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Jeremy Alford: Crime becomes defining campaign issue

Crime tops the list of public concerns in the Bayou State right now, according to a new survey underwritten by the Reilly Center for Media and Public Affairs at LSU.
 Louisiana also has one of the worst violent crime rates in the entire country, based on just about any survey or report you want to pull.

Then you have Attorney General Jeff Landry, who’s more than two dozen points ahead of his fellow Republicans in most gubernatorial polling. A large part of his brand is tied up in being the state’s top law enforcement official.

That’s all to say crime will be an unmissable theme in this year’s open race for governor. Not only do voters care about the issue, but candidates won’t stop talking about it.

During a recent interview with www.LaPoliticsWeekly.com, John M. Couvillon, president of JMC Analytics and Polling, was asked about issues that could ultimately define the race for governor. When commenting on the likelihood of crime being in the mix, Couvillon assigned a single word: “Definitely.”

Crime, after all, was the target of Landry’s first television commercials this cycle. The unique series of ads were customized by region to take to task local law enforcement officials, like district attorneys. (The spot that ran in New Orleans was especially pointed.)

“When DAs fail to prosecute, when judges fail to act, when police are handcuffed instead of the criminals, enough is enough,” Landry says in the spot. “We’re going to hold everyone — and I mean everyone — accountable for violent crime.”

A few weeks later, Reboot Louisiana PAC attempted to flip the script on Landry with its first spots on television and radio. The super PAC is backing former Louisiana Association of Business and Industry President Stephen Waguespack.

The Reboot commercial claims Landry “failed us” as Louisiana’s top law enforcement official. A female narrator also hurls this accusation at the attorney general: “Murder.. Rape… Carjackings… Under Landry’s watch, Louisiana is now the most dangerous state in America.” 
 
A Landry spokesperson declined an offer to comment on the ad spots, but U.S. House Majority Leader Steve Scalise has called on Waguespack to ask for the ads to be pulled down. Waguespack, who cannot legally coordinate with the super PAC on media buys, declined to comment through a spokesperson. 
 
Landry, however, did manage his own reply — with a pre-planned announcement of eight endorsements from sheriffs and district attorneys. 
 
“Jeff understands what it takes to keep our communities safe,” said District Attorney Bo Duhe of the 16th Judicial District in Acadiana, “and he is someone we can count on to be the law-and-order governor of Louisiana.”
 
Orleans Parish District Attorney Jason Williams, meanwhile, told reporters last week he’s being encouraged to run for governor, but isn’t really interested in the job. Williams added he doesn’t want to be “in a contest with a candidate who is publicly working harder to ban more books than high-powered assault weapons has some appeal.”
 
That comment, of course, was a dig at Landry, and that was the point Williams was probably trying to make with this political exercise — that he does not and will not support Landry, who the district attorney claims is using New Orleans as a “pawn in his self-serving aspirations.”
 
Crime has not only invaded the political rhetoric of this race, but it’s polling stronger than ever when it comes to concerns of Louisiana residents. Just take a look at the Reilly Center’s latest Louisiana Survey, where “crime surged to the top of state residents’ concerns, named by about one-fifth of respondents, or 19 percent.” 
 In most years, only about 6 percent to 10 percent of survey respondents named crime.

 “Over most of the past two decades,” according to the Louisiana Survey, “the economy and education have regularly topped the list of the public’s priorities, although other issues have reached the top on occasion — including rebuilding after Hurricane Katrina in 2006, the budget in 2016, and Covid-19 in 2021.”

 Crime as a political issue also cannot be defined by region.

 For example, state Rep. Jean-Paul Coussan, who represents a south Louisiana district anchored by Lafayette, said prior to the start of the regular session that “violent crime is first and foremost in our constituents’ minds.”

 State Sen. Jay Morris, who serves in a north Louisiana district in the Monroe area, offered a similar read when asked which issues mattered most for this year’s session. “Crime has become a serious problem in our state,” said Morris.

“Anything we do with respect to economic development, creating jobs and attracting industry is all for naught if we don’t have a safe and secure state in which to live and work.”

 We’re going to hear quite a bit about crime during the second half of 2023. But how those words are eventually translated into actions will be what matters most.

For more Louisiana political news, visit www. LaPolitics.com or follow Alford on Twitter @ LaPoliticsNow.

Morgan City police radio logs for June 7-8

The following are the radio dispatch logs from the Morgan City Police Department. To report unlawful or suspicious activity, call the Police Department at 985-380-4605.
Wednesday, June 7
5:44 a.m. 3000 block of Allison Street; Complaint.
7:04 a.m. 500 block of Roderick Street; Complaint.
8:05 a.m. 600 block of Everett Street; Complaint.
8:21 a.m. 900 block of Spruce Street; Animal complaint.
8:37 a.m. 900 block of Everett Street; Remove subject.
9:50 a.m. 900 block of Seventh Street; Remove subject.
10 a.m. U.S. 90 Westbound; Traffic incident.
10:24 a.m. 600 block of Federal Avenue; Animal complaint.
10:40 a.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Arrest.
11 a.m. 1100 block of Front Street; Animal complaint.
1:38 p.m. 600 block of Leona Street; Medical.
1:46 p.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Animal complaint.
2:30 p.m. 1000 block of Brashear Avenue; Remove subject.
2:37 p.m. 6400 block of La. 182; Reckless driving.
2:45 p.m. 800 block of Brashear Avenue; Fighting.
2:57 p.m. 300 block of Glenwood Street; Animal complaint.
2:59 p.m. 600 block of Egle Street; Criminal damage to property.
3:05 p.m. 6400 block of La. 182; Disturbance.
3:32 p.m. 200 block of Mallard Street; Medical.
3:34 p.m. 700 block of Bush Street; Complaint.
3:44 p.m. 1200 block of Victor II Boulevard; Theft.
3:47 p.m. 600 block of Martin Luther King Boulevard; Medical.
4:29 p.m. 1200 block of South Prescott Drive; Medical.
4:42 p.m. 700 block of Fourth Street; Welfare concern.
8:08 p.m. 500 block of Orange Street; Trespassing.
9:01 p.m. 2300 block of Clements Street; Mental patient.
9:17 p.m. 1000 block of Seventh Street; Suspicious vehicle.
9:21 p.m. 1400 block of Railroad Avenue; Welfare check.
9:35 p.m. 200 block of Onstead Street; Assistance.
9:55 p.m. 1100 block of Ditch Avenue; Found property.
Thursday, June 8
12:52 a.m. Federal Avenue/Louisa Street; Suspicious person.
1:02 a.m. 600 block of Willow Street; Alarm.
1:06 a.m. 1100 block of Front Street; Animal complaint.
1:49 a.m. 1000 block of Eighth Street; Suspicious vehicle.
1:59 a.m. Freret/Second streets; Suspicious person.
2:02 a.m. 2300 block of Elm Street; Suspicious person.
2:04 a.m. 1000 block of Greenwood Street; Alarm.

Three drug arrests reported by city, parish police

(Editor’s note: The charges listed here and the narratives that go with them are provided by the police agencies that made the arrests. Guilt or innocence has not been determined in court.)

Morgan City and St. Mary authorities reported arrests on drug charges Wednesday, including heroin and methamphetamine.

A Patterson arrest alleges domestic abuse battery with a dangerous weapon.

Morgan City

Chief Chad M. Adams reported that the Morgan City Police Department responded to 44 calls for service over the last 24-hour reporting period and made these arrests:

--Phi Duval, 39, Belanger Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 5:02 a.m. Wednesday on charges of possession of methamphetamine, possession of marijuana and failure to appear for trial (6th Ward Morgan City Court).

--Joseph Walter Gilmore, 20, Honey Lane, Morgan City, was arrested at 1 a.m. Thursday on charges of possession of marijuana, resisting an officer, illegal carrying of weapons, possession of tobacco by a person under 21 and wearing a mask in public prohibited.

--Ben Patrick Louviere, 44, Pine Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 10:41 a.m. Wednesday on two counts of failure to appear to pay fine (6th Ward Morgan City Court).

--Michael Quindele Lewis, 25, High Street, Vicksburg, Mississippi, was arrested at 10:35 a.m. Wednesday as a fugitive from the Lafourche Parish Sheriff's Office.

Patterson

Chief Garrett Grogan reported this arrest:

\--Jeffrey D. Causey, 60, Tiffany Street, Patterson, was arrested at 12:20 p.m. Wednesday on a charge of domestic abuse battery with a dangerous weapon. Causey is incarcerated at the Patterson PD Jail.

St. Mary

Sheriff Blaise Smith reported that over the last 24-hour reporting period, the Sheriff’s Office responded to 25 complaints and made these arrests:

--Justin Dale Adams, 45, Morgan City, was arrested at 4:06 p.m. Wednesday on charges of possession of heroin, possession with intent to distribute Schedule II drugs, possession of Xanax and possession of drug paraphernalia.

--Celeste Nicole Naverre, 41, Lafayette, was arrested at1:50 p.m. Wednesday on a warrant alleging failure to appear on charges of resisting an officer; disturbing the peace (offensive words); operating a vehicle while license is suspended, revoked, or canceled; operating a vehicle with improper headlamps and operating a vehicle with improper tail lamps.

Bail has not been set at this time.

--Christopher Paul George, 25, Slidell, was arrested at 5:27 p.m. Wednesday on a warrant alleging failure to appear charges of possession of methamphetamine; possession of marijuana; hit-and-run driving; and operation a vehicle while license is suspended, revoked or canceled.

Bail has not been set at this time.

--Dwayne Anthony August, 27, Jeanerette, was arrested on a charge of disturbing the peace (intoxicated). Bail has not been set at this time.

Franklin

Chief Cedric Handy reported that the Franklin Police Department responded to seven complaints over the last 24-hour reporting period and made these arrests:

--Jerimiah Smith, 30, Trowbridge Street, Franklin, was arrested at 11:30 a.m. Wednesday on a warrant for 3rd Ward City Court alleging failure to appear on the charges of driver must be licensed and speeding. Smith was booked, processed and released on a $438 bond.

--Larry Guilbeau, 23, Sixth Street, Franklin, was arrested at 11:49 a.m. Wednesday on a warrant for 3rd Ward City Court alleging failure to appear on four counts of vicious animals and dogs prohibited. Guilbeau was booked, processed, and released on a $458 bond.

 
 

Morgan City man arrested on rape charge

A Roderick Street man has been arrested and accused of rape and holding victim at a home, Morgan City police said.

--Marvin Naun Soto-Suazo, 31, Roderick Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 5:51 a.m. Wednesday on charges of first-degree rape and false imprisonment.

Investigators with the Morgan City Police Department Detectives Division began an investigation June 2, regarding a report of rape.

Soto-Suazo was identified as a suspect in the investigation. According to reports, Soto-Suazo forcibly had sexual relations with the victim and held them in the residence.

Arrest warrants were prepared for Soto-Suazo's arrest related to the investigation.

Soto-Suazo was located Wednesday and arrested in the area of Allison. Soto-Suazo was transported to the Morgan City Jail, where he now awaits court proceedings. Bail was set at $1,005,000.

Deputies make arrest in Bayou Vista burglary

(Editor’s note: The charges listed here and the narratives that go with them are provided by the police agencies that made the arrests. Guilt or innocence has not been determined in court.)

The investigation that led to the arrest of a Bayou Vista man in a recent burglary also led investigators to information about other recent crimes, the St. Mary Parish Sheriff’s Office said.

St. Mary

Sheriff Blaise Smith reported that over the last 48-hour reporting period, the Sheriff’s Office responded to 58 complaints and made these arrests:

--James Vincent Howell II, 18, Bayou Vista, was arrested at 11:04 p.m. Tuesday on charges of simple burglary and possession of stolen things.

Detectives were working on a burglary case that occurred Monday in the Bayou Vista area when they obtained evidence, which led to obtaining a search warrant for Howell’s residence. Stolen property was located.

As the investigation progressed, Howell was linked to other burglaries in the Patterson area as well. Howell was transported to the St. Mary Parish Law Enforcement Center.

Bail has been set at $205,000.

--Ben Patrick Louviere, 44, Franklin, was arrested at 2:20 p.m. Tuesday on a Morgan City Police Department warrant alleging failure to appear on a charge of disturbing the peace (intoxicated). Louviere is being held for another agency.

--Charles Lamont Merrit, 43, Patterson, was arrested at 1:35 p.m. Monday on a warrant alleging failing to register as a sex offender and failing to pay annual registration fee.

Bail has not been set at this time.

--Allen Ray Only Jr., 41, Centerville, was arrested at 7:49 a.m. Monday on charges of domestic abuse battery, possession with intent to distribute marijuana, possession of drug paraphernalia and possession of a controlled dangerous substance in the presence of persons under 17.

Bail has not been set at this time.

Morgan City

Chief Chad M. Adams reported that the Morgan City Police Department responded to 94 calls for service over the last 48-hour reporting period and made these arrests:

--Robert P. Stansbury Jr., 39, North Third Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 1:15 p.m. Tuesday on a warrant alleging failure to appear for trial (6thWard Morgan City Court).

--Nickolas J. Morris II, 35, Lizabeth Drive, Morgan City, was arrested at 2:39 p.m. Tuesday on charges of home invasion, violation of a protective order, domestic abuse battery and interfering with emergency communications, and on a warrant alleging direct contempt of court (6th Ward Morgan City Court).

--Quentin Cooper, 32, Poncio Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 3:08 p.m. Monday on a charge of aggravated assault and on a warrant alleging failure to appear for arraignment.

--Timothy R. Lopez, 38, Shell Beach Road, Pierre Part, was arrested at 8:06 p.m. on charges of possession of methamphetamine, possession of drug paraphernalia, view outward or inward through windshield, illegal carrying of a weapon and illegal use of a controlled dangerous substance in the presence of a person under 17.

--Madison N. Cobb, 19, La. 663, Morgan City, was arrested at 8:19 p.m. Tuesday on charges of possession of speed limit, maximum speed limit, no insurance, no registration and resisting an officer.

--Khiary Hill, 32, Goose Creek, South Carolina, was arrested at 9:24 p.m. Tuesday on charges of possession of marijuana and no turn signal.

--Jaleel Hart, 19, Second Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 11:31 p.m. Tuesday on a charge of reckless operation of a vehicle and on a warrant alleging simple assault.

--Kliejah M. Jackson, 22, Fern Lane, Houma, was arrested at 11:50 p.m. Tuesday on a charge of terrorizing and as a fugitive from the East Baton Rouge Sheriff’s Office.

--Steven W. Davis, 47, Third Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 2:55 a.m. Wednesday on a warrant alleging two counts of failure to pay fines (6th Ward Morgan City Court).

--Jalesa Wagner, 32, St. Charles Street, Thibodaux, was arrested at 1:26 p.m. Monday on charges of possession of marijuana, possession of drug paraphernalia, illegal use of a controlled dangerous substance in the presence of juveniles and disregard of traffic controls.

--Terell Wagner, 30, St. Charles Street, Thibodaux, was arrested at 1:26 p.m. Monday on charges of possession of marijuana, possession of drug paraphernalia and illegal use of a controlled dangerous substance in the presence of juveniles.

--Derick Domingue, 36, Shell Beach Road, Pierre Part, was arrested at 1:29 p.m. Monday on three counts of failure to pay fine (6th Ward Morgan City Court).

—Shelby Leigh Braud, 32, Front Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 7:46 p.m. Monday on charges of disturbing the peace and remaining where forbidden.

--Xavier Dominic Coleman, 23, Apple Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 10 p.m. Monday on charges of possession of marijuana and improper turning.

Bayou Horseshoe Pitchers Association scores

Bayou Horseshoe Pitchers Association
Spring League - 2023
Week 8
W L
Pole Chasers ............39.5 32.5
The Champs .............39 33
Pit Bosses .................37 35
Kool Kats...................34.5 37.5
Whatever...................34.5 37.5
AARP Bandits...........31.5 40.5
High scratch point average: (30’) Tim Gilmore 81.3, Burnie Williams 67.1 and Clay Canty 60.7; and (40’) Dwain Arceneaux 49.4, Randy Giroir 47.8 and Dale Pearce 44.4.
High individual ringer percentage: (30’) Gilmore 59.9, Williams 41.5 and Clyde Landry 41.0; and (40’) Arceneaux 32.4, Pearce 29.3 and Giroir 26.7.
High scratch game: (30’) Gilmore 100, Williams 78 and Jimmy Percle 76; and (40’) Pearce 62, Arceneaux 61, Jim Guzdial 60 and Travis Bourdier 60.
Most ringers: (one night) Gilmore 78, Landry 60, Williams 60, Percle 54 and Canty 54; and (one game) Gilmore 32, Williams 23, Percle 22, Landry 21 and Canty 20.
High handicap game: Gilmore 112, Bourdier 111, Guzdial 109, Pearce 106 and Canty 102; most points one night: Gilmore 265, Williams 225, Landry 209, Percle 200 and Canty 196; and high game over average: Bourdier 26.8 and Mary Guzdial 15.7.
Best won-loss record: Gilmore 14-4, Warren Raymond 9-3, Williams 15-6, Julius Lovell 14-7 and Bourdier 15-9; most points one night – team: Kool Kats 523 and Pit Bosses 458; and most ringers one night – team: Kool Kats 140 and Pit Bosses 114.

Morgan City police radio logs for June 5-7

The following are the radio dispatch logs from the Morgan City Police Department. To report unlawful or suspicious activity, call the Police Department at 985-380-4605.
Monday, June 5
6:46 a.m. 3800 block of La. 182/Berwick; Alarm.
7:10 a.m. 200 block of Headland Street; Animal complaint.
7:56 a.m. 600 block of Egle Street; Complaint.
8:11 a.m. 300 block of Everett Street; Complaint.
10:23 a.m. 700 block of David Drive; Alarm.
10:33 a.m. U.S. 90 Eastbound/Cannatas; Vehicle accident.
11:23 a.m. 1000 block of First Street; Alarm.
11:28 a.m. 1300 block of Main Street/Patterson; Arrest.
12:10 p.m. 1200 block of David Drive; Medical.
12:34 p.m. 1800 block of Elk Street; Complaint.
1:12 p.m. 1100 block of Marguerite Street; 911 hang up.
1:16 p.m. 800 block of Federal Avenue; Animal complaint.
1:28 p.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Arrest.
1:51 p.m. 100 block of Jupiter Street; Theft.
2:57 p.m. 1400 block of Railroad Avenue; Medical.
3:27 p.m. U.S. 90 Westbound; Complaint.
6:22 p.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Warrants.
6:56 p.m. 1100 block of Marguerite Street; 911 hang up call.
6:58 p.m. 2300 block of Federal Avenue; Aggravated assault.
7:09 p.m. 7400 block of La. 182; Complaint.
9:05 p.m. Area of Willow Street; Complaint.
9:20 p.m. 600 block of Terrebonne Street; Juvenile problems.
9:44 p.m. 3000 block of Diane Drive; Medical.
11:06 p.m. Area of Brashear Avenue/Fourth Street; Suspicious person/vehicle.
11:31 p.m. 3000 block of Francis Street; Complaint.
11:52 p.m. 600 block of Maine Street; Medical.
Tuesday, June 6
2:42 a.m. 400 block of Adams Street; Animal complaint.
2:44 a.m. 800 block of Freret Street; Suspicious person/vehicle.
4:58 a.m. 1000 block of Onstead Street; Animal complaint.
5:56 a.m. 1100 block of Marguerite Street; 911 hang up call.
6:32 a.m. 6300 block of La. 182; Alarm.
6:32 a.m. 6300 block of La. 182; Alarm.
7:45 a.m. 1000 block of Sixth Street; Animal complaint.
7:47 a.m. 600 block of Maine Street; Animal complaint.
7:53 a.m. 11000 block of Winding Trail Drive; Identity theft.
8:02 a.m. Area of Federal Avenue on ramp; Complaint.
9:34 a.m. 700 block of Fifth Street; Complaint.
9:58 a.m. 1100 block of Seventh Street; Hang up call.
10:07 a.m. 300 block of Greenwood Street; Suspicious person.
10:32 a.m. 100 block of Mallard Street; Medical.
10:44 a.m. 100 block of Eleventh Street; Disturbance.
11:44 a.m. 1000 block of Cottonwood Street; Complaint.
12:29 p.m. 800 block of North Everett Street; Subject removal.
12:33 p.m. 6400 block of La. 182; Subject removal.
1:02 p.m. 700 block of Fifth Street; Animal complaint.
2:23 p.m. 500 block of Bowman Street; Theft.
2:36 p.m. 1000 block of Shaw Drive; Juvenile problems.
2:38 p.m. 500 block of Orange Street; Disturbance.
4:02 p.m. 2300 block of Federal Avenue; Complaint.
4:31 p.m. 300 block of S. Railroad Avenue; Complaint.
4:35 p.m. 500 block of Roderick Street; Fire alarm.
5:11 p.m. 200 block of Levee Road; Juvenile problems.
6:47 p.m. Area of Aycock Street /La. 182; Loud music.
7:36 p.m. 400 block of Idaho Street; Complaint.
8:06 p.m. 1000 block of Clothilde Street; Suspicious person/vehicle.
8:13 p.m. Area of U.S. 90; Arrest.
8:50 p.m. 7700 block of La. 182; Disturbance.
9:01 p.m. 300 block of Chennault Street; Animal complaint.
9:55 p.m. 1000 block of La. 70; Suspicious person/vehicle.
10:01 p.m. 2000 block of Keith Street; Complaint.
10:58 p.m. Area of Federal Avenue/Louisa Street; Suspicious person/vehicle.
11:36 p.m. 1100 block of Marguerite Street; Complaint.
Wednesday, June 7
12:04 a.m. Area of Veterans Boulevard; Reckless driver.
1:08 a.m. Area of Veterans Boulevard; Assistance.
1:38 a.m. 1100 block of Front Street; Loud music.
1:53 a.m. 6400 block of La. 182; Complaint.
2:26 a.m. 100 block of Railroad Avenue; Reckless driver.
2:54 a.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Arrest.
4:21 a.m. 7400 block of La. 182; Complaint.

Get It Growing: Evolvulus named summer 2023 Louisiana Super Plant selection

If you are looking for something blue to brighten up the landscape this summer, have we got the plant recommendation for you. The 2023 Louisiana Super Plant selection for the summer is a dwarf morning glory known as evolvulus, and there are two great cultivars the AgCenter is recommending: Blue My Mind and Blue Daze.
With its enchanting blue flowers and ability to thrive in various conditions, this beautiful groundcover has become a favorite selection to create a border in garden beds and as a spiller in containers for its trailing growth habit.
Blue My Mind and Blue Daze are two different cultivars of plants that belong to the same genus, Evolvulus, but they share similarities in terms of appearance and growth habit. Evolvulus belongs to the morning glory family, which includes nearly 100 species of plants. Most are native to the Americas.
These dwarf morning glories are unlike typical climbing morning glory vines in that they have a low-growing, spreading growth habit, forming dense, compact mounds of foliage covered with dainty flowers.
Evolvulus flowers come in several colors, but the vibrant blues of Blue My Mind and Blue Daze are especially striking in the landscape. Blue My Mind is a vibrant shade of blue while Blue Daze flowers can sometimes appear purple-blue or lavender.
Both cultivars are known for their abundant, continuous blooming throughout the summer. They produce numerous flowers that open in the morning and close in the afternoon.
The foliage of Blue My Mind and Blue Daze is similar: small, ovate or elliptical leaves that are usually green in color. The leaves are covered in fine hairs, giving them a slightly fuzzy texture. The contrast between the blue flowers and lush green foliage is hard to resist.
It’s worth noting that the specific characteristics of these plants can vary slightly depending on the growing conditions and regional variations.
One of the most remarkable qualities of evolvulus is its adaptability. It thrives in both garden beds and containers, making it a versatile choice for any landscape. Whether planted in a traditional flowerbed, in a hanging basket or cascading over the edges of a planter, this plant adds a touch of elegance and allure to any space.
Gardeners appreciate evolvulus for its easy maintenance and robust nature. It is a sun-loving plant that flourishes in full sunlight. Additionally, it is heat and drought tolerant, making it an excellent choice for regions with hot. dry climates.
Blue My Mind is often favored for its better cold tolerance compared to Blue Daze. It can withstand cooler temperatures and is more likely to survive in regions with colder winters.
Evolvulus displays exceptional disease resistance, ensuring that it remains healthy and vibrant with minimal effort. Its ability to withstand a range of conditions, including poor soil quality, makes it an ideal candidate for various gardening situations.
Whether used as a border plant, a groundcover or a focal point in a container garden, evolvulus never fails to captivate onlookers. Its enchanting blue flowers, reminiscent of clear summer skies, attract butterflies and pollinators, enhancing the ecological value of any garden.
Louisiana Super Plants have a proven record with many years of reliable performance in Louisiana landscapes or have gone through several years of university evaluations and observations. Look for these plants at local nurseries.

Wife’s ability to trust her husband takes a hit

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are in our early 70s. We have been married seven years. I was celibate before we met and thrilled to have a partner I respected and was attracted to. Our sex life seemed normal and exciting with lots of kisses and hugs throughout the day.
Recently, I caught him on a phone sex call and then discovered he visits sex chat rooms. I’m devastated. I feel betrayed and angry that my trust has been violated. After several attempts to lie, he finally admitted the truth, but said it was a “recent” thing — which was even more insulting!
My therapist says men don’t suddenly take up phone sex and pornography in their 70s. When I shared that with my husband, he revealed it wasn’t “as often” in the past. He swears he loves me and will get help, but I can’t imagine how I can trust him again.
He doesn’t seem to want to talk about it any further, other than taking some online classes dealing with porn addiction. Our relationship has always been cordial and friendly and that continues, though I’m no longer willing to have sex at this time. My impulse is to bolt. I’m too old to deal with this nonsense, and I just want to live the rest of my life in peace.
What do you think?
THROWN IN KANSAS

DEAR THROWN: Please ignore your impulse to bolt. When you started your letter, you stated you had a good marriage to a man you respect and are attracted to — with the bonus of kisses and hugs throughout the day. Your husband isn’t having physical contact with anyone on the “hotline.”
If your therapist hasn’t told you, many thousands of individuals of both sexes consider porn to be erotica and helpful, and many couples use it to enhance their sex lives. Rather than sacrifice what has been a successful marriage, you and your husband would be better off scheduling some appointments with a marriage and family therapist, and possibly one who specializes in sex therapy to help you overcome your emotional issue on this highly personal subject.

DEAR ABBY: My former husband of 28 years cheated on me for the last 15 years of our marriage. For the last six years, I have been in a healthy and happy relationship. I went to counseling for five years and, per the counselor, I don’t need to go anymore.
My 36-year-old daughter wants me to attend family gatherings with my ex and his wife (his third mistress). I have gone to two of them, but I really have no desire to do it any longer. My daughter is telling me I still have “issues that I need to heal” and has been lecturing me about this for years. Must I sacrifice my feelings for hers?
CLEAN BREAK IN NEW ENGLAND

DEAR CLEAN BREAK: No, you have suffered enough. I see no reason why you must continue to expose yourself to the company of two people you neither like nor respect. If your daughter cannot accept this, then perhaps SHE needs counseling to understand it.
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