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Assistant works their way up only to be sidelined by boss

DEAR ABBY: When my boss hired me as an assistant four years ago, she specifically told me my job was to do whatever the person above me wants. I wasn’t allowed to communicate with anyone on the job other than the lady above me. Even though it was tough to watch my supervisor make so many bad decisions and get away with it, I did what was required of me.
Now I have worked my way up and have an assistant of my own. However, my boss has given my assistant much more than she ever gave me when I was in that position. Sometimes I feel like she acts like I’m not valued. I want to point it out, but I don’t want to be that kind of person. I love what I do, but I don’t know how much longer I can handle being treated this way.
Should I tell her how I feel? She constantly leaves me out of important decisions and then tries to play mind games to make up for it. She is also giving my assistant important information before telling me. I don’t know what I should do.
FRUSTRATED IN OREGON

DEAR FRUSTRATED: Many companies have annual reviews for employees in which subjects like the ones you have raised are discussed. If this isn’t the case in your firm, ask for one.
During that conversation, tell your boss that sometimes you feel your efforts aren’t valued and why. Remind her that you were instructed not to talk with anyone on the job other than the person immediately above you, and you feel undercut because your assistant is being given important information before it is shared with you. It may clear the air. However, if it doesn’t, by all means start searching for another job, since you seem to be considering it anyway.

DEAR ABBY: I am worried about my kids and their social well-being. I understand we are in a pandemic. Our family has been responsible and socially distancing, but it seems like their friends have all been spending time together.
Understandably, my kids are jealous and angry at their father and me for putting restrictions on them. But I am worried about their lack of social interaction and how it may affect their future. One of them has a harder time making friends and doesn’t have many things in common with their peers, which led to spending more time at home when there was no pandemic.
WORRIED MOM IN NEW YORK

DEAR WORRIED: Until the threat of COVID has been resolved, it’s up to you as parents to decide how you restrict your children in relation to the pandemic.
Of course you want to protect them, even if your choices aren’t popular. Kids can be careless. They can forget to pull their masks up and stay socially distanced, and the results can be tragic. But there are relatively safe outdoor activities parents can plan to keep their children from being completely isolated.
As to your child who is less socially adept, this is a subject to discuss with his/her teachers or a child psychologist. Perhaps you can help by researching online interest groups this child can join that will connect them with other children — under your supervision, of course.
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COVID-19 testing ongoing Monday at Ochsner St. Mary

COVID-19 vaccine site at Walmart in Morgan City

Community COVID-19 testing is ongoing at Ochsner St. Mary Monday afternoon and will continue until 6 p.m., unless all test kits are exhausted sooner.
The testing, which is being conducted in the medical office building behind the hospital in Suite 400, began at 2 p.m. Monday.
It is part of Ochsner Health System’s testing this week in the Bayou region, and the test is open to those ages 2 and above.
Those wishing to be tested should bring their ID and an insurance card, if applicable. There are no out-of-pocket costs to be tested, and no one will be turned away based on their insurance status.
Meanwhile, St. Mary continues to have three vaccination sites through the Louisiana Department of Health’s network of providers given an allotment of COVID-19 vaccines.
However, Walgreens Pharmacy in Morgan City, which had been listed as a vaccination site, has been removed. Now, Walmart Pharmacy in Morgan City, at 1002 La. 70, is on the list.
It is among 82 new providers added in the state’s network through the Department of Health.
St. Mary also has vaccination sites at Teche Action Clinic in Franklin (1115 Weber St.) and Walmart Pharmacy in Franklin (200 Northwest Blvd.).
Assumption has three locations: Assumption Community Hospital Pharmacy (135 La. 402) and Reddy Family Medical Center (154 La. 1008), both in Napoleonville, and Reddy Family Medical at 3407 La. 70 in Pierre Part.
Vaccines at this site are available only for those in Phase 1B, Tier 1:
—Persons ages 70 or older.
—Health-related support personnel (labs, mortuary and pharmacy).
—Outpatient clinic providers and clinic staff.
—Urgent care clinic providers and staff.
—Community care clinic providers and staff.
—Behavioral health clinic providers and staff.
—Dialysis providers and clients.
—Home care providers (including hospice workers) and home care recipients (including older and younger people with disabilities over age 16 who receive community or home-based care, as well as clients of home health agencies).
—Dental providers and staff.
—American Sign Language interpreters and Support Service Providers working in community and clinic-based settings, and clients who are deaf and blind.
—Students, residents, faculty and staff of allied health schools (if not already receiving or in a plan to receive from their respective schools).
Eligible residents must make an appointment with a participating provider. Patients who arrive without an appointment will not be vaccinated.

14 new COVID cases, no deaths in local parishes

Fourteen confirmed new COVID-19 cases were reported in local parishes for the 24 hours ending at midday Monday by the Louisiana Office of Public Health.

St. Mary has 11 new confirmed COVID cases to raise the pandemic total to 3,200 confirmed with 665 probable.

Assumption has three new confirmed cases for a confirmed total of 1,463 with 482 probable.

St. Martin's pandemic total was adjusted downward by two to 4,239 confirmed with 376 probable.

No new local fatalities were reported, so the deaths tolls remain 102 with 11 probable in St. Mary, 95 confirmed with eight probable in St. Martin, and 28 confirmed with three probable.

Statewide:

--899 new cases raise the confirmed total to 350,623 confirmed with 50,988 probable.

--53 new fatalities raise the death toll to 8,340 confirmed with 572 probable.

--13 fewer COVID-positive people are in hospitals, lowering the total to 1,403.

--12 fewer people are on ventilators for a total of 187.

Water's right in the Basin, so crawfish are back

The 2021 Atchafalaya Basin crawfish season is off to an earlier start, while progress is being shown in the pond season.
The storm surge from hurricanes prompted the crawfish to appear, so while crawfish in the Atchafalaya Spillway would appear in late February or early March, they were being caught in December, according to Sidney Michel, owner of D&B Seafood in Morgan City.
Mark Shirley, an LSU AgCenter crawfish specialist, said that water levels have been between 12 and 15 feet at Butte LaRose during the last month, and when water levels hit those levels, it is good for the crawfish industry.
Michel said prices are high at the moment due to a limited supply of crawfish, but he said the sales are still good.
While the hurricane surge, which brought mostly fresh water to the basin, was good for this area, to the west, saltwater intrusion affected coastal crawfish ponds below Erath and in the Henry area, said Barry Toups, who represents the Crawfish Industry on the 2020 Louisiana Seafood Promotion & Marketing Board.
The hurricanes also brought bad water and flooding issues in August and September in ponds.
“It really, in some cases, caused those ponds to flood too early when temperatures were still very high, and the plant matter in the ponds was decaying and causing poor water quality,” Shirley said. “So that may have affected production this year, and we’re still not sure to what extent the hurricanes impacted the crawfish population.”
Toups said he was unsure if rains from hurricanes affected his crop this year, which he said is the “worst start ever” for him.
“I kept some of that water,” he said. “I think I lost my first crop, to be honest with you. I’m starting to see crawfish now.”
However, his numbers aren’t anywhere close to where they have been in the past, noting that the average farmer brings in 500 pounds per acre each year.
“I’ve had some years where I’ve caught 1,000 pounds to the acre,” he said. “I don’t know what my number’s going to be right now. I’m starting to see crawfish now. It might just be a later season. The cold weather slowed them down.”
Cold weather will slow crawfish growth, which is something that Shirley said the area has experienced recently in the pond industry.
With rising temperatures in the last week, there has been progress.
“We’re starting to see a little bit of activity in the ponds,” Shirley said, adding that recent cold days will cool the water again.
While hurricanes can have positive or negative impacts, Shirley said COVID-19, which fishermen, processers and restaurants had to endure on top of hurricanes, was worse.
He said that March, April and May is the peak time of the pond season. But instead of thriving, markets were shut down and restaurants were restricted and group gatherings were limited during the year.
“So it couldn’t have come at a worse time for the crawfish industry,” Shirley said.
Toups, who runs a Kaplan-area bed and breakfast that offers crawfish excursions, said “the price of crawfish dropped to hardly nothing” and many ceased fishing.
“We had trouble moving them, and the price had dropped to a dollar something a pound,” he said. “You still had people doing it, but I wasn’t going to give it away.”
Shirley said many farmers were limited to how much crawfish they could sell to buyers.
“So that meant instead of fishing every day, six or seven days a week, some of them were on a restricted harvest of maybe one or two days a week, so it definitely hurt their harvest or their income,” he said.
Because restaurants had limited capacity or were closed, the crawfish processers suffered, too, because demand for crawfish meat was down, too, during the summer, fall and winter, Shirley said.
While Toups said he doesn’t run a large crawfish farm, as his property consists of 40 acres for crawfish, he said the COVID-19 pandemic also shut down his bed and breakfast from mid-March through the summer. He said business didn’t resume until Sept. 1, and that’s around the time hurricanes devastated southwest Louisiana. So he did have business in September through November due to the storm.
In Morgan City, Michel, who said crawfish is about 60% of his business per year, said COVID-19 didn’t affect him overall because his business involves take-out. He said he had to make adjustments with the COVID-19 guidelines in place.
However, because he is a retailer as well as a wholesaler, he said that the retail business picked up with customers eating crawfish at home because they couldn’t eat them at restaurants.
“So they did a lot of boiling themselves,” he said.
This year’s crop will not necessarily produce bigger pond or spillway crawfish, either, just because it didn’t get picked a year ago, Shirley said.
“Some of the ponds that left crawfish in the field last year, if those crawfish survived until this season, it may cause population to be a smaller size,” he said. “Crawfish growth is very much influenced by the population density. So when crawfish are crowded in a pond, they tend to stay small, so some of those fields that have a lot of crawfish to carry over to this season may have a large population that will wind up being small to medium and very few large crawfish.”
However, he said new ponds that began being stocked last May or June for the first time may produce medium and large crawfish in February and March because they are new.
The older ponds may produce more small and medium crawfish and fewer larger crawfish, he said.
In the spillway, a lot of different animals eat crawfish, meaning that many crawfish likely were eaten in the past year and won’t have carried over to this year, although some will, Shirley said.
“The basin crawfish have to run that gamut and survive all those predators and … it kind of depends on water levels and vegetation as to how well those crawfish can hide and get away from those predators, or conversely if there’s too much water, the fish predators can get at them anywhere,” he said.

UPDATED: JUDY LIGHTSEY KINKLE LANDRY

September 2, 1950 — January 30, 2021
Judy Lightsey Kinkle Landry, a native of West Monroe and a proud resident of Gibson, achieved her highest goal on Saturday, January 30, 2021 when she drew her final breath on earth, and moved with love and grace into the arms of her Heavenly Father while surrounded by her loving family.
Faith was the core guiding principle of Judy’s life. Her devotion to being a “servant of Christ” could be seen in her choices and priorities.
Judy retired from her latest job many years back as a hotshot driver, which she immensely enjoyed.
Highly creative, Judy had many talents though her passion was mainly seen in her cross-stitching, and recently her diamond art pieces.
She unwillingly leaves behind her husband of 28 years, Terry P. Landry of Gibson; her son, Jaime Kinkle and his wife, Connie, of Houma; her daughter, (baby girl) Jennifer K. Gros and her husband, Lloyd, of Stephensville; two stepchildren, Cherie Ibert and her husband, Geoff, of Bayou Vista, and Craig Landry and his wife, Jennifer, of Ricohoc; three granddaughters, Paige Adams (Miss Paige) and her husband, Timothy, of Morgan City, Carissa Kinkle of Morgan City, and Paizley Gros of Stephensville; three great-granddaughters, Olivia Grace Adams, Briar Lee Adams and Charley Chapman; one great-grandson, KJ Chatman; and 11 step-great-grandchildren.
Judy also leaves one sister, Nancy Lightsey; one brother, Roger Lightsey; numerous nieces, nephews and friends; one special friend she also said was her sister, Mickey Ulmer; and her fur puppy Paris that never left her side.
Meeting her at heavens gates will be her father, DeWitt Lightsey; her mother, Emily McClendon Lightsey; her sister and best friend, Carolyn Kinkle; her brother, Ronnie Lightsey, Sr.; her mother-in-law, Valla Landry; along with cousins, aunts, uncles and nephews.
Family and friends are invited to attend a Celebration of Life gathering on February 3, 2021 from 9 a.m. to noon at Hargrave Funeral Home with services at noon in the Hargrave Funeral Home Chapel.
Following services, Judy will be laid to rest in the Grace Memorial Park Cemetery in Plaquemine, LA.
I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, and I have kept the faith.
2 Timothy 4:7

MELBA JEAN RODRIGUEZ GROS ROBIN

Melba Jean Rodriguez Gros Robin, 71, a native and resident of Morgan City, died Wednesday, Jan. 27, 2021, at Ochsner Hospital in New Orleans.
She is survived by her husband, Joseph Robin; four sons, Scott Rodriguez of Morgan City, Kevin Rodriguez of Pierre Part, Conn Robin of Petal, Mississippi and Matt Robin of Waynesboro, Mississippi; two brothers, Kenny Benoit of Morgan City and Keith Mire of Berwick; 11 grandchildren; and nine great-grandchildren.
She was preceded in death by her parents and a brother.
Visitation and services were Saturday at Hargrave Funeral Home in Morgan City. Burial followed in Morgan City Cemetery.
Hargrave Funeral Home was in charge of arrangements.

HENRY 'BOUDREAUX' BERNARD LeBOUEF

June 15, 1966 — January 18, 2021
Henry “Boudreaux” Bernard LeBouef II, 54, a native of Labadieville, Louisiana, died peacefully in his home on Monday, January 18, 2021, surrounded by his loving family. Henry was born on June 15, 1966, to his mother Margaret Fryou LeBouef and his late father, Beldon Bernard LeBouef Sr., in Morgan City, LA.
Henry is survived by his beloved wife of 17 years, Norma LeBouef, and their two sons, James Bernard LeBouef & Henry Bernard LeBouef III; his two daughters, Gertie Hegdal-Fox and her husband Michael Fox, and Whitney “Tiger” LeBouef-Ford; his mother, Margaret Fryou-LeBouef; his sisters, Pamela LeBouef-Verdin and Jacqueline LeBouef-Oakes; his brother, Beldon “BB” LeBouef Jr; his godchild, Jason McLaren & wife Ariel; his nanny, Susan “Tullie” Austin, and his nonk Nolan Freyoux; his grandchildren, Kimber Ford, Everett Ford, Charlotte Fox, Emmett “Henry Phillip” Worsham, and Zoey Fox; his cousins, Lydia “Lee” & husband Kevin Battaglia, Harry James “Slack” Freyoux & wife Kay, and Rose Johnson; Jose “Joe” Trevino, whom he considered his brother; and many numerous cousins, nieces, nephews, and relatives that he cherished with all his heart.
Henry is preceded in death by his father, Beldon B. LeBouef Sr.; his brother, Robert B. LeBouef; his sister, Debra Jean LeBouef; his grandson, Wyatt Ford; his aunts, Sally LeBlanc and Mercy Ann L. Thompson; and many numerous other relatives and loved ones that have passed on to Heaven.
Henry loved & cherished all his family, relatives, friends, and coworkers. One of his many special ways of showing his love for people was to cook good food to fill everyone’s bellies.
A small celebration for Henry’s life will be held on Saturday, February 13, 2021, from 12:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m., at the Amelia Recreational Center in Morgan City, LA. (ADDRESS: 2109 Duhon Blvd., Morgan City, LA, 70380). All family & friends are encouraged to cook and bring dishes to the celebration. Please contact Emilee Migues for RSVP and information (228-243-5680). Due to the COVID virus, there will be limited occupancy, masks are requested to be brought & worn, and social distancing procedures are please practiced by everyone attending to celebrate Henry’s wonderful life.

ALBERT ADAM MASON SR.

September 10, 1932 — January 28, 2021
Albert Adam Mason Sr., 88, a resident of Morgan City, passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 28, 2021, surrounded by his loving family in Moss Bluff.
Albert was born on September 10, 1932 in American Bayou, the son of Edrick Mason and Lydia Hymel Mason.
Albert had a love for music and played the guitar and fiddle for over 40 years. He served his country proudly in the United States Army serving during the Korean Conflict where he was a Sergeant tank operator. While in the service he played music with other service members. After his time in the military, Albert was a welder inspector working for Avondale Shipyard for many years. When he wasn’t working or playing or singing his swamp pop music, Albert loved to go fishing and hunting as well as taking frequent trips to the casino. Albert was a member of the Knights of Columbus Council 12179. He loved his family and cherished every moment he was able to spend with them.
He will be sadly missed and lovingly remembered by two children, Albert Mason Jr. and wife Debra of Morgan City, and Sheila Mason Constance and husband James of Moss Bluff; five grandchildren, Shondell Trahan and fiancé Daniel Dreyer, Denise Collins and husband Micah, Heidi LeBlanc and husband Casey, Steven Mason and wife Jo’le, and Amanda Mason Talbot and husband Shane; 10 great-grandchildren; three great-great-grandchildren; and three sisters, Doris McKee of Morgan City, Enella Sharp and husband Luther of Arkansas, and Janette Billiot of Baton Rouge.
Albert was preceded in death by his parents, Edrick and Lydia Hymel Mason; his wife and soulmate of 63 years, Rosella Crochet Mason; step mother, Annie Mason; and grandfather, Thomas Mason.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at noon on Tuesday, February 2, 2021 at Holy Cross Catholic Church. A visitation will be held from 9 a.m. until 11:30 a.m. on Tuesday, February 2, 2021 at Twin City Funeral Home. Following Mass, Albert will be laid to rest with Military Honors in the Morgan City Cemetery. Military Honors will be rendered by the Fort Polk Honor Guard.

JOE GEORGE KITE

1932 — 2021
Joe George Kite, 88, was born to George and Eleanor Swanson Kite on March 5, 1932 in DeRidder, Louisiana. On Saturday, January 16, 2021 in Cheyenne, Wyoming, Joe went Home, joining his wife, Ela, of 65 years who he loved and missed dearly.
He was known as “Pastor Joe” or “Brother Joe” to thousands of people across south and central Louisiana. Joe led many of those people to accept Jesus Christ into their hearts, and many others to enter His service as pastors, teachers, missionaries and other ministry professions.
Brother Joe will be missed.
Joe was preceded in death by his father and mother; his wife; and a grandson.
He is survived by brothers, Robert Kite and Wayne (Gail) Kite; sister, Dianne (Paul) Penney; sons, Dan (Anna) Kite and Bruce (Judy) Kite; daughter, Connie Kite; eight grandchildren; and 14 great-grandchildren.
Joe was buried at Lewis Cemetery outside DeRidder on January 22, 2021.
Tributes for Joe can be left at the website https://www.schradercares.com/obituary/Joe-Kite. A Memorial Service may be held in the near future for Brother Joe.

WILLIAM HARLEY ALLEN

Around sunrise on Saturday, January 30th, 2021, William Harley Allen, formerly of the Third Division, U.S. Marine Corps, completed his final mission on Earth and reported to the Great Commander that he faithfully served his entire life. Mr. Allen, known by many as “Mister Bill”, is survived by his wife MaryEllon, his four children Michal, Joe, Becky and Sarah, and 11 grandchildren that he led by example, a big heart and a light hand (most of the time).
Mr. Bill’s sense of duty was something he rarely talked about, but it guided him from when he was a little boy picking crops and delivering newspapers to his final days as a patriarch and pillar of his church and community. Ever willing to do the grunt work, he pitched in wherever he was needed, serving others and taking the blows of life, making himself useful without even thinking it was an option to do anything else.
Bill Allen was born in Arizona, in a spot his okie parents used as a home base when they weren’t following the harvest, picking crops throughout the state and up the West Coast with their children little Billy, his brothers Terrel, Jimmy, Philip and eventually sister, Lorainne.
Billy was more of an athlete than a scholar, but he was an avid reader and even managed to pick up the trombone when he wasn’t busy winning games, matches and medals for Tolleson High School football, wrestling and track.
After many adventures, the Allen family found their way to the small mountain town of Ashland, Oregon. It was there that Bill (now a high school graduate) first saw a pretty blonde girl singing with her family a few pews over at the Ashland Church of Christ. Pretty girls get lots of attention from boys, but Bill was a competitor and managed to win over the girl with the help of his hot rod ’57 Chevy and a sly alliance with the girl’s mother.
Things were looking up for the young man and he even managed to get a good job surveying for the highway department when he got drafted for the VietNam war. Bill didn’t want to risk losing his life or his girl to spend years dodging bullets and following orders, but his faith and his conscience pulled him away from the people he loved. He reported for duty and was sent first to Camp Pendleton for boot camp and later into combat in Southeast Asia. Between the hostilities and the toils of military life, he managed to write love letters to his sweetheart almost every day. Corporal Allen returned with a few scars and medals to find his family, his car and his girl waiting for him.
The young couple were married in the park of the small mountain town and went off to college in the big city of Portland. There they discovered that making grades was hard, making ends meet was harder, but that making babies was something that they were surprisingly good at. Despite the challenges, they managed to do all three until Bill decided that his bride’s tuition and diapers were more important to him than a diploma. So Bill made another of what would become a long series of hard choices, informed by his heart, his faith, and a willingness to do whatever it takes to get the job done. He quit school and got a full time job mixing paint.
Even without a four year degree, the young dad managed to support his growing family and his wife’s career, taking on far more responsibilities than he asked for everywhere he went. He served as a deacon at church, coached many softball teams, and worked his way up from green chain to general manager in the plywood industry.
Many years later, still preferring a supporting role, Bill managed to earn his degree, a Masters of International Business, and then serve as office manager in his wife’s medical practice. He was ever as willing to take out the trash as he was to take the names and call the shots.
In 2016, Bill was diagnosed with cancer. His wife, Dr. MaryEllon Allen, did absolutely everything she could to make him well and together they fought the cancer into remission for three years before it came back and spread to his lungs and brain. In December of 2020, Dad’s growing medical problems landed him in the hospital on life support. He fought to the end, going through an ocean of pain day after day for an entire month, not out of fear but out of love for a wife and family whom he knew would miss him terribly.
The hole in the lives of Mom, my sisters and I seems unfillable, but we find comfort in the music Dad would listen to, hum, and sometimes sing to us: oldies, gospel, folk songs, show tunes — anything to remind us of the loving husband and father who did what he believed needed to be done.
“And the world will be better for this
That one man, torn and covered with scars
Would strive with his last ounce of courage
To reach the unreachable star”
—Man of La Mancha
“If the army or the navy
Ever look on Heaven’s scene
They will find the streets are guarded
By United States Marines.”
There will be a Celebration of Life at the Petroleum Club. Come and go from 5 to 7 p.m., Wednesday, Feb. 3.
To send condolences please visit www.chauvinfuneralhome.com.
Chauvin Funeral Home, Inc. is in charge of arrangements, 5899 Highway 311 Houma, Louisiana 70360; phone 985-868-2536; fax 985-876-5032.

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