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Son helps himself to contents of late grandfather’s house

DEAR ABBY: My father passed away a few months ago. My brother lives out of state, so emptying the house has been up to me. Shortly after the funeral, my adult son (the only grandchild) arrived and loaded his car with all the toilet paper, paper towels, light bulbs, cleaning products, etc. He did it without asking, so I promptly had the locks changed. When I asked him about it, he said, “Grandpa doesn’t need the stuff anymore.”
After months of packing (by myself), we are now down to the furniture, and my son wants everything. He feels he’s entitled to it. Rather than select one or two pieces, he is “gimme, gimme, gimme” and sees nothing wrong with this attitude. I didn’t raise him that way, but he is that way now.
What should I do?
GREEDY OUT WEST

DEAR GREEDY: Although at this point it’s a little late, what you should do is finally say NO.
Unless your father stated specifically — in writing — that your son should get everything, what he did is considered stealing.

DEAR ABBY: What the heck happens to men between the ages of 45 and 60? It seems the women they’re after are all 15 to 20 years younger. I don’t mean just for sex but for dating, love and marriage, too.
We middle-aged women are often overlooked because these middle-aged guys don’t realize we are at our sexual peak and often hot as hell. And we’re active in many interesting, fulfilling activities. By the time these men come to their senses, they are usually washed-up and impotent.Why is nature and society so cruel and unfair? How can I, as a sexy, active middle-aged woman, beat the odds? I do not intend to remain celibate and alone for the rest of my life.
STILL FUN IN THE SOUTH

DEAR STILL FUN: You can’t change other people, but you can change the way you react to them. A way to “beat the odds” would be to stop focusing solely on middle-aged guys and consider dating men a bit younger who appreciate what you have to offer. Even if it doesn’t lead to marriage, you could have a lot of fun in the meantime.

DEAR ABBY: We have a friend who often comes to us for advice, but never seems to take it. She keeps making the same mistake over and over again. How do we get through to her?
FRIENDS WHO CARE IN UTAH

DEAR FRIENDS: Candidly? Realize you can’t get through to her because she’s not really seeking advice. Rather than listening, she’s venting. Because of the friendship, listen when she “dumps,” but refrain from offering wisdom you know will be disregarded.
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EVADELL LaCOSTE TABOR

EvaDell LaCoste Tabor, 86, a resident of Amelia, passed away peacefully, Wednesday, December 30, 2020 at her home, surrounded by her loving family.
EvaDell was born August 16, 1934, the daughter of Richard LaCoste Sr. and Mary Billiot LaCoste.
She will be sadly missed and lovingly remembered by her son, Errol Tabor of Amelia; daughter, Erica Duplantis of Amelia; sister, Florence Breaux of Franklin; four grandchildren, Faith Allison Kornacki, Braelyn Duplantis, Carson Duplantis, and Colton Duplantis; three great-grandchildren, Alexis, Michael, and Molly Kornacki.
EvaDell was preceded in death by her parents, Richard and Mary LaCoste; husband, Wilbur “Pistol” Tabor; daughter, Diane Tabor; two brothers; four sisters.
The family would like to give a special thanks to Jenny Britt for all of her loving care and help during EvaDell’s illness. And also, a special thanks to the Journey Hospice nurses for their great care of their mother.
A graveside service will be held at 10:00 a.m., Monday, January 4, 2021 at St. Andrew Catholic Cemetery with Pastor Ann Sutton officiating.

La. lawmakers join bid to block Dem electors, launch fraud probe

Cassidy joins statement urging acceptance of Biden win

One state lawmaker and two members of Congress who represent St. Mary made have urged Congress to block the acceptance of Democratic electors who would confirm former Vice President Joe Biden’s election as president.

U.S. Sen. John Kennedy, U.S. Rep. Clay Higgins and state Rep. Beryl Amedee are all asking Congress to investigate allegations of voter fraud in the swing states that handed the election to Biden.

On Sunday, U.S. Sen. Bill Cassidy, a Republican from Baton Rouge, joined a bipartisan group of 11 senators urging
Congress to accept Biden's election.

Congress is set to take up what would ordinarily be a routine piece of electoral paperwork, the certification of electors, on Wednesday.

On Saturday, Kennedy joined six fellow GOP senators and four Republicans who were elected to the Senate in November in saying they’ll vote against certifying the Biden-Harris electors from disputed states Wednesday. They’re seeking the appointment of a commission to investigate allegations of voting irregularities in states where results are disputed.

“A fair and credible audit — conducted expeditiously and completed well before January 20 — would dramatically improve Americans’ faith in our electoral process and would significantly enhance the legitimacy of whoever becomes our next President,” Kennedy said in a statement Saturday.

Higgins, R-Lafayette, represents the 3rd Congressional District, which covers St. Mary and St. Martin west to the Texas line.

Higgins said he has been looking into allegations of election fraud for a month. He plans to vote against certification of the Biden-Harris electors Wednesday.

“There is sufficient evidence, at a minimum, to investigate criminal acts, which may have compromised the integrity of our election,” he said in a statement Thursday. “This effort and action to safeguard our election systems must continue, even beyond January 20, 2021.”

As many as 140 U.S. House Republicans could vote against certification, according to national media accounts, although the Democratic majority there is widely expected to prevail.

The most specific set of grievances came not from the federal level but in a letter from 24 state House members, including Amedee, R-Gray. They urge members of Louisiana’s Republican congressional delegation to reject Democratic electors from the states that lifted Biden to victory Nov. 3: Arizona, Nevada, Georgia, Wisconsin, Pennsylvania and Michigan.

“Nineteen states have challenged the constitutional ‘appointment’ of the electors for the six states where much of the fraud occurred,” Amedee said in a press release distributed by the Louisiana Republican Party. “It is clear that roughly half the country disputes ‘the results’ of the election in these swing states.

“Louisiana has worked hard to protection election integrity. For Congress to casually certify elections results from states where blatant fraud was tolerated is offensive and unacceptable.”

The statement from Kennedy quoted a Reuters/Ipsos poll as finding that 38% of Americans, including 67% of Republicans, believe the presidential election is rigged.

Cassidy joined Republican U.S. Sens. Mitt Romney of Utah, Susan Collins of Maine and Lisa Murkowski, independent Angus King and five Democrats in urging Congress to accept the Biden electors.

The text of the statement:

“The 2020 election is over. All challenges through recounts and appeals have been exhausted. At this point, further attempts to cast doubt on the legitimacy of the 2020 Presidential election are contrary to the clearly expressed will of the American people and only serve to undermine Americans’ confidence in the already determined election results. The voters have spoken, and Congress must now fulfill its responsibility to certify the election results. In two weeks, we will begin working with our colleagues and the new Administration on bipartisan, common sense solutions to the enormous challenges facing our country. It is time to move forward.”

The Kennedy and Higgins statements and the letter from the state House are attached below.

92 COVID cases, two deaths locally since Thursday

Ninety-two new confirmed COVID cases, including 48 in St. Mary, and two fatalities were reported in three local parishes. The Louisiana Office of Public Health report covers the period from midday Thursday to midday Sunday.

The 48 new confirmed cases in St. Mary raise the total since the pandemic began to 2,767 confirmed and 357 probable.

In St. Martin, 29 new confirmed cases raise the total to 3,574 with 263 probable. One new confirmed COVID-related fatality was reported, raising the confirmed toll to 77 with six probable.

Assumption has 15 confirmed cases for a total of 1,163 confirmed and 241 probable. One new confirmed death raises the toll to 27 with with one probable.

The death toll in St. Mary remains at 96 confirmed with six probable.

Statewide:

--5,780 new cases raise the confirmed total to 291,079 with 29,979 probable.

--49 deaths were reported, raising the confirmed toll to 7,162 with 375 probable.

--The number of COVID-positive people in hospitals jumped by 116 to 1,833.

--2 more people are on ventilators for a total of 204.

La. people over 70 can make COVID vaccine appointments Monday

Louisiana residents who are at least 70 years old and some health care workers can begin scheduling appointments to receive COVID-19 vaccinations on Monday, Gov. John Bel Edwards said Thursday.

The news comes as the state sets a record for the most new cases of the illness reported over 24 hours. Edwards did not announce any new restrictions to control the spread.

Edwards said the contact information for about 100 pharmacies that will have available vaccines will be posted on the Louisiana Department of Health’s website Monday.

At least 45,289 COVID-19 vaccines have been administered in Louisiana, though Edwards thinks the actual total is higher because many vaccinations have not yet been reported to the state. The federal government has made more than 210,000 doses available to Louisiana, state officials said.

Hospital personnel, residents and staff of long-term-care facilities, and emergency medical services workers (including those that work for fire departments) are first in line for the vaccines.

Starting Monday, residents who are 70 years old or older and people who work at ambulatory, outpatient, dental and behavioral health clinics can begin making appointments with registered pharmacies to get vaccinated. Federal recommendations, which Louisiana officials generally plan to follow pretty closely, set the age cutoff at 74 years. Edwards said in Louisiana age 70 has been a “clear demarcation” for higher risk of severe complications and death.

Clients and employees of end stage renal disease facilities, home health agency patients and personnel, and students and staff of allied health schools are next on the state’s list of priorities.

State officials can’t say how long it will take to vaccinate most members of the high-priority groups, in part because they don’t know how many doses they will get during a given week until the previous week. Next week, Louisiana officials expect the state to get about 28,275 doses of the Pfizer-BioNTech vaccine and 27,400 doses of the Moderna vaccine.

The Pfizer vaccines have been going to hospitals that have the ability to store them at the very cold temperatures necessary to keep them viable. Pharmacies will distribute most of the Moderna vaccines to long-term care facilities.

Only about 8,800 doses will be available for the new priority groups by appointment at registered pharmacies starting Monday, Edwards said, though more will be on the way during subsequent weeks. There are about 485,000 Louisiana residents who are 70 years old or older, he said.

“You’re not going to receive a vaccine dose if you don’t have an appointment,” he said, referring to long lines to get vaccinated in other states.

State officials reported 6,754 new cases of COVID-19 on Thursday, the most new cases in a 24-hour period since the pandemic began. There were 51 new deaths reported, bringing the total of confirmed and probable COVID-19 fatalities to 7,448.

The proportion of COVID-19 tests that come back positive is up to 10.7 percent (officials would prefer to see a rate below 5 percent) and the number of COVID-19 patients who are hospitalized is up to 1,717, officials report.

RAYMOND MITCHELL

Raymond Mitchell, 64, a resident of Pineville, LA and native of Franklin, LA, passed away on Tuesday December 22, 2020 at his residence.

Funeral services will be held on Saturday January 2, 2021 at 1:00 PM at the Greater St. Stephen Baptist Church Franklin, LA with Pastor Deondre' Johnson, Sr., officiating. (All visitors are asked to adhere to the CDC/local regulations by wearing masks and practicing social distancing). Burial will follow funeral services in Sorrel Community Cemetery in Sorrel, LA.

Memories of Raymond will forever remain in the hearts of his two daughters, Vanlincia D. Redmond and Patricia D. Willis both of Haltom City, TX; five sisters, Josephine Mitchell and Gladys Johnson both of New Iberia, LA, Mrs. David (Loretta M) Lofton of Marksville, LA and Mrs. Gerald (Linda M.) Webber & Selina Mitchell of Franklin, LA; five grandchildren, and host of nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends.

Raymond was preceded in death by his parents, six brothers, one sister, one nephew, and one great-nephew.

Arrangements entrusted to Jones Funeral Home.

CAROL JEAN POOL DALCOUR LaSALLE

Carol Jean Pool Dalcour LaSalle, 83, a resident of Patterson, LA and native of Morgan City, LA, passed away peacefully on Monday December 28, 2020 at 2:25 PM at her residence.

A public viewing will be conducted from 3:00 P. M. until 6:00 P. M. on Sunday January 3, 2021 at Jones Funeral Home 715 Sixth Street Morgan City, LA. (BY MANDATE, all visitors are asked to adhere to the CDC/local regulations by wearing masks and practicing social distancing). Viewing will resume on Monday January 4, 2020 from 9:00 A. M. - 11:00 A. M. at the Mt. Pilgrim Baptist Church. A Private Celebration of Life Service will be held. Services will be accessible virtually by viewing the Jones Funeral Home, Inc. Facebook Page at 12 Noon on Monday January 4, 2021. Carol Jean will be laid to rest in the Morgan City Cemetery following funeral services.

Memories of Carol Jean will forever remain in the hearts of her three children, Joan Carol Dalcour, Alfredia M. Dalcour Jones, and Alfred Dalcour, Sr. all of Morgan City, LA; two step-daughters Monica and Tiffany; eight grandchildren and a host of brothers and sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews, very close cousins, friends and her community in which she served unselfishly for decades.

Carol Jean was preceded in death by her husbands; her parents, and both her maternal and paternal grandparents.

Arrangements entrusted to Jones Funeral Home.

New start to a new year brings hope for better days

DEAR READERS: Welcome to 2021! The new year has arrived, and most of us are beyond grateful to leave the last one behind. The worldwide pandemic has sadly touched all of our lives. But this new year brings with it our hope for a new beginning.
Today presents an opportunity to discard destructive old habits for healthy new ones, and with that in mind, I will share Dear Abby’s often-requested list of New Year’s Resolutions — which were adapted by my late mother, Pauline Phillips, from the original credo of Al-Anon:
JUST FOR TODAY: I will live through THIS DAY ONLY. I will not brood about yesterday or obsess about tomorrow. I will not set far-reaching goals or try to overcome all of my problems at once.
I know that I can do something for 24 hours that would overwhelm me if I had to keep it up for a lifetime.
JUST FOR TODAY: I will decide to be happy. I will not dwell on thoughts that depress me. If my mind fills with clouds, I will chase them away and fill it with sunshine.
JUST FOR TODAY: I will accept what is. I will face reality. I will correct those things that I can correct and accept those I cannot.
JUST FOR TODAY: I will improve my mind. I will read something that requires effort, thought and concentration. I will not be a mental loafer.
JUST FOR TODAY: I will make a conscious effort to be agreeable. I will be kind and courteous to those who cross my path, and I’ll not speak ill of others. I will improve my appearance, speak softly, and not interrupt when someone else is talking.
Just for today, I will refrain from improving anybody but myself.
JUST FOR TODAY: I will do something positive to improve my health. If I’m a smoker, I’ll quit. And I will get off the couch and take a brisk walk, even if it’s only around the block.
JUST FOR TODAY: I will gather the courage to do what is right and take responsibility for my own actions.
And now, Dear Readers, allow me to share an item that was sent to me by L.J. Bhatia, a reader from New Delhi, India:

DEAR ABBY: This year, no resolutions, only some guidelines. The Holy Vedas say, “Man has subjected himself to thousands of self-inflicted bondages. Wisdom comes to a man who lives according to the true eternal laws of nature.”
The prayer of St. Francis (of which there are several versions) contains a powerful message:
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved, as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
And so, Dear Readers, may 2021 bring with it good health, peace and joy to all of us.
LOVE, ABBY
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Deputies make arrest in home invasion

An investigation into a home invasion Wednesday has resulted in the arrest of a Patterson man, the St. Mary Parish Sheriff's Office said.

Tyson Jeffrey James Celestine, 32, Patterson, was arrested at 1:45 p.m. Wednesday on a charge of possession of marijuana with intent to distribute and on a warrant for home invasion and armed robbery.

On Wednesday, deputies responded to an address near Zenor Road and U.S. 90 in reference to an armed robbery in which the complainant said that three male subjects entered the home and robbed them at gunpoint.

Through the investigation, Celestine was developed as one of the suspects. Detectives obtained a search warrant for his residence and upon executing the warrant, a pound of marijuana was found.

Celestine was transported to the St. Mary Parish Law Enforcement Center for booking. Bail has been set at $550,000.

The investigation into the armed robbery/home invasion continues, the Sheriff's Office said.. If you have any information regarding this crime, please call 337-828-1960 or send tips and information on our website at www.stmaryso.com. You can remain anonymous.

77 new confirmed COVID cases in local parishes

Seventy-seven new confirmed COVID-19 cases, 50 of them in St. Martin, were reported for three local parishes for the 24 hours ending at midday Thursday.

The Louisiana Office of Public Health reported no new COVID-related deaths here.

In St. Mary, 13 new confirmed cases raise the pandemic total to 2,719 with 13 probable cases.

St. Martin has the 50 new confirmed cases for a total of 3,545 with 261 probable cases.

Ten new confirmed cases raise Assumption's case count to 1,148 with 231 probable cases.

The death tolls remain at 96 with six probable in St. Mary, 76 with six probable in St. Martin and 26 with two probable in Assumption.

Statewide:

--4,051 cases raised the confirmed pandemic total to 285,477 with 29,798 probable. Wednesday's total of 6,754 new cases was the highest total of the pandemic.

--40 deaths raised the toll to 7,115 confirmed with 373 probable.

--14 more COVID-positive people are in hospitals Thursday for a total of 1,717.

--8 fewer people are on ventilators for a total of 202.

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