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Cross-dressing causes fracture in solid marriage

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been together for 11 years, married for eight. We have been through a lot together, which has served to strengthen our marriage. My husband is my Prince Charming and my happily forever after.
Recently, he has discovered that he likes wearing women’s clothes. It started with him wearing women’s underwear under his clothes, which didn’t bother me. I even bought him a few pair I liked. It has progressed quickly.
He assures me that he isn’t gay, he does not want to become a woman or want to dress in women’s clothes full time. However, some of his behaviors have changed, and his wearing women’s clothing has increased. When I tried discussing my concerns with him, he said I was being irrational. We fought, and I thought we had worked some things out, but he still has an attitude.
I’m terrified that this is the beginning of the end of my marriage, and I don’t want to lose him. But I also don’t know just how much of this I can accept or how far he wants to go. He says if I can’t accept it, he will stop doing it. But we will both know that he has that desire, and I don’t want to stifle something that seems to mean so much to him. I have no one I can talk to about this, Abby. Please help.
STRUGGLING IN FLORIDA

DEAR STRUGGLING: Take the opportunity to learn all you can about cross-dressing. More men than you may think engage in it, and the majority are heterosexual. An excellent support group for cross-dressers and wives of men who need (not “LIKE”) to cross-dress is The Society for the Second Self (Tri Ess). Its website is tri-ess.org. Go there and you will find the support and answers you’re looking for.
Keep the lines of communication with your husband open and honest. Only the two of you can determine how to navigate through this. For many couples, it’s not necessarily a deal- breaker.

DEAR ABBY: When I was 21, I got pregnant with “Earl,” a guy who had nothing to his name but a bicycle. It was three weeks after we met. Earl was 24. Two years later we split. I was working and he was a stay-at-home dad, and I couldn’t stand it.
Five years later, I married a very wealthy man, moved to another country and lived a life of luxury. Thirteen years later we split. I left our small island and moved back, still well off on my own.
Earl was my rock and is a totally different man now. Sixteen years later, I have fallen head over heels for him. He has become everything I’ve always wanted. Our son wasn’t crazy about it at first (he’s 18), but now loves it. Earl’s mother said she knew it would end up this way. My parents have reservations. Do you think we have a fighting chance?
NEW EXPAT IN NEVADA

DEAR NEW EXPAT: Earl is not the person he was and, frankly, neither are you. Do the two of you have a fighting chance? Absolutely.
However, before marrying anyone again, it is important that you discuss this with an attorney and have in place a signed prenuptial agreement. While it may not seem romantic, it’s the intelligent thing to do.
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Mayor candidates with varied experience meet for forum

One has 20 years of government experience on the St. Mary Parish Council. One built a Morgan City business that employs 190-200 people. Another is making his first bid for public office after working for decades in a highly technical field.

They're the men who are running to become Morgan City's mayor. Voters got a look at them side by side in a KWBJ YouTube livestream Wednesday, a last look before early voting begins Friday. Early voting runs through Oct. 27, excluding Sundays. Election Day is Nov. 3.

The political newcomer is Don Hicks, a Vietnam veteran as well as a veteran of Entergy's commercial nuclear power program.

Hicks said Morgan City should take advantage of its assets, including the highway and commercial waterways.

"I would go in and try to build on what we've got and make it better," Hicks said.

Lee Dragna is a former chairman of the Consolidated Gravity Drainage District No. 2 board, In the private sector, he built LAD Services by diversifying its barge-building operations.

"I got out of Morgan City into the world and brought the money back," Dragna said.

Kevin Voisin is the former Parish Council member who said Morgan City's economic challenges require experience beginning with inauguration.

"There will be no apprenticeship or on-the-job training," Voisin said.

Highlights from the forum:

--Economic diversification. Dragna pointed to his own experience with LAD again, saying the company went into areas such as repairs, and even performed some work for the SpaceX effort.

Diversification means building a base beyond the oil and gas industry, he said. "Without new industry, Morgan City will not survive," Dragna said.

Hicks talked about the need to make contacts with business and industry .

Voisin said that as a Parish Council member he helped make infrastructure improvements happen on Industrial Road and Levee Road. It's important to work with the parish economic development director who will succeed Frank Fink next year.

"I'm not going to sit behind a desk in City Hall," Voisin said.

The one real instance of head-to-head disagreement in the forum came after Dragna said Morgan City needs "to fend for itself" on economic development. "Morgan City needs to go out on its own," Dragna said.

Hicks disagreed, saying the city should work with parish and state officials. "They have the resources we don't," Hicks said.

--The health of local businesses. Business people tell Hicks what their biggest need is. "They need customers," he said.

They also need reliable infrastructure and utilities, Hicks said. He'd like to see more effort to promote tourism, bringing people into the area, and more encouragement of training for local people in trade schools and college.

Morgan City's brand as a city is being an oil and gas town, Dragna said. "Morgan City needs to be branded in a different way."

Voisin hopes to promote collaboration among groups such as Morgan City Main Street; St. Mary Excel, which commissioned a study on development opportunities in Morgan City and Berwick; and the Cajun Coast Convention and Tourism Commission. He said he wants to visit small businesses in his first 30 days in office.

--Housing. Voisin suggested look at ways to support housing development with bonds as Berwick did with the Renwick Subdivision and to encourage development by Morgan City's Hellenic Corp. Dragna also wants a look at the Renwick example and said he worked with Hellenic during his time on the drainage district board.

"We need to allow Hellenic to finish what they started," Dragna said.

Hicks focused on the need to rehabilitate existing homes in need of repair. Otherwise, he believes, new construction will result in an increase in the number of unoccupied homes. He said 57% of the city's homes are owner-occupied, 34% are rentals and 14% are unoccupied.

-Things to do for young and old. Dragna said the focus of city recreation should go beyond sports, maybe with offerings for young people interested in technology. There should be a central place for adults and teens to enjoy.

Both Dragna and Hicks said the city needs a new swimming pool.

Promoting tourism would help Morgan City, Hicks said. "By increasing tourism, we're creating opportunities for everybody, not just the people coming in," Hicks said.

Hicks believes the city needs a teen center.

--A clean city and blighted property. A question relayed by moderator Danika Foley asked why Morgan City hasn't won a Clean City contest since 2010.

There are limits on litter enforcement, Hicks said. But the city could help itself by fixing sidewalks and potholes He suggested that community service requirements for offenders should include cleaning up litter.

"When you drive into the city, it's dirty and it's not kept up," Hicks said.

Voisiin likes the community service idea and wants to use jail trustee labor for cleaning up. He'd also like to see the return of the Morgan City Garden Club, and would ask restaurants to make sure trash receptacles are available near their drive-throughs.

Dragna said the city government doesn't set a good example, allowing weeds to grow around signs, for example.

"We have to get the people of the city involved," Dragna said. "It's their city. It's our city."

Blighted property may be a tougher problem, again because laws are hard to enforce.

Voisin talked about addressing absentee landowners and trying to get shopping centers to remove signs promoting defunct business.

"We need to enforce those ordinances," Dragna said. And grants are available to improve disadvantaged neighborhoods.

Hicks said he's been told by planning and zoning officials that there's little the city can do. But other cities have been more successful, he said.

Orgeron hopes for more turnaround magic vs. Florida

LSU Sports Information
Ed Orgeron is used to going to Gainesville with his back against the wall.
Rewind to 2017. LSU was 3-2, winless in the SEC, and fresh off a home loss to Troy when Orgeron led the Tigers into The Swamp.
They came away with a 17-16 win, salvaging the season and setting the tone for a program that would hoist the national championship trophy 818 days later.
A repeat effort would be awfully nice Saturday. The Tigers are 1-2 for the first time since 1994 and take on a Florida team with a potent offense and a point of its own to prove after a road loss to Texas A&M.
Orgeron's defining trait as a coach has been his ability to catalyze failure into motivation for success. The Tigers need every bit of that energy this week, because to beat the Gators, there is plenty to fix, enough to build off of, and little time to do both.
For Orgeron, it starts with him and his coaching staff, first and foremost.
"It starts with the coaches," Orgeron said Monday. "We've got to coach them better. There's some things going on on that film, some busts, guys running wide open. Not the right calls on the goalline. We didn't block some people. As coaches, we've got to clean stuff up.
"It starts with me. We've got to be accountable. We've got to be detailed."
Time to simplify
The biggest challenge of the week will be to fix a defense that ranks 51st of 76 teams in scoring defense, 71st in total defense, and 75th in passing defense.
Orgeron said the defense will do two things, primarily: change personnel up front to get bigger on te defensive line and stop the run, and simplify coverage schemes.
"We're definitely going to simplify," Orgeron said. "There's no question about that. I'm going to make sure that any defense that's called – Bo's going to call the defense – but I'm going to make sure any one that's called, we run it right, all week. If we don't understand it, we're not going to run it."
In the season opener against Mississippi State, LSU blitzed often and played Cover 1 behind it – man to man across the board with a single deep safety. The Tigers blitzed on 34 of 66 (52%) pass rush snaps and ran Cover 1 on 49 of 78 (63%) of total defensive snaps against Mississippi State, according to Pro Football Focus. But without Consensus All-American corner Derek Stingley, the Tigers struggled in one on one coverage.
That's meant more zone coverage the last two weeks (just 18 of 70 snaps [26%] in cover 1 against Vanderbilt; no stats available yet for Missouri), with success against Vanderbilt and none against Missouri. LSU looked out of sorts against Missouri, with multiple busted coverages allowing wide open receivers to score easily.
"We've got to simplify," Orgeron said. "I told both Steve (Ensminger, LSU's offensive coordinator) and Bo (Pelini, LSU's defensive coordinator) to simplify. Make sure our players can do it. I don't care if we have to play one defense or one coverage. Play it, and play it right."
Brennan Marshall 2020
While the defense has struggled, the offense has not, ranking 5th in passing offense and 17th in scoring and total offense. While far from perfect and with still plenty to fix, the Tigers' have moved the ball effectively, thanks to the continually improving play of Myles Brennan and the sheer dominance of Terrace Marshall Jr.
Brennan had his best day against Missouri, throwing for 430 yard and four touchdowns. Mizzou decided to stack the box and play its safeties closer to the line, and Brennan did a masterful drop throwing it behind them.
Missouri's plan did stop LSU from running the ball consistently, but it left Marshall on an island with space to run into. Last year, Justin Jefferson was the Tigers' dominant threat in the middle of the field, but this year, it's Marshall's territory. On throws of 20+ yards between the hashes, Marshall has caught 4-of-4 targets for 207 yards and 3 touchdowns.
Brennan improved outside of the pocket, completing 5-of-9 passes (with two throwaways) for 70 yards and a touchdown when scrambling. He extended plays with his legs beautifully on his second touchdown to Marshall and another long completion to Marshall down the right sideline. He also improved against pressure, which is usually the area first-year starters struggle with most early.
Brennan shined despite taking an early hit outside of the pocket and dealing with pain the rest of the game. He won't practice Monday while he recovers – Orgeron expects him back Tuesday – but he proved Saturday he had the guts to stand tall when times were tough.
"I'm probably most proud of him for taking that hit on the sideline and coming back," Orgeron said. "The question was, was he tough enough to take a hit? I thought he was.
"But I always said we've got to wait in the game to see if he can do it. And he came back, he stepped up in the pocket, he made great decisions.
"He took the big hit down near the goalline, and he kept on comin'."
Ground work
All is not perfect for LSU's offense. The run game was out of sorts Saturday, which proved costly on a game-ending goal-line stand from Missouri. Twice LSU tried to punch it in on the ground from one yard out, and twice they failed. The two ensuing pass attempts fell incomplete, and the Tigers lost.
"No excuse on the goalline," Orgeron said. "None whatsoever.
"We need to get our best personnel in the game. When we're driving, we should get the best personnel in the game that fits the plays we're calling. We should've had a better plan on the goalline."
Arik Gilbert, who had 97 yards receiving and a touchdown, wasn't in during the crucial goal-line stand. But if the Tigers score on the ground, he's not missed.
Orgeron said Missouri stacked the box – see above – and limited what LSU could do in the run. The Tigers are averaging just 1.39 yards before contact, 31st among 38 Power 5 offenses.
"We do have to be more creative in the run game," Orgeron said. "I believe that when we get our guys outside, especially John Emery, we can get outside and run the football. We've got to be able to run the ball better on first down."
Emery has 98 yards on 13 first down carries this season, but he got just one first down carry Saturday, with 5:08 left in the fourth quarter.
As a result, LSU struggled in third down situations, going 0-for-10 and facing a season-worst 9.7 yards, on average, to move the chains.
But third and short has been the bigger issue for the Tigers in 2020, as they've converted only 50% of their third downs of two yards or fewer.

UL Lafayette, ranked 21st, goes prime time Wednesday

UL Sports Information
After seeing the game rescheduled multiple times, No. 21 Louisiana and Coastal Carolina will scrap in a battle of undefeated teams 6:30 p.m. on ESPN at Cajun Field.
The game, which was previously scheduled for Saturday, was moved Oct. 10, after the Ragin’ Cajuns’ game at Appalachian State was postponed due to COVID-19 issues within the Mountaineers’ program. The game was then pushed back to Oct. 14 due to impacts from Hurricane Delta.
The Ragin’ Cajuns own a 1-1 record against Coastal Carolina, taking the last meeting between the two in Conway, 48-7, last season. A win against Chanticleers would be the program’s first in Lafayette.
 Chris Cotter, Eric Mac Lain and Lericia Harris will call the game for ESPN.
UL won the last meeting 48-7 in November.
Louisiana moved up in the national rankings this week, ranked No. 21 in the AP Top 25 poll and No. 21 in the USA Today Amway Coaches poll.
Menace in the middle
—Lorenzo McCaskill continues to dominate opposing offenses. McCaskill posted a career-high 14 tackles against Georgia Southern, bringing his tackle total up to 36, currently the seventh most in the nation.
His performance marked his third-straight double-digit tackle performance, making him the only player in the Sun Belt to post 10-or-more tackles in all of his games this season.
Slingin’ It
—Levi Lewis has thrown for 723 yards through three games this year, moving him ahead of Roy Henry for seventh place all-time in career passing yards.
Playing centerfield
—Bralen Trahan had a career day against Georgia Southern (Sept. 26), posting a career-high 11 tackles and tallying the fifth interception of his career.Trahan trails Tracy Walker (6) for the most picks by a Cajun in the last five seasons.

 Back in the backfield
—Trey Ragas and Elijah Mitchell are two of six current backs in the FBS that have over 30 career rushing touchdowns
Only two players returning players in the Sun Belt with 25 or more career rushing touchdowns.
The pair enters the season both ranked in the top 10 in program history in career rushing yards.
 
It’s still awesome

—With the help of a last-second 53-yard field goal off the foot of Nate Snyder, Louisiana improved to 3-0 on the year and 2-0 in Sun Belt Conference play with a 20-18 win in its home opener over Georgia Southern.
The made field goal was the seventh of 53 yards or more and tied for the fourth-longest field goal in program history. It was the longest kick since Stevie Artigue hit a 53-yard field goal in 2019.

State amendments put abortion, tax measures, spending on Nov. 3 ballot; find links to PAR, Budget Project analyses

It’s fall in Louisiana, and that means football, gumbo and constitutional amendments.
The state’s 1974 Constitution already has been amended to the point where it’s more amendment than constitution. Voters will choose whether to add seven more amendments when they go to the polls Nov. 3 or vote early beginning Friday and continuing to Oct. 27.
The topics range from the most divisive issue of all, abortion, to the formula for deciding how much money the state government gets to spend.
Here’s a list of the amendments on the Nov. 3 ballot. The accompanying information relies heavily on the Public Affairs Research Council’s often-cited guide to the amendments.

Amendment 1
“Do you support an amendment declaring that, to protect human life, a right to abortion and the funding of abortion shall not be found in the Louisiana Constitution?”

Louisiana already has an amendment that would ban abortions here if the U.S. Supreme Court’s Roe v. Wade decision is overturned. The 1973 ruling prohibits states from outlawing abortion outright.
This amendment has more to do with what other courts might do.
Proponents say courts in other states have interpreted their constitutions as protecting the right to an abortion or upholding government funding of abortions. This amendment is designed to head off similar rulings in Louisiana.

Amendment 2
“Do you support an amendment to permit the presence or production of oil or gas to be included in the methodology used to determine the fair market value of an oil or gas well for the purpose of property assessment?”

Currently, producers pay severance taxes on oil and gas produced, but wells are subject to local property taxes. Assessors are forbidden by the state constitution from taking the income and potential income of a well into account when determining the tax bill. That forces assessors to turn to what some consider less precise measures such as well’s market value.
The amendment would change that by allowing production to be factored into a well’s tax assessment. There’s nothing in the bill that would specifically raise taxes. But PAR’s analysis says the amendment would result in a shift of tax liability away from shut-in wells or wells that produce little to wells that are more productive.

Amendment 3
“Do you support an amendment to allow for the use of the Budget Stabilization Fund, also known as the Rainy Day Fund, for state costs associated with a disaster declared by the federal government?”

The state government has its Budget Stabilization Fund, or Rainy Day Fund, that can be used to cover shortfalls in revenue and meet the constitutional requirement to balance the state budget. Two-thirds of both legislative chambers must agree to tap the fund, and its use is limited to the amount of the anticipated deficit or one-third of the total fund, whichever is smaller.
After a federally declared disaster such as a hurricane or flood, the federal government will often reimburse a large percentage of the state’s disaster response spending. But the required match or the need to spend up front and wait for reimbursement can put a big burden on the state budget.
The amendment would allow Rainy Day Fund money to be used for the match or up-front money. Two-thirds of both legislative chambers must still approve the use of the fund for disaster response, and no more than one-third of the fund can be used for disaster response.

Amendment 4
“Do you support an amendment to limit the growth of the expenditure limit for the state general fund and dedicated funds and to remove the calculation of its growth factor from the Constitution?”

The Louisiana Legislature is required by constitution to balance the state budget and to limit spending to the officially determined estimate of revenue. In addition, the growth in general fund spending and expenditures in various dedicated funds is limited to a percentage that is currently based on the growth in Louisiana’s personal income.
PAR says the current growth factor is 2.97%, for example.
The amendment would require legislators to come up with a new method for determining the growth factor and to limit growth to no more than 5% in any case. Legislators would have the option of changing the growth factor each year provided two-thirds of both chambers go along.
The amendment would take effect in 2023. Under legislation designed to accompany the amendment, the growth limit for fiscal 2024 would average personal income, state GDP, the Consumer Price Index and population growth to fix the growth factor.
In fiscal 2024, the growth factor would be reduced from 2.84% to 1.77%. In 2025, it would fall from 4.59% to 3.37%.

Amendment 5
“Do you support an amendment to authorize local governments to enter into cooperative endeavor ad valorem tax exemption agreements with new or expanding manufacturing establishments for payments in lieu of taxes?”

Currently, the constitution recognizes certain tax incentives for economic development projects. One method now in use is called Payments in Lieu of Taxes, or PILOT. Business and local governments agree that ownership of the development project would be given to a local government and leased back to the business, so the development wouldn’t be subject to property taxes. In exchange, the business agrees to a fixed payment to the local government.
The business gets certainty about its costs under the PILOT, and the local governments get more than they would under the Industrial Tax Exemption Program, which offers a property exemption for up to 10 years.
The amendment would allow PILOT projects for manufacturers without the need to transfer ownership to the local government, which PAR says could be important for existing industry seeking a tax break for an expansion. The manufacturer would still be exempt from property taxes by the government with which it has the agreement and would make PILOT payments instead.
Projects must still meet the standards under the Industrial Tax Exemption Program.

Amendment 6
“Do you support an amendment to increase the maximum amount of income a person may receive and still qualify for the special assessment level for residential property receiving the homestead exemption?”

In Louisiana, homes eligible for the homestead exemption and owned by certain classes of homeowners are protected from increases in the assessments on which taxes are based. The classes include people over 65, the totally disabled and the surviving spouses of members of the military who were killed in action.
But the freeze applies only to taxpayers with annual incomes of less than about $77,000.
The income limit would be adjusted each year based on the rate of inflation.
The amendment would raise the income limit to $100,000.
About 180,000 Louisiana homes are eligible for the freeze, and about 90% of them are because the homeowner is over 65.

Amendment 7
“Do you support an amendment to create the Louisiana Unclaimed Property Permanent Trust Fund to preserve the money that remains unclaimed by its owner or owners?”

Despite recent efforts by the state government, millions of dollars owed to Louisiana residents remain in state hands each year because people don’t claim money from “unclaimed bank accounts, insurance payments, energy bill excesses that were meant to be reimbursed but the original utility customer could not be found, and similar rebates,” PAR says.
Currently, money in the Unclaimed Property Program in excess of claims can be used for general state spending. By law, $15 million must, by law, go toward Interstate 49 bonds each year. Another $2.5 million goes toward the cost of administering the program.
The rest can be used for general state spending.
The amendment would create the Louisiana Unclaimed Property Permanent Trust Fund. Unclaimed money in excess of claims would remain in the fund.
The money in the fund would be invested, and the return on the investment could be used for state spending. The I-49 bond and administrative obligations would still be paid.
But the principle would remain in the fund awaiting claims by their rightful owners.

Find the Louisiana Budget Project guide to the amendments at this link. A link to a .pdf of the PAR guide appears below.

St. Mary gets yea or nay vote on sports gambling

In an already full ballot for the Nov. 3 election, St. Mary voters will have one other decision to make: legalizing sports betting in their individual parishes.
The proposition will be on the ballot after it was introduced during the 2020 legislative session by Sen. Cameron Henry, R-Metairie, as Senate Bill 130 and became law as Act 215. In the proposition, voters in each of the state’s 64 parishes will determine whether they want to legalize sports wagering in their individual parishes.
Locally, two of three legislators approved the measure as it worked its way through state government. Rep. Vincent St. Blanc, R-Franklin, voted for the bill, while Rep. Beryl Amedee, R-Houma, opposed it. In the state Senate, it passed by a 72-23 vote with Sen. Bret Allain, R-Franklin, voting for it.
Las Vegas-based Boyd Gaming, the parent company of the Amelia Belle, supports the measure.
“We think that introducing sports betting would be a tremendous opportunity not only for the state’s gaming industry but also for the entire state, the opportunity to introduce a new amenity at the state’s casinos that could potentially draw in new customers not only from across Louisiana but potentially from outside the state that would then come to the state to wager on sports,” Boyd Gaming spokesperson David Strow said.
If sports betting is approved, it will be regulated by the Louisiana Gaming Control Board.
According to the Public Affairs Research Council, or PAR, online fantasy sports contests in parishes that approved it are the only type of sports wagering that can occur in Louisiana.
If this sports wagering, which includes in-person and online wagering, is approved, it will not go into effect until laws and regulations are passed. If approved, the wagering will be regulated by the Louisiana Gaming Control Board.
PAR gave the pros and cons of passing the proposition.
In its argument for the proposition, PAR cited a consultant’s study for the state economic development department that said the measure’s passage could bring the state up to $330 million in additional revenue per year.
“Those business profits could generate new casino jobs and up to about $50 million annually in tax revenue,” the research council wrote.
However, in its argument against the measure, PAR said that “claims of increased revenue and beneficial business associated with gambling are often overstated.”
Strow said Boyd Gaming, which has opened sports books at their properties in Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Mississippi and Pennsylvania and is looking to do so at five Louisiana casinos if the proposition passes in those parishes, has seen success.
“In every state that we’ve introduced sports betting, we’ve seen big results,” he said.
Strow said that sports betting draws in more customers to the casinos who participate in other activities, too.
“This is a proven moneymaker not only for the industry but also for the state that would benefit from the additional tax revenues coming in from legalized sports betting in the state,” he said.
PAR said Louisiana is the national leader in regards to the many different types of gambling allowed, and by passing this proposition, it would allow digital sports betting to expand and reach homes and mobile devices.
The research council also cited a Wallethub analysis that said Louisiana ranks No. 5 in the “most gambling addictive” states.

Morgan City mayor forum on YouTube Wednesday; DA forum in doubt

Morgan City voters can see the candidates for mayor in an online forum Wednesday night. But the prospects for a district attorney candidate forum are suddenly uncertain.
KWBJ will host a live event for the mayoral candidates on its YouTube channel 7-8 p.m. Wednesday.
The candidates are Lee Dragna, Don Hicks and Kevin Voisin. KWBJ’s Danika Foley will be the moderator.
The St. Mary Chamber will have a forum for mayoral candidates at 6:30 p.m. Oct. 26 at Morgan City Municipal Auditorium.
Meanwhile, the Chamber sent an email Tuesday canceling its scheduled Monday forum for district attorney candidates in the 16th Judicial District, which covers St. Mary, St. Martin and Iberia parishes. The forum was to be held at the Patterson Area Civic Center.
Incumbent District Attorney “Bo” Duhe is being challenged by former 16th JDC Judge Lori Landry.
Duhe will be out of town Monday to attend a meeting of the Louisiana District Attorneys Association, Chamber President Donna Meyer said in an email.
“I am so sorry that we are having to cancel,” Meyer wrote.
In an email response, Landry said she’s still available to the forum.
“As you know, this matter has been on our calendar for approximately two months and; I have declined other obligations because of its importance and my word …,” Landry wrote.
“Mr. Duhe’s unavailability should not deny me the right to speak to the citizens about my candidacy and the election. I participated in another event last Thursday as the only candidate that committed for the same reasons stated above and this is no different"

Eagles look for first win in Central Catholic home opener

Central Catholic will open the home slate of its football season Thursday when it hosts Ascension Catholic.
It will be the second varsity contest for both teams. Ascension Catholic opened its season Oct. 1 with a 35-6 victory against Slaughter Community Charter, while Central Catholic fell in its season opener at Loreauville, 41-28.
While all teams lost their first two games of the season, due to the COVID-19 pandemic, Central Catholic has had to adapt to even more change. The Eagles originally were scheduled to open the season at home against Vinton, but the southwestern Louisiana school was unable to play due to the effects of Hurricane Laura. So the Eagles hit the road to play Loreauville.
Then, because Louisiana prep football didn’t start on time, the Eagles’ week four contest at St. Stanislaus in Mississippi had to be cancelled the following week because the schedules no longer aligned, so Central Catholic was scheduled to travel to Beekman Charter in Bastrop. However, that game was cancelled due to potential affects from Hurricane Delta.
“It’s one of those situations where you’re just glad we’re playing,” Central Catholic coach Tommy Minton said. “We already lost two games off the schedule just from the start and then we lose another one last week with the storm. So just for the kids’ sake and for the seniors’ sake, it’s just good we’re playing.”
As for the Eagles opponent this week, Minton said they are opposite of the Eagles in their areas of youth and experience.
“They got an experienced offensive and defensive line back and then a bit younger at the skill guys,” Minton said. “We graduated just the opposite last year.”
He said the Bulldogs have “good size” up front.
Ascension Catholic is ranked No. 8 in the latest Louisiana Sports Writers Association Class 1A poll.
“He’ll run some Wing T type stuff, and then he’ll spread it out, kind of mix it up between the two,” Minton said of Ascension Catholic Coach Benny Saia’s offensive look.
The Bulldogs start sophomore Bryce Leonard at quarterback and sophomore Khai Prean at tailback.
“They both are pretty good athletes,” Minton said. “They’re doing a good job with executing what they’re trying to do on offense right now.”
The Bulldogs also feature tight end/defensive end, J’mond Tapp.
“He’s a really good football player, too,” Minton said.
On defense, Ascension Catholic runs a 3-3 stack.

SARA LEBURNA MARINO MAHFOUZ

Sara Leburna Marino Mahfouz, 86, passed away on Monday, October 12, 2020, peacefully, sur-rounded by her family.
She will be deeply missed by three sons, Joseph L. Mahfouz and wife Melinda, Chris A. Mahfouz and wife Susan, and Paul M. Mahfouz and wife April; six grandchildren, Timothy Mahfouz, Rebecca Philbrook and husband Thomas, Reid Stewart and husband Zachary, Colby Mahfouz and wife Tiffany, Zachary Mahfouz, and Jake Mahfouz; and one great-grandchild, Abigail Philbrook.
She was preceded in death by her husband, Joseph P. Mahfouz; her parents, Luke Marino and Katy G. Marsden; one sister, Linda Divetro; and one brother, Michael Marino.
Sara enjoyed cooking and spending time with her family. She was exceptional at giving speeches at any family gathering. These speeches will forever live in the hearts of her family. Sara never met a stranger and would wave or say hello to everyone she came into contact with. She was a champion at giving compliments; if you spent any time with her, you received one. She either loved your hair, your shoes, or just told you, you were pretty. Sara was a kind soul and will be greatly missed by anyone who knew her.
Mass will be held at 11 a.m. Friday, October 16, 2020, at Sacred Heart Catholic Church with Father Toto officiating. Visitation will be held from 9 a.m. until 10:45 a.m. Friday, October 16, 2020, at Twin City Funeral Home. Masks will be required upon entering Sacred Heart Church. Sara will be en-tombed in the Berwick Cemetery Mausoleum at a later date.
Pallbearers will be Timothy Mahfouz, Colby Mahfouz, Zach Mahfouz, Jake Mahfouz, Thomas Philbrook and Zachary Stewart.
A heartfelt appreciation is extended by the Mahfouz family to Dr. William Cefalu and his staff, as well as the nurses of Heart of Hospice for their kindness, compassion, and care given to Sara and her family during their time of need.

UPDATED: SANDRA FROMENTHAL COX

Funeral services will be held on Saturday at a 1 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial in St. Mary, Mother of the Church, Catholic Church for Sandra Fromenthal Cox, 78, who died on Monday, October 12, 2020, at her residence in Lafayette surrounded by her family.
Entombment will be in Fountain Memorial Gardens Mausoleum in Lafayette.
Reverend Cedric Sonnier, Pastor, will be the Celebrant of the Funeral Mass and will conduct the services. Lectors will be Susan Fromenthal and Susan Woolen. The Giftbearers will be Mina Rose Tompkins, Marcelle Elise Boutin and James Patrick Vernon. The Eulogist will be Sherwood Cox and the Eucharistic Minister will be Theresa Fraser. Musical selections will be “On Eagles’ Wings”, “Psalm 23”, “Ave Maria”, “The Lord’s Prayer” and “Be Not Afraid” sung by Karen Broussard and accompanied on the organ by Deborah Duhon and violin by Tommy Benoit.
Survivors include three daughters, Kim Tompkins of Austin, TX, Amy Tompkins and Catherine Tompkins, both of Lafayette; one step-son, Sherwood Cox and his wife, Lynn, of Birmingham, AL; one step-daughter, Stephanie C. Gagnard and her husband, Ryan, of Lafayette; three grandchildren, Mina Rose Tompkins, Marcelle Elise Boutin and James Patrick Vernon; four step-grandchildren, Lee Robert Cox, Allison Cox, Edward Cox and Andrew Gagnard; numerous step great-grandchildren; and three brothers, Logan Fromenthal and his wife, Susan, Rodney Fromenthal and his wife, Marie, and Dale Fromenthal, all of Morgan City, LA.
She was preceded in death by her husband, Leebob Cox; her parents, Logan Fromenthal Sr. and Irene Templet Fromenthal; and one sister, Gwen Fromenthal.
A native of Morgan City, LA, and a resident of Lafayette for most of her life, Sandra was a Registered Nurse by career for 42 years, most recently at Lafayette General Medical Center. She received her Bachelor of Science Degree in 1965 from Northwestern State College in Natchitoches, LA.
Sandra enjoyed cooking and spending time with family and friends, gardening and literally taking care of everybody. She loved entertaining and was the exceptional hostess. She will be greatly missed, not only by family and friends, but by all of those whose lives she has touched throughout the years.
As a member of St. Mary’s, she volunteered in various capacities. Her favorite charities were Easter Seals and Special Olympics.
Pallbearers will be Sherwood Cox, Ryan Gagnard, Andrew Gagnard, Mark Vernon, Mark Vernon II and Lawrence Svendson.
Honorary pallbearers will be her brothers, Logan Fromenthal, Rodney Fromenthal, Dale Fromenthal and Sonny LeBlanc.
The family requests that visitation be observed in Martin & Castille’s DOWNTOWN location on Friday from 4 p.m. until 7 p.m. and will continue on Saturday from 10 a.m. until time of services.
A Rosary will be prayed by Rev. F. Hampton Davis on Friday at 6:30 p.m. in Martin & Castille Funeral Home, followed by a Eulogy given by Carolyn Tompkins Johnson.
Memorial contributions can be made in Sandra’s name to Easter Seals Louisiana, 935 Gravier Street, Suite 720, New Orleans, LA 70112.
A heartfelt appreciation is extended by the Cox family to the nurses, staff and doctors of NSI Hospice for their kindness, compassion and wonderful care given to Ms. Cox and her family during their time of need.
View the obituary and guestbook online at www.mourning.com
Martin & Castille-DOWNTOWN-330 St. Landry St., Lafayette, LA 70506, 337-234-2311, is in charge of arrangements.

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