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Sex, love, loss: Little is off limits on ‘Red Table Talk’

NEW YORK — Sex, love and loss, self-harm, addiction and recovery: There isn’t much Jada Pinkett Smith, her mom, Adrienne Banfield-Norris, and her 17-year-old daughter, Willow, aren’t willing to talk about around a shiny round red table in a unique Facebook show that has a growing, grateful audience of women.
And that, Pinkett Smith said in a recent interview, is the point.
Pinkett Smith, who has been both TV talk show guest and TV talk show producer, considers “Red Table Talk” intimate, authentic and fluid, a combination difficult to achieve through more traditional channels. The weekly show debuted about a month ago on Facebook Watch and includes live extras like viewer questions and guest appearances by friends and family.
“It’s not about format,” she said. “I want to keep that organic flow. I don’t want anything to be forced.”
It certainly doesn’t feel that it is as the three generations venture into some sensitive territory.
So far, Willow has revealed that she was once a cutter, hated her “Whip My Hair” fame and years ago walked in on her mom and dad, Will Smith, having sex. Pinkett Smith said she herself was 9 when her grandmother filled her in on the wonders of masturbation and she later spent a stretch of quality time alone with sex toys, sometimes achieving multiple orgasms in up to five forays in a single day.
Norris, fondly referred to as Gammy, spoke honestly about her past struggles with drug addiction and the pain of losing a daughter. Pinkett Smith and Gabrielle Union shared their 17-year feud and their mending of fences. Pinkett Smith and her husband’s first wife, Sheree Fletcher, went over rockier times raising the now-grown Trey, Will’s son with Fletcher.
Gammy noted she wasn’t always on board with the unconventional freedoms Will and Jada have allowed their kids, including 19-year-old Jaden, who was allowed to move out at age 15.
The idea, Pinkett Smith said, is to testify rather than preach. The former takes courage and is much more helpful, she said.
“We talk so much about what’s happening outside of us and we’re not talking enough about what’s going on within,” said Pinkett Smith, who earlier this week on Instagram paid tribute to the late Anthony Bourdain and Kate Spade with the acknowledgement that she has in the past contemplated suicide.
“We’re all up in here going through (stuff). We’re all in pain. We’re all trying to figure it out. For those of us who have figured out even a sliver of all of this, just tell me your story, because maybe I can get an answer for myself. That’s what this show is all about,” she said.
Sharing on such sensitive topics takes “getting to a certain place where you have a deep sense of comfort with yourself,” said Pinkett Smith, who most recently co-starred in the comedy “Girls Trip.”
Control is key, and Facebook is just the place to keep it loose, she said.
The show is an outgrowth of an online Mother’s Day video the three made when Willow was just 12. Pinkett Smith’s producing partner, Ellen Rakieten, with Miguel Melendez, was the one to suggest they revive it. Facebook is committed to 10 episodes, but it’s possible the run will be extended.
“I just wanted a place where people could have the comfort level to talk about real things, where you can really have a raw conversation, with a transparent nature, and not have to worry,” Pinkett Smith added. “Facebook creates a certain intimacy and community. I can go into Facebook and actually talk to people.”
The show has a separate Facebook group with nearly 280,000 members where regular conversations and those interactions are happening. Their premiere trip to the red table, which is in Pinkett Smith’s California home, has been viewed about 27 million times. The show airs Mondays and question sessions on Wednesdays.
“I love being able to go in an actually talk to people,” Pinkett Smith said. “Our community is growing every day and I’m a part of it and actually in it. That’s what I love. We love the female communion, where young people and older people can learn from each other. It feels like an old-school women’s ritual, whether it’s in the kitchen cooking and talking or somewhere else. That’s hard to come by these days.”
—Online:
www.facebook.com/redtabletalk/

Michelle Obama pushes education through initiative

WASHINGTON — Former first lady Michelle Obama told first-generation college freshmen to surround themselves with a community to help them survive college.
Obama was the first in her family to attend college. She said: “Finding a cohort for yourself and starting to build your community is going to be important. College wasn’t meant to do alone.”
She spoke at the fifth annual Beating the Odds summit. Reach Higher, an education initiative launched by Obama during her husband’s presidency, partnered with Twitter and Handshake, a college-to-career network, for the daylong workshop. It included a celebrity panel with La La Anthony from the Starz show “Power” and Daveed Diggs from the blockbuster musical “Hamilton.”
Obama, 54, who attended Princeton University, remembered how odd she felt her first time on the campus. “It was like a whole new language,” she said. “I had never sat in a lecture, I didn’t know what a syllabus was.”
Anthony only spent one semester at Howard University and blamed her dropping-out on a lack of encouragement and a lack of knowledge about resources that were available to help her.
“I was always in a rush to get into what I thought was the ‘real world,’” she said.
Aniyah Fields, 18, of Washington will be the first in her family to go to college. Fields, who plans to attend George Washington University this fall, said Obama’s message will encourage her to continue her education despite her difficulties.
“Even though there are times I’ll doubt myself, I know that those struggles have prepared me,” said Fields, whose purse featured a picture of a Vogue magazine cover that the former first lady posed for in 2013.
Fields plans to major in innovation and entrepreneurship with dual minors in philosophy and Spanish.

Cancer patient discusses too much detail in public

DEAR ABBY: A dear friend has been battling cervical cancer. Her condition has left her dependent on a colostomy bag. She’s not shy about discussing it on Facebook and in public, where she speaks loudly. I have tried to be understanding and supportive, but there are limits. My problem is, she’s hell-bent on making sure I see this colostomy bag by frequently checking to see if it’s full, even after returning from the bathroom where I’m certain she checked it. More recently, we were at a restaurant and she exposed her bag in full view of others while they were ...

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Sheriff: Warden reassigned, two deputies fired after latest jail escape

After two separate inmate escape incidents from the St. Mary Parish jail in less than two weeks, the jail's warden has been reassigned to another position with the sheriff's office, and two more sheriff's deputies have been fired. Three other deputies were fired following the first escape in early June.

As part of the comprehensive reorganization of the staff at the St. Mary Parish Law Enforcement Center in Centerville, Warden Robin Landry will be transferred to another position within the sheriff's office, Sheriff Scott Anslum said in a news release.

Effective Tuesday, Patrol Commander Capt. Nick Rogers will be named as acting warden. Rogers has served in the St. Mary Parish Sheriff’s Office for 16 years, including serving as assistant warden from 2014 to 2016., the release said

Anslum also stated that two deputies have been terminated as a result of an ongoing internal investigation involving the latest incident.The deputies were identified as Henry Estelle and Harly Dykes.

Anslum stated in the release that he will conduct a search for a new warden and stated that "he is committed to investigate the reasons for these security lapses and institute whatever additional training, manpower assignments and policies are necessary to protect the citizens of St. Mary Parish."

At about 2 p.m. June 3, the sheriff’s office sent a news release reporting that authorities were searching for four escaped inmates from the parish jail in Centerville.

Then, around 9 p.m. Friday, a sheriff’s office news release reported the escape of another inmate. The sheriff’s office hasn’t released any information stating when the escapes may have occurred or how the inmates were able to escape the jail.

The inmates in the June 3 escape were William Deans, 40, Elias Todd, 24, Jamie Scarbrough, 28, and Tanner Scarbrough, 18.

The inmate in Friday’s escape was identified as Jeremy Anthony Perez, 25, of the 500 block of Lake Dauterive Road in New Iberia. Perez had been in jail on charges of aggravated flight from an officer, no driver’s license, careless operation and possession of marijuana and drug paraphernalia. Perez was still at-large as of Monday afternoon. Perez is described as a white male standing 5 feet 11 inches and weighing 143 pounds with brown eyes and blonde hair. Perez was last wearing green colored jail clothing.

Deans had been incarcerated on a charge domestic abuse by strangulation; Jamie Scarbrough on charges of illegal possession of stolen things, possession of a firearm by a convicted felon and possession of marijuana; Tanner Scarbrough on charges of illegal possession of a stolen firearm and possession of a firearm with an obliterated number; and Todd on charges of theft of a motor vehicle, possession of drug paraphernalia, obstruction of justice, theft and criminal damage to property.

Each escaped inmate was additionally charged or faces a charge of simple escape.

Deans was located in the early morning hours of June 4 in Morgan City with the assistance of local agencies, a release said. Jamie Scarbrough and Tanner Scarbrough, were located and apprehended June 4 in Picayune, Mississippi, by the Picayune Police Department.

Four other suspects were arrested in connection with the June 3 escape and accused of helping the escaped inmates. Brooke Mcmanus, 26, of Patterson; Bernetta Pennison, 49, of Berwick; Brandon Collier, 22, of Morgan City; and William Haff, 37, of Berwick; were each arrested on a charge of assisting escape.

Todd was caught later on June 4 after St. Mary Parish Sheriff’s Office deputies learned that Todd had been dropped off at a home in Berwick. Deputies secured a search warrant for the home and located Todd, a news release said.

Two more suspects were accused of assisting Todd in his escape from authorities. Randy Pinkerton, 21, and Trinity Todd, 23, both of Bayou Vista, were each arrested on a charge of assisting escape. Deputies learned that Pinkerton and Trinity Todd provided transportation and a place to stay for Elias Todd, a release said.

Following the completion of an internal affairs investigation regarding the June 3 escape, three sheriff’s deputies were fired. The fired deputies were identified as Monica Murdock, Rosemary Johnson and Timothy Kiser. No criminal charges were pursued against the deputies. Authorities determined that the three deputies failed to follow proper security protocol in connection with the escape, a news release said.

The two escapes are the first ones reported at the St. Mary Parish jail since February 2014, when inmates Christopher Horton and Joshua Folks entered the ceiling of the jail, went through the roof and then made their way down an outside wall, a sheriff’s release said. The two inmates were caught by Lafayette police two days after their escape.

Horton was convicted less than six months after his escape of first-degree murder in the 2007 stabbing death and robbery of his brother, The Daily Review reported.

At the time of February 2014 escape, The Daily Review reported that the escape was the third such incident to occur at the parish jail since it opened in May 2000.

Johnny's Propeller defeats Dragna Brothers

Johnny’s Propeller defeated Dragna Brothers 6-3 on June 6 in Morgan City Recreation Department Dixie League action. Gage Begley led Johnny’s Propeller with a 3-for-4 performance with a triple and a run. Other top Johnny’s offensive contributors were Jase Reynaud, 2-for-3; and Kaleb Nguyen, Thomas Mancuso and Mason Johnston, all 1-for-3 with a run. Brandon Cordero led Dragna Brothers with a 1-for-3 performance with a double and a walk. Other top Dragna Brothers offensive contributors were Jahara Howard, 1-for-3, and Talen Black, two walks and two runs. A.J. Dohmann 9, Scully’s 2 Jayden Gibson hit two home runs and A.J. Dohmann defeated Scully’s 9-2 in ...

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Man charged with domestic abuse battery

A 42-year-old man was charged with domestic abuse after Morgan City police responded to a Friday disturbance, Police Chief James Blair said in a news release.

—Richard K. Hawkins, 42, of Birch Street in Morgan City, was arrested at 3 a.m. Friday on a charge of domestic abuse battery.

Patrol officers responded to the area of Terrebonne Street in regard to a disturbance. Officers arrived when Hawkins was identified as one of the parties involved. Hawkins allegedly struck the victim during a verbal altercation. Hawkins was jailed.

Blair reported that officers responded to 109 calls and reported the following arrests:

—Jose A. Ramos, 19, of Neptune Street in Bayou Vista, was arrested at 2:45 p.m. Friday on a warrant charging him with failure to appear for arraignment. Ramos was located and arrested at the police department on a city court warrant. Ramos was jailed.

—Jeric J. Bias, 42, of Arkansas Street in Morgan City, was arrested at 5:46 p.m. Sunday on a charge of disturbing the peace.

Patrol officers responded to the area of Arkansas Street in regard to a disturbance. Officers arrived when Bias was identified as one of the parties involved. Bias allegedly caused a disturbance during an altercation. Bias was jailed.

St. Mary Parish Sheriff Scott Anslum reported that deputies responded to 136 complaints in the parish and reported the following arrests in east St. Mary Parish:

—Lauren Cormier, 24, of Georgine Street in Duson, was arrested at 10:59 a.m. Friday on charges of careless operation with a crash and driving under suspension.

A deputy patrolling Ricohoc responded to a crash on U.S. 90. The deputy made contact with the driver of one of the vehicles, Cormier. The deputy found evidence that Cormier was distracted, causing her to rear-end another vehicle, Anslum said. The deputy also learned that Cormier was operating the vehicle with a suspended driver’s license. Cormier was released on a summons to appear in court Sept. 4.

—Morrell Henderson, 59, of West Syls Lane in Amelia, was arrested at 12:03 p.m. Saturday on a charge of possession of marijuana.

A deputy patrolling Amelia responded to a home on West Syls Lane for an unrelated complaint. The deputy made contact with Henderson and found evidence that he had marijuana in his possession. Henderson was released on a summons to appear in court Sept. 4.

—A juvenile male, 16, was arrested at 4 p.m. Sunday on charges of vehicle burglary and theft.

A deputy patrolling the Patterson area responded to a vehicle burglary at a home on Hendricks Street. Through the investigation, the deputy found evidence that the juvenile male stole items from the vehicle and used a debit card to make a purchase, Anslum said. The juvenile was released into the custody of his guardian pending juvenile court proceedings.

Patterson Police Chief Janis Merritt reported the following arrests:

—Joseph Darby Jr., 18, of Martin Luther King Jr. Avenue in Patterson, was arrested at 8:51 p.m. Friday on a charge of disturbing the peace. Darby posted $353 cash bail.

—Barron Wade Bowie, 53, of Morgan City, was arrested at 10:51 p.m. Friday on a charge of failure to appear for criminal neglect of family. Bowie was jailed on $5,148.20 bail.

Berwick Police Chief James Richard reported no arrests.

Budget cuts days away, Louisiana lawmakers return to session

BATON ROUGE (AP) — With time running out before hundreds of millions in cuts take hold, Louisiana lawmakers take one more stab at raising money for next year's budget, returning Monday for their fourth legislative session this year.
Gov. John Bel Edwards called the House and Senate back to Baton Rouge for their 10th legislative session since the term began in 2016, with frustration mounting that the "fiscal cliff" is only two weeks away and attempts to reach a deal have repeatedly cratered. He's asking lawmakers to renew part of a temporary 1 percent state sales tax whose expiration is the main driver of the hole in next year's budget.
"We have one more opportunity to get this right for the people of Louisiana," the Democratic governor said when he called this latest session.
But it remains uncertain if enough members of the House's competing factions will broker an agreement to reach the two-thirds vote required to pass a tax. House GOP leaders, whose sales tax proposal in the last session didn't have the support of a majority of the chamber, so far have been unable to shepherd any measure through the House while also reaching a deal with the more-unified Senate and Edwards.
"I don't know if they're in search of a consensus," Senate Finance Chairman Eric LaFleur, a Ville Platte Democrat, said of House leaders.
House Speaker Taylor Barras and House GOP leader Lance Harris didn't return calls for comment about the session.
Louisiana has a 5 percent state sales tax rate that drops to 4 percent on July 1, when the new budget year begins. Edwards, senators and a majority of House members supported moving the rate to 4.5 percent in July, to raise about $500 million. House Republican leaders instead sought a 4.33 percent rate to raise about $400 million.
Now, some Republicans in the House are floating a 4.4 percent rate.
The proposals also involve removing or scaling back some sales tax breaks, particularly sales tax exemptions that larger businesses receive.
Lawmakers passed a more than $29 billion operating budget for the upcoming year that needs another $500 million to be fully financed. Without the additional money, cuts will fall across the TOPS tuition program, college campuses and public safety programs. The Edwards administration says the food stamp program would be eliminated because the state won't be able to afford to manage it.
Republicans in the House say the governor is exaggerating, trying to scare up tax votes. They want to open up health programs, which are currently protected, to cuts next year so they can reshuffle money elsewhere.
"We have money to fund things. That's just a scare tactic," Rep. Valarie Hodges, a Livingston Parish Republican said at a recent luncheon. She told a GOP group: "There are cuts that can be made that are not catastrophic."
Senate leaders disagree with the idea of reconfiguring the budget, instead wanting to fully fund it, saying they reached an agreement among their members on the spending plan.
Lawmakers have spent 45 weeks in session in the 30 months since their term began in January 2016, with Edwards calling seven special sessions to deal with Louisiana's continuing financial uncertainty.
The latest special session is expected to cost about $50,000 to $60,000 a day. A handful of lawmakers have said they intend to donate their daily pay from this latest session to charity.

St. Mary Excel reaches goal

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St. Mary Excel learned Thursday that it has reached its $140,000 fundraising goal to sponsor the Urban Land Institute’s visit to the area. The visit's purpose is to generate ideas for economic development and riverfront utilization in the Morgan City-Berwick area. St. Mary Excel is asking area citizens to reserve time for ULI’s visit, which is scheduled for Sept.16 -Sept 21. Excel member are, from left: Mac Wade, Catherine Holcomb, Lauren Dozar, Louis Tamporello, Alice Pecoraro, Monica Mancuso, Cindy Cutrera and Frank Fink.

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