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PATSY RATCLIFF AUCOIN

The Angels are singing as the Heavens rejoice for they have gained another angel. Patsy Ratcliff Aucoin, 75, a life-long resident of Morgan City, was called home Sept. 6, 2021. She was able to be home surrounded by her loving family.
Those left to cherish her wonderful memory are her loving husband, her soulmate, the love of her life, and her favorite “doofus” of almost 61 years, Willie Aucoin Sr. of Morgan City; her four children, Vicky Aucoin, and Cindy Barfield and husband, Beau, all of Bayou Vista, Willie Aucoin Jr. and wife, Tricia, of Franklin, and Tanya Trahan and husband, John Ray of Duson; her nine grandchildren, Michael Waln, Grace Waln, Tiffany Waln, Dalton Barfield and Alexis Mikeska, Brady Trahan, Briggs Trahan and Elizabeth Trahan, and Kaitlyn Aucoin; and nine great-grandchildren. She is also survived by her three sisters, Nancy Murphy, Mona Knapp and Darlene Primeaux; and numerous family and friends.
She is preceded in death by her first-born daughter, Kimberly; her parents, Robert Sr. and Leona Sons Ratcliff; her mother-in-law, Zulma Gros Aucoin; four brothers; and three sisters.
Visitation will begin at 9:30 a.m. Friday, Sept. 10, at Holy Cross Catholic Church in Morgan City. A Rosary will begin at 11 a.m., followed by a Mass of Christian burial beginning at noon. Burial will take place in the Morgan City Cemetery mausoleum following services.
Pallbearers will be Neal Cook, Shane Cook, Rickey Aucoin Sr., Beau Barfield, Alden Aucoin Jr., and Arnold Aucoin. Honorary Pallbearers will be John Ray Trahan, Brady Trahan, Briggs Trahan, Michael Waln, and Dalton Barfield.

BILLIE M. McHUGH

Billie Mestayer McHugh, born to Lavinia Champagne and Joseph L. Mestayer, grew her Angel wings and passed to glory on August 30, 2021 after a lengthy illness at the age of 78 in her home with her family where she wanted to be.
She was preceded in death by her grandparents, Valcourt and Alida Champagne of New Iberia, Ruby Champagne, Jim Champagne, Lou Thomas, Outhwaite Champagne, Willa Delhomme, Harold Champagne, Henry Champagne, Lucille Dugas, Andrew Champagne, Thelma Breaux and Edwin Champagne. Her parents, Lavinia and Pete Fairley also predeceased her.
Billie is survived by her husband, Robert C. “Bob” McHugh; three children, Charlotte McHugh, Bryan McHugh and Kathryn McHugh; six grandchildren; and a host of nieces, nephews and cousins.
Billie was born to Lavinia and Joseph Mestayer in Las Cruces, New Mexico on Feb. 27, 1943, where her father was training to be an Anny Air Force pilot.
In January 1944, her father’s flying fortress was shot down on a bombing run towards Italy and all crew members perished in the ocean. Her mother, Lavinia, married Peter M. Fairley of Moss Point, Mississippi, after the war.
In the early years, Billie attended Live Oak Elementary where her mother was a teacher. Later on she became a Catholic and attended Mount Carmel Academy for girls and was an excellent student. Billie would attend her Catholic services and then come to the First Methodist Church in New Iberia to sit in on Sunday School services where her mother and stepdad were teachers.
Both Billie and Bob were about 14 years old and swapping glances at each other on a regular basis. That First Methodist Church is where they became soulmates and on August 8, 1964 we were married there. Much later she confessed that she had “chosen” me during those Sunday School classes. That’s why we called ourselves “soulmates” and after 57 years of marriage, still loved each other.
Billie attended USL where she majored in home economics and her strong point was cooking but her Nannie Ruby taught her as a young girl how to make little items of sewing. She eventually became an expert in making her children’s clothes, alterations, baby bonnets, christening gowns, wedding dresses and her passion for quilting. She made several “quilts of valor” for some vets. She hand designed all of her productions for “Queen Bee Creations”.
“Miss Billie” will certainly be sorely missed for a long time by her relatives, friends and family.
At her request, Hargrave Funeral Home is handling the cremation. Family and friends are welcome to attend funeral home services at a later date.

Berwick boil water order lifted

The Berwick town government's Facebook page says the boil water order has been lifted.

The order had been in effect since the discovery of a water main break on Watson Street on Monday.

The post announcing the end of the order was posted at 10:33 a.m. Wednesday.

Wednesday morning update from FEMA

From the Federal Emergency Management Agency:

FEMA is providing:

Rapid financial assistance for critical, life-saving needs – Money for food, water, fuel for transportation, and prescription drugs.

Basic home repairs to a primary residence (to help restore habitability for homeowners.)

TRANSITIONAL SHELTERING ASSISTANCE:
FEMA has approved the Governor’s request to activate the FEMA Transitional Sheltering Assistance program – also known as TSA.

After applying with FEMA, people will be notified if they qualify for temporary sheltering in a hotel at FEMA’s expense.

FEMA pays the hotels directly for lodging and the tax.

It will NOT pay for any incidental hotel expenses.

But FEMA rental assistance money IS paid to applicants directly if they are eligible. So save all receipts, and tell us about needs.

If survivors qualify for Transitional Sheltering Assistance, FEMA will notify them by an automated phone call, text message, and email.

FEMA does not find a hotel room

AS OF THIS MORNING – For Needs Not Covered by Insurance:

$194 million in grants directly to survivors in Louisiana

FEMA has approved 171,000 households

HOME INSPECTIONS:
FEMA has home inspectors working right now
They are official FEMA contractors – and carry official ID
The inspection is free – They will not ask you for money
If You are suspicious of possible fraud, call 866-720-0814

HOW TO CONTACT FEMA:
The fastest way to apply is online at DisasterAssistance.gov
If it’s not possible to apply online, call 800-621-3362

PAULINE 'BUGZIE' BARRILLEAUX

February 27, 1972 — August 28, 2021
Pauline “Bugzie” Barrilleaux, 49, a resident of Gibson, passed away August 28, 2021 at Thibodaux Regional Medical Center.
She was born February 27, 1972 in Morgan City, La., the daughter of Mines & Diane (Legleu) Frederick.
Pauline was the silk thread that weaved her family together. She loved cooking, her fur babies, and singing karaoke. Her heart was so big, especially for her family. She was an avid hunter and loved hunting and fishing trips with her husband. She had the most beautiful smile that could light up your soul. Our hearts are broken over the loss of this beautiful young women. She was an inspiration to us all. She will be deeply missed by all that loved and knew her.
Pauline was the beloved wife of David P. Barrilleaux of Gibson; her mother, Diane Frederick Ritter; two step-daughters, Kaylie & Lauren; grandchildren, Payton, Colt, Asher, Codi, Dixie, Lila; three sisters, Pattie & husband John McDaniel of Jeanerette, Penny & husband, Will Jackson of Berwick, Eva Davidson of Morgan City; six nieces, Hannah, Sarah, Jessica, Kasie, Brianne, Madison; five nephews, Quentin, Dylan, Logan, Gavin, Lonnie; and numerous great-nieces and nephews.
She is preceded in death by her father, Mines Frederick and Baby Barrilleaux.
Funeral services will be held at 11:00 a.m., Friday, September 10, 2021, at Twin City Funeral Home. Visitation will be held Thursday, September 9, 2021, at Twin City Funeral Home from 5:00 p.m. until 9:00 p.m. and again Friday, September 10, 2021, at Twin City Funeral Home, from 9:00 a.m. until the time of services. After services, Pauline will be laid to rest in the Gibson Baptist Cemetery.

Physical therapy can help soft tissue injuries

Soft tissue injuries are more common than people may realize. In fact, anyone with an undiagnosed pain in his or her body may be suffering from a soft tissue injury.
According to Delaware Integrative Healthcare, bone injuries garner significant attention because broken bones and fractures can be very serious. But soft tissue injuries, when left untreated, also can be troublesome and jeopardize individuals’ athletic pursuits.
Verywell Health defines soft tissue injuries as trauma to any muscle, skin, tendon or ligament in the body. Injuries may result from overuse or acute trauma, which is an external force applied to the body. Common examples of soft tissue injuries are lacerations, abrasions, contusions, sprains/strains, bursitis and tendinitis.
Strains are injuries to muscles or tendons and sprains are injuries to ligaments, which are elastic bands of tissue that connect and stabilize bones. Both strains and sprains are common soft tissue injuries.
Bursitis and tendinitis also are common. Bursitis is an inflammation of the bursa, a fluid-filled sac that provides a cushion between the bones and muscles or tendons. Tendinitis is an inflammation of the tendons, which connect muscles to bones.
Many minor (Grade 1) soft tissue injuries that involve muscles, tendons and ligaments may heal when injured persons follow the protocol known as RICE, which is an acronym for Rest, Ice, Compression and Elevation. RICE is widely recommended for these types of injuries.
However, more serious soft tissue injuries may take extended time to heal. Some of these injuries also may lead to permanent changes in muscles, tendons and ligaments, causing certain body parts to cease functioning how they used to. That may be the case with Grade 2 (moderate) or Grade 3 (severe) injuries. Further medical attention may be needed and physical therapy may be prescribed.
The Ace Physical Therapy & Sports Medicine Institute says soft tissue injuries account for most of the injuries that outpatient physical therapists treat. A therapist will analyze the type of injury and the pain or impairment it is causing to develop a rehabilitation program.
Physical therapists often perform various treatments geared toward reducing swelling and inflammation. Manual therapies to help restore normal motion also are part of soft tissue treatment plans. Stretching and strengthening exercises may be incorporated to improve endurance and repair soft tissue.
Orthotic therapy may be needed to correct certain imbalances, advises Algonquin Chiropractic Center. Physical therapists also can educate patients about how to strengthen the body to help reduce risk for future injuries.
Soft tissue injuries are common and usually can resolve with rest. Guided physical therapy may be prescribed for more severe cases.

Dad’s out-of-line sleep ‘advice’ embarrasses teenage daughter

DEAR ABBY: My 16-year-old daughter, “Lily,” came home from her father’s very upset. She has trouble sleeping, and I have been taking her to the doctor for tests. Her father told her not to tell anyone, handed her a vibrator and told her that an orgasm will help her sleep. Lily was shocked and embarrassed that he would suggest such a thing and asked me if she could throw it away.
She no longer wants to go to his house but wants me to be the one to tell him. I’m furious that he would use such poor judgment with his 16-year-old daughter. He feels he has an open relationship with her and that I am a prude. I feel what he did was extremely inappropriate, but I’m not sure how to handle it.
OVERSTEPPED BOUNDARIES

DEAR OVERSTEPPED BOUNDARIES: Speak up! I agree that what Lily’s father did was inappropriate. Further, he embarrassed his daughter, and he owes her an apology. At 16, if she no longer wants to go to his home, she should not be forced to. The attorney who handled your divorce can make that clear to him.
P.S. If Lily wants to throw her father’s “gift” away, reassure her that it’s her privilege.

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 28 years to the perfect man. We married when I was 20 and have three grown children. There are stresses in our life, but they are mostly related to extended family. We never argue. We truly have an ideal marriage.
I work outside the home and have become “friends” with a guy there. I enjoy texting and talking with him. He’s single, and he makes jokes and asks me if I’m “still married.” I would never cheat on my husband, who does give me a lot of attention. So why do I do this?
GUILTY IN THE MIDWEST

DEAR GUILTY: Because you are human — and the attention you are receiving is flattering. You didn’t mention whether your husband is aware of the flirtation. If he isn’t, that may be the reason you feel guilty.
I think it’s time to clue your husband in. If you do, he may not object. However, if he is threatened, in the interest of keeping your perfect marriage perfect, let this friend know that from now on your communications will have to be strictly business.

DEAR ABBY: I am a 65-year-old married man dealing with feelings I have never felt before. During the day I am reliving bad issues that happened in my marriage 25 years ago, and I am dreaming about them at night. I thought I was long past it. It makes me physically ill sometimes, and I think it’s getting worse. In past letters you have written that you need to move on, tomorrow is another day, leave the past in the past and such. I get it. I WANT to. My question is: “Where is the switch located that I turn to the off position?”
MARTIN IN NEW JERSEY

DEAR MARTIN: You will find the “switch” you’re looking for in the office of a licensed mental health professional. When intrusive thoughts from the past become so overwhelming that they make you physically ill, it’s time to get more help than anyone can give you in a letter or a newspaper. Please don’t wait. Your physician or your insurance company can refer you.
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IRVING B. GAGE JR.

Irving B. Gage, Jr., 58, a resident of Abbeville, La. and native of Houston, TX, passed away peacefully on Tuesday August 24, 2021 at Our Lady of Lourdes Medical Center in Lafayette, La.
Visitation will be observed on Saturday September 11, 2021 from 1 p.m. until funeral services at 2:30 p.m. at Jones Funeral Home, 1101 Main Street Franklin, La. (All visitors are asked to adhere to the CDC-local regulations by wearing masks and practicing social distancing). Funeral services will be accessible by viewing the Jones Funeral Home Facebook page on Saturday September 11, 2021 at 2:30 p.m.
Irving, Jr., leaves to cherish his memories; his mother, Mable Louise Gage of Houston, TX, four sisters, Constance Regina Jones,(Connie), Tracy Felicia Gage, La Wanna Lavette Gage, abs Latarsha Monique Gage: a brother, Oliver Tyrone Gage; sister-in-law, Blanca Gage of McAllen, TX; aunts Sylvia Marie Thomas of Houston, TX, Mary Ann Nelson of Long Beach, CA, and Ivory Lee Tackwood of Las Vegas, NV and a host of nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews and friends.
Irving Jr., was preceded in death by his: father, Rev. Dr. Irving Berlin Gage Sr.; paternal grandparents, Lolis Clarence Sr and Mildred Tackwood of Los Angeles, CA and Herbert and Rita Gage of Abbeville, La.
Arrangements entrusted to Jones Funeral Home of Houma-Franklin-Jeanerette and Morgan City. Please visit; www.jones-funeral-home.com to send condolences to family.

LUCILLE ANN HAMPTON

Lucille Ann Hampton, 77, a resident of Lafourche Parish, passed away peacefully on Sunday August 29, 2021 at 4:00 p.m. at Thibodaux Regional Medical Center.
Visitation will be observed on Saturday, September 11, 2021 from 9:00 a.m. until funeral services at 11:00 a.m. at Jones Funeral Home 715 Sixth Street Morgan City, LA 70380. (All visitors are asked to adhere to the CDC/local regulations by wearing masks and practicing social distancing). Burial will follow funeral services in the St. Paul Church Cemetery in Lafourche Crossings.
Memories of Lucille will forever remain in the hearts of her daughter, Tanya (Pernell) Harvey; one grandson, Bryson Harvey; sisters, Eula Dick, Bernadine Howard, Elsie Poindexter, Louise Poindexter, Doris Verrett, and Linda Hampton; brothers, Bruce Hampton, Lloyd Hampton, and Marvin Hampton and a host of nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends.
Lucille was preceded in death by her mother, Viola Ellis Hampton; father, Fredrick Hampton; brother, Herman Hampton; nieces, Carla Hampton and Cassandra Poindexter; brother-in-law, Louis Dick and a sister-in-law, Donna Faye Hampton.

CAROLYN CALLOWAY PARKER

Carolyn Calloway Parker, 65, a resident of Gibson, LA, and native of Terrebonne Parish, passed away peacefully on Monday, August 30, 2021.
Visitation will be observed on Saturday September 11, 2021 from 9:00 a.m. until funeral services at 11:00 a.m. at Jones Funeral Home, 1101 Main Street Franklin, LA. (All visitors are asked to adhere to the CDC/local regulations by wearing masks and practicing social distancing). Entombment will follow funeral services in the St. Luke Church Cemetery in Waterproof, LA.
Memories of Carolyn will forever remain in the hearts of her husband, Adolph Parker of Gibson, LA; children, Nathaniel (Eva) Parker of Houma, LA, Rosalyn Parker of Thibodaux, LA, Twanda (Terrance) Clay of Gibson, LA, Tee (Carol) Parker of Jeanerette, LA, Adolph (Karen) Parker, Jr. of Houston, TX, Loriann (John) Boyd of Franklin, LA, Derrick (Tanika) Parker of New Iberia, LA; son-in-law, Deon Johnson; six sisters, Judy Darby of Patterson, LA, Rose (Rico) Lawrence, Janice Calloway, Beulah (Albert) Lyons, Pamela (Wilfred) Streams all of Houma, LA, and Tiana Calloway of Converse, TX; three brothers, Joseph (Wanda) Calloway, Willie Calloway and Michael Calloway all of Houma, LA; twenty-one grandchildren, one great-grandchild and a host of nieces, nephews other relatives and friends.
Carolyn was preceded in death by her son, daughter; one brother, and both her maternal and paternal grandparents.
Arrangements entrusted to Jones Funeral Home of Morgan City/Franklin/Houma and Jeanerette. Please visit; www.jones-funeral-home.com to send condolences to family.

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