DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are moving to a retirement community where we won’t know a soul. I hate leaving our friends and the relationships we have formed here. I have never been especially outgoing or good at making small talk, but I know I will have to fit in. I believe you have written something for people who have this challenge. Can I get a copy? What are some tips on how to get started? We’re relocating soon. FACING IT HEAD ON DEAR FACING IT: You and your husband are opening an exciting new chapter in your lives. Managing it successfully ...