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Morgan City man arrested on fourth DWI charge

(Editor’s note: The charges listed here and the narratives that go with them are provided by the police agencies that made the arrests. Guilt or innocence has not been determined in court.)

Police arrested a Morgan City man Sunday on a fourth drunken-driving charge.

Morgan City

Chief Chad M. Adams reported that over the last 72-hour reporting period, the Morgan City Police Department responded to 96 calls for service and made these arrests:

--Dezin D. Young, 52, Arizona Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 8:20 p.m. Sunday on charges of driving while intoxicated (fourth offense), driving under suspension and reckless operation of a motor vehicle, and on a warrant alleging two counts of criminal neglect of family (16th Judicial District Court).

--Javien J. Francis, 26, Oregon Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 11:14 a.m. Friday on warrants alleging failure to pay fines and three counts of failure to appear (6th Ward Morgan City Court).

--Kerwing Deleon-Benitez, 24, Fourth Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 11:15 a.m. Friday on warrants alleging failure to appear for arraignment and two counts of failure to appear to pay fines (6th Ward Morgan City Court).

--Grant Walker, 28, Murial Street, Bayou L'Ourse, was arrested at 10:21 p.m. Friday on a charge of unauthorized use of a motor vehicle.

--Felipe Quezada-Nuno, 51, Keith Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 3:15 p.m. Saturday on a charge of possession of fraudulent documents.

--Devonta T. Grogan, 22, Fifth Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 06:52 p.m. Sunday on a charge of obstructing public passage.

Franklin

Chief Cedric Handy reported that the Franklin Police Department responded to 16 complaints over the weekend and made these arrests:

--Brendan Comeaux, 30, Kirk Street, Franklin, was arrested at 6:49 p.m. Friday on a warrant for 16th Judicial District Court alleging failure to appear on a charge of criminal neglect of family. Comeaux was booked, processed and held with no bond set at the time of press release.

--Dewayde Howard, 55, 10th Street, Franklin, was arrested at 10:07 p.m. Friday on warrants for 3rd Ward City Court alleging failure to appear on charges of simple criminal damage to property, disturbing the peace and criminal trespass. Howard was booked, processed and held on a $686 bond.

--Lysander Williams, 55, Cedar Street, Franklin, was arrested at 2:20 p.m. Saturday on a warrant for 3rd Ward City Court alleging failure to appear a charge of resisting an officer by flight. Williams was booked, processed and released on a $268 bond.

--Jaquima Brown, 29, Martin Luther King Boulvard, Franklin, was arrested at 7:04 p.m. Sundayon a warrant dated Sept. 7 alleging domestic abuse battery (child endangerment, second offense) and theft. Brown was additionally arrested on charges of resisting an officer, violation of protective order and simple battery. Brown was booked, processed and held with no bond set at the time of press release.

Morgan City police radio logs for Jan. 17-22

The following are the radio dispatch logs from the Morgan City Police Department. To report unlawful or suspicious activity, call the Police Department at 985-380-4605.
Wednesday, Jan. 17
6:45 a.m. 800 block of Youngs Road; Alarm.
7:53 a.m. 600 block of Bowman Street; Domestic.
9:12 a.m. Bush/Aucoin streets; Suspicious subject.
10:21 a.m. 2300 block of La. 70; Assistance.
10:33 a.m. 100 block of Wren Street; Welfare check.
11:21 a.m. 1200 block of Prescott Drive; Theft.
12:21 p.m. 1000 block of Railroad Avenue; Disturbance.
1:56 p.m. La. 70/U.S. 90 Junction; Suspicious subject.
2:07 p.m. 1400 block of Mayon Street; Assistance.
2:40 p.m. 3100 block of Tammy Drive; 911 hang up.
2:54 p.m. 1200 block of Victor II Boulevard; Medical.
3:28 p.m. Union/Third streets; Vehicle accident.
3:34 p.m. 1300 block of Walnut Drive; Assistance.
3:52 p.m. 1500 block of North First Street; Complaint.
4:25 p.m. 6700 block of La. 182; Complaint.
5:38 p.m. 1800 block of Filmore Street; Frequent patrols.
6:07 p.m. 1200 block of David Drive; Alarm.
6:31 p.m. 400 block of Halsey Street; Complaint.
6:50 p.m. 1000 block of Clothilde Street; Alarm.
7:12 p.m. 600 block of Arenz Street; Medical.
9:16 p.m. 100 block of Oak Street; Medical.
9:25 p.m. 1400 block of Federal Avenue; Medical.
10:13 p.m. Area of La. 70; Complaint.
10:20 p.m. 6000 block of Railroad Avenue; 911 hang up.
10:40 p.m. 2000 block of Allison Street; Medical.
1:01 a.m. Area of Sixth/Belanger streets; Complaint.
1:51 a.m. 500 block of Bowman Street; Loud music.
3:51 a.m. 1000 block of Marguerite Street; Alarm.
3:56 a.m. 6000 block of Railroad Avenue; 911 hang up.
4:34 a.m. 2400 block of Cypress Street; Loud music.
5:02 a.m. 1000 block of Marguerite Street; Alarm.
Thursday, Jan. 18
7:05 a.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Arrest.
8:22 a.m. 2400 block of Cypress Street; Complaint.
8:39 a.m. 300 block of South Railroad Avenue; Animal complaint.
9:10 a.m. 7200 block of La. 182; Arrest.
9:17 a.m. 1200 block of Spruce Street; Alarm.
9:43 a.m. 1100 block of Ditch Avenue; Animal complaint.
11:50 a.m. 500 block of Roderick Street; Welfare check.
11:58 a.m. 600 block of Freret Street; Medical.
3:06 p.m. 700 block of Everett Street; Remove subject.
3:13 p.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Theft.
5:18 p.m. 700 block of David Drive; Assistance.
5:35 p.m. 900 block of Short Street; Welfare check.
5:38 p.m. 7300 block of La. 182; Reckless driving.
6:48 p.m. 1400 block of Federal Avenue; Medical.
10:59 p.m. 1600 block of Second Street; Loud music.
11:50 p.m. 700 block of Belanger Street; Medical.
5:48 a.m. 1200 block of David Drive; Alarm.
Friday, Jan. 19
7:27 a.m. 1200 block of Youngs Road; Alarm.
7:39 a.m. Justa Street; Complaint.
8:21 a.m. U.S. 90 West; Stalled vehicle.
8:31 a.m. 500 block of Sixth Street; Medical.
9:42 a.m. 100 block of Wren Street; Welfare concern.
10:10 a.m. 1100 block of Seventh Street; 911 hang up.
10:11 a.m. 700 block of Everett Street; Patrol.
10:22 a.m. 1400 block of Filmore Street; Juvenile complaint.
10:26 a.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Arrest.
11:01 a.m. Fifth/Maine streets; Arrest.
11:16 a.m. 600 block of Fifth Street; Complaint.
11:58 a.m. 400 block of Myrtle Street; Complaint.
12:27 p.m. 1000 block of Eighth Street; Telephone harassment.
1:11 p.m. Front/Brownell streets; Stalled vehicle.
2:09 p.m. 700 block of Duke Street; Removal of subject.
2:37 p.m. U.S. 90 East; Traffic incident.
3:51 p.m. 3000 block of Leslie Drive; Medical.
3:52 p.m. U.S. 90 East; Stalled vehicle.
3:56 p.m. 400 block of Eighth Street; Disturbance.
4:56 p.m. 700 block of Aucoin Street; Complaint.
5:01 p.m. Arizona Street; Complaint.
5:30 p.m. 500 block of Orange Street; Hit and run.
5:32 p.m. 1300 block of Oil Tank Alley; Medical.
5:51 p.m. 1200 block of Spruce Street; Medical.
6 p.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Arrest.
6:57 p.m. Tupelo Street; Disturbance.
6:59 p.m. 1000 block of Eighth Street; Frequent patrols.
8:03 p.m. 3000 block of Helen Drive; Loud music.
8:28 p.m. 7300 block of La. 182; Telephone harassment.
10:20 p.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Arrest.
10:42 p.m. 1600 block of Second Street; Loud music.
11:37 p.m. 200 block of Aucoin Street; Loud music.
Saturday, Jan. 20
12:25 a.m. 900 block of Cherry Street; Disturbance.
12:31 a.m. 500 block of Front Street; Alarm.
3:09 a.m. 1100 block of Eighth Street; Alarm.
5:44 a.m. 3200 block of Susan Drive; Medical.
6:18 a.m. 1200 block of Victor II Boulevard; Complaint.
7:01 a.m. 1200 block of Fig Street; Alarm.
8:33 a.m. 7300 block of La. 182; Alarm.
9:30 a.m. 900 block of Cherry Street; Removal of subject.
9:37 a.m. 200 block of Chennault Street; Suspicious subject.
10:06 a.m. 800 block of Marshall Street; Lost and found.
10:23 a.m. 700 block of Everett Street; Removal of subject.
11:14 a.m. 800 block of Railroad Avenue; Medical.
11:32 a.m. 7100 block of La. 182; Telephone harassment.
2:56 p.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Complaint.
3:18 p.m. Egle Street; Arrest.
3:30 p.m. 500 block of Barrow Street; Trespassing.
3:31 p.m. 700 block of David Drive; Medical.
3:54 p.m. 700 block of Fourth Street; Complaint.
5:01 p.m. 500 block of Levee Road; Juvenile complaint.
6:55 p.m. 1000 block of La. 70; Theft.
7:51 p.m. 7700 block of La. 182; Disturbance.
7:53 p.m. 7700 block of La. 182; Reckless driver.
11:22 p.m. 2300 block of La. 70; Suspicious vehicle.
11:30 p.m. La. 70; Suspicious vehicle.
Sunday, Jan. 21
12:46 p.m. 300 block of Onstead Street; Medical.
2:14 a.m. General MacArthur Street; Utilities.
3:56 a.m. 1200 block of Victor II Boulevard; Suspicious vehicle.
4:22 a.m. 1000 block of La. 70; Vehicle accident.
5:25 a.m. 300 block of Greenwood Street; Alarm.
7:42 a.m. Federal Avenue/Bush Street; Crash.
8:16 a.m. 7100 block of Park Street; Burglary.
8:52 a.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Juvenile complaint.
9:57 a.m. 1100 block of Brashear Avenue; Theft.
10:41 a.m. 600 block of Arenz Street; Complaint.
2:24 p.m. 800 block of Sacred Heart Drive; Complaint.
2:56 p.m. Marguerite/Eighth streets; Reckless operation.
3:17 p.m. 3000 block of Keith Street; Loud music.
3:50 p.m. 500 block of Federal Avenue; Alarm.
4:05 p.m. 1100 block of Marguerite Street; Complaint.
6:38 p.m. U.S. 90 Business; Complaint.
7:08 p.m. La. 182; Complaint.
7:23 p.m. 1400 block of Filmore Street; Juvenile problems.
8:16 p.m. Brashear Avenue; Suspicious person.
8:58 p.m. 800 block of South Everett Street; Assistance.
9:43 p.m. 500 block of Barrow Street; Suspicious person.
11:04 p.m. 500 block of Willow Street; Complaint.
Monday, Jan. 22
12:27 a.m. 1000 block of Joseph Street; Assistance.

St. Mary deputies arrest armed robbery suspect

(Editor’s note: The charges listed here and the narratives that go with them are provided by the police agencies that made the arrests. Guilt or innocence has not been determined in court.)

St. Mary deputies reported the arrest of a Morgan City man wanted in Assumption Parish on an armed robbery charge.

St. Mary

Sheriff Blaise Smith reported that over the last 24-hour reporting period, the St. Mary Parish Sheriff's Office responded to 38 complaints and made these arrests:

--James Vincent Howell II, 19, Morgan City, was arrested at 6:32 p.m. Thursday on an Assumption Parish warrant alleging aggravated armed robbery with weapon, contributing to the delinquency of a minor and possession of a firearm by a felon. Bail has not been set at this time.

--Jennifer Yvette Goss, 42, Franklin, was arrested at 9:51 a.m. Thursday on a Lafourche Parish Sheriff's Office warrant alleging contempt of court. Goss is being held for another agency.

--Clinton Gordon, 65, Franklin, was arrested at 11:01 a.m. Thursday on a charge of obscenity. Bail has not been set at this time.

Morgan City

Chief Chad M. Adams reported that the Morgan City Police Department responded to 27 calls for service over the last 24-hour reporting period and made this arrest:

--Brock Ellis, 44, La. 182, Morgan City, was arrested at 9:10 a.m. Thursday on a charge of remaining after forbidden.

Patterson

Chief Garrett Grogan reported these arrests:

--Heidi Hoffpauir, 55, Main Street, Patterson, was arrested at 1:46 p.m. Thursday on charges of driving while intoxicated (first offense) and failure to maintain control (with accident). Hoffpauir is incarcerated at the Patterson PD Jail.

--Troy A. Benoit, 60, Kem Street, Patterson, was arrested at 8:24 p.m. Thursday on charges of aggravated battery, discharging a firearm in the city limits and possession of a firearm by a felon. Benoit is incarcerated at the Patterson PD Jail with no bond set.

Franklin

Chief Cedric Handy reported that the Franklin Police Department responded to 11 complaints over the last 48-hour reporting period and made these arrests:

--Djuan Johnson, 43, Gibbs Road, Franklin, was arrested at 3:54 p.m. Wednesday on a charge of domestic abuse battery. Johnson was booked, processed and held with no bond set at the time of press release.

--Terran Ballet, 20, Bud Street, Franklin, was arrested at 1:39 a.m. Thursday on charges of expired license plate, no driver's license and no insurance. Ballet was booked, processed and released on a $1,250 bond.

--Jeremy Randall, 36, Second Street, Franklin, was arrested at 6:04 am. Thursday on a warrant for 3rd Ward City Court alleging failure to appear on the charge of driver must be licensed. Randall was booked, processed and held on a $325 bond.

Assumption

Sheriff Leland Falcon reported these arrests:

--Baily Elijah Andras, 23, Bayou Bouef Road, Morgan City, was arrested on warrants charging him with failure to appear on charges of theft and motor vehicle theft.

Andras was previously arrested in Assumption Parish and ordered to appear in court Oct. 23 a and Nov. 13. He failed to appear, and arrest warrants were iussed Oct. 26 and Nov. 14.

Andras was arrested by the Beauregard Parish Sheriff’s Office on Dec. 20 on charges there. He was released to the custody of the Assumption Parish Sheriff’s Office on Sunday and booked on the Assumption charges.

Andras remains incarcerated pending a bond hearing

--Tyler Joseph Chenevert, 29, La. 621, Gonzales, was arrested Monday on charges of aggravated flight from an officer, unauthorized entry of an inhabited dwelling, resisting an officer with force or violence, driving under a suspended driver's license and reckless operation of a motor vehicle.

The charges result from a traffic incident Monday on La. 70 west of La. 1.

A uniformed patrol deputy observed a westbound vehicle on La. 70 commit a traffic violation and attempted a stop of that vehicle. The suspect vehicle engaged the deputy in a pursuit into Pierre Part.

The suspect exceeded speeds of 100 mph through Pierre Part, at which time he turned into the Landry Subdivision area. Pursuing deputies located the suspect vehicle in a driveway in the 3600 block of Keith Street.

The front door of the residence at the location was open. At that time, deputies encountered the suspect, now identified as Chenevert. As deputies attempted to arrest Chenevert, a struggle ensued.

Deputies quickly restrained Chenevert and took him into custody. Chenevert was booked into the Assumption Parish Detention Center and remains incarcerated with bond set at $285,000

Lawmakers pass bills ending many open primaries, creating 2nd Black-majority district

The Louisiana Legislature adjourned from its special session on Friday, passing new congressional districts as required by federal court order.

Lawmakers also sent to Gov. Jeff Landry's desk for a possible signature a bill that would close the state's open primary system.

Senate Bill 8, sponsored by Sen. Glen Womack, R-Madisonville, and preferred by Landry, would transform Republican U.S. Rep. Garret Graves’ 6th Congressional District into a second Black-majority district. The House favored it 86-16 and the Senate agreed to the lower chamber's changes 27-11.

Lawmakers also passed an appropriation bill for SB8 that would provide $1.4 million to the state secretary of state's office to implement the redistricting.

House Bill 17, sponsored by Rep. Julie Emerson, R-Carencro, would end the state's open primary system and replace it with a closed primary system that would require voters to cast ballots in only one primary.

The offices that would be contested in closed primaries include U.S. senators and representatives, state Supreme Court justices, seats on the state Board of Elementary and Secondary Education, and the Public Service Commission.

The Senate passed an amended version of the bill 29-9 and the House accepted the changes within that 67-36.

In a post on X, Landry praised Emerson on her work on the bill.

"We have started the process of necessary structural change to our election system," Landry said. "Great work!"

Landry ordered the special session after a court order required lawmakers to create a second majority-Black congressional district. State officials, led by Landry when he was serving as attorney general, tried to contest the decision at the 5th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals, which upheld the lower court's ruling.

Lawmakers didn't pass bills that would have drawn new districts for the state Supreme Court, increased its justices from seven to nine and another that would have implemented ranked-choice voting.

UPDATED: Bishop Mario Dorsonville of H-T Diocese dies at age 63

Less than a year after his appointment to lead the Roman Catholic Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux, Bishop Mario Dorsonville died Friday, the diocese announced in a Facebook post. Dorsonville was 63.
Dorsonville died at 6:50 p.m. Friday from complications related to liver disease, according to the diocese. He passed away at Ochsner Medical Center in Kenner.
“My heart is broken as I make this news to you as this is not the kind of message any one of us would expect to receive,” wrote the Rev. Simon Peter Engurait, the diocese’s vicar general, in a Facebook post. “I am aware that you will have a lot of questions on your mind.
“I ask that you be patient with us as we begin to navigate through these uncertain moments. In the meantime, I ask that you keep him in your prayers.”
Dorsonville had been hospitalized late last year but felt well enough to attend a retreat for the state’s bishop earlier this month.
Dorsonville was named by Pope Francis on Feb. 1 to become bishop for the diocese, which extends westward into eastern St. Mary Parish. Dorsonville assumed the post March 29.
He succeeded Bishop Shelton Fabre, who had been appointed archbishop of Louisville, Kentucky.
A few weeks less than a year elapsed between Fabre’s appointment to the Louisville Archdiocese in 2022 and Dorsonville’s appointment to the Houma-Thibodaux Diocese.
The lengthy process for naming a new bishop will involve consultations extending from Louisiana all the way to the Vatican.
A College of Consultors on Monday selected Engurait to be diocese administrator until Pope Francis appoints a new bishop.
Dorsonville was born, educated and ordained in Colombia.
He came to the United States to study at the Catholic University of America in Washington.
Dorsonville served the Archdiocese of Washington as parochial vicar of Our Lady of Lourdes Parish in Bethesda, Maryland, and St. Mark the Evangelist Parish in Hyattsville, Maryland.
After being named auxiliary bishop of Washington in 2015, he served as vicar general for the Archdiocese of Washington until his appointment to the Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux.

Outgoing Nike royalty

The children’s Krewe of Nike will present its ball at 7 p.m. Saturday at the Morgan City Municipal Auditorium. All viewing is invitation only. Bidding adieu will be King and Queen Nike LI Parker Borroughs and Elizabeth Patterson. Krewe members parade behind the Krewe of Galatea procession at 2 p.m. Feb. 11 in Morgan City.

Hephaestus celebrates Twelfth Night with Queen's Party

The Krewe of Hephaestus celebrated the start of Mardi Gras season with its traditional Twelfth Night Queen’s Party held Jan. 6 at the Old Building in Berwick. The party was hosted by Queen Hephaestus LXIII Anna Armato and her family. From left are John and Nicol Armato, parents of the queen; the queen; King Hephaestus LXIII Dr. Eric Melancon and his wife Karen; Diana Vining, wife of the captain; and Captain Michael Vining.

Some Mardi Gras history from The History Channel

Mardi Gras and Carnival are the same celebrations.
Though Mardi Gras technically refers only to Fat Tuesday, the Mardi Gras season actually begins on Epiphany, a Christian holiday celebrated on Jan. 6 that is otherwise known as Three Kings Day or the Twelfth Day of Christmas.
In Brazil and many other countries, this period between Epiphany and Fat Tuesday is known as Carnival. Whichever name you prefer to use, the revelries of Mardi Gras last until midnight, when Ash Wednesday ushers in 40 days of Lent.
Mardi Gras may or may not have pagan roots.
A popular theory holds that Mardi Gras’ origins lie in ancient pagan celebrations of spring and fertility, such as Saturnalia and Lupercalia. Some experts contend, however, that Mardi Gras-type festivities popped up solely as a result of the Catholic Church’s discouragement of sex and meat during Lent.
Church reformers may have helped to propagate the pagan rumors, these experts say, in the hope of dissuading pre-Lenten hedonism.
Mardi Gras in New Orleans survived early efforts at suppression.
Mardi Gras got going in New Orleans soon after the city’s founding in 1718. The Spanish, who ruled the Big Easy from 1762 to 1800, apparently cracked down on certain Mardi Gras rituals (though documentation from that period is scarce).
U.S. authorities did much the same after taking control in 1803, banning both masked balls and public disguises. Nonetheless, they eventually accepted the festival’s existence. The first recorded Mardi Gras street parade in New Orleans took place in 1837, by which time the city had transformed from a small backwater into a major metropolis.
Twenty years later, six men organized a secret society called the Mistick Krewe of Comus. By holding a parade with the theme of “The Demon Actors in Milton’s Paradise Lost,” along with a lavish grand ball, Comus reversed the declining popularity of Mardi Gras and helped establish New Orleans as its clear epicenter in the United States.
Other secret societies quickly followed Comus’ lead.
In 1872 the Krewe of Rex and the Knights of Momus began paying for parades and balls of their own. They were followed a decade later by the Krewe of Proteus. Since these early societies were exclusively male and white, women and Black residents formed their own groups, such as Les Mysterieuses and the Zulu Social Aid and Pleasure Club.
Mardi Gras occasionally gets canceled.
Since Comus ushered in the modern era of Mardi Gras in 1857, the New Orleans festivities have been canceled about a dozen times. Most of those cancellations came during the Civil War, World War I and World War II, though revelers also stayed home during an 1870s yellow fever outbreak. A scaled-down version even took place in 2006, just months after Hurricane Katrina flooded the Gulf Coast and killed over 1,800 people. Many in-person celebrations and parades in New Orleans in 2021 were canceled due to the COVID-19 pandemic.
Available mostly during the Mardi Gras season, king cake is typically made with brioche dough. Braided and laced with cinnamon, the dough is then glazed with purple, green and gold sugar or covered in icing in those same Mardi Gras colors.
What really sets king cake apart from other desserts, however, is the small plastic baby hidden inside. Whoever finds the baby in his or her slice must buy the next cake or perhaps host the next party.

Absent father wonders about the fate of mother and child

DEAR ABBY: Almost 50 years ago, I got a girl pregnant. She left the state and two years later sent me a letter and a picture of the cutest baby — mine. Her letter ripped me apart. I admit I was a terrible person and deserved everything she wrote.
Now that I’m up in years, I would like to know about her and the child. I have thought about the baby often throughout the years. I don’t want back into her life, but I would certainly like to see her. I have been thinking about hiring a private investigator to find her whereabouts.
Your thoughts on this?
DEFERRED DAD IN NEW MEXICO

DEAR DAD: After the private investigator lets you know where your old girlfriend is (providing she’s still on this side of the sod), refrain from showing up in person.
Clearly, the “girl” has gone on with her life, and the “baby” is well into middle age. Write your old flame a letter, or have your lawyer do it, explaining you have thought about her and the child, and ask if either of them is willing to meet with you. Then cross your fingers.

DEAR ABBY: I have been obese most of my life. Recently, I had a health issue that resulted in my losing a significant amount of weight. Thankfully, I’m doing much better now.
While I’m happy to be enjoying life as a thinner person, how do I handle the well-meaning questions from people who want to know how I did it? My family and a few close friends know what I went through, but I’m not comfortable sharing the details with co-workers, clients, neighbors, etc., regarding how I got my new figure.
How do I satisfy the curiosity of the questioners without seeming rude or divulging too many details?
KEEPING IT TO MYSELF

DEAR KEEPING: You do not have to answer every question that is asked of you.
Bear in mind that these folks are acknowledging your achievement, so try this: “Thank you for the compliment, but I prefer not to discuss it.” (Then smile and try not to look like you’re gloating.)

DEAR ABBY: I live in a different state than my parents with my husband and two children. When we FaceTime with them (mainly my mom) or they come to visit, Mom only talks about my niece and nephew. I love my niece and nephew, but it feels like they are all I hear about.
It makes it seem like Mom doesn’t care or pay attention to my children because she and Dad are thinking only about my niece or nephew. They often compare my children to their cousins as well. If I mention something one of my kids did, Mom instantly says my niece or nephew did the same thing.
Other people have commented that they have noticed her doing this, so I know I’m not being overly sensitive.
What can I say to her without upsetting the rest of the family?
MY KIDS COUNT, TOO

DEAR MY KIDS: If your mother is oblivious to what she has been doing, make clear to her that her favoritism is blatant.
Tell her what she is doing is insensitive, that other people have noticed and pointed it out to you and you want it stopped before your children are old enough to catch on. Period.
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