DEAR ABBY: I have just learned that a neighbor lost his wife. She died during childbirth. As a wife and mother, all I can think about is that newborn baby boy and his two beautiful sisters. It breaks my heart. I have never spoken to him, but I did chat from time to time with his wife. I would like to offer help to the father, but I don’t know how I should approach him or even if I should. Please offer me some advice. GRIEVING FOR THEM IN HAWAII DEAR GRIEVING: Reach out to your neighbor by writing him a short ...