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Absent husband to one woman is absent boyfriend to another

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my boyfriend for eight years. When I met him he was married, but his wife lived in another state. Although he said he loved her, he would visit her only for a week every other month or so. While he was there, instead of concentrating on her he spent most of his time visiting his friends.
He never intended to leave her for me, but she found out about us a year ago and told him she wanted a divorce. It became final a few months ago. He tells me he loves me every day, but he still spends a lot of time with his friends. We used to be together two or three days a week; we are down to one night most weeks, and occasionally two nights.
I don’t think he looks forward to our time together the way I do. I’m afraid if I have a heart-to-heart conversation with him about this, he will walk away from our relationship. I am terrified of being alone, so I settle for waiting for my turn.
During the COVID quarantine, we kept to social distancing for several weeks, until I felt we had been isolated long enough that we could be together again. Tonight, he joined some friends for a social gathering, knowing it would compromise what I had worked so hard for so we could be together.
Abby, it feels like he cares less for me than for his friends. Am I fighting a losing battle to stay with someone who seems so cavalier about our relationship?
LEFT OUT IN WASHINGTON

DEAR LEFT OUT: Do you not recognize that you have created the very situation you fear the most?
You ARE alone! This man isn’t going to give you anything more than you are already getting from him, which is very little. This isn’t a losing battle you are fighting; the battle is over.
He has made clear where his priorities lie, and they don’t include you. If you really want a companion, find someone who is willing to share his life with you to the extent that you are willing to share yours with him. This man isn’t the one.

DEAR ABBY: For the past week, my son-in-law has been texting me daily. I don’t mind his texting about normal things, but he’s either seeking a very close friendship or he is attracted to me. He and my daughter are 22 and very religious. I don’t think asking me via text how he looks shirtless now compared to a year ago (he has texted me twice with no shirt on) is appropriate.
There have been other red flags on his side of the conversation, and I have never misled him in any way.
Should I confront him via text? Should I tell my daughter? I love her and do not want her to be mad at me. I did nothing wrong.
ONLY HIS MOTHER-IN-LAW

DEAR M.I.L.: I believe you. If your son-in-law’s texts are suggestive or make you uncomfortable, speak up and tell HIM — not your daughter. If he persists in that vein, discuss it with her then.
As to his request for a comment on his physique, ask him why he’s asking his mother-in-law and not his wife. And follow it up by telling him frankly that you think the question and the photos are inappropriate.
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Health Department: 20% of COVID tests since weekend are positive

Louisiana is experiencing a sharp increase in COVID-19 cases, according to the Louisiana Department of Health.

Department officials said 2,619 new cases have been reported out of 12,831 tests conducted since Sunday, marking a 20% positivity rate.

Over the four-day holiday weekend, officials said 12,164 cases were reported to the state.

“Omicron is surging,” the agency said on social media about the latest COVID-19 variant. “Please take precautions as you gather and celebrate with loved ones this holiday season. Wear your mask, get boosted if eligible, work remotely if possible, [and] limit your exposure to those outside your household.”

Studies have shown the omicron variant is highly transmissible and less severe than previous COVID-19 strains, though the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) said more data is needed.

The health department said 449 people in Louisiana were hospitalized with COVID-19 as of Monday. An agency statement did not clarify whether the hospitalizations were due to omicron infections or the previous delta variant.

“A total of 9,545 new COVID-19 cases out of 59,139 new tests have been reported to the state since December 23. The testing data do not include results from at-home tests,” the statement said.

The first known U.S. case of the omicron variant was detected Dec. 1, according to the CDC. The first case in Louisiana was reported Dec. 3. Since then, infections have grown exponentially because of increased transmissibility and breakthrough infections.

“Current vaccines are expected to protect against severe illness, hospitalizations and deaths due to infection with the Omicron variant. However, breakthrough infections in people who are fully vaccinated are likely to occur,” the health department said.

Omicron was discovered in South Africa, and a recent study by the country’s largest private insurer, Discovery Health, found two doses of the Pfizer vaccine provided 33% protection against omicron infections.

Amid the Louisiana surge, Gov. John Bel Edwards has extended a state public health emergency order and reinstituted an indoor mask mandate for state government agencies. Employees and visitors are expected to comply.

Edwards said around 50% of Louisianans are vaccinated, while a quarter of eligible residents have received vaccine booster shots.

“While vaccines and booster doses are the strongest tools we have in the fight against COVID, public health experts also agree that masks are an important way to slow the spread of the Omicron variant now,” Edwards said.

Bayou Ramos bridge remains closed

From the St. Mary Parish Sheriff's Office Facebook page:

Sheriff Blaise Smith and the Patrol Division of the SMPSO are reminding motorists that the Bayou Ramos bridge on Highway 182 in Amelia is shut down at this time and according to the DOTD will be for some time.
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The DOTD is advising that the Bayou Ramos Bridge, which was struck by a marine vessel, is not safe to travel at this time.
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The Patrol Division is advising that there have been reports of people attempting to move the barricades in order to pass over the bridge as well as a vehicle that damaged barricades last night in order to pass.
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The bridge supports have been damaged severely and until the DOTD repairs and clears the bridge for travel, it is not safe to do so.
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***Special thanks to Jim Pierce with Cajun Drone Photography for the use of the images in this post.***

HOUSTON 'BUDDY' CAVALIER

Buddy passed away on December 25, 2021, at his home in Bayou Sorrel, at the age of 81. He was a lifelong resident of Bayou Sorrel and retired Tugboat Captain, Carpenter and self-employed commercial fisherman. Services will be held at Wilbert Funeral Home in Plaquemine on Tuesday, December 28th, 9 a.m. until religious service at 11 a.m. with burial to follow at Grace Memorial Park Mausoleum in Plaquemine, conducted by Brother Tim O’Neal. Buddy is survived by and will be greatly missed by his soulmate, Elizabeth “Liz” Hebert; three children, Paul Houston “Lil Man” Cavalier, Yourba Duqueestrada, and Paris Simon; step-children, Rachael Acosta (Damian), Floyd Gomez (Tonya), and Melody Hebert; siblings, Evelena Cavalier, Sherron Simmons (Gary) and Andy Cavalier (Janet); 12 grandchildren, 8 great-grandchildren; and numerous nieces and nephews. Buddy was preceded in death by father, Lenest “Black” Cavalier; mother, Zelma “Dee” Gilchrist Cavalier Pittman; siblings, John “JD” Cavalier, Eloise Noble, Lenest “Duke” Cavalier and Michael Cavalier; a granddaughter Ashley Elizabeth Cavalier.
The family would like to give our heartfelt thanks to (Big) John Barbee (Buddy’s pal and friend through it all), Chantel, Joell and the entire staff at Comfort Care Hospice for their care of Buddy, and the kindness, and comfort they provided us in our time of need, we greatly appreciate each and every one of you.
Pallbearers will be Rebecca Cavalier, Brandi Falcon, Charlie Simon, Ray Hebert, Landon Landry and Colbey Randazzo. Honorary pallbearers will be Paul Houston “Lil Man” Cavalier, Andy Cavalier, Floyd Gomez, Burke Noble, Ricky Rosso, Marvin Pierce, Bunn Allen, Coo Pierce and Chris Randazzo. Please share memories online at www.wilbertservices.com.

MARIE LOUISE CLEMENT DAIGLE RICHARD

Marie Louise Clement Daigle Richard, 93, a resident of Morgan City, passed away peacefully, Sunday, December 26, 2021, surrounded by her loving family.
Marie was born August 4, 1928, in Morgan City, the daughter of Claiborne M. Clement and Florence Boudreaux Clement.
Marie was a devout Catholic who lived strong in her faith. She was a member of the Catholic Daughters for many years. She loved her children and grandchildren fiercely and protectively. Marie was always dressed her best, with her hair and makeup always done. Marie enjoyed cooking for her family. She also loved to be outside in her flower bed, or tending to her vegetable garden.
She will be sadly missed and lovingly remembered by three sons, Clay Daigle and wife Irma of Mexico, D.J. Richard and wife Martha of Baton Rouge, and Roy Daigle and wife Kathy of Mobile, AL.; two daughters, Billie Landry and husband Francis of Morgan City, Penny Dugas and husband Casey of St. Martinsville; two sisters, Elda Mae Anslem of Franklin, Jeanette Billiot of Texas; eight grandchildren, Christy “Tookie” LeBlanc and husband David, Travis Landry and wife Traci, Samantha Comeaux and husband Mark, Trinity Daigle and wife Kim, Christopher Daigle, Kevin Romero, Alyssa Romero, Ashley Malone and husband Patrick; 17 great-grandchildren, three great-great grandchildren.
Marie was preceded in death by her parents, Claiborne and Florence Clement; First husband, Placide Daigle; second husband, Joseph Richard; son, Ricky Daigle; daughter-in-law Mary Daigle; grandson, Clay Daigle Jr.; siblings, Ruth Duval, Buela Boddie, Albert Duval, and Eli Duval.
The family would like to give their sincere appreciation and gratitude to the Heart of Hospice nurses.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 12:00 p.m., Thursday, December 30, 2021 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church. Visitation will be held Wednesday, December 29, 2021 at Twin City Funeral Home from 5:00 p.m. until 9:00 p.m. and again Thursday, December 30, 2021 at Twin City Funeral Home from 9:00 a.m. until 11:30 a.m. After Mass, Marie will be laid to rest in the Morgan City Cemetery.

RITA LeBLANC LaCOSTE

Rita LeBlanc LaCoste, a native of Morgan City and a resident of Berwick, died Sunday, Dec. 26, 2021, at the age of 90.
Survivors include her husband of 71 years, Burlin LaCoste of Berwick; her four children, Burton James LaCoste and his wife, Penny, of Patterson, Ellen Faye Barnett and her husband, Dave, of Seattle, Washington, Teri Lynn Gros and her husband, Leon, of Berwick, and Terry Wayne LaCoste; 17 grandchildren; 36 great-grandchildren; and 18 great-great-grandchildren.
She was preceded in death by four children, Roger Dale LaCoste Sr., Terry Lynn LaCoste Sr., Billie Ann Haarmann, and Terry Lynn LaCoste Jr; one grandson; her parents; three brothers; and five sisters.
A time of visitation and remembrance will be held on Thursday, Dec. 30, 2021, from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. and again on Friday, Dec. 31, 2021, from 7:30 a.m. until time of services, all at Hargrave Funeral Home. Funeral services will be held on Friday, Dec. 31, 2021, at 10 a.m. at Hargrave Funeral Home with Monsignor Douglas Courville officiating. Following services, she will be laid to rest in the Berwick Cemetery.

La. people receiving benefits will see big COLA hikes

The Louisiana Department of Children and Family Services has announced landmark funding increases for several social programs beginning in January.

Eligible recipients for the Temporary Assistance for Needy Families ( program, Social Security and veterans’ initiatives will see the largest benefit increases and cost-of-living (COLA) adjustments in decades, the department said.

TANF cash assistance will increase for the first time since July 2000, as eligible recipients will receive about twice the previous cash amount in an effort to match the national average.

“We know there are many more families who could benefit from the programs, not only for the much-needed cash assistance but also for the valuable workforce development and educational opportunities these programs offer. We hope this increase in benefit amounts will attract more people and encourage them to apply,” DCFS Secretary Marketa Garner Walters said.

A department statement said the cash increase will apply to 1,484 households enrolled in the Family Independence Temporary Assistance Program (FITAP) and 1,338 households in the Kinship Care (KCSP) subsidies program.

“FITAP aims to decrease the long-term dependence on welfare assistance by promoting job preparation and work, while KCSP lifts the financial burden of qualified relatives caring for a child whose parents are not in the home,” the statement said.

The FITAP changes will allow a family of three to receive $484 in monthly cash assistance in January, as opposed to $240 this month. A family of five will see cash assistance jump from $327 to $654.

The KCSP monthly benefit will increase from $222 per eligible child to $450 per eligible child.

States have broad flexibility regarding how they spend TANF money. A recent Legislative Auditor’s report showed the DCFS received $1.6 billion in federal TANF funding since 2012, or $163 million per year.

More than half of fiscal year 2021 TANF funds were dedicated to pre-kindergarten and child welfare programs, auditors said, while cash assistance represented 8% of total funds, or $13 million out of $163 million.

The cash assistance portion of TANF funds could top 16% of program funds, or $26 million, in the coming year.

The department said inflation was a main reason for the historic cash assistance increase.

“Inflation has increased 61% since these benefit amounts were last increased in July 2000, meaning what could be purchased for $1 in 2000 now costs about $1.61 today according to the federal Bureau of Labor Statistics,” the statement said.

Inflation was also part of the reasoning that led to the largest COLA increase in 40 years in regard to Social Security and veterans’ benefits, according to the department.

Both federally funded program areas will see a 5.9% COLA increase in January based on the Consumer Price Index (CPI). The U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics reported earlier this month the CPI, a key inflation measure, rose by 6.8% in November 2021 compared with November 2020.

The new monthly COLA adjustment will apply to Social Security Retirement, Survivors and Disability Insurance (RSDI), Supplemental Security Income (SSI) and Veterans Administration (VA) benefits.

“The 5.9% increase to benefits is the largest COLA increase since 1982,” the department said.

An unintended consequence, however, will be a reduction in Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) benefits, formerly known as food stamps, for more than 75,000 Louisiana households, a statement said.

The COLA increases are considered income, which affects income-based eligibility requirements.

“In January, 75,122 households (about 18% of all SNAP households in Louisiana) will see an average reduction of about $31 in monthly benefits, due primarily to the COLA. Another 272 SNAP cases will close, as the increased income pushes those households over the eligibility limit,” the department said.

Morgan City police radio logs for Dec. 27-28

The following are the radio dispatch logs from the Morgan City Police Department. To report unlawful or suspicious activity, call the Police Department at 985-380-4605.
Monday, Dec. 27 5:52 p.m.: Glenwood near Aycock; complaint.
6:35 p.m.: 200 block Chenault Street; complaint.
7:07 p.m.: MLK near Victor II; complaint.
7:39 p.m.: Old bridge; complaint.
8:10 p.m.: Village Drive; complaint.
8:49 p.m.: 1102 block Fourth Street; complaint.
9:05 p.m.: 1000 block Victor II; complaint.
9:44 p.m.: 1000 block Victor II; complaint.
12:01 a.m.: 600 block MLK Boulevard; complaint.
911 Willard Street; complaint.
Stazione La. 182; complaint.
8:28 a.m.: Central Boats Rental; complaint.
09:23a.m.: Duke Street; complaint.
09:34a.m.: 1716 Dale Street; complaint.
11:18 a.m.: 508 Orange Street; complaint.
11:27 a.m.: Front lobby; complaint.
12:33p.m.: Rouses; complaint.
13p.m.: David Drive; complaint.
Solar Apartment 12; complaint.
1:52 p.m.: 907 Belanger Street; complaint.
16:07p.m.: Apple and Levee; complaint.
16:34p.m.: Police Department; complaint.
16:37p.m.: Duke and Eighth; complaint.
17:09 p.m.: Mayon Street; complaint.
17:57 p.m.: Greenwood and La. 70; complaint.
18:10 p.m.: 520 Roderick Street; complaint.
18:20 p.m.: Federal and Garber Street; complaint.
18:56 p.m.: 1008 Sixth Street; complaint.
19:05 p.m.: Fourth and Greenwood; traffic stop.
19:39 p.m.: 1114 Victor II Blvd; complaint.
19:44 p.m.: 200 Halsey Street; complaint.
19:52 p.m.: 1215 Federal Ave.; complaint.
20:34 p.m.: Federal Avenue and Orange Street; complaint.
22:03 p.m.: 12 Missouri Street; medical.
22:24 p.m.: 505 Brashear Ave.; complaint.
22:44 p.m.: Apple Street; complaint.
23:58 p.m.: 723 Bush St.; complaint.
Tuesday, Dec. 28
1:19 a.m.: 3476 Lake Palourde Road; complaint.
4:13 a.m.: 516 Roderick St.; medical.
4:19 a.m.: U.S. 90 West; traffic stop.
4:28 a.m.: U.S. 90 West by Thorguson; traffic stop.
5:08 a.m.: U.S. 90 West by Thorguson; traffic stop.
05:47a.m.: U.S. 90 West by Thorguson; traffic stop.

St. Mary deputies report four arrests

(Editor’s note: The charges listed here and the narratives that go with them are provided by the police agencies that made the arrests. Guilt or innocence has not been determined in court.)

St. Mary deputies reported four arrests over the long holiday reporting period.

St. Mary
Sheriff Blaise Smith advised that over the last 120-hour reporting period, the Sheriff’s Office responded to 160 complaints and made these arrests:
—Keiasa Davis, 19, Thibodaux, was arrested at 12:19 a.m. Friday on charges of speeding and driving under suspension. Davis was released on a summons to appear March 17.
—Tristan Hope Hanley, 24, Morgan City, was arrested at 2:36 a.m. Saturday on charges of domestic abuse battery and simple criminal damage to property. Bail was set at $3,000.
—Neal Patrick Goulas, 61, Patterson, was arrested at 8:25 p.m. Saturday on a charge of possession of drug paraphernalia. Goulas was released on a summons to appear March 17.
—Kay Vining, 37, Patterson, was arrested at 4:10 p.m. Monday on a charge of criminal damage to property. Vining was released on a summons to appear March 17.

Franklin
Police Chief Morris Beverly reported that the Franklin Police Department responded to 32 complaints over the holiday weekend and made this arrest:
—Vandimere Willis, 23, Texas Street, Lake Charles, was arrested at 6 p.m. Saturday on charges of possession of marijuana and driving under suspension. Willis was booked, processed and released to appear in 3rd Ward City Court.

Morgan City police radio logs for Dec. 24-26

The following are the radio dispatch logs from the Morgan City Police Department. To report unlawful or suspicious activ-ity, call the Police Department at 985-380-4605.
Friday, Dec. 24
6:29 a.m.: 7400 block La. 182; disturbance.
7:10 a.m.: 200 block Patton; animal complaint.
7:49 a.m.: 500 block Gar-ber; disturbance.
8:40 a.m.: 7400 block La. 182; complaint.
9:28 a.m.: 800 block Brashear; accident.
9:46 a.m.: 7400 block La. 182; animal complaint.
9:52 a.m.: 400 block Eighth; animal complaint.
9:58 a.m.: 900 block Bel-anger; medical.
10:05 a.m.: 7100 block La. 182; arrest.
10:19 a.m.: 7200 block La. 182; battery.
11:35 a.m.: 200 block South Railroad; alarm.
12:01 p.m.: 500 block Gen. MacArthur; complaint.
12:26 p.m.: 900 block Short; medical.
1:24 p.m.: 1100 block Federal; subject removal.
2:05 p.m.: 900 block Mar-guerite; complaint.
2:11 p.m.: 100 block Glen-wood; suspicious activity.
2:29 p.m.: 300 block Sec-ond; complaint.
2:31 p.m.: 1100 block Ditch; theft.
2:54 p.m.: 1600 block Chestnut; alarm.
3:18 p.m.: 1600 block Chestnut; alarm.
4:12 p.m.: 7200 block La. 182; traffic stop.
4:14 p.m.: 500 block Aucoin; loud music.
4:29 p.m.: 1100 block Mar-guerite; complaint.
4:38 p.m.: 2400 block Ap-ple; fire.
4:57 p.m.: 500 block Gar-ber; complaint.
5:11 p.m.: 600 block Wil-low; accident.
5:24 p.m.: 500 block Aucoin; disturbance.
5:37 p.m.: 5000 block Rail-road; disturbance.
6:15 p.m.: 300 block Third Street; loud music.
7:07 p.m.: Solar Apartment 12; disturbance.
7:35 p.m.: Arizona Street; disturbance.
7:37 p.m.: Cefalu Trailer Park; loud music.
7:48 p.m.: Ganaway’s; dis-turbance.
7:44 p.m.: Federal and Arenz; left bike.
8:04 p.m.: Area of Fifth Street; gunshots/fireworks.
8:22 p.m.: Levee Road near Swift Ships; fireworks.
8:23 p.m.: 11th; medical.
8:28 p.m.: Red Roof Inn; complaint.
8:49 p.m.: 310 Aycock; alarm.
8:56 p.m.: La. 70-U.S. 90 junction; stalled vehicle.
9:21 p.m.: 7000 block Rail-road; fireworks.
9:31 p.m.: 800 Florence; fireworks.
9:34 p.m.: Red Roof; dis-turbance.
7:38 a.m.: Cefalu Trailer Park; loud music.
9:59 p.m.: Aycock and Patton; loud music.
10:13 p.m.: Red Roof Inn; domestic disturbance.
10:34 p.m.: Family Dollar; suspicious person.
10:35 p.m. Circle K west suspicious person.
10:49 p.m.: Everett Street/Rec Department; loud music.
10:56 p.m.: Villa Apartments; loud music.
11:24 p.m.: Park Road; loud music.
11:28 p.m.: U.S. 90 West past MLK: stalled vehicle.
11:37 p.m.: Oak Street; possible burglary.
Saturday, Dec. 25
12:05 a.m.: Egle; fireworks.
12:55 p.m.: Rouses parking lot; domestic disturbance.
1:07 a.m.: Cefalu Trailer Park; loud music.
3:08 a.m.: Gen. Patton; loud music.
4:24 a.m.: Ochsner; disturbance.
4:44 a.m.: Railroad; loud music.
11:17 a.m.: 1100 block Victor II; patrol request.
11:34 a.m. 2300 block Cedar; theft.
11:40 a.m.: 100 block Ca-nary; juvenile problems.
12:51 p.m. Area Federal and Orange; complaint.
1 p.m.: Area Idaho; disturbance.
1:51 p.m. Area Federal and Orange; theft.
1:54 p.m.: Area U.S. 90 West; stalled vehicle.
1:55 p.m.: U.S. 90 West; traffic incident.
2:19 p.m.: 300 block Fifth; complaint.
5 p.m.: 1000 block Fifth; medical.
5:07 p.m.: 1100 block Marguerite; hit and run.
5:18 p.m.: 200 block Mal-lard; complaint.
5:23 p.m.: Area Victor II and Cottonwood; traf-fic stop.
5:55 p.m.: Federal near Garber; fireworks.
5:51 p.m.: Maple-Poplar fireworks.
5:57 p.m.: Ochsner St. Mary; theft.
6:17 p.m.: 400 block of First; disturbance.
6:46 p.m.: 200 block OF Halsey; drug activity.
6:58 p.m.: 100 block Glen-wood; suspicious vehicle.
7:11 p.m.: 700 block OF Duke; subjects burning things.
Sunday, Dec. 26
6:27 a.m.: 300 block Mal-lard; domestic.
9:13 a.m.: 6300 block La. 182; traffic stop.
10 a.m.: 200 block Levee; medical.
10:11 a.m.: 300 block Arenz; juvenile problems.
11:31 a.m.: 1100 block Ditch; theft.
12:08 p.m.: 700 block Myr-tle; complaint.
12:43 p.m.: 7200 block La. 182; disturbance.
1:36 p.m.: 7400 block La. 182; accident.
1:38 p.m.: 500 block Aucoin; complaint.
2:03 p.m.: 2000 block Keith; complaint.
2:11 p.m.: 700 block Myrtle; complaint.
2:58 p.m.: 1600 block Front; welfare check.
3:39 p.m.: 300 block Laurel; alarm.
3:53 p.m.: Fifth near Duke; complaint.
4:11 p.m.: 700 block Myrtle; complaint.
4:16 p.m.: Area Onstead; complaint.
4:53 p.m.: 900 block Fourth; complaint.
5:06 p.m.: Area Federal and Ellzey; complaint.
5:12 p.m.: 2300 block La. 70; complaint.
5:33 p.m.: 700 block Bush; complaint.
5:33 p.m.: 1100 block Fourth; suspicious vehicle.

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