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Happy host declines help in the kitchen with a poem

DEAR ABBY: I have seen letters in your column from people upset that their guests don’t help them after dinner. I am the opposite. I held onto a poem you printed years ago and had it perma-plaqued and posted on a kitchen cabinet.
For more than 20 years, my husband and I hosted a dinner every Sunday after church. I set the table for 10, but we often had more. When guests offered to help, I handed them a copy of that poem.
Could you print it again for your readers?
FAITHFUL FOLLOWER IN MASSACHUSETTS

DEAR FOLLOWER: Gladly. That poem has been requested many times over the years. It resonates with hosts who are territorial about their space when entertaining. It is included in my booklet “Keepers,” which is a collection of poems, essays and letters readers have told me they clipped and saved to reread until they were yellowed with age and fell apart.
You were clever to perma-plaque yours. “Keepers” is both witty and philosophical. It covers many subjects including children, parenting, animals, aging, death, forgiveness and more. It can be ordered by sending your name and address, plus check or money order for $8 to Dear Abby Keepers Booklet, P.O. Box 447, Mount Morris, IL 61054-0447.
It’s a quick and easy read as well as an inexpensive gift for newlyweds, pet lovers, new parents and anyone grieving or recovering from an illness.

STAY OUT OF MY KITCHEN
By Susan Sawyer
Please stay away from my kitchen
From my dishwashing, cooking and such;
You were kind to have offered to pitch in
But thanks, no, thank you so much!
Please don’t think me ungracious
When I ask that you leave me alone;
For my kitchen’s not any too spacious
And my routine is strictly my own.
Tell you what: You stay out of my kitchen
With its sodden, hot, lackluster lures —
When you’re here, stay out of my kitchen
And I promise to stay out of yours!

DEAR ABBY: I had weight-loss surgery six months ago. I haven’t had the dramatic transformation that some people experience. I’ve only lost about 50 pounds.
My problem is, friends who know I had the operation keep asking me how much weight I lost. I think it’s a rude question and none of their business. I understand people are curious, especially since they haven’t seen me in person because of COVID restrictions.
How do I answer without saying, “None of your business”?
LOSING IN NEW JERSEY

DEAR LOSING: Your friends may just be curious and want to congratulate you on a big loss, and 50 pounds is one. That said, you do not have to answer every question that is asked. All you need to say is, “I’ll let you guess once you see me again.” If they ask for a hint, stick to your guns and change the subject. Then consider this: They may be gauging the success of your surgery for themselves.

DEAR READERS: Today’s the day for the wearing of the green. A very happy St. Patrick’s Day to you all!
LOVE, ABBY

Missing commercial fisherman found dead in Lower St. Martin Parish

A commercial fisherman reported missing Monday evening was found deceased Tuesday morning near Adams Landing in Lower St. Martin Parish.
U.S. Coast Guard Spokesman Lt. j.g. Cody Baggett said the fisherman’s body was found by a local fisherman around 9 a.m. Tuesday. The deceased fisherman had been reported missing Monday around 10 p.m., according to Louisiana Department of Wildlife and Fisheries Spokesman Adam Einck.
Baggett didn’t know the identity of the fisherman, where he lived or if next of kin had been notified. He said autopsy results are pending.

Sheriff's Office seeks information on missing teen

Sheriff Blaise Smith advises the public of a missing juvenile from Amelia, Glendy Marisol Geless.
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**Glendy Marisol Geless, 15 years old.
**Last seen this morning (March 16, 2021) at the bus stop located at the intersection of Barrow St. and Calhoun St.
**Clothing: white collared shirt, tan school pants, black belt, blue backpack, white shoes.
**She is NOT believed to be in imminent danger at this time.
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If you have information on the location of Glendy Marisol Geless, please contact the SMPSO at 337-828-1960.

Four arrested in St. Mary, Assumption for theft-related crimes

(Editor’s Note: The charges listed here and the narratives that go with them are provided by the police agencies that made the arrests. Guilt or innocence has not been determined in court.)

Local law enforcement agencies made four arrests related to theft or fraud this week, including one of a Centerville man accused of possessing stolen things worth at least $5,000.
Assumption deputies also arrested a man already facing charges of bank fraud and exploitation of the infirm.

St. Mary
Sheriff Blaise Smith advised that over the last 24-hour reporting period, the Sheriff's Office responded to 40 complaints made these arrests:
—Alvin Durapau Jr., 32, Centerville, was arrested at 9 a.m. Monday on charges of possession of stolen things ($5,000-$25,000), recovered property, resisting arrest or officer, disturbing the peace by language and operating a vehicle with a suspended license.
Durapau also held a Berwick Police Department warrant for kidnapping and home invasion. No bail has been set.
—Lionell Granger III, 55, Amelia, was arrested at 9:24 a.m. Monday on a charge of driving under suspension. Granger was released on a summons to appear June 28.
—Eddie Joseph Strickland, 31, New Sarpy, was arrested at 11:13 a.m. Monday on a St. Charles Parish warrant for failure to appear on a child support charge. Strickland is being held for another agency.
—Dylan Michael Boling, 25, Ricohoc, was arrested at 2:36 p.m. Monday on a charge of no insurance and on a warrant for failure to appear on the charges of possession of alprazolam, speeding and operating a vehicle while license is suspended, revoked or canceled. Boling was released on a $3,500 bond.
—Michael David Landry, 32, Franklin, was arrested, at 3:20 p.m. Monday on charges of turning movements and required signals, possession of marijuana, and possession of drug paraphernalia. Landry was released on a summons to appear June 28.
—John Franklin Vandercook, 50, Amelia, was arrested at 9:04 a.m. Monday on a warrant for pornography involving juveniles and video voyeurism.
Vandercook was arrested March 1 on a charge of molestation of a juvenile, third-degree rape and sexual bat-tery. As the investigation progressed, detectives made contact with Vandercook at the St. Mary Parish Law Enforcement Center and charged him with the additional charges. No bail has been set.
—Travis James Morin, 37, Patterson, was arrested at 11:26 p.m. Monday on charges of battery of a dating partner and violation of protective orders. Bail was set at $5,000.

Morgan City
Police Chief James F. Blair reported that over the last 24-hour period, the Morgan City Police Department responded to 37 calls for service and made these arrests:
—Nathanial Jackson, 30, Greenwood Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 1:38 p.m. Monday on a charge of theft under $1,000.
—Joel Michael Floyd, 32, Cross Road No. 2, Morgan City, was arrested at 6:44 p.m. Monday on a charge of hit and run.

Assumption
Sheriff Leland Falcon reported these arrests:
—Cohnor Christopher Gray, 21, La. 998, Belle Rose, was arrested Friday on charges of aggravated flight from an officer, simple criminal damage to property (felony), obstruction of justice, possession with intent to distribute marijuana, three counts of resisting an officer, reckless operation of a motor vehicle with accident, posses-sion of drug paraphernalia and aggravated assault with a motor vehicle upon a peace officer.
Gray was arrested following a high-speed pursuit beginning south of Belle Rose on Friday afternoon.
A uniformed patrol officer in the Belle Rose area observed a vehicle being driven by Gray. The deputy knew of existing felony warrants on Gray and attempted a fugitive stop.
Gray opted to engage in a pursuit beginning in Belle Rose to Donaldsonville and then back to Belle Rose. Dur-ing the pursuit, speeds exceeded 110 mph, and Gray crashed into an Assumption Parish Sheriff’s Office unit in Ascension Parish.
The pursuit continued back into Assumption Parish, and Gray eventually crashed his vehicle in Belle Rose and fled on foot. He was captured a short time later.
Gray is accused of throwing suspected illegal drugs from his fleeing vehicle during his pursuit.
Gray was arrested and booked into the Assumption Parish Detention Center.
The original warrants for which the Sheriff’s Office had been attempting to arrest Gray centered around a Feb. 3 complaint deputies received from an infirm individual concerning a monetary instrument that had been stolen from him and used without his authorization.
Deputies commenced an investigation and identified three suspects. A 17-year-old was arrested by verified complaint March 9 on charges of bank fraud, exploitation of the infirm and felony identity theft.
On Friday, detectives obtained warrants for Gray on charges of contributing to the delinquency of juveniles, felony identity theft, exploitation of the infirm and bank fraud.
Gray was booked on these charges following Friday’s incident.
Gray remains incarcerated with a bond set at $157,000.
Detectives are attempting to arrest a 14-year-old in connection with the bank fraud case as well.

Franklin
Police Chief Morris Beverly said the Franklin Police Department responded to 10 complaints over the past 24 hours and made the following arrests:
—Joaquima Brown, 26, of Martin Luther King Boulevard, Franklin, was arrested at 1:37 p.m. Monday on a Louisiana State Police warrant on the charges of safety belt use, stop signs and yield signs, approach of authorized emergency vehicle, and resisting an officer. Brown was booked, processed, and released on a $3,500 bond.
—Jordan Freeman, 19, St. Joseph Lane, Franklin, was arrested at 5:25 p.m. Monday on the charges of display of temporary registration license plate and flight from an officer. Freeman was booked, processed and released on a $1,750 bond.
—Derikyona Kirt, 22, A Stret, Franklin, was arrested at 8:13 p.m. Monday on a warrant dated Aug. 23 for three counts of disturbing the peace and principal to aggravated second-degree battery. Kirt was booked, processed and released on a $3,500 bond.

St. Joseph's Day will be observed locally

COVID-19 hindered traditional activities last year

St. Joseph’s Day, albeit in a scaled-down celebration, will be observed Friday at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Patterson.
The Rev. Herb Bennerfield said the annual March 19 celebration was canceled a year ago because of COVID-19. However, the church left the traditional St. Joseph’s Altar and any items that it could for the past year awaiting Friday’s celebration.
While this year’s celebration will be tempered — the normal spaghetti dinner still won’t be held because of the COVID-19 pandemic — Mass will be celebrated at 9 a.m. in the church by Diocese of Lafayette Bishop Douglas Deshotel. Deshotel will bless the altar following Mass.
While the St. Joseph Altar is a longtime Sicilian tradition and Patterson and Morgan City have many residents of Sicilian descent, Bennerfield said the Patterson church didn’t have an altar for nearly 15 years prior to his arrival. Bennerfield said he talked with the late Frank Guarisco about having one when Bennerfield began leading the church.
“That was all I said to him,” Bennerfield said. “The man was just phenomenal.”
Since 2014, St. Joseph Altar celebrations have taken place at the church.
“It’s like a daylong party sort of to honor our patron saint, and again, it has a Sicilian heritage behind it,” Bennerfield said.
The tradition is a big celebration in Italy, especially Sicily, according to Roman Catholic Diocese of Charlotte’s website, yearofstjoseph.org. St. Joseph is considered Sicily’s patron saint, and the St. Joseph’s Tables began there.
According to the yearofstjoseph.org, St. Joseph is credited, as per legend, of helping end a drought in the Middle Ages. After the citizens prayed to him, asking for assistance, rain later came. In appreciation, a table with certain foods was prepared to celebrate him, and the food was shared with those less fortunate. The tradition continued from there.
While it’s a Catholic tradition, Bennerfield said those of other denominations have joined in the festivities.
“Everybody likes to be honorary Sicilian on St. Joseph’s Day,” he said.
St. Joseph also holds a special place for both the Diocese of Lafayette and the international church. Deshotel declared a Holy Year of St. Joseph beginning March 19, 2020, while Pope Francis declared it the Holy Year of St. Joseph worldwide in the church, beginning Dec. 8.
Bennerfield said 2020 marked the 150th anniversary that St. Joseph was declared “the patron saint of the Universal Church” by Pope Pius IX in 1870. While Bennerfield said Joseph had been a saint for a few thousand years, this title of “the patron saint of the Universal Church” meant he watched over the church and prayed to God for the Church.
March 19 is more than St. Joseph’s Day in Italy. It’s also Father’s Day, according to the yearofstjoseph.org. Joseph served that role, too, as he was the foster father of Jesus.
While St. Joseph Catholic Church in Patterson could not keep the food out, it kept what it could on the altar during the past year. There are other items on it, such as candles and flowers.
“We have all sorts of religious objects on it, little statues of St. Joseph,” he said. “Things like that. Holy pictures.”

Signs (and Calvin the Egret) welcome people to neighborhoods

Auburn and Lakeside subdivisions are the latest neighborhoods to be identified as per the recommendation of the Urban Land Institute to increase neighborhood pride and upkeep.
With a plan in place, each neighborhood has a volunteer committee to gather funds and to design an emblem representing their individual neighborhood.
Auburn residents agreed upon a bicycle, designed by resident Christine Myers, because of its vicinity to the city’s bike trail. It welcomes you into the neighborhood on the Amber Street side.
Calvin the Egret, a bird sighted often and named by its Lakeside residents, was chosen as their sign’s emblem. Calvin is depicted as standing in a puddle of Lake Palourde water and can be seen on both the Roderick and Justa Street sign entrances.
Auburn and Lakeside committee members thanked everyone who donated money and to those who helped in securing the placement and implementation of the signs. Extra project funds allowed for landscaping and solar lightening for sign enhancement.
These signs join the already identified neighborhoods of Marquis Manor and Cypress Gardens. For further information on neighborhood signage you may reach out to St. Mary Excel through a Facebook message or call Laura Dozar, signage chairperson, at 985-385-2983 to be guided in the process.
A special thank you goes to the following:
Lakeside neighborhood signage committee members Karen Laughlin, Gloria Canova, Christie Dragna, Kim Landry, Tim and Andrea Matte and Dan Duplantis; Auburn committee members Marie Minton, Christine Myers and Catherine Holcomb; St. Mary Excel members Monica Mancuso and Dozar; City of Morgan City Mayor Lee Dragna; Assistant Supervisor of Public Works Kelly Liner; Administrative Assistant Rhonda Comeaux; Hellenic LLC VP Dean Duplantis; St. Mary Levee District Exec. Director Tim Matte and Operations Manager Michael Brocato. Donations for cost of Lakeside signs Christie Dragna and Thane Aucoin and cost of landscaping and lighting provided by donations from neighbor residents.
Signs are purchased from Elite Graphics and landscaping and lighting from Sam’s Lawn Care (Sam Allen).

Governor: COVID aid will go to infrastructure, jobless fund, tourism

Gov. John Bel Edwards will propose using portions of Louisiana’s share of the $350 billion in government aid called for in the American Rescue Plan Act to pay for infrastructure improvements, promote tourism and replenish the fund that pays for state unemployment benefits, his top budget official said Monday.
Louisiana’s share of the aid is expected to be almost $5.2 billion, including about $3.2 billion to state government, not counting $180 million reserved for construction projects. The rest will go to local governments.  
Louisiana Commissioner of Administration Jay Dardenne said the federal government has not issued the rules governing how the money can be spent. He said administration officials just had their first discussion about how to do so Monday morning. The Louisiana Legislature would have to approve a bill to spend the money, and Edwards has not begun to meet with legislative leaders about his proposal, Dardenne said.
So the administration’s plan is a work in progress, but putting “hundreds of millions of dollars” into the state’s unemployment insurance trust fund, as Dardenne put it, is one priority Edwards shares with many legislators.  
The fund, which had a balance of more than $1 billion before the COVID-19 pandemic, has been tapped out by unprecedented demand, forcing state officials to borrow money from the federal government to pay legally required benefits. The Legislature suspended laws last year that otherwise call for tax increases on businesses and reduced benefits for unemployed workers when the fund balance gets low.
Responding to the pandemic and replacing lost government revenue are two of the allowed uses of the state’s allocation, and Dardenne said replenishing the fund falls into both categories. States also can use the money to pay for water, sewer and broadband infrastructure, and the administration plans to propose spending a “significant amount of money in those areas,” Dardenne said.  
Tourism also will be a focus, Dardenne said, noting that local tourism boards and major assets such as the Superdome, which the state owns, have seen steep revenue declines. As the pandemic lifts and people begin traveling again, Dardenne wants Louisiana to benefit from the pent-up demand, he said.
A dozen cities in Louisiana are receiving allocations directly from the federal government, Dardenne said. Those cities are Alexandria, Baton Rouge, Bossier City, Houma, Kenner, Lafayette, Lake Charles, Monroe, New Orleans, Shreveport, Slidell and Thibodaux.
Dardenne expects parishes also will be getting money directly from the federal government, but the state likely will be responsible to distributing money to smaller municipalities.
Dardenne expects to release the administration’s plan before the legislative session begins April 12. He expects official federal guidance to be available soon, noting the first half of the state allocation is supposed to be made within 60 days.
“The real trick in proper utilization of these dollars is going to be to make certain that there’s a meshing of the various sources of funding that’s available,” he said.
Jim Patterson with the Louisiana Association of Business and Industry said he would like to see enough of the federal money put into the unemployment fund to at least cover the state’s debt to the federal government, which is anticipated to be between $180 million and $200 million. He said an additional $400 million to $500 million would keep taxes and benefits at their current level under the laws that were suspended last year.
There also will be calls to increase unemployment benefits for workers and improve the distribution system that has been severely tested by the high demand. Louisiana’s maximum weekly benefit (not counting federal pandemic relief) is $247 per week, which is the second-lowest payout in the nation.
“But the rush to refill the trust fund obscures bigger problems with the state’s unemployment system, which pays paltry benefits and erects too many barriers for people who’ve lost their job through no fault of their own,” the Louisiana Budget Project, which advocates for policies it believes will benefit low- and middle-income residents, said in response to business leaders’ calls for “bailing out” the fund.

Berwick starts fast, winning seven of first eight

Berwick is off to a 7-1 start this season to lead Tri-City area baseball teams.
Most recently, the Panthers won their third straight with an 11-1 victory at Central Lafourche Tuesday.
Berwick, ranked No. 4 in the latest Louisiana High School Athletic Association Class 3A power rankings, started the season with a four-game winning streak with a 3-2 victory at home against Vandebilt Catholic and three straight victories in Morgan City’s tournament. Berwick defeated Morgan City 14-4, topped Lusher Charter 10-0 and defeated East St. John 11-1 at the tournament.
After Berwick’s lone loss, a 4-1 defeat to Covenant Christian last week on the first day of Berwick’s tournament, the Panthers have re-sponded with three straight victories. The Panthers concluded the tournament with two victories as they defeated Terrebonne 3-2 and routed Central Catholic 11-1 before Tuesday’s victory.
Berwick will continue action this weekend in Central Catholic’s tournament.
Central Catholic
Central Catholic snapped a three-game losing streak with an 11-0 victory at home against Westgate Tuesday.
The Eagles, who are 6-3 this season and ranked No. 12 in the latest Louisiana High School Athletic Association Division IV power rankings, won their first four games of the season before dropping three straight.
Central Catholic opened the season with a 4-3 victory at E.D. White before three straight victories in Morgan City’s tournament. Central Catholic defeated Patterson 8-0, topped East St. John 9-5 and was victorious against Morgan City 17-0.
The Eagles then dropped three straight in Berwick’s tournament this past week, falling to Terrebonne 3-2 before back-to-back 11-1 losses to New Iberia and Ber-wick 11-1.
Central Catholic will continue play in its tournament this weekend.
Patterson
The Patterson Lumberjacks have started the season with a 6-4 record.
The squad, ranked No. 17 in the latest Louisiana High School Athletic Association Class 3A power rankings, had its two-game winning streak snapped with an 11-5 loss to New Iberia on the road Monday.
However, the squad bounced back a day later with a 15-0 victory against Franklin on the road.
Patterson began its season with a 10-0 victory against John Ehret at home before going 2-1 at Morgan City’s tournament. Patterson fell to Central Catholic 8-0, defeated Morgan City 11-0 and was victorious against Lusher Charter by a 19-6 count at the event.
Patterson fell to Assumption, 4-1, on the road last week before winning two of three at its tournament to conclude the week. After falling to Thibodaux 3-2 Thursday, Patterson defeated East Iberville 14-0 Friday and Episcopal of Acadiana 5-2 Saturday to close the event.
Patterson will return to action at Central Catholic’s tournament this week.
Morgan City
It’s been a tough sea-son so for the Morgan City Tigers.
While the Tigers are ranked No. 37 in the latest Louisiana High School Athletic Association Class 4A power rankings, the squad is 0-9. Most recently, Morgan City fell to Thibodaux 18-0 in the first day of Central Catholic’s tournament Thursday. The squad fell at home to Comeaux 19-4 Monday.
Last week at Berwick’s tournament, Morgan City fell to New Iberia 15-1, dropped a 10-0 contest to Terrebonne and lost 12-0 to Covenant Christian Academy.
Morgan City also participated in its own tournament earlier this season.
This season, the Tigers have played Terrebonne twice and also Berwick, Patterson and Central Catholic.
Morgan City will continue play this weekend in Central Catholic’s tournament.

RICHARD R. LANG

Richard R. Lang, 65, a native of Baton Rouge and resident of Berwick, died Wednesday, March 10, 2021, at his resi-dence.
He is survived by his wife, Nancy Smith Lang of Berwick; two sons, Richard Smith of Arlington, Texas and William Lang of Baldwin; a sister, Joyce Martin of Gonzales; and four grandchildren.
He was preceded in death by his parents, a brother and a sister.
Twin City Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.

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