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‘Helpful’ husband is caught twice with younger women

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 26 years. Five years ago, my husband gave a young lady $5,000 through credit card charges over a six-month period. We are not wealthy. When I found the charges in our credit report, he took a second job to pay it off.
I don’t think their relationship was sexual because he is impotent. It was hurtful. While he was taking this young lady shopping, he told me he was at work.
Recently, I (accidentally) caught him going to another young lady’s apartment to help her with things like hanging a TV. I don’t care if he helps people. What I DO care about is his sneaking around to do it. I have tried talking to him about why he feels he needs to sneak. He has no answer. What makes men sneak?
DECEIVED IN KENTUCKY

DEAR DECEIVED: Your husband may fear your disapproval of his relationships — however platonic they may be — with these younger women. What makes people of both genders sneak, by the way, is usually a sense of guilt.

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend, my 33-year-old son, his girlfriend and their 4-year-old son all live with me. They are expecting their second child. I own the home and pay all the bills (utilities, phone, food, etc.).
The problem is, my kids don’t like my boyfriend. His grandkids call me Grandma, so I would like my grandkids to call him Grandpa. My son and his girlfriend won’t allow their son to do it. They insist on calling him by his first name.
I asked for a compromise and to call him Uncle. They refuse and say he didn’t “earn” that name. I said it’s just teaching the children to respect their elders. When I grew up and when I raised my son, we called older people Aunty and Uncle. I’m not sure what to do because we all live in the same house, and I would like all of us to get along.
WISHING FOR RESPECT IN HAWAII

DEAR WISHING: You may have taught your son to respect his elders when he was growing up, but it appears he has had a serious memory lapse. Shame on him.
Because you foot all of the bills for the roof over his and his family’s heads as well as the food in their mouths, remind him that you are the head of that household, and you will not have anyone with whom you are involved disrespected. As it stands, you and your boyfriend are being disrespected, so as head of the household, please assert yourself.

DEAR ABBY: Our son, “Justin,” is getting married. He told his dad the other day that his fiancée would like for my husband to go with Justin to his salon to get his hair cut and beard trimmed for the wedding. My husband is upset about it because he feels his soon-to-be daughter-in-law is implying that his haircut isn’t good enough. As the wife and future mother-in-law, I’m unsure how to handle this situation. Help, please.
GROOMING GROOM’S DAD IN GEORGIA

DEAR GGDIG: Try to get your offended spouse to laugh about it. Point out that EVERYONE looks better with a fresh haircut and a trim. Even you and me. Most people want to spruce up and make themselves more presentable for a special event. Why should your husband be any different?
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Number of La. vaccine providers tops 560

The Louisiana Department of Health announced Monday that 560 providers will get a share of the state’s COVID-19 vaccine doses this week.

Although supplies are limited, this week’s allocation from the federal government is expected to be the biggest yet and include about 38,000 doses of the newly approved Johnson & Johnson vaccine.

Vaccinations are by appointment only, officials said. The list of providers, including contact information, is available at covidvaccine.la.gov. Residents also can call 211 to find a nearby provider.

Providers include 181 chain pharmacies, 161 independent pharmacies, 61 hospitals, 50 public health providers, 28 urgent cares, 22 federally qualified health centers, 22 medical practices, 13 rural health clinics and 22 other health care providers and can be found in every parish of the state, LDH said.

The Johnson & Johnson vaccine requires a single dose to get the full benefit, rather than two doses of the Pfizer-BioNTech or Moderna vaccines. It also is less delicate and easier to store, which creates more options for distribution, Dr. Joseph Kanter with LDH said last week.

State officials expected to receive more than 130,000 doses this week including all three types.

More than 1.6 million of the state’s estimated 4.65 million residents are eligible to be vaccinated. Anyone who is at least 65 years old is eligible.

Other eligible groups include:

• Dialysis providers and patients;

• Ambulatory and outpatient providers and staff;

• Behavioral health providers and staff;

• Urgent care clinic providers and staff;

• Community care providers and staff;

• Dental care providers and staff;

• Nonemergency medical transportation providers and staff;

• Professional home care providers (including hospice workers) and home care recipients, including older and younger people with disabilities older than 16 who receive community or home-based care and clients of home health agencies;

• Interpreters and support service providers working in community and clinic-based settings, and clients who are both deaf and blind;

• Health-related support personnel, including lab staff, mortuary staff who have contact with corpses and pharmacy staff;

• Schools of allied health students, residents and staff;

• State and local essential COVID-19 emergency response personnel;

• Some elections staff for the March and April elections;

• Teachers and any other support staff working on site in K-12 or day care;

• All pregnant residents;

• People ages 55-64 with at least one of the conditions listed by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention as placing them at an "increased risk of severe illness from the virus that causes COVID-19,” including cancer, chronic kidney disease, chronic obstructive pulmonary disease, Down syndrome, heart conditions (including but not limited to heart failure, coronary artery disease or cardiomyopathies), weakened immune system from solid organ transplant, obesity, sickle cell disease, smoking and type 2 diabetes mellitus.

Only four new confirmed COVID cases, no fatalities locally

St. Mary had three new confirmed COVID-19 cases, and Assumption had one in the Louisiana Office of Public Health report for the 24 hours ending at midday Monday. St. Martin's case count was adjusted downward, and no local fatalities were reported.

St. Mary now has recorded 3,336 confirmed COVID cases with 804 listed as probable since the pandemic began. The death toll here remains at 108 confirmed with 12 listed as probably COVID-related.

Assumption's pandemic case count is now at 1,535 confirmed with 556 probable. The death toll is 29 confirmed with five probable.

St. Martin's confirmed case count was reduced by one to 4,432 with 410 probable. The parish has recorded 102 confirmed COVID deaths with 10 probable.

Statewide:

--408 new cases raise the pandemic count to 370,247 confirmed with 60,257 probable.

--20 newly reported fatalities raise the toll to 8,941 confirmed with 687 probable.

--1 fewer COVID-positive patient is in a Louisiana hospital, lowering the total to 629.

--The number of people on ventilators remained the same at 91.

Hot second quarter keeps Patterson ahead in playoff opener

PATTERSON — A big second-quarter run by the No. 9 Patterson Lumberjacks gave the home team a comfortable lead Friday against No. 24 Frederick A. Douglass. And it proved even more valuable than it seemed at the time in the Class 3A bi-district game.
That’s because a scoring drought for much of the fourth quarter helped Frederick Douglass (14-7) erase much of the deficit before Patterson (23-8) held on for a 59-54 victory.
First-year Patterson coach Warrell Span said his squad needs to continue playing hard and needs to assemble a complete game effort.
“We just got to keep playing hard,” Span said. “We need every minute we can to win these games.”
While Patterson led just 13-11 entering the second quarter, the Lumberjacks outscored Frederick Douglass 26-11 in the second stanza for a 38-22 halftime advantage.
The scoring outburst included five three-pointers, including four accounting for the Lumberjacks’ final five baskets of the period.
Tylon Walton had two three-pointers in the quarter, while Khylin Brooks, Dedrick Gant and Dillon Gunner each had one trey.
“It was real big,” Span said of the scoring outburst, adding the team has been working in the gym on shooting, among other things, to improve.
Patterson extended its lead to as much as 51-30 with about 1:10 left in the third quarter on a basket by Louis Jones. Walton connected on another basket in the quarter, and Patterson led 53-34 after three quarters.
However, that’s when things got shaky for the home squad.
Frederick Douglass slowly began to chip away in the fourth quarter, while Patterson couldn’t get field goals or free throws to fall.
Frederick Douglass went on a 14-0 run to begin the fourth quarter.
After James Nathan made a basket to begin the quarter, the Bobcats converted a three-point play after turning a Patterson turnover into a layup by Tony Brown and ensuing free throw to cut the deficit to 53-39 with 6:47 remaining in the game.
Nathan and Alexander Henry connected on back-to-back three-pointers for Frederick Douglass for their next points to cut the deficit to 53-45 with 4:20 remaining, while Brown added a basket with about 3:40 left to trim the deficit to 53-47.
Patterson’s scoring drought finally ended when Walton connected on the second of two free-throw attempts with 3:28 left for a 54-47 Patterson lead.
“Those guys were athletic, well coached,” Frederick Douglass coach Kerwin Forges said of Patterson. “I think our guys kind of ran out of gas at the end. We obviously were just pressing a little bit, trying to make some shots and do a couple things that we’re not used to doing or not things that we practice on doing to try to get a quick bucket, but I’m very, very proud of our guys and the effort that they put in and the fight.”
The Lumberjacks’ first field goal of the quarter came about a minute later on a Kendall Francois basket with 2:30 left for a 56-48 advantage en route to the win.
“I just feel like what helped us the most is we played great defense, and it helped us from those missed throws that we had,” Span said.
However, he said they have to work on free throws. The Lumberjacks struggled mightily from the free-throw line Friday where they made just 2 of 16 attempts.
Span said the team has struggled “somewhat” at the free throw line this year, but he said it would get corrected.
“We’ll be all right, though,” he said. “I promise we’ll be all right. No questions asked.”
Josiah Jennings led Patterson with a double-double with 14 points and 16 rebounds. He also had two assists, two steals and two blocks.
Other top Patterson contributors were as follows: Walton, 19 points, five assists, one rebound and one steal; Louis Jones, seven points, five rebounds and two blocks; Gunner, five points, five assists, two rebounds and one steal; Kendall Francois, four points, eight assists, two rebounds, two steals and one block; Taij Tillman, four points, one assist, four rebounds and one steal; Brooks, three points and one rebound; and Gant, three points.
Brown led Frederick Douglass with 19 points, while Nathan also reached double figures with 18 points.

Central Catholic takes on Sacred Heart; Patterson heads into second round of hoop playoffs

Two Tri-City area boys basketball teams will play in the regional round of the high school playoffs Tuesday in their respective brackets.
Central Catholic will host Sacred Heart in Division IV action, while Patterson will travel to Booker T. Washington in New Orleans in Class 3A. Both games will begin at 6 p.m.
Below are previews of the contests.

Central Catholic vs.
Sacred Heart
The No. 6 Central Catholic Eagles’ postseason will begin when they host No. 11 Sacred Heart.
Unlike the nonselect brackets, select brackets do not include bi-district round action, so teams begin the postseason in the second round.
Central Catholic enters the playoffs with an 18-4 mark. The squad finished 10-0 in District 7-1A action.
The Eagles have won three straight, most recently defeating Vermilion Catholic 51-45 at home on Feb. 19.
This season, the squad defeated Houma Christian, Barbe, Berwick, J.S. Clark Leadership Academy, Morgan City, Vandebilt Catholic, Lutcher, Centerville (twice), Hanson Memorial (twice), South Terrebonne, Covenant Christian (twice), Highland Baptist (twice) and Vermilion Catholic (twice).
Sacred Heart is 12-12 overall and finished 3-3 in District 5-1A action.
The squad has defeated Pine Prairie, Mamou, Ascension Episcopal, Oak Hill, Glenmora, Catholic-P.C. (twice), Bunkie, St. Edmund (twice), Westminster Christian and Grant.
Sacred Heart lost its regular season and District 5-1A finale to Westminster Christian 66-59 on Feb. 11.
Central Catholic and Sacred Heart have no common opponents.

Patterson vs. Booker T. Washington
The No. 9 Patterson Lumberjacks will hit the road for the second round of the Class 3A playoffs when they travel to No. 8 Booker T. Washington in New Orleans.
Booker T. Washington advanced to the second round after defeating No. 25 Iota 66-48 in the first-round in New Orleans Friday.
Meanwhile, Patterson held off No. 24 Frederick Douglass 59-54 in other first-round action at Patterson.
Booker T. Washington enters the second round with a 14-8 overall mark and a 4-1 record in District 10-3A.
Booker T. Washington’s other wins this season were against South Plaquemines, Edna Karr, Scotlandville, Plaquemine, Chalmette, Southern Lab, McDonogh No. 35, Sci Academy, Landry-Walker, M.L. King Charter, Ellender, N.O. Charter Science and Math and West Jefferson.
Patterson and Booker T. Washington have one common opponent in Ellender. Patterson lost to the Patriots, while Booker T. Washington defeated the Houma squad.

Patterson City Council will look at 2021 tax rates

The Patterson City Council will consider introducing ordinances that will set city property tax rates for the year and take another run at setting rules for subdividing land into what are known as “flag lots.”
The council will meet at 6 p.m. Tuesday at Patterson City Hall, 1314 Main St. To comply with COVID-19 rules, the audience is limited to 25% of capacity, and masks are required.
Two ordinances on the agenda for introduction set property tax rates for 2021. The taxes are an 8.30-mill levy for general city operations and a 14-mill tax for the waterworks bond issue.
A mill is 1/10th cent of tax applied to each dollar of a property’s assessed valuation. Residential property is assessed at 10% of its market value.
The 8.3 mills add $83 to the tax bill for a home with a market value of $100,000. The 14 mills add $140 to the bill for a $100,000 home. Louisiana’s homestead exemption does not apply to city property taxes.
If the council introduces the ordinances, a final passage vote would occur at the April 6 meeting.
Also on the agenda is introduction of an ordinance regulating a certain kind of lot.
When a tract is subdivided into two lots, one of the lots may not have its own street frontage. So a thin strip of land through the lot with direct frontage may be set aside for access to the street and to utility infrastructure.
On plats, the thin strip resembles a flag pole and the new lot resembles a flag, so they’re called flag lots.
At the Feb. 2 meeting, the council looked at an ordinance that would allow the flag pole strip to be either part of the new lot or a perpetual right of way through the lot with direct street frontage.
But William Gil, who was at the meeting to be introduced as the city’s new planning and zoning officer, said parish authorities require the strip to be part of the new lot and not just a right of way.
The new ordinance is likely to take that view into account.
Also on the agenda for Tuesday:
—An introductory ordinance creating the Patterson Municipal Cemetery.
—A request for a trailer park at 1130 Lia St.
—A request to subdivide property on Freeman Street.

Edwards budget avoids cuts with COVID aid

BATON ROUGE — The Edwards administration on Friday proposed a budget for fiscal 2022 that would use federal coronavirus aid to avoid cuts and provide additional funds to K-12 and higher education.
The $36.6 billion budget provides annual pay increases of $400 to K-12 public school teachers and $200 for K-12 support staff, a proposal that teachers unions immediately criticized as too small.
Jay Dardenne, the commissioner of administration, told legislators that the budget also includes a $56 million increase in funding for the state’s higher education system, $19.8 million of which is intended for faculty pay raises.
Besides the increase for higher education, the $186 million in total increases in spending include:
Department of Education: $40 million for the teacher pay raises.
TOPS scholarships and GO Grants for Louisiana college students: $23.2 million.
Corrections and local housing for inmates: $59.4 million.
Governor’s Office of Homeland Security and Emergency Preparedness: $11.5 million.
Net change in debt service: $14.3 million.
“We’re in a better place than many thought possible,” Edwards said Thursday. “This is some hopeful and bright news in a period of time that hasn’t been so bright.”
The lack of cuts is due—for the most part—to hundreds of millions in federal support. In addition to aid provided to healthcare and higher education, stimulus checks encouraged Louisianans to spend more and kept the state’s sales tax revenue from declining as much as expected.
The federal government will pay a larger share of Medicaid payments. States are responsible for a portion of the Medicaid funding each year, but because of the pandemic, Louisiana’s contribution is significantly less than in previous years.
“This is the thing that has come in and saved the day for the budget when you come right down to it,” said Dardenne.
The budget does not include any money that the state might receive from the new COVID-19 aid package that President Joe Biden has proposed. It also does not include any extra funding for early childhood education. Dardenne said he hoped the state would be able to finance that through some of the direct federal aid for education.
The governor’s proposal kicks off the budget process. The Legislature, which meets from April 12 to June 10, will make its own decisions about the budget. It needs to pass a balanced budget before the next fiscal year starts on June 1.

KENNETH 'KENNY' JOSEPH HIDALGO JR.

In Loving Memory
Kenneth “Kenny” Joseph Hidalgo, Jr., age 71, of Morgan City, LA passed away at The Crossing at Clarity Hospice in Baton Rouge, LA on Thursday, February 25, 2021.
Kenny was born and raised in Morgan City, LA. He received his Bachelor’s degree in History from Nicholls State University. Kenny worked most of his career in Marine related industries and retired from his final employment as security for Allied Universal. He enjoyed his time socializing and playing at the casinos, and he loved watching LSU football with friends and family.
Kenny is survived by his daughter, Amanda Hidalgo (Timothy Hasten); his sister, Laura Hidalgo; his brother, Robert Hidalgo (Melissa); a host of furry grandchildren (favorites being Hendrix and Samia); nephews, Curt Matherne, Marc Matherne, Kenneth Daigle, Jayson Hidalgo and Devin Hidalgo; and nieces, Carly Matherne and Lauren Daigle Poling.
He was predeceased by his parents, Kenneth Hidalgo, Sr. and Margie Toerner Hidalgo, and his sister, Carolyn “Peanut” Hidalgo.
Per his wishes, Kenny will not have a service and will be placed near his beloved mother’s and uncle’s resting site. In honor of Kenny, please raise a glass for him at the next LSU football game. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Kenny’s name to the American Cancer Society or to the American Stroke Association.

WINNIE KULLMAN HEAD

Winnie Kullman Head, 85, of Ringgold, Georgia, died February 11, 2021.
She is survived by a brother, James Kullman Sr. of Morgan City; a sister, Audrey King of Ponchatoula; a son, Kary Head of Ringgold, Georgia; seven grand-children; three step-grandchildren; five great-grandchildren; and one step great-grandchild.
She was preceded in death by her husband, parents, four brothers, a son and a grandson.
Burial will be Thursday at 1:30 p.m. in Chattanooga National Cemetery in Chattanooga, Tennessee.
W.L. Wilson and Sons Funeral home of Oglethorpe, Georgia, is in charge of arrangements.

Area deputies make arrests in property crimes

(Editor’s Note: The charges listed here and the narratives that go with them are provided by the police agencies that made the arrests. Guilt or innocence has not been determined in court.)

Local authorities made three arrests for crimes involving stolen property or burglary last week, including one of a Morgan City woman accused of possessing a stolen dirt bike in Bayou L’Ourse.

Assumption
Sheriff Leland Falcon reported these arrests:
—Shauntel Nicole Hartdegen, 37, Lake Palourde Road, Morgan City, was arrested Tuesday on a charge of illegal possession of stolen things.
On Tuesday, deputies responded to a complaint in Bayou L’Ourse relating to a previously reported stolen dirt bike. The complainant reported that he had located the stolen dirt bike on Elaine Street, and the bike had been painted.
Deputies went to where the dirt bike was and determined that the bike was indeed the same one that had been reported stolen.
While deputies were at the location, Hartdegen was interviewed, and it was determined that she was in possession of the stolen dirt bike.
Hartdegen was arrested and booked into the Assumption Parish Detention Facility and was released on a $5,000 bond.
—Juvenile male, 16 at the time of the offense, Labadieville, was booked Tuesday on charges of simple burglary and theft of a vehicle with a value of over $25,000.
The arrest was in connection with the theft of a vehicle from a residence on Cherry Street in Labadieville.
During a preliminary investigation, detectives learned that the vehicle was reported as suspicious to Thibodaux Police Department in the early morning hours prior to the victim noticing it was stolen.
Detectives responded to the Thibodaux area and located the vehicle. The car was processed for physical evidence prior to being returned to the victim.
Detectives continued their investigation. Evidence recovered pointed towards a current 17-year-old male, who was 16 at the time of the auto theft, as being a suspect.
In January 2021, detectives received a scientific analysis report from Louisiana State Police Crime Lab concerning physical evidence collected. It was learned that the same male juvenile, who was 16 at the time of the burglary but 17 at the time the analysis report was received, matched submitted evidence collected from the recovered vehicle.
The juvenile, already in jail on unrelated charges, was booked on the new charges. His incarceration continues.

St. Martin
Sheriff Becket Breaux reported these arrests:
—Samuel Gordon, 34, Main Highway, Breaux Bridge, was arrested Thursday on a charge of simple burglary.
—Jaquan Johnson, 21, St. Ann Street, St. Martinville was arrested Thursday by the St. Martinville Police Department on a charge of home invasion.
—Eddie Wiltz, 34, Patin Street, Breaux Bridge, was arrested Thursday on charges of improper lane usage, possession of marijuana with intent to distribute, aggravated flight from an officer; obstruction of justice; transactions involving the proceeds of drug offenses; all drivers must be licensed; distribution of drug paraphernalia; and taking contraband to or from a penal institution.

Morgan City
Police Chief James F. Blair reported that over the last 24-hour period, the Morgan City Police Department responded to 34 calls for service and made these arrests:
—Landon Acosta, 18, Marcel Drive, Morgan City, at 10:35 a.m. Thursday on a charge of battery of a dating partner and aggravated battery.
—Robert Pierce, 36, Versen Street, Berwick, was arrested 10:35 a.m. Thursday on a charge of simple battery.
Both Acosta and Pierce were arrested after officers got several calls about a fight in the area of Federal Avenue on Onstead Street.
Officers located Acosta and Pierce and learned that Acosta had committed a battery on a subject.  Acosta and Pierce then started to fight with each other, during which time Acosta armed himself with a weapon and struck Pierce. 
Both subjects were placed under arrest and transported to the Morgan City Police Department for booking.

St. Mary
Sheriff Blaise Smith advised that over the last 24-hour reporting period, the Sheriff’s Office responded to 31 complaints and made this arrest:
—Dylan Anthony Oubre, 32, Bayou Vista, was arrested, at 5:12 p.m. Thursday on a charge of possession of marijuana. Oubre was released on a summons to appear May 24.

Berwick
Police Chief David Leonard reported this arrest:
—Jason J. Olivier, 38, Cleveland Street, Patterson, was arrested at 11:17 p.m. Thursday on a charge of possession of drug paraphernalia.
At 11:05 p.m. Thursday, officers responded to an apartment complex in the 3500 block of La. 182 regarding a disturbance. Olivier was identified as the person causing the disturbance.
He was found to be in possession of items of drug paraphernalia. Olivier was placed under arrest and booked into the Berwick Jail, where he remains in lieu of a $1,500 bond. 

Franklin
Police Chief Morris Beverly said the Franklin Police Department responded to 10 complaints over the past 24 hours and made the following arrests:
—Dylan Carter, 37, Pratt Street, New Iberia, was arrested at 9:45 a.m. Thursday on a warrant for New Iberia Police Department on a charge of theft. Carter was booked, processed, and released to appear in New Iberia City Court.
—Ashley Adams, 37, La. 182, Franklin, was arrested at 10:34 a.m. Thursday on a warrant for 3rd Ward City Court for failure to appear on the charges of driving under suspension, failure to dim headlights, expired motor vehicle inspection sticker, no insurance, no registration and two headlights required.
Adams was booked, processed and released on a $500 bond.

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