F. Paul; two grandchildren, Bobbie Jo Paul and Nathan Paul; four great-grandchildren, Kannen, Elijah, Cy’lon and Carter Paul; one step-granddaughter, Tasha Lombas and her four children; her siblings, Polly O. Olwell and Clifford Oxedine; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, family members, and friends.
She was preceded in death by her husband of 63 years, Carlie T. Paul Sr.; her parents, Ebb Oxedine and Letha Haigler Oxedine; three siblings, Dan Oxedine, Betty O. Bone and David Oxedine; and her son-in-law, Charlie Melvin.
Serving as pallbearers will be Bobbie Jo Paul, Nathan Paul, Kannen Paul, Elijah Paul, Cy’lon Paul, Joey Adams and Glen Ghiradi Jr.
Due to the current restrictions concerning limited sized gatherings, current state guidelines will only allow for up to 65 family members and friends to be in attendance during the visitation and funeral service at Ibert’s Mortuary. Visitors are asked to wear face coverings/masks and to practice social distancing.
Family and friends may view the obituary online by visiting www.iberts.com and are encouraged to share their condolences, cherished memories, love, and support for the family.
Arrangements have been entrusted to Ibert’s Mortuary, Inc., 1111 Lia Street, Patterson, LA 70392, (985) 395-7873.

KATHLEEN MARIE GOVERNALE

Kathleen Marie Governale, age 71, passed away peacefully on Sunday, August 16, 2020, in Bel Air, Maryland after a brief but brave battle with advanced pancreatic cancer. Funeral services and a Mass of Christian Burial were held on Monday, August 24th at Saint Joseph Fullerton Church and Cemetery in Nottingham, Maryland.
Kathleen was a devoted and loving mother, grandmother, daughter, sister and friend. Professionally, she held a masters of special education and was known as an excellent teacher in that challenging field. She was dedicated to her church serving as an auxiliary assistant and with bible study. She possessed boundless energy — an artist, dancer, guitarist, were just some of her diversified interests and talents. She was a world traveler but never forgot her Louisiana roots and her love of our rich culture. Her cheerful, mischievous personality was a joy to all who knew and loved her. Above all, she will be greatly missed.
Left to cherish her memory are her two children, daughter, Vanessa Roberts and her husband, Mark, of Bel Air, Maryland, and son, David Mario Duchow of Arlington, Virginia; two granddaughters, Heather Roberts and Molly Roberts, both of Bel Air, Maryland; her mother, Katherine Governale of Morgan City, LA; a sister, Pamela G. Theriot and husband, JD, of Morgan City; a nephew, James Williams of New Orleans, LA; and niece, Kimberly Williams of Houston, Texas.
She was preceded in death by her father, Carlo J. Governale.
McComas Funeral Home of Bel Air, Maryland was entrusted with her service and burial. To view her obituary written by her children, mass and burial service, please go to www.mccomasfuneralhome.com
“You have sorrow now, but I will see you again and your heart will rejoice”
JOHN 16:22

TAMMY HOLDEN GETTYS

Tammy Holden Gettys, 59, a native of New Orleans and resident of Morgan City, died Friday, Aug. 28, 2020, at Thibodaux Regional Medical Center.
She is survived by six children, David Fonseca, John Fonseca, Donald Fonseca, Nicholas Fonseca, Adam Gettys, Kaysi Fonseca and Kristen Gettys; and 14 grand-children.
She was preceded in death by her parents and husband.
A private memorial service will be held at a later date.

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