DEAR ABBY: I am a transgender female who is working on my marriage to my wife of 41 years. I started my transition in 2011. We have had our ups and downs during the course of our marriage. We have two sons and eight beautiful grandchildren. All of them know about my transition to womanhood, and my family also knows. What I need now is some advice to help our marriage. We are strongly committed to working on it. REAL ME IN OHIO DEAR REAL YOU: Many couples choose to stay together and keep their marriage intact when one partner transitions. You ...