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Woman won’t marry boyfriend because of his mom

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I have been together for 19 years. He wants to get married, but I keep putting it off. I was married before; he’s never been married. I haven’t done it because I can’t get over something his mom did to me more than 10 years ago.
I was close with her. Her daughter-in-law and I knew each other from when we were younger, but we never got along. Well, she convinced my boyfriend’s mom that I was sleeping with a friend of theirs, which was a lie. Instead of coming to me asking me about it, she and her DIL came to my house, screaming at me and ordered me to let my boyfriend go so he could be happy and find someone else, since I was messing around.
I was so stunned I just said, “Fine!” and told them to leave. My boyfriend was furious. He called his mom and yelled at her. When she realized it wasn’t true, she apologized.
My issue is, I was more hurt than mad because of how it was handled. Am I being selfish and stubborn?
STILL HURT IN FLORIDA

DEAR STILL HURT: You are neither selfish nor stubborn. You are foolish. If you think you are punishing your boyfriend’s mother by refusing to marry her son (for 19 years!), you are mistaken. It hasn’t affected her at all.
I do think you are overdue in finding a way to bury the hatchet with the woman whose mistake was in believing everything she was told.

DEAR ABBY: Before my husband and I married, we were regaled with stories about the antiques that would come to him because he is the eldest son. We spent many long weekends across the country taking care of the in-laws’ “honey-do” lists, and my mother-in-law often told us this-and-that item would be ours someday.
Well, guess what? They turned around and gave every single one to my brother-in-law. Yes, I realize it’s their privilege to dispose of their property as they wish. But how do we reconcile feeling used? Am I out of bounds because I expected their promise to be honored and remembered?
I no longer care to be around them or hear their empty promises. I feel they defrauded my husband by promising tens of thousands of dollars’ worth of silver and furniture, and then handed it all to his brother.
Any advice?
SLIGHTED IN LOUISIANA

DEAR SLIGHTED: Ask your in-laws politely why they promised the heirlooms to you and your husband and then gave them to his brother.
If they planned to follow through, it should have been put in writing in case something unexpected happened. Unless there is something you didn’t include in your letter, what your in-laws did was terrible.
In the future, it would be understandable if you were less at their beck and call when their “honey-do” list needs attending to.
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Jazz Fest postponed due to COVID; numbers keep rising here

COVID-19 has again led to the postponement of Louisiana's largest music festival.

The disease has also claimed two more lives in St. Mary, and Ochsner Health reported that COVID hospitalizations in its Louisiana and Mississippi hospitals
have surpassed 1,000.

Organizers of the New Orleans Jazz & Heritage Festival, which was to feature a performance by the Rolling Stones during its Oct. 8-17 run, have postponed
the event.

"We now look forward to next spring, when we will present the Festival during its traditional timeframe," according to a statement posted on the festival's
Facebook page.

Next year's dates are April 29-May 8.

Hailee Thomas, director of Morgan City's Louisiana Shrimp and Petroleum Festival, said last week that organizers are monitoring the COVID situation, but
that plans are to continue with the Labor Day event.

Numbers
Friday's Louisiana Office of Public Health reported 71 new COVID cases in St. Mary since Thursday, raising the pandemic total to 6,635, a number equal to
about one of every eight parish residents.

The percentage of St. Mary COVID tests returning positive results reached 19.1% in the week ending July 28, the latest week for which numbers were
available.

Two more deaths were reported Friday, raising the pandemic death toll to 155. Eight COVID-related deaths were reported in the parish last week.

Statewide, 6,116 new COVID cases were reported by the OPH Friday. Forty-eight deaths were also reported.

The number of hospitalizations across Louisiana rose to 2,421, about 17% higher than the peak during the winter 2020-21 COVID surge.

In Louisiana Department of Health Region 3, which includes St. Mary, 490 of 596 total hospital beds and 68 of 79 intensive care beds were occupied.

Ochsner

Louisiana's largest health care system reported Sunday on its Facebook page that it had 1,003 COVID patients in its Louisiana and Mississippi hospitals.

On July 20, the system was treating 313 patients.

Ninety percent of the current Ochsner COVID patients are unvaccinated, the Facebook post said.

Ocshner operates four hospitals in its Bayou Region, including Ochsner St. Mary in Morgan City.

Morgan City woman makes history with Army commission

Northwestern State University ROTC Cadet Meya Morse was commissioned Friday as a second lieutenant in the U.S. Army and is NSU’s first female cadet to be selected to serve on active duty in the Army’s Armor branch.
Morse is a native of Morgan City and completed a bachelor’s degree at the close of NSU’s summer session in computer information systems with a concentration in web development and a minor in military science.
“Finding out that I would branch as an armor officer was a surprise yet satisfaction to my eyes,” Morse said. “Not only will I be active duty in the armed forces, but I will be a part of a combat arms — the battlefield — branch. My role as an armor officer is to lead in different operations and lead in combat operations pertaining to tanks and cavalry reconnaissance.”
“Meya has made history here in the Demon Battalion by being our first female cadet to commission as an Armor officer. Let that sink in a minute, our first female cadet in history to commission as an Armor officer,” said Lt. Col. Joshua R. Blake, professor of military science. “We are fortunate to witness this historic event as she is the first in what will be a long line of courageous women who take advantage of the new opportunities to serve.”
Infantry and armor branches of the military were closed to women until 2016 when all military occupations and positions were opened to women who qualify and meet specific standards.
“As an Infantry officer, I can tell you firsthand that the Armor and Infantry branches are at the tip of the spear,” Drake said. “These branches are the hammer that close with and destroy our nation’s adversaries with decisive action and firepower. If you haven’t seen an M1 Abrams shoot its 120mm main gun, it’s an amazing demonstration of the Army’s strength.”
Morse is also the first female from her hometown to commission into a combat branch. Although unsure where she will be stationed, she will first head to Fort Benning, Georgia, for Basic Officer Leaders Course.
Morse graduated from Morgan City High School in 2016. While in high school, she was involved in many organizations, including National Beta Club and JROTC where she was the Battalion Commander of Morgan City High School.
“Before Battalion Commander, I went to JROTC Cadet Leadership Training Course, which is a week of leadership training. There, I was the top cadet in the entire camp out of over 600 cadets. Being Battalion Commander I did over 30 service events, and I led over 40 cadets in the Battalion,” Morse said.
In high school, Morse was also in the gifted program for acting, singing and drawing and was part of Morgan City’s women’s basketball and track teams. As a basketball player, she was named All-State for four years and was team captain. In track, she went to Regionals in 2015 for the 300 hurdles. She was also MC for school pep rallies and Homecoming Queen in 2015.
Arriving at NSU in 2016, Morse was president of Juice Athletics, part of Lifted Voices choir and dance and joined African America Caucus participating in Wild n Out for three years. She also did community service and intramural sports and was named All Star and MVP for flag football and basketball. Her name is on several flags hanging in the WRAC representing five championships in intramural sports. She is an Honor Roll student.
“I joined the Northwestern State Demon Battalion in 2019 because I wanted to further my military outlook. From there, I held various positions such as S-1, president of the Black Knights, president of the Cadet Funds and executive officer. I volunteered at the nursing home, animal shelter, summer program for kids back in Morgan City and service events. I also attended Operation Agile Leader to commission as an officer in the Army,” she said.
Morse currently serves in the Army Reserves and has been serving in the military for four years as a specialist. Her MOS was an 88M (Transportation Specialist) for the 441st Transportation Company in New Orleans.

Berwick girls won individual recognition at Babe Ruth World Series

Members of the Berwick 10U All-Stars earned individual honors during the team's appearance last week in the Babe Ruth World Series in Jensen Beach, Florida.

Aubrey Harris was named a Gold Glove player on the All-Defensive Team.

After each game, a Player of the Game was named from each team. Anna Gros of Berwick won that honor after three different games.

Her teammates Shelby Taylor, Emilly Osburn, Audrey Lodrigue, Aubrey Harris, Ann Marie Beadle and Madisson Gibson were named Player of the Game during the tournament.

Here's a recap of Berwick's games at the World Series:

Pool Play
Teams were seeded in bracket play according to their results in pool play games.

July 30
Berwick 6, Brookfield Burn (Connecticut) 1

July 31
Berwick 9, Wildcats Extreme (Florida) 0
Anna Gros 2-for-2
Ann Marie Beadle 1-for-1
Madisson Gibson 1-for-1
Aubrey Harris 1-for-1
Victoria Gonzales 1-for-1
Jaselynn Haven 1-for-1

Fern Creek Orange (Kentucky) 6, Berwick 0
Anna Gros 1-for-3
Audrey Lodrigue 1-for-2

Aug. 1
Fort Myers (Florida) 5, Berwick 1
Anna Gros 1-for-3
Shelby Taylor 2-for-3
Emilly Osburn 2-for-2
Aubrey Harris 1-for-2

Bracket Play
Aug. 2
Berwick 6, Duplin County (North Carolina) 5
Anna Gros 1-for-3, double
Ann Marie Beadle 1-for-3
Madisson Gibson 1-for-3, triple
Aubrey Harris 1-for-2

Fern Creek Orange (Kentucky) 9, Berwick 0
Audrey Lodrigue 1-for-1

Aug. 3
Berwick 3, Brookfield Burn (Connecticut) 2
Anna Gros 2-for-3
Shelby Taylor 2-for-2
Ann Marie Beadle 1-for-3, home run
Jaselynn Haven 1-for-2

Duplin County (North Carolina) 7, Berwick 2
Shelby Taylor 2-for-3
Ann Marie Beadle 2-for-3, double
Audrey Lodrigue 1-for-2
Madisson Gibson 1-for-3
Aubrey Harris 1-for-1
Victoria Gonzales 1-for-2

Diamond Bracket
Aug. 4
Berwick 3, Madeira Beach (Florida) 1
Shelby Taylor 1-for-2
Ann Marie Beadle 2-for-2
Jaselynn Haven 1-for-2

Brookfield Burn (Connecticut) 3, Berwick 2
Anna Gros 1-for-2
Shelby Taylor 1-for-2
Ann Marie Beadle 2-for-2
Audrey Lodrigue 1-for-2
Aubrey Harris 2-for-2

Norwood wins gold as Team USA clinches 4x400 at Olympics

Vernon Norwood won a gold medal at the Olympic Games Saturday in Tokyo as the Team USA won in the men’s 4x400-meter relay final.
The U.S. quartet of Michael Cherry, Michael Norman, Bryce Deadmon and Rai Benjamin clocked a time of 2:55.70, easily defeating Netherlands, who finished second with a time of 2:57.18, according to USA Track & Field. Botswana was third with a time of 2:57.27.
Norwood earned his medal for his part in anchoring the squad to the finals during the preliminary round. In the qualifying round, Team USA finished with the fastest preliminary time in this year’s Olympics, crossing the finish line in 2:57.77. According to USA Track and Field, it is the fastest preliminary time in 4x400-meter dash in Olympic history.
On July 30, Norwood won his first medal of the Olympics as he anchored the mixed 4x400-meter relay to a bronze medal finish. Team USA finished third with a time of 3:10.22.
Norwood is just the third LSU athlete all-time to win two medals at an Olympic games and the first since 2008.
He also is part of a group of former LSU track and field athletes who broke the school record for most gold medals won at an Olympic Games with six.
Additional information from LSUsports.net.

Developments in the battle against COVID

Here are recent developments in the battle against COVID-19:
More schools,
more masks
Bishop J. Douglas De-shotel of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Lafayette says students 5 and over at the diocese’s church schools will be required to wear masks. The diocese extends into west St. Mary.
Bishop Shelton Fabre had issued similar policy for the Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux, of which Central Catholic is part.
Louisiana Attorney General Jeff Landry asked Deshotel to reconsider in a letter Thursday. He said the science and guidance on mask-wearing is mixed.
“I would hope that we can all respect each other’s choices and decisions and come together in faith and community,” Landry wrote. “I hope that you will give us that choice.”
Landry also claimed in the letter that Catholic Charities is assisting undocumented immigrants in coming to this country.
Landry had also come under fire over allegations that he circulated a letter among AG’s Office employees offering advice on how to get around school mask requirements.
Numbers
The Louisiana Office of Public Health reported a one-day increase of 95 COVID-19 cases in St. Mary on Thursday, bringing the total number of cases to 6,564.
Two more deaths were added to the St. Mary COVID death toll, apparently reflecting the last of sixth deaths reported by the Coroner’s Office Sunday-Tuesday. The pandemic death toll here is now 153.
Statewide, 5,468 new cases were reported Thursday along with 33 deaths.
Hospitalizations rose by 103 to 2,350.
Ochsner
Ochsner Health Sys-tem, which operates Ochsner St. Mary in Morgan City, reported an increase in COVID hospitalizations in its Louisiana and Missis-sippi hospitals.
The hospitals were treating 890 COVID patients Wednesday, up 69 from Tuesday’s total.
In the system’s Bayou region, which includes Ochsner St. Mary, 94 COVID patients were being treated Wednesday, up 11 from Tuesday.
Ochsner has warned of a growing number of COVID infections among people 19 and under. COVID test positivity for young people in that age group this week is at 24.5%.
Ochsner is caring for seven pediatric patients in its hospitals. Their average age is 5.7.

New school year, same precautions

The Daily Review/Geoff Stoute
Students return Friday for the first day of the 2021-22 school year at Central Catholic Elementary and Central Catholic High. Above, the Rev. Brett Lapeyrouse dispenses hand sanitizer to students. Friday was also the first day for St. Mary public schools, which, like Central Catholic, are following the state mandate requiring masks of students and employees when they're indoors.

Norwood advances to 4x4 relay finals at Olympic Games

Staff Report
Team USA’s men’s 4x400-meter relay on Friday morning recorded the top qualifying time as it advanced to Saturday’s finals at the Tokyo Olympic Games.
Morgan City High alum Vernon Norwood ran in the relay, with a time of 2:57.77. The relay consisted of Trevor Stewart, Randolph Ross, Bryce Deadmon and Norwood.
The squad will run in Saturday’s final, which is set for a 7:50 a.m. start locally.
Other teams that qualified for the finals are Netherlands, Italy, Jamaica, Poland, Botswana, Trinidad and Tobago, and Belgium. Botswana had the second-fastest qualifying time at 2:58.33, while Poland was third at 2:58.55.
Norwood competed in a previous event at this year’s Olympic Games as he anchored Team USA to a bronze medal in the mixed 4x400-meter relay July 30.
Information from USA Track and Field’s website.

Patterson Council OKs spending plan for COVID aid

PATTERSON — The long-awaited American Rescue Plan Act money has begun arriving at local government offices, and now the Patterson City Council has a budget for the $2.14 million it expects to receive.
The council approved a spending plan that emphasizes water and sewer investment and replacing lost public revenue, two of the acceptable purposes set out in the federal act’s program to help small communities cope with COVID-19.
Also Thursday, the council amended its budget to account for COVID-related expenses and revenue loss as well as the federal COVID aid; signed on to the parish’s draft Hazard Mitigation Plan; and took the first steps toward tightening up permit fees and rules for disconnecting utilities for nonpayment.
Rescue Plan
The federal COVID aid comes in two installments, or tranches, and with some strings in the form of allowable uses. The money must be spent by 2025, and Patterson’s budget splits the spending over the next four years. The plan includes:
—$617,000 for investing in water and sewer.
—$425,000 for replacing lost public sector revenue.
—$300,000 for reviving communities and families.
—$271,935 for extra pay for essential workers.
—$205,000 for addressing negative economic impact.
—$195,005 for supporting public health.
—$126,060 for investing in broadband.
The city considers all 63 employees to be essential, Mayor Rodney Grogan said. They’re in line for a 3% raise from the COVID aid while the money lasts and another 3% from the general fund.
Human Resources Director Holden Murray said there are plans to provide wireless internet access at city parks.
One of the public health components will be improving ventilation in city buildings. And Patterson will be looking for public-partnerships to improve business downtown.
The amendment approved Thursday in the city’s general fund budget anticipates additional revenue of $1.03 million, raising the total to about $8.5 million. Expenses are expected to go up about $1.3 million to $8.2 million. That reduces the expected surplus from $506,000 in the original budget to $247,000 in the amended budget.
Hazard plan
The council signed on to the Hazard Mitigation Plan developed at the parish level with consultants Quality Engineering Services.
The plan identifies risks — hurricanes have caused 75% of disaster property damage since 1960, QES has found — and resources for coping with calamity.
The amended federal Stafford Act requires local governments to have such plans in place to be eligible for disaster aid before and after the event.
Utilities
The council introduced an ordinance that would provide consistent rules about when late fees are charged for utility bills and when customers are liable for disconnection.
The ordinance says bills, which go out around the 23rd of each month, are due by the seventh of the following month. After the seventh, the bills will be subject to a 10% late fee. Customers who don’t pay by the 15th would be subject to disconnection.
The council put off introduction of a bill that would set utility installation fees. The snag was the amount to be charged for gas delivery with generators that require a greater flow than normal residential connections.
Text messages
The council also agreed to subscribe to a service called TextMyGov, which allows residents to get information and pay utility bills by phone, and also to report road hazards, gas leaks or other mishaps. The city government would be able to push messages out to residents.
You can learn more at TextMyGov.com.

GAY SILBY SMITH

2/29/1936 — 7/29/2021
God called one of his angels’ home unexpectedly and peacefully with her daughter by her side on July 29, 2021. Gay Silby Smith was born February 29, 1936 to the late Julius Smith and Stella Stansbury Smith. Being a Leap Year Baby, she was proud to say she was 21 instead of 85. She was born and raised in Morgan City, Louisiana and started her family there until moving to Lafayette, Louisiana and eventually settling in Houston, Texas.
She is survived by her son, Randy Greer and wife Patrice, their children, Kirby (Carrie), Sharee (Matt), and Joshua, their grandchildren, Kaden, Morgan, Jackson, and Owen; daughter, Trudy Durham and husband James, their children, Kristin (Erik), Lindsey (Brian), and Jamie (Ben) their grandchildren, Kasey (Cole), Presley, Brady, Liam, Stella, Lennon, Caleb, and unborn baby boy (GiGi is loving on); great niece, Brittany (Clayton) and their children, Sydney, Norah, and Audrey. Gay is also survived by her large loving family and friends. Especially her first cousin, Georgie Ann, that was like a sister, always looking forward to her weekly calls.
Gay was greeted in heaven, with open arms, by her Dear son, Darrell; Beloved husband of 36 years, Harry; son, Steve; parents, Julius and Stella; brothers, Ray and wife Doris, Neil; baby sister, Shirley; nephew Dale; niece, Janet; the father of her children, Herman; along with many loving family members.
Gay’s greatest joy in life was her family, with her grandchildren ranking first! She was affectionately known as “Grandma” to many. Her happiest moments were trips to the deer lease with her husband Harry, sitting around the campfire telling stories with family and friends, sharing all their travel adventures together. She sang and danced every chance she had (mainly with her brother Ray) at all the Louisiana Weddings. Her smile and laughter would fill any room she entered. Gay never met a stranger and greeted everyone with her warm hug, they were welcomed in her presence and felt she had known them her entire life. She was an excellent cook and proud of her Cajun roots. Her signature Crawfish Etouffee’ was enjoyed by all. She was always looking forward to the first crawfish boil of the season, and the first to dig for a garlic pod. Gay was such a loving and giving person, who always wanted to take care of others. She loved everyone unconditionally.
Throughout life she was strong in her faith with her Lord and Savior, attending and being a part of every function. Gay sang in her church choir for many years. She also enjoyed singing with the Deci Belles Barbershop Quartet with all her loving girlfriends.
She will be dearly missed and never forgotten by all the lives she touched. God gave us the best and allowed 85 beautiful years of precious memories to cherish.
We Love You Mom! Spread your Golden Wings!!
Visitation for Gay Smith will be Saturday, August 7, 2021 at Pharr Chapel United Methodist Church at 9 am until time of services at 11:00 am. Gay will be laid to rest at the Morgan City Cemetery
The family request memorials to be made to:
Pharr Chapel United Methodist Church
517 Federal Ave.
Morgan City, La 70380
985-384-7984

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