DEAR ABBY: I’m a 47-year-old man. I live alone in a small city in New York. I have a good job. I have been with the company for years and my bosses take good care of me. However, I want to live a semi- homesteading-type life on my own property, providing myself with my basic needs. I cannot do this in the area where I live because of strict zoning. I’m torn between leaving my job to move and live the life I dream of, or staying where I am and trying to get as close as I can to ...