DEAR ABBY: My son’s girlfriend confided to me that my son, age 35, is cross-dressing. I knew his life was in flux and that his appearance had changed, but it stunned me. He hasn’t mentioned anything, and she said he would be very upset if I knew. When I saw him the same day, I made sure to hug him and tell him I love him. Please tell me what to do or say. WHAT TO SAY IN TEXAS DEAR WHAT: Do nothing, say nothing. This isn’t your business, and the girlfriend was wrong to betray your son’s confidence. It may reassure ...