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In-home camera systems don’t sit well with sitter

DEAR ABBY: I enjoy babysitting for the children of family and friends. But while I have nothing to hide, I hate how everyone seems to have inside cameras. I feel like I’m in a fishbowl, like if I let their kids veg in front of the TV or the computer, I’ll be judged as lazy.
I also hate having my picture taken, so the idea of being on a live feed all day is off-putting.
Do I ask them to turn off the cameras, or stop babysitting? I can’t be the only person who is uncomfortable being monitored all day like a caged animal.
What’s a good way of handling this?
MONITORED IN OHIO

DEAR MONITORED: People usually have cameras inside their home for security reasons, and so they will have a warning or evidence in case of a break-in. Parents and pet owners enjoy peace of mind knowing they can periodically check to see how their precious angels are doing. The intent is not to spy on you.
If you feel you are being watched excessively, ask the parents how they think you are doing. Unless they complain about your performance, a good way of handling this would be to simply accept the situation, or restrict your babysitting to homes that are camera-free.

DEAR ABBY: I have had a crush on a man since we were in our teens. We’re now in our mid-40s. Both of us ended long-term relationships about a year ago. We have stayed in contact every now and then, but only as friends — more like family. He was best friends with my beloved late uncle.
We have decided to meet, with sex at the forefront of our thoughts. How do I prepare myself to go into this with a sex-only mind frame? Do you think this could damage our 30-year friendship?
NERVOUS IN OREGON

DEAR NERVOUS: It has been my observation that men and women view sexual relationships differently.
Women often let their emotions get involved. Men can more easily separate the two. It could ABSOLUTELY damage your 30-year friendship if what he expects is a casual friends-with-benefits relationship and at some point you decide you need more from this man you have had a crush on since your teens.

DEAR ABBY: My 25-year-old daughter has stopped talking to me. She said I need counseling to discuss the abuse during her childhood. I asked, “What abuse?” She won’t say! I can’t think of any. She was never spanked. She was given anything she asked for and allowed to join any club or sport she was interested in.
The only thing she finally mentioned was that my husband and I had arguments. We didn’t argue often. I’m at a loss. Should I step back and leave her alone? I send texts and call her once a week. Most go unanswered. When she does answer, she asks if I have started counseling.
Please advise.
CUT OFF IN INDIANA

DEAR CUT OFF: Tell your daughter that you are open to counseling, but only if it is joint counseling with her to figure out why there is such a disparity in your — and her — memories of her childhood. If you do, it may — I can’t guarantee — resolve what’s happening now.
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Berwick council honors Student, Teacher of the Year

BERWICK — The Town Council took time out Tuesday from talk of roofing bids and subdivision rules to honor a student and a teacher from Berwick Junior High School.
The council devoted its monthly Beacon Shines On recognition to eighth-grader Mallory Menard and teacher Lani McElroy.
Mallory is the Berwick Junior High and St. Mary Parish Middle School Student of the Year.
She is the daughter of John and Nichole Menard.
She’s a 4.0 student and product of the school’s Gifted and Talented program.
Principal Kristin Percle praised her for continuing to achieve despite the recent death of her father.
McElroy is an English language arts teachers at Berwick Junior High.
“Her philosophy is that teaching is an opportunity to inspire the next generation of great thinkers,” Percle said.
Also Tuesday:
—Fire Chief Allen Rink gave the council statistics on mutual aid calls to and from Morgan City.
Morgan City Mayor Lee Dragna last week told the City Council that he hopes to withdraw that city from the mutual aid agreement among parish fire departments. Dragna said he believes Morgan City provides more assistance than it receives. He wants to negotiate separate agreements with other departments.
Rink said that over the last four years, Berwick has sought firefighting help from Morgan City four times, while Morgan City has called on Berwick firefighters 14 times.
—The council introduced an ordinance designed to clarify the town’s subdivision rules.
The proposed ordinance says that subdivision approvals granted by the planning director as of Feb. 9 will be considered to have been properly administered.
A public hearing on the ordinance will be held at the March 9 monthly council meeting, followed by a passage vote.
In this context, “subdivision” doesn’t necessarily have the common meaning of a group of homes that are part of a single development. It refers to any division of one piece of property into lots for sale or development.
Subdivision rules and the approval process are supposed to ensure that each new lot has access to a public road, that emergency vehicles can get to them and that they have access to utility connections.
—The council passed a resolution supporting the Board of Adjustment’s decision to grant a zoning variance for the planned expansion of the St. Mary Parish Library Berwick Branch.
Based on the size of the expansion, zoning rules would have required 31 parking spaces. But creating those spaces would intrude on the Texas Street-Fourth Street intersection, Planning and Zoning Director Gary Beadle said.
The board ruled that the expansion would be allowed to have 27 parking spaces.
—The council voted unanimously to accept a bid by B&J Enterprises of Metairie Inc. to put a new roof on the town hall.
The B&J bid of $298,000 and $25,000 for alternate was the lowest of four bids submitted for the project.
The current flat roof has leaked since it was installed, Mayor Duval Arthur said. B&J will replace it with peaked roof.
—The council voted to pay Southern Constructors LLC $136,622.43 and Miller Engineers & Associates $11,731.61 for work on Belleview Front and Gus streets, part of the Concrete Improvement Project.

37 new confirmed COVID cases, two deaths in local parishes

St. Mary and St. Martin have a total of 37 new confirmed COVID-19 cases in the Louisiana Office of Public Health report for the 24 hours ending at midday Tuesday. Two COVID-related fatalities were reported in St. Martin.

The new fatalities raise the confirmed death toll in St. Martin to 100 with eight probable. St. Martin has 26 new confirmed COVID cases for a pandemic total of 4,326 confirmed with 398 probable cases.

St. Mary has 11 new confirmed cases for a pandemic total of 3,244 with 720 probable. The death toll remains at 106 confirmed with 11 probable.

Assumption's case count was adjusted downward by five confirmed cases for a total of 1,501 with 535 probable. The death toll there remains at 29 confirmed with three probable.

Statewide:

--1,321 new cases Tuesday raised the confirmed total to 358,862 with 55,492 probable.

--20 fatalities raised the statewide death toll to 8,559 confirmed with 603 probable.

--22 fewer COVID-positive people are in Louisiana hospitals for a total of 1,144.

--2 more people are on ventilators for a total of 151.

Port board president urges letters in support of energy industry

The Port of Morgan City board heard good news about funding for dredging and heard a call to support the energy industry as state and federal governments ponder incentives for going green.
At Monday’s monthly meeting, the port staff’s Cindy Cutrera reported on a recent meeting of the Louisiana Task Force on Climate Initi-atives. The task force was created by Gov. John Bel Edwards in November to find ways to reduce greenhouse gas emissions by up to 28% of 2005 levels by 2025.
The task force contains representatives of the energy industry as well as government, economic development entities, academia and environmental groups.
Cutrera, the port staff’s economic development manager, said some of the comments at a meeting last week raised concerns about support for the oil and gas industry, historically a major source of employment for this region. One comment at the meeting said that energy companies will have to embrace alternative sources or go away, Cutrera said.
Joseph Cain, president of the port board, urged members to write letters to key officials in support of the energy industry.
“That noise gets attention,” Cain said. “It’s effective. It really is.”
The Task Force on Climate Initiatives was created to “investigate and make recommendations for the reduction of greenhouse gas emissions originating in Louisiana to achieve the stated greenhouse gas emissions reduction goals in order to improve the health and welfare of the people of Louisiana and advance Louisiana’s economic and energy profile,” according to the Governor’s Office website.
Its goals are to find ways to cut greenhouse gas emissions by 26-28% by 2025, 40-50% by 2030 and to net zero by 2050.
Also Monday, the board heard about the inclusion of $18 million in the Army Corps of Engineers work plan funding this year for the lower Atchafalaya region.
The original federal budget appropriation that could be directed toward dredging of local waterways was about $4 million, barely enough to pay for a quarter of some of the recent projects designed to keep important commercial channels open.
Then, in mid-January, the Corps work plan was finalized with the extra $18 million for this region.
Port Executive Director Raymond “Mac” Wade told The Daily Review last month that he hopes the money will be directed toward dredging between Crewboat Cut and Eugene Island, where high water has deposited sediment that creates navigation problems.
Charles Brittingham, who represents the port’s interests in Washington, called the $18 million “a huge success for the Port of Morgan City.”
He said upcoming budget deliberations may continue to start with a relatively small initial appropriation followed by attempts to get a share of supplemental funding.
“We’ll continue to keep fighting year after year for more money,” Brittingham said.
The board heard that the dredge vessel created by Brice Civil Constructors continues its work south of Eugene Island filtering out the sticky fluff mud that can foul vessel propulsion systems. Keeping this bar channel open is one of the keys to bringing bigger vessels to the port.
The Brice dredge was visited recently by a military celebrity: Maj. Gen. Diana M. Holland, commander of the Corps of Engineers Mississippi Valley Division.
Holland got to see the Brice dredge in operation and went aboard the vessel.
Holland is an Iraq and Afghanistan veteran whose medals include the Bronze Star. A U.S. Military Academy graduate, she became the first woman named to be commandant of cadets at West Point in 2015.
In other action:
—Lt. Hayley Gipson reported that the Coast Guard responded to 13 incidents in local waterways: four in which a vessel struck a fixed object, two in which a vessel struck a bridge, five groundings and two vessels that lost propulsion.
Gipson said 2,035 vessel transits were reported in January in the area it serves here, down 16% from January 2020.
—The board heard Morgan City Mayor Lee Dragna has reappointed Adam Mayon to the board for another four-year term.
Board member Tim Mathews continues to serve on the board pending appointment of his successor. Mathews’ second four-year term expired in December.
Dragna also served on the board and resigned after his election as mayor in December. His successor has yet to be appointed.

From the Editor: Clock is ticking on La. vaccinations

We’re good at finding ways to make divisions among ourselves: Democrat vs. Republican, conservative vs. liberal, millennial vs. boomer, city vs. country, black vs. white.
And now we’ve found a new way: people who desperately want the COVID-19 vaccine and those who hate the idea.
This comment popped up on our Jan. 26 story about struggles experienced by Ochsner St. Mary and Franklin Foundation Hospital to cope with the limited vaccine supply:
“Funny how people just line up to be Government guinea pigs.”
On the other side, I have a Facebook friend in Lafayette who doesn’t qualify for the earliest doses of the Pfizer and Moderna two-shot vaccines. But he wanted the shot.
So he called the local Walgreens and CVS pharmacies and said that if they had leftover vaccine at the end of the day, and the choice was use it or throw it out, they could call him and he’d come running.
It worked. He got his shot.
Even those of us who have been vaccinated or have made up our minds to get the shot have to admit that “vaccine hesitancy” isn’t a crazy idea.
Sure, some of more tightly wound friends think the shots are a tracking chip delivery vehicle masterminded by Bill Gates or Hugo Chavez or somebody. Even so, you have to admit that the Pfizer and Moderna vaccines made an awfully quick journey through a notoriously slow regulatory bureaucracy.
But here’s the thing: a clock is ticking.
New COVID-19 variants are appearing all over the world. So far, they don’t seem to be more dangerous than the bug that has made our lives miserable for almost a year. But they do seem to spread more easily — up to 50% more easily, according to media accounts.
Modeling suggests the UK variant, which is already known to have shown up in Louisiana, could be the dominant form of the virus here by next month, Gov. John Bel Edwards said recently.
Just as we’re pulling out of the third and most deadly coronavirus surge of the pandemic, we’re faced with the possibility that another, more easily transmissible variant will push case counts up again, fill hospitals and claim more lives.
The ultimate fix is the vaccine. But, barring a miracle, the vaccine rollouts are going too slowly to make a big difference by the time the UK variant takes hold.
Using big round numbers, 40% of Louisiana’s 4.5 million people, or 1.8 million, need to be vaccinated before the phenomenon known as “herd immunity” offers widespread protection against the virus.
So far, a little more than half a million Louisiana people have been vaccinated. Vaccinating the remaining 1.3 million needed to reach the 40% mark would take until well into June, assuming this week’s Louisiana allocation of 80,000 doses remains consistent.
That’s why the governor, Dr. Joseph Kanter of the Louisiana Health Department and others are urging people to double down on mitigation measures: washing hands, wearing masks, staying home when you’re sick and avoiding crowds, even during the approaching Mardi Gras season. Especially during Mardi Gras.
Last summer, before the second wave of coronavirus infections, I estimated how much COVID was around by subtracting the number of people presumed to have recovered and the number of COVID-related deaths from the total number of Louisiana COVID cases. Back then, the number was usually around 8,000.
Now it’s more than 50,000. There’s more COVID-19 around than ever.
That’s why we’re being asked to be safe, so the baseline will be as low as possible if the new variants threaten to push the number of cases, hospitalizations and deaths up again.
Bill Decker is managing editor of The Daily Review.

Lawmaker makes case for hike in gasoline tax

A Louisiana lawmaker predicted Monday his proposed 22-cent increase of the state’s gasoline tax will attract a “groundswell” of support this year, despite the failure of similar efforts in 2017 and 2019.
Gov. John Bel Edwards has said he will not throw his support behind the tax increase. In a weak economy, he said, he doesn’t think the change can attract support from at least two-thirds of the legislators in each chamber, which is necessary for any tax increase.
Rep. Jack McFarland, a Winnfield Republican who addressed the Baton Rouge Press Club on Monday, however, said investing more in Louisiana’s ailing infrastructure would help the state recover from the COVID-19-related recession. The state has a $15 billion road maintenance backlog and a $13 billion wish list for new capacity, and the system’s shortcomings create costs for residents and businesses, including extended travel times and vehicle damage, he said.
“Our roads and bridges are crumbling underneath us,” McFarland said.
McFarland’s legislation has not been filed ahead of the April legislative session. He said it immediately would increase the gas tax by 10 cents, then add 2 cents a year until the increase reaches 22 cents.
Louisiana’s gas tax is among the nation’s lowest and has not been increased in more than 30 years. Louisiana drivers pay 38.4 cents per gallon in taxes, including 20 cents to the state. McFarland’s proposal would more than double the state portion.
Each additional penny in tax would raise about $30 million, McFarland said. The additional revenue also will help state officials draw down $780 million in federal matching dollars that otherwise would go to other states, he said.
McFarland said 60% of the new money would go toward preservation of existing infrastructure, with 40% going to new projects. Specific projects McFarland’s legislation will call for include a new Interstate 10 bridge over the Calcasieu River, a new Mississippi River bridge, and the widening of Interstate 12 and Interstate 20, among others.
McFarland also wants to ban using for roads and bridges capital outlay money meant for deferred maintenance of state buildings.
The last bill to raise the state’s gas tax, which the late Rep. Steve Carter carried in 2019, was bottled up in committee and never got a floor vote. That year was an election year for state lawmakers.
The Louisiana chapter of Americans for Prosperity, a conservative group, fought the tax hike the last time around.
“Louisianans were clear that this was a bad idea in 2017 and 2019,” James Lee, the group’s deputy state director, said in a recent social media post. “With 320,000 out of work, it’s still a bad idea that will fail once again.”

JOHN FRANCIS PECORARO

November 10, 1950 — January 30, 2021
John Francis Pecoraro, age 70, a native of Baton Rouge, LA and resident of Findlay, OH passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family on January 30, 2021.
He was born to the late Sam and Helena Pecoraro on November 10, 1950.
A retiree of Cooper Tire and Rubber Co., he loved automobiles, traveling, gardening, and visiting family and friends, especially his granddaughter, Frankie. He was well known for his inquisitive nature, kind charisma and unforgettable “Johnnyisms.” He was a loving man who never hesitated to help his family and friends. He was immensely proud of his children and let the world know it.
Those left to cherish his precious memory are his wife of 41 years, Deanna, his two children, Jill Pecoraro and Kevin (Alexandra) Pecoraro, and his granddaughter, Francis Faye. He is also survived by two brothers, William (Alice) Pecoraro, Richard (Monica) Pecoraro; three sisters, Carolyn (Burton) Dupuis, Kay (Don) Summers, Kathy (Henry) Schexnayder and numerous nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his parents, and sister Elizabeth (Walt) Reinhardt.
The family would like to thank the compassionate staffs at Ochsner St. Mary and Ochsner Medical Center Jefferson especially Dr. William (Bill) Cefalu and Dr. Shaun Yockelson.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the National Kidney Foundation or your local COVID relief fund.
Visitation for John will be held on Wednesday, February 10, 2021, from 9 a.m. until 10:45 a.m. at Hargrave Funeral Home. A mass of Christian Burial will be held on February 10 at 11 a.m. at Sacred Heart Church with Father Toto presiding. Following Mass John will be cremated as per his wishes and his cremains will be buried in Roselawn Cemetery in Baton Rouge.
Due to the current COVID situation masks are required at the Funeral Home and the Church. Please remember to Social Distance.

MARY MARCANTEL BELLARD

October 14, 1938 — February 5, 2021
Mary Marcantel Bellard, 82, a resident of Patterson for the past 56 years, passed from this life into eternity on Friday, February 5, 2021, surrounded in love at her home. Born in Oakdale, LA on October 14, 1938, Mary was the eldest of four children born to Hillary and Mary Marcantel.
Her memory will be forever cherished by her son and daughter-in-law, Brian Bellard Sr. and Pauline Bellard; daughters-in-law, Carmen Bellard and Myla Bellard Bartenope; nine grandchildren, Kurt Bellard Jr., Kimberly Bellard, Christina Lange, Brian Bellard Jr., Jessica St. Martin, Andrea Bellard, Angela Mahaffey, Rodney Bellard Jr. and April Bellard; 16 great-grandchildren; one great-great-grandchild; one nephew; and a host of extended family and friends.
She was preceded in death by her husband, Ray Louis Bellard Sr.; four children, Kurt Bellard Sr., Charlene Bellard Wetsel, Rodney Bellard Sr. and Ray Bellard Jr.; her mother, Mary Delphine Fuselier Marcantel; her father and his wife, Hillary and Montrell Marcantel; and her three siblings, Loretia Plemons, Frances Daugherty and Simon Marcantel.
A gathering of family and friends will be held at Ibert’s Mortuary in Patterson on Wednesday, February 10, 2021, from 10:00 a.m. until 1:00 p.m. at which time the Holy Rosary will be prayed followed by dismissal from the funeral home.
Funeral services will be held Wednesday at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Patterson during a 2:00 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial. Monsignor J. Douglas Courville, JCL will be the Celebrant for the Mass. Interment will follow in St. Joseph Cemetery where she will be laid to rest with her husband and children.
The family extends a heartfelt thank you to the Patterson Healthcare Center, Dr. Natalie Dishman, Dr. Francis Metz III, and Journey Hospice for taking such wonderful care of Mary.
Family and friends may view the obituary online by visiting www.iberts.com and are encouraged to share their condolences, cherished memories, love, and support for the family.
Arrangements have been entrusted to Ibert’s Mortuary, Inc., 1111 Lia Street, Patterson, LA 70392, (985) 395-7873.

RAYMOND DOUGLAS HOOD

Raymond Douglas Hood, 82, a native of Spring Hill, LA and resident of Des Allemands, LA, passed away on Wednesday, February 3, 2021.
A memorial Mass will be celebrated at St. Stephen Catholic Church in Berwick, LA, on Saturday, April 10th at 11 a.m. with burial to follow in Berwick Memorial Cemetery.
Raymond is survived by his wife of 55 years, Lana Chauvin Hood; son, Brian A. Hood (Vicky); grandson, Parker Douglas Hood; and numerous nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his parents, B.D. and Mettie Hood; brothers, Benny L. Hood and Thomas Waymon Hood; and sister, Norma Jean Wreyford.
In lieu of flowers, donations to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.
Falgout Funeral Home, 3838 Highway One, Raceland, Louisiana, 985-537-5261, is entrusted with arrangements.

Former Patterson standout among Nicholls recruits

Nicholls State University signed five recruits — including a former Patterson High standout — Wednesday, bringing the total to 13 for the 2021 signing class.
Linebacker Nehemiah Augustus, a Memphis transfer and Patterson alum, is among the signees.
In addition to Augustus, other February signees were defensive lineman Myles Vigne (Warren Easton), a New Mexico State transfer; offensive lineman Cru Blanchard (Assumption); defensive back Tyler Morton (Destrehan); and running back Jaylon Spears (Brother Martin). Blanchard and Morton follow in their fathers’ footsteps as Michael Blanchard and Allen Morton played football for the Colonels.
As for Augustus, he played in 39 games combined during the 2017-19 seasons for Memphis. He recorded 43 total tackles (31 solo), 2.5 tackles for loss and one pass breakup.
Prior to signing with Memphis, Augustus started for four years at Patterson. As a senior, he was a Louisiana Football Coaches Association All-State First Team and a Louisiana Sports Writers Association Class 3A honorable mention selection.
During his final season as a Lumberjack, Augustus, had 88 tackles, five tackles for loss, two sacks, six interceptions, 11 pass breakups and two forced fumbles.
The District 8-3A Most Valuable Player, Augustus played linebacker, safety and wide receiver.
He also was an All-District 8-3A honoree as a return specialist.
Nicholls is scheduled to open its spring season on Feb. 19 at home against Lincoln College before starting its six-game Southland Conference schedule. The Colonels were favored to three-peat as league champions, edging Sam Houston by two points in the pre-season poll.

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