DEAR ABBY: My mother insists on telling my three youngest children that my husband is not their father. The oldest girl is the spitting image of him, and she’s upset about it. Mom also calls me terrible names. She keeps saying it will add years to my life if I divorce him and makes appointments with divorce lawyers “for” me, which I am charged for. My husband and I have a limited income and can’t move away because our jobs are here. How can I convince our kids my husband is their father? TRYING TO PROVE IT DEAR TRYING: A way to ...