DEAR ABBY: I’m in my 60s, fit, sexually able and I desire physical relations. My wife, because of health issues, is no longer interested in sex. In fact, it would be at least mildly painful to her. I recently met a lady my age who is in the same predicament. She has a sexual appetite; her husband does not. She hinted she would be interested in being “friends with benefits.” I didn’t pursue the hint because it caught me by surprise and I wasn’t quick-witted enough to follow up on it at the time. I am wondering if such a ...