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Wife in love with girlfriend resolves to end marriage

DEAR ABBY: I’m married to a man 21 years my senior. “Joe” and I have been married six years. I have recently realized I’m gay and have fallen in love with another woman. Although Joe isn’t infirm or mentally deficient, he has a hard time making decisions on his own. He’ll read something, hand it to me and ask me what I think. He can’t form an opinion on his own, but God forbid you challenge an opinion he DOES have. Over the course of our marriage, he has become “crotchety” and burned all his bridges. Because of this, I ...

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Boudreaux named new CCHS principal

Stadalis to replace him St. Mary assistant superintendent

Peter Boudreaux has been selected as the new principal of Central Catholic High School in Morgan City beginning with the 2019-20 school year, according to a Tuesday news release from the Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux.

Earlier this month, Boudreaux was appointed assistant superintendent for St. Mary Parish public schools.

On Tuesday, Superintendent Teresa Bagwell announced the appointment of Joseph Stadalis to replace Boudreaux as assistant superintendent. Boudreaux’s promotion to the position was rendered inactive due to his recent decision to retire from the public school system. Stadalis is currently principal at Morgan City Junior High School.

The Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux announced about a month ago that Central Catholic High School Principal Vic Bonnaffee will retire at the end of the 2018-19 school year. Bonnaffee has served as principal for 14 years.

In 31 years as an educator, Boudreaux has served as an administrator in both the elementary and high school settings, including serving as assistant principal of Hattie Watts Elementary School, principal of J. B. Maitland Elementary School and principal of Morgan City High School. He served as a school administrator in St. Mary Parish public schools for 10 years.

"Mr. Boudreaux’s passion for education, him extensive experience in both the elementary and high school settings, and his deep commitment to his faith make him an excellent addition to our Catholic schools family," said Suzanne Troxclair, superintendent of schools for the Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux.

In the newly unified Central Catholic, Boudreaux will join Amanda Talbot, the current principal of grades Pre-K-5, as he serves as principal of grades 6-12. Having attended Holy Cross Elementary as a student, Boudreaux is excited to serve in a faith-filled school setting and to lead students in their spiritual and academic formation, the release stated.

Bagwell said in an email that she was able to draw upon the assistant superintendent applicants to select Stadalis from the group of highly-qualified and experienced educational leaders.

Stadalis has served St. Mary Parish schools for the past 28 years. Beginning his career as a physics teacher, he continued his educational career as a principal at both the elementary and middle school levels.

As a longtime administrator of J.S. Aucoin Elementary in Amelia, Stadalis was recognized for his leadership in academic achievement, leading the school to an “A” school performance label, Bagwell said.

Stadalis also served in the district’s special services department and held the position of secondary instructional supervisor before becoming principal at Morgan City Junior High. His extensive experience at such a wide variety of school levels and unique instructional settings will facilitate a smooth transition with the duties of assistant superintendent as he works with all stakeholders of St. Mary Parish public schools, Bagwell said.

Police: Woman charged with home invasion, damaging property

A 22-year-old woman was arrested Monday in connection with a Feb. 21 incident in Morgan City where she entered a home armed with a knife and damaged property, Police Chief James Blair said in a news release.

—Dontreka Marshrieka Tillman, 22, of Grizzaffi Street in Morgan City, was arrested at 4:50 p.m. Monday on warrants charging her with home invasion and two counts of criminal damage to property less than $1,000.

Officers came into contact with Tillman on Marguerite Street. A warrant check revealed police held active warrants for her arrest. The warrants stem from a Feb. 21 incident during which complainant alleged that Tillman entered a Cardinal Street home armed with a knife and damaged several items on the property. A warrant for her arrest was obtained from the February incident. She was jailed.

Blair reported that officers responded to 40 calls and reported the following arrests:

—Garland Joseph Romero, 31, of Bernice Street in Morgan City, was arrested at 8:37 a.m. Monday on a warrant charging him with failure to appear in court. Officers located Romero on Bernice Street on an active warrant for city court. He was jailed.

—Laqwajhia Bourgeois, 21, of Federal Avenue in Morgan City, was arrested at 3:18 p.m. Monday on charges of stop sign violation, tail light violation, seat belt violation and two counts of resisting an officer.

An officer observed a vehicle commit several traffic violations and conducted a traffic stop on La. 70. The driver was identified as Bourgeois. During the traffic stop, Bourgeois refused to comply with officers and caused a disturbance by using loud profanities, Blair said. She was jailed.

—Kane Alexander Wiggins, 26, of La. 182 in Morgan City, was arrested at 8:15 p.m. Monday on a charge of disturbing the peace intoxicated.

Officers were dispatched to a Ninth Street business in reference to an intoxicated person causing a disturbance. Upon officers arriving, they came into contact with Wiggins who was passed out inside the business. Officers could smell a strong odor of alcohol on his breath and suspected impairment, Blair said. He was jailed.

St. Mary Parish Sheriff Blaise Smith reported that deputies responded to 36 complaints in the parish and reported the following arrests relating to east St. Mary Parish:

—Michael Anthony Leonard, 40, of Watson Street in Patterson, was arrested at 8:19 a.m. Monday on a warrant for failure to appear for an imposition hearing on a charge of criminal neglect of family.

A deputy was assisting the Franklin Police Department with a traffic stop when he came into contact with Leonard. It was learned that there was an active warrant for Leonard’s arrest. Leonard was transported to parish jail with bail set at $61.13.

—Krystal Nicole Tolento, 31, of Roderick Street in Morgan City, was arrested at 11:02 a.m. Monday on a warrant for failure to appear for arraignment on charges of forgery and theft less than $1,000. Tolento was located at parish jail and booked on the charge. No bail was set.

—Leonard Allen Yarborough, 57, of Cane Road in Bayou Vista, was arrested at 3:50 p.m. Monday on a charge of theft.

A deputy was dispatched to a business in Bayou Vista in reference to a shoplifting. Upon arrival, the deputy learned that Yarborough had taken several items and hid them behind the business, Smith said. All items were recovered. Yarborough was issued a summons to appear in court July 29.

Yarborough was also arrested at 11:09 p.m. Monday on a charge of disturbing the peace intoxicated.

A deputy was dispatched to Cane Road in Bayou Vista for a disturbance. Upon arrival, the deputy made contact with Yarborough, who was under the influence of alcohol, the sheriff said.

Deputies had contact with Yarborough earlier in the night and advised him not to make contact with the occupants of the home, Smith said. Yarborough was jailed with bail set at $1,000.

Berwick Police Chief David Leonard Sr. reported no arrests.

Patterson Police Chief Garrett Grogan reported no arrests.

Liz Weston: Income can peak before you’re ready

Most retirement calculators are optimistic to a fault. They assume our incomes will rise throughout our working lives, or at least stay roughly the same.
In reality, our incomes are likely to peak years — and sometimes decades — before we retire. Consider this:
—People’s biggest wage increases tend to happen in their 20s and 30s, with more modest increases in midlife followed by declines, according to a 2016 analysis of Social Security earnings records underwritten by the Federal Reserve Bank of New York.
—Most people’s incomes peak by age 45, the researchers found, although the top 20% of earners peaked in their 50s.
—More than half of those who enter their 50s with a stable job are laid off or otherwise forced out the door, and the vast majority don’t recover financially, according to analysis by ProPublica and the Urban Institute.
These may be grim statistics, but if you’re tempted to put off saving for retirement, take heed.
“When you’re 40 and things are going well, you think, ‘OK, I can see when things are going to get better and that’s when I can save for retirement,’” said Gary Burtless, an economist with the Brookings Institution who studies earnings patterns. “And those days just don’t come.”
THE BIGGEST GAINS COME EARLY
What’s true on average for a group of people may not be true for an individual, of course. Understanding these general patterns, though, could help people make better decisions about spending, saving and when to retire.
Generally, the more education people have, the more money they make over their lifetime and the later their earnings peak, Burtless says.
“For somebody with a position like professor at a university, it might be when they’re in the second half of their 50s, as opposed to the second half of their 30s, which it might be for your brother-in-law who failed to complete high school,” Burtless said.
But the 50s tends to be a dangerous decade for workers, according to ProPublica, an independent nonprofit newsroom, and the Urban Institute, a nonprofit think tank that researches social and economic issues.
Researchers found 56% of full-time, full-year workers ages 51 to 54 suffered an involuntary job loss after age 50 that had a substantial economic impact, either by reducing their earnings at least 50% or resulting in six months or more of unemployment.
The median household income of these workers dropped 42%, and only one in 10 ever earned as much after they left their jobs as before. An additional 9% left their jobs involuntarily for personal reasons such as health. The analysis was based on data from the University of Michigan Health and Retirement Study, which tracks 20,000 people in the U.S.
SAVE EARLY AND AVOID LIFESTYLE CREEP
Job disruptions and declining earnings help explain why so many people in their 60s have so little saved, Burtless says.
“Instead of having those last years when you no longer have children in the house to bulk up your savings, you are using up your savings even before you reach retirement age,” he said.
People entering their 50s without having saved enough for retirement may need to plan to work longer, or cut their expenses, rather than assume rising incomes will help them make up the deficit, says certified financial planner Michael Kitces, who blogs at Nerd’s Eye View.
Kitces advises people in their 20s and 30s to commit to putting half of their raises into retirement funds. Since those raises are likely to be largest in the early years, saving half can jump-start retirement funds while limiting “lifestyle inflation,” or the tendency to spend more as income increases.
It can be tempting to take on a big mortgage, for instance, thinking that future salary boosts will make the payments more manageable, or to celebrate a raise by buying a fancier car. If your income doesn’t rise — or starts to drop — it can be painful to downsize or go back to plainer vehicles. (Also, the more expensive your lifestyle, the more money you’ll need to retire.)
“Recognize that it’s a lot harder to remove something from our lives than it is to just not add it to our lives in the first place,” Kitces said.

Friend refuses to help plan dinner she’s not invited to

DEAR ABBY: My best friend of 40 years has asked me to fly to her son’s wedding in a few months, arrive early to help with everything and not be included in the rehearsal dinner. I explained that I’m not going to spend more than $1,000 to fly out early, stay in a hotel, rent a car and not attend the dinner I’ve helped set up, decorate, etc. She said she’s not inviting out-of-town guests to the rehearsal dinner, and it’s family only. She then uninvited me to the wedding and hung up on me! We haven’t spoken since. Am I ...

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House: Banks shouldn't have gun policies

BATON ROUGE — Lawmakers in the Louisiana House voted Monday to prohibit banks from being able to refuse to do business with companies involved in gun and ammunition manufacturing and sales.
The proposal by Republican Rep. Blake Miguez, of Erath, comes after Citigroup and Bank of America enacted firearm restriction policies for corporate customers in response to a deadly high school shooting in Florida.
Miguez said such policies violate the Second Amendment rights of lawful gun and ammunition dealers and could limit their ability to maintain their businesses. He said banks should "stick to the banking business and not the social policymaking business."
The House voted 66-27 for the measure, sending it to the Senate for debate.
Opponents said the legislation restricts the First Amendment rights of companies and inappropriately meddles in private business operations.
"It's called capitalism. If you don't like what the bank's telling you, you go down the street and find another bank," said Rep. Sam Jones, a Franklin Democrat.
Under the bill, Louisiana's attorney general would be able to investigate possible violations.

Berkshire joins Anadarko fight

NEW YORK (AP) — Warren Buffett’s Berkshire Hathaway is financing a bid by Occidental Petroleum for Anadarko, potentially upending Chevron’s $33 billion offer for the energy company.
Anadarko and Chevron signed a merger agreement earlier this month, but Anadarko Petroleum said Monday that it is now considering an offer from Occidental worth about $57 billion in cash and stock, including debt and book value of non-controlling interest. Chevron’s offer would be worth about $50 billion by the same metric.
When Chevron announced its bid for Anadarko on April 12, it came as a surprise to Vicki Hollub, the CEO of Occidental. She had been pursuing Anadarko for two years and was in what she considered to be friendly negotiations, although she was aware Anadarko was being targeted by another company.
“We are thrilled to have Berkshire Hathaway’s financial support of this exciting opportunity,” Hollub said Tuesday in a prepared statement. “We look forward to engaging with Anadarko’s board of directors to deliver this superior transaction to our respective shareholders.”
Anadarko revealed Monday that it was reconsidering Occidental’s bid, setting up the rare possibility of a bidding war in the oil patch. Chevron maintained Tuesday that its signed agreement with Anadarko is still superior.
The competing bids between Chevron and Occidental are an unusual turn of events for the oil and gas industry. “Even if we look back at two decades of history, this is virtually unprecedented,” said Pavel Molchanov, senior vice president and equity research analyst at Raymond James & Associates.
The entry of Buffett’s Berkshire Hathaway could give Chevron pause and that was the perception on Wall Street early Tuesday.
Shares of Chevron rose 3 percent with many investors believing it would not be laying out billions of dollars for Anadarko.
Berkshire said Tuesday it will invest $10 billion in Occidental. Berkshire will receive 100,000 preferred shares plus a warrant to purchase up to 80 million shares of Occidental common stock at an exercise price of $62.50 each. The preferred stock will accrue dividends at 8% per year. Occidental shares traded at around $58, down 2 percent, Tuesday morning.
The investment is contingent on Occidental entering into and completing its proposed acquisition of Anadarko.
Berkshire Hathaway Inc., based in Omaha, Nebraska, owns a range of businesses including insurance, railroads, utilities, jewelry stores as well as major investments in American Express, IBM and Wells Fargo & Co.

VIVA WHITE SOLAR

Viva White Solar, a native of Chillicothe, Texas and a resident of Amelia for 64 years, at the age of 90 after a 12-year long and hard journey with Alzheimer’s disease, went home to meet her Lord and Savior on Monday, April 29, 2019. She was a loving mother, grandmother and great-grandmother that was loved by everyone that knew her.
Those she leaves to cherish her memory are her daughters, Glenda (Reed) Gros of Patterson, Faye (Rickey) Arceneaux of Bayou L’Ourse, and Annette (Gary) Blanco of Patterson, and her son, James (Mary) Solar of Millport, Alabama; eight grandchildren, Beth Hayes, James Solar, Michele Amedee, Melissa Cooley, Eric Gros, Garrett Blanco, Amanda Liner and Duane “Spanky” Blanco; 12 great-grandchildren, Holden and Ashley Hayes, Blade and Hannah Solar, Brennen Cooley, Peyton and Luke Amedee, Angie Gros, Lainey, Mason and Bennett Blanco, and Addison Liner. She is also survived by her nieces, nephews, her great-nieces and great-nephews, as well as other extended family.
She was preceded in death by her husband, Clarence “C.J.” Solar; her parents, Horace and Fannie White; and four sisters, Eula Rodgers, Reba Watson, Ethel Stoughton, and infant Sarah White.
The family requests that a time of visitation and remembrance be observed on Wednesday, May 1, 2019 from 9 a.m. until time of services at 1 p.m. at Pharr Chapel United Methodist Church of Morgan City. Following services, Viva will be laid to rest in the Morgan City Cemetery. Reverend Ann Sutton will officiate the services.

Wheel House for April 30

PRAYER
National Day of Prayer celebrated in the Tri-City area May 2. Times and places: 8:30-9 a.m., Patterson City Hall; 12:05-12:50 p.m., Southwest Reef Lighthouse (under U.S. 90 bridge if it rains), Berwick; and 12:10-12:35 p.m., Morgan City City Hall, 512 First St. (Morgan City Municipal Auditorium if it rains). Public invited.

CAMP MEETINGS
Hosted by Women of Light of Living in the Light Ministries, 2106 La. 182, Bayou Vista. Close-out meeting 10 a.m. Saturday, May 4. Guest speaker Pastor Izetta Ledet, Champion Life Ministries, Jeanerette. Casual attire. Public invited.

FEEDING PROGRAM
For needy and senior citizens is at noon, Saturday, May 11, at Mt. Pilgrim Baptist Church, 113 Federal Ave., Morgan City. For info call 985-384-6800.

FAMILY DAY
The Children’s Water Safety Awareness Annual Family Day and Car Show is 7 a.m. to 5 p.m. May 11 at the Hercules Pavilion on Houma Airbase. Features live music, food and sign-ups for free swimming and CPR lessons. For info call Joey Vining, 985-860-6625, Jodie Vining, 986-226-2665, or Ken Marcel, 985-637-7746.

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