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Half-century of friendship ends abruptly over new beau

DEAR ABBY: For 50 years, I had a close career and personal friend I’ll call “Ellen.” She has been married a long time, but I know she and her husband have had some rocky patches. Ellen was with me through the tragic loss of my son and, six weeks later, my very ill husband. I couldn’t have gotten through it without her.
After being alone for 17 years, I met a man in the construction trade. He has his own business and is a fine, intelligent, kind, considerate man. He took care of his sick wife, as I took care of my ill husband. He also lost a grandchild. He was married for 51 years; I was married for 28. We are four years apart in age and have a deep, abiding love and understanding for each other.
Abby, immediately upon meeting him, Ellen rejected him and abruptly ended our friendship! She thought, “because of my education,” I should be with a lawyer or doctor. I recently married this wonderful man and let her know. No response. I was deeply hurt by her actions.
It has been six years, and I have other good friends. My husband’s six children are lovely to me. Yet I remain puzzled by what Ellen did. I was so close to her, her family and her other friends. I’m not sure how she has explained my absence. Her home was a second home to me. We saw each other frequently. I regret I couldn’t tell her family and friends this parting was not my choice. I may never understand this situation. Do you have any advice?
PUZZLED IN PENNSYLVANIA

DEAR PUZZLED: As much as we might wish the opposite, not all friendships last forever. If you have described Ellen accurately, this dear friend was an elitist who judges people by a far different scale than you do. She may also have been upset that, after so many years of your depending on her, you were finally getting your emotional needs fulfilled elsewhere. I’m not a mind reader, and I have never met the woman, but, PLEASE, don’t waste another minute looking backward.
Enjoy the here and now and spend no more time dwelling on something you cannot change.

DEAR ABBY: When I was leaving work last Friday, I caught two co-workers in a passionate kiss. The elevator doors were just about closed, but I waved my hand and they opened back up. I averted my eyes before they realized I was there and jumped apart. Because I was in shock, I made some nervous small talk and did not acknowledge the elephant in the elevator.
My issue is they are both upper management and married to other people. I have no plans to “out” them, but I’m confused about how to interact with them going forward. I work with them on a daily basis as well as attend company parties, which their spouses usually attend. Any advice would be appreciated as my respect for them has plunged.
SHOULD HAVE WAITED IN THE SOUTH

DEAR SHOULD HAVE: This is a minefield, so tread carefully and do not say a word about what you saw to anyone.
Your respect for those two may have diminished, but it is vital — for your own sake — that your behavior toward them remain the same as it has always been. It may take a large dose of amnesia on your part to accomplish this, but it is what I am recommending.
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Louisiana has new highway safety plan

The Louisiana Department of Transportation and Development announced a new Strategic Highway Safety Plan this week following a record increase in fatal crashes in 2021.

Preliminary data shows a total of 971 people died in motor vehicle crashes in Louisiana last year, a 17% increase from the 828 fatalities in 2020. The jump marked the highest year-to-year percentage increase in fatal crashes since Louisiana started tracking the statistic, Gov. John Bel Edwards said.

"The statistics are alarming," said Gov. Edwards on Wednesday. "The loss of nearly 1,000 motorists on our roadways is devastating and a number that desperately needs to decrease and be nonexistent one day. With the safety strategies implemented by our agencies and safety partners, we aim to make all Louisiana public roads safer — where no one is killed or seriously injured in traffic-related crashes."

Edwards and Department of Transportation and Development Secretary Shawn Wilson highlighted the increase in traffic deaths as an important influence on an updated Strategic Highway Safety Plan unveiled Wednesday.

The plan, updated every five years, identifies emphasis areas, strategies and tactics for reducing fatalities and serious injuries on all public roads, using input from driver behavior safety experts, engineers, law enforcement, emergency service providers and advocacy groups.

Data on contributing factors associated with fatalities and injuries led officials to focus on specific areas when updating the plan, including distracted driving, impaired driving, occupant protection, and infrastructure and operations, which involves things like lane departures, intersections and non-motorized users, according to an Edwards statement.

The plan implements strategies, focused on older and younger drivers, aimed at addressing those issues through policies, programs and projects designed to reduce crashes. The strategies are also tailored to target solutions to specific geographic areas and demographics.

"The safety of our roadways and our motorists is of the utmost importance of this Department and this Safety Plan provides quantitative data for strategies on improving the safety conditions throughout the state," Wilson said. "With the support of the Governor and our partners on the federal, state, and local levels, we continue to work towards eliminating traffic-related deaths and injuries. One death is one too many and it is our goal to reduce the number of crashes and severe injuries by 50% by 2030."

Strategies in the updated plan call for increasing education efforts and community outreach programs, strengthening laws and public policies on risky behaviors like distracted driving, increasing accountability, developing and deploying engineering solutions for crash-prone corridors, and more CarFit technicians to improve child passenger safety.

Louisiana Highway Safety Commission Executive Director Lisa Freeman described risky driving behavior as a preventable public health epidemic, and the solution centers on encouraging drivers to make the right choices.

"Unsafe driving behavior doesn’t just happen. It’s a choice — a choice between driving sober or driving impaired; a choice between driving focused or driving distracted; a choice of buckling up and driving the speed limit or being unrestrained and speeding," Freeman said. "We urge everyone to make the right choice — the only choice that gives us a chance at safely arriving at our destinations."

Proposal would give La. bigger share of oil revenue

Louisiana lawmakers are backing legislation in Congress to increase the state's share of oil and gas revenues from the Gulf of Mexico and to create similar revenues from wind energy operations.

Sen. Bill Cassidy, R-La., is promoting the Reinvesting In Shoreline Economies and Ecosystems Act with Rhode Island Democrat Sen. Sheldon Whitehouse that would remove a $375 million per year cap on oil and gas revenues to Gulf states. The legislation is also co-sponsored by Sen. John Kennedy, R-La., and 10 others.

The bill, which cleared the Senate Energy and Natural Resources Committee on Thursday, could increase revenues for Gulf states by $4.4 billion over the next decade, according to estimates from University of Louisiana at Lafayette economist Stephen Barnes cited by NOLA.com.

In addition, the bill would allocate 37.5% of revenues from offshore wind energy generated in federal waters to states based on proximity to facilities, along with 12.5% of those revenues to the National Oceans and Coastal Security Fund. That fund distributes grants for coastal projects that could also benefit Louisiana, according to a Cassidy press release.

The Gulf of Mexico Energy Security Act currently caps state revenue sharing at $375 million and imposes a state side funding cap of $125 million for the Land & Water Conservation Fund, both of which will be lifted through the legislation.

All revenues from federal offshore wind leases and production beyond state waters are currently deposited in the U.S. Treasury. Uses for state funding that would come from the bill's 37.5% revenue sharing provision for wind energy include coastal restoration, hurricane protection, infrastructure, efforts to mitigate damage to fish and wildlife, as well as implementation of a marine, coastal, or conservation management plan.

Cassidy's office told NOLA.com the bill received a hearing after negotiations with committee chairman Sen. Joe Manchin, D-WVa., that reduced the state's portion of offshore oil revenue from what was originally 50%, prohibited revenues to be used for "entertainment" purposes, and included a requirement for states to spell out how they would spend the money, among other changes.

"This is another step in getting the $50 billion Louisiana needs to restore our coastline. This is important for our state and for our country," Cassidy said following committee approval. "There is much more to do, but every step gets us closer to protecting our communities and our people."

Thursday's committee approval comes a day after U.S. Reps. Troy Carter, D-New Orleans, and Steve Scalise, R-Jefferson, introduced competing legislation that would also eliminate the cap on oil and gas revenues and include wind energy. That bill, dubbed the Budgeting for Renewable Electrical Energy Zone Earnings Act, would set the state's share of revenues at 50%, with another 37.5% for the North American Wetlands Conservation Fund, leaving 12.5% for the Treasury, NOLA.com reports.

Also Wednesday, the Bureau of Ocean Energy Management announced two possible locations for wind energy projects in the Gulf of Mexico: one about 56 miles off the coast of Lake Charles and another 24 miles off the coast of Galveston, Texas. Combined, the two sites could produce enough energy to power more than 3 million homes, though the permitting process for those sites would likely not start until 2023, according to the news site.

CAROL JEAN CARBIN JAMES

Carol Jean Carbin James, 63, a native and resident of Morgan City, died Monday, July 18, 2022, at her residence. Jones Funeral home is in charge of arrangements.

HUEY PAUL GANAWAY

April 14, 1940 — July 18, 2022

Huey Paul Ganaway, 82, a resident of Houma, passed away peacefully, Monday, July 18, 2022, at his home, surrounded by his loving family.

Huey was born April 14, 1940, in Morgan City, the son of Louis Ganaway and Mary Kelly Ganaway.

Huey was the beloved patriarch of our family and we will always be thankful for having the most amazing Dad ever. Our Dad shared an amazing love for God and family with all of us. We will miss his sense of humor and will always remember the years of sharing laughs and stories with him. He will be sadly missed and lovingly remembered by his three sons, Gordon Ganaway and wife Lynette of Spring, TX and Scott Ganaway and wife Melanie of The Woodlands, TX, Cristopher Ganaway of Zachary; three daughters, Darlene Ganaway and companion, Raymond Breaux of Houma, Juanita Faith Folse and husband, Eban of Raleigh, NC and Angelina Matthews and husband John Pat of San Antonio, TX; one foster daughter, Terri Beckendorf of Luling; nine grandchildren: Kellie Williams, Candice Ganaway, Daniel Robichaux, Jacob Ganaway, Riplee Ganaway, Mariella, Joshua and Julianna Matthews, Liam Ganaway; nine great-grandchildren: Brett, Austin, Lexie, Maddie, Terra, Trinitie, Ian, Remy, Damien; one great-great-granddaughter, Charlotte; one brother, Charles Ganaway; Frances Dufrene.

Huey was preceded in death by his parents, Louis and Mary Ganaway; siblings, Louis Ganaway Jr., George Ganaway, Roosevelt Ganaway, Herbert Ganaway, Florence Ganaway, Mary Dupre, Silver Mae Picou, and Betty Jean Benner; soulmate and mother of children, Juanita Ganaway.

Funeral services will be held at 11:00 a.m., Monday, July 25, 2022, at Twin City Funeral Home. Visitation will be held Sunday, July 24, 2022, at Twin City
Funeral Home from 4:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. and again Monday, July 25, 2022, from 9:00 a.m. until the time of services. After services, Huey will be laid to rest in the Morgan City Cemetery.

CODY STEPHEN BRIEHN

Cody Stephen Briehn, 64, a native of Berwick, LA and resident of Bayou Vista, LA, passed away on Tuesday, July 19, 2022.

He is survived by his wife, Diana H. Briehn; daughter, Kaylee Robinson and husband Joel; grandchildren, Jeremy Robinson, Caiden Robinson, Holland Claire Robinson; sister, Hollie Schimberg and husband Jake; nieces, Maxe Carter, Samantha Schimberg, Jesse Schimberg; sister, Jana Guidry and husband Michael; niece, Nicole Magee and husband Paul; nephew, James “Cupcake” Guidry; sister-in-law, Nelldean Briehn; nieces, Summer Marine and husband Robert, Rachel Landry and husband Jeff and family.

He is preceded in death by his son, Jeremy Stephen Briehn; parents, John Ed Briehn and Onis Thompson Briehn; brother, Joel Briehn; sister, Bambi Webb; niece, Layla Briehn.

A Memorial Service will be held in his honor on Saturday, July 23, 2022 from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at Twin City Gospel Church, 215 Canton Street, Berwick, LA 70342.

Arrangements have been entrusted to Twin City Funeral Home of Morgan City, LA.

GERALD 'JERRY' JOSEPH TOPHAM

Gerald “Jerry” Joseph Topham, 82, a native of Morgan City, LA and resident of Youngsville, LA, passed away on Tuesday, July 19, 2022.

Jerry was born April 21, 1940, the son of Oliver and Stella Alcina Topham. He retired from J. Ray McDermott and was an avid LSU fan. He received an honorable discharge from the Army National Guard following six years of service.

Jerry will be sadly missed and lovingly remembered by his three sons, Daniel Topham and wife Tammy, Michael Topham and wife Dana, Brad Topham and wife Eileen; daughter, Lisa Williams and husband Kenny; seven grandchildren, Sarah DeHart, Emily Istre, Victoria Topham, William Topham, Olivia Topham, Abby Williams and Kate Williams; four great-grandchildren and numerous nieces and nephews. He is also survived by his sisters, Catherine Kiesler and husband Jim, Gail Cavett, and brother, Alvin Topham.

Jerry was preceded in death by his wife, Della Mason Topham; and his parents, Oliver and Stella Topham.
Pallbearers will be William Topham, Kenny Williams, Ryan Smith, Dr. Kyle Smith, Steve Donahoe, Cody Istre and Chris Chaisson. Honorary Pallbearers will be Jay Chaisson, Jim Kiesler, and Alvin Topham.

Visitation will be on Saturday, July 23, 2022 from 9:00 a.m. to the service at 11:00 a.m. at Twin City Funeral Home in Morgan City, LA followed by burial in Berwick Cemetery in Berwick, LA.

Arrangements have been entrusted to Twin City Funeral Home in Morgan City, LA.

Wheel House for July 22

GOOD HOPE
Baptist Church, 908 Washington St., Patterson, celebrates its 162nd church anniversary at 11 a.m. July 31. Colors are black and white with red accessories.

SCHOOL BASH
Good Hope Baptist Church, 908 Washington St., Patterson, holding a Back to School Bash 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Saturday, Aug. 13. Will include food, games and prizes.

Around Town for July 22

Happy birthday Carolyn Green, happy birthday Saturday to Willie Mae Bell, Sunday to Cherrell McDaniel and Tuesday to Kenya Bogan from family, friends and Ira.

St. Mary Excel reports on second-quarter activities

(Editor’s note: St. Mary Excel submitted this report on its activities during the second quarter.)

St. Mary Excel has been working since 2018 across political subdivisions and the tenure of elected officials to implement recommendations of a community hosted Urban Land Institute panel report, “Morgan City and Berwick Louisiana: Building the Foundation for a New Economy Along the Atchafalaya River.”
See a link to the report on this story at StMaryNow.com

St. Mary Excel:

—Met with Dr. Jessica Simms of the Health and Resilience Unit of the Gulf Research Program of the National Academy of Science, Engineering, and Medicine to hear about projects of the research center having a possible impact on our area,

—Worked with St. Mary Parish economic development director, Evan Boudreaux, to hear follow-up support for businesses that heard Verdunity presentations,

—Worked with the city of Morgan City leaders and town of Berwick officials to complete installation of Atchafalaya National Heritage signage to connect neighborhoods (Elliott, Walsh, Wyandotte, Old Brashear, Klingsville, Golden Farms, Coal Chute, and MacArthur) with planned biking areas of the completed Berwick hiking/biking trail and the in-progress Bike Morgan City trail.

—Hosted a Local Interest Group meeting on May 20 for the purpose of hearing presentations on the search for Louisiana’s estuarine research reserve (Dr. Brian Roberts), St. Mary Parish’s partnership with the Water Institute of the Gulf for a Morgan City resilience lab (Dr. Scott Hemmerling), residential maritime academy exploration (Mr. Stephen Swiber), and enhancing community resilience project consideration (Dr. Jessica Simms of the Gulf Research Program).

See a recording of the meeting at www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJNc 8GLR-io

(Kick-off of resilience lab planning should begin in September 2022 when federal RESTORE dollars are available.)

—Connected with Dr. David Johnson (Purdue University) on the project “Incorporating Equity and Social Vulnerability into the Design of Flood Risk and Mitigation Strategies” and accepted Risk and Equity Advisory Board positions for two St. Mary Excel members.

—Attended the Coastal Protection and Restoration Authority Board meeting on June 15 in which the announcement of the nomination of the Atchafalaya zone for Louisiana’s national estuarine research reserve was confirmed. St. Mary Excel’s president, Catherine Holcomb, made public comments at the meeting thanking the governor for the Atchafalaya selection.

—Submitted an Atchafalaya National Heritage Area grant application to record area voices in telling of the area’s environmental protection.

—Planned for closing out the USDA Business Development grant. Grant monies funded seminars which are available at www.you
tube.com/channel/UC8qGGgBMUt7Qmg TksWcGjow

Grant monies also funded Verdunity workshops.
For why the workshop was needed, see https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9LJ8iS5X6A
and check out the concept4es used for incremental community planning at
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9dFkM7DEx3c

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