DEAR ABBY: My fiancé and I have been together four years. We live together. Recently, I was talking to him about mental health and the benefits of therapy, which I firmly support. He said he thinks it’s a waste of time. When I asked why, he replied that it hadn’t worked for him. I asked what he meant by that (I wasn’t aware that he had ever even been in therapy), and he said he went when he was 12 or 13.
After that, he clammed up. He wouldn’t discuss why he went or share any details at all. Normally, we ...