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Dear Abby: Friendship faded, but request for gift didn't

DEAR ABBY: My friend “Gene” and I have been friends since elementary school. We’re now in our 50s. We were inseparable best friends all those years. When we were about 30, I started noticing our friendship seemed to be a one-way street because he made no effort to initiate contact.
Gene was gracious and inviting if I called him, but he never called me. Instead, he focused on friends he could benefit from professionally and withdrew from old friends like me. About 20 years ago, I stopped calling him and decided to move on with other friends who were more congenial and courteous.
You could count on one hand how many times I’ve seen or spoken to Gene in the past 10 years, but today I received a graduation invitation from his son who wants a cash gift for his high school graduation. Abby, his son wouldn’t know me if I tapped him on the shoulder. To say I was appalled is an understatement.
I feel no obligation to send money to someone I don’t know, and even less than that given the way Gene abandoned our decades-long friendship years ago. How can I handle this tactfully without coming across as rude or bitter?
SHOCKED IN THE BLUEGRASS STATE

DEAR SHOCKED: The polite way to handle it would be to send the young man a congratulatory card, wishing him well.

DEAR ABBY: I just said goodbye to my third beloved pet. Even though it has gotten easier over time, each passing has been devastating, and I have grieved deeply over their loss. When my mom passed a few years back, I was with her during that peaceful moment. I felt sadness, but nothing approaching the level as it has been with my pets.
My father’s time is growing near, yet I don’t feel sadness. I have had loving relationships with my parents, but not like some of my friends who described their parents as their rock or their best friend.
I’m worried that I lack something in my heart, and I should be feeling a greater loss for humans than for pets. Please help me make sense of this. I don’t feel OK.
GRIEVING DIFFERENTLY IN FLORIDA

DEAR GRIEVING: Please accept my sympathy for the loss of your pet, and please stop flogging yourself for your feelings (or lack thereof). Everyone grieves differently. It is possible that you were able to accept the death of your mother because you were no longer interacting with her on the emotional level your friends did with their parents. The same may be true for your father.
Your pets, on the other hand, were a source of emotional support on a daily basis. Sometimes pets become the equivalents of children, and the loss of that “child” can be more painful than losing one’s parents.

DEAR ABBY: A very dear relative has just announced her engagement. This will be her third marriage. Are gifts necessary?
HOPE NOT IN NEBRASKA

DEAR HOPE NOT: If you attend the festivities, you shouldn’t come empty-handed. Some sort of gift is necessary. However, if you have generously shelled out for your relative’s first two marriages, your third gift need only be something modest you think the couple might enjoy.

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Nicholls State names common area for Bollinger

Nicholls State University celebrated the naming of the Boysie Bollinger Commons at a ribbon-cutting event in the Donald G. Bollinger Memorial Student Union. The Boysie Bollinger Commons is the central area of the Student Union where many students gather for social interaction, to grab a bite to eat or to study with friends.
Donald “Boysie” Bollinger, former chairman and CEO of Bollinger Enterprises, LLC and chairman of the Nicholls Foundation Board, and his family have provided significant support to the university for many years, especially in renovating the interior of Nicholls’ Student Union. 
Bollinger and his sisters, Charlotte and Andrea, donated the first $1 million endowment in Nicholls history in 1997. In 2000, the building was named after Boysie’s father and founder of Bollinger Shipyards, Donald G. Bollinger. Charlotte and Andrea also contributed to renovating the Student Union’s Cotillion Ballroom and adjacent conference rooms, making those spaces the Bollinger Suite in 2018. 
In 2019 alone, Bollinger contributed $1 million to the university with $300,000 dedicated to renovations at the Donald G. Bollinger Memorial Student Union and $700,000 contributed to an endowment with the Nicholls Foundation. Like his father, Boysie was recognized for his support of Nicholls with an honorary doctorate. 
“I am a people person, and I inherited that from my father,” Bollinger said.
“To have this common area where people meet and exchange ideas just makes it that much more special to me.
“This space will allow students to relax and put away some of the stress of studying and enjoy the camaraderie of campus life. For 30 years, I have served as the Foundation Board’s chairman, and I am happy to keep serving this university.”
The Donald G. Bollinger Memorial Student Union is the community center for Nicholls, offering programs, services and facilities that supports the university’s academic mission, student development and the quality of campus life. 
The Nicholls Foundation, an independent 501(c)3 corporation, exists to support the mission of Nicholls State University by seeking gifts and grants and by managing those funds and other assets to support Nicholls through endowed chairs, professorships, scholarships and other enhancement efforts. To learn more about donating to Nicholls, visit nichollsfoundation.org.

Pellegrin, Jones named top paramedic, EMT

Brent Pellegrin is Acadian Ambulance Paramedic of the Year and Michele Jones is the EMT of the Year for the company's Bayou Region.
Pellegrin joined Acadian in 1990. He completed the paramedic program in 1992 through the local community college.
He has spent most of his 33-year career serving Terrebonne Parish.
He grew up in Terrebonne Parish, where he still enjoys living and working. He enjoys working in the yard, cutting grass, or working with his tractors.
He and his wife, Nara, enjoy traveling, especially with their adult children. 
Jones, better known as “MeMe," has served as an EMT for 18 years with her partner and best friend, Kerry Lassere.
Acadian says she's a hard worker with the biggest heart. She prides herself on being compassionate to her patients, their families, and everyone she encounters.
In her time away from work, Jones enjoys spending time with her family and a good cup of coffee. Her husband, three children and four grandchildren are her proudest accomplishments.
Acadian Ambulance is one of the largest ambulance services in the nation, offering emergency and non-emergency transportation to areas in Louisiana, Texas, Mississippi and Tennessee. Acadian is employee-owned and accredited by the Commission on Accreditation of Ambulance Services.

Conrad signs $51.8M in contracts in 1Q

Conrad Industries Inc. (OTC Pink: CNRD) announced net income of $1.5 million and earnings per diluted share of $0.30 for the first quarter of 2024, compared to a net loss of $5.1 million and loss per diluted share of $1.01 during the first quarter of 2023.
The company’s financial reports are available at www.otcmarkets.com
During the first three months of 2024, Conrad signed $51.8 million in contracts in its new construction segment compared to $47.0 million added to backlog during the first three months of 2023.
Conrad’s backlog was $247.3 million at March 31, 2024, $253.8 million at Dec. 31, 2023, and $221.8 million at March 31, 2023. Since the end of the first quarter, the company has signed an additional $25 million in contracts. 
Conrad Industries Inc., established in 1948 and headquartered in Morgan City, designs, builds and overhauls barges, dredges and dredge support equipment, tugboats, ferries, dry docks, lift boats, offshore supply vessels, and other steel products for both the commercial and government markets.
The company provides both repair and new construction services at its five shipyards located in southern Louisiana and Texas. 

WINNIE MARIE BOUDREAUX THERIOT

Winnie Marie Boudreaux Theriot, 82, a native of Morgan City and resident of Gibson, died Monday, May 20, 2024, at Terrebonne General Medical Center in Houma.
She is survived by her husband, Craig Theriot Sr.; four children, Clifford Theriot, Victor Jones, Craig Theriot Jr. and Susan Murphy; 12 grandchildren; nine great-grandchildren; and sister, Wendy Vining.
She was preceded in death by her parents and siblings.
Services were Wednesday at Twin City Funeral Home with burial in Morgan City Cemetery.
Twin City Funeral Home was in charge of arrangements.

Deputies arrest man on drug distribution charge

(Editor’s note: The charges listed here and the narratives that go with them are provided by the police agencies that made the arrests. Guilt or innocence has not been determined in court.)

A Franklin man faces marijuana distribution and racketeering charges after his arrest Wednesday by the St. Mary Sheriff’s Office Narcotics Section.

St. Mary

Sheriff Gary Driskell reported that over the last 24-hour reporting period, the Sheriff’s Office responded to 34 complaints and made these arrests:

--Terrance Robinson, 27, Franklin, was arrested at 3:25 p.m. Wednesday on two warrants alleging to appear on charges of reckless operation of an off-road vehicle, improper lane usage, no turn signal, stop sign violation, no brake lights, no license plate, no motor vehicle inspection, no driver’s license, distribution of marijuana and racketeering. Bail was set at $80,000.

--Kellie Sue Boudreaux, 41, Patterson, was arrested at 5:53 p.m. Wednesday on a warrant alleging failure to appear for the charges of driving under suspension and improper lane usage. Bail has not been set at this time.

Morgan City

Chief Chad M. Adams reported that the Morgan City Police Department responded to 31 calls for service over the last 24-hour reporting period and made these arrests:

--Mathew James Miller, 30, Marshal Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 7:48 p.m. Wednesday on charges of monetary instrument abuse and possession of drug paraphernalia.

--Bethany Ruiz, 28, Fraternity Court, Gray, was arrested at 2:21 p.m. Wednesday on a charge of nonconsensual disclosure of a private image.

Franklin

Chief Cedric Handy reported that the Franklin Police Department responded to five complaints over the last 24-hour reporting period and made these arrests:

--Missy Alexander, 37, Folsom Drive, Beaumont, Texas, was arrested at 9:45 a.m. Wednesday on a warrant dated April 2 alleging disturbing the peace (loud profane language). Alexander was booked, processed and held on a $1,000 bond.

--Breyonna Verret, 22, Anderson Street, Franklin, was arrested at 11:11 a.m. Wednesday on a charge of theft. Verret was booked, processed and released on a $1,500 bond.

--Danielle Edwards, 38, Robertson Street, Franklin, was arrested at 12:21 a.m. Thursday on charges of disturbing the peace, simple assault and battery of a dating partner. Edwards was booked, processed and held with no bond set at the time of press release.

--Kaliah Fusilier, 23, Pellerin Road, Jeanerette, was arrested at 1:56 a.m. Thursday on charges of operating a vehicle while intoxicated and reckless operation of a vehicle. Fusilier was booked, processed and released on a $2,750 bond.

Morgan City police radio logs for May 22-23

The following are the radio dispatch logs from the Morgan City Police Department. To report unlawful or suspicious activity, call the Police Department at 985-380-4605.
Wednesday, May 22
6:47 a.m. 700 block of Belanger Street; Medical.
7:31 a.m. 1600 block of Dale Street; Animal complaint.
7:35 a.m. 1000 block of Eighth Street; Remove subject.
8 a.m. 1100 block of Marguerite Street; 911 hang up.
8:58 a.m. 1100 block of Chestnut Drive; Animal complaint.
9:13 a.m. La. 182/Roderick Street; Vehicle accident.
9:28 a.m. U.S. 90/Federal Avenue Ramp; Vehicle accident.
9:40 a.m. Arkansas Street; Complaint.
9:49 a.m. 7900 block of La. 182; Animal complaint.
10:35 a.m. 1400 block of Second Street; Animal complaint.
11:09 a.m. 1300 block of Oil Tank Alley; Warrant.
11:15 a.m. Federal/Brashear avenues; Lost and found property.
12:20 p.m. 1200 block of Victor II Boulevard; Theft.
12:21 p.m. 600 block of Egle Street; Complaint.
1:01 p.m. 7200 block of La. 182; Utilities.
1:05 p.m. 100 block of Wren Street; Medical.
2:14 p.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Warrant.
2:52 p.m. 800 block of Brashear Avenue; Remove subject.
3:31 p.m. 500 block of Roderick Street; Assistance.
4:46 p.m. 1400 block of North Third Street; Medical.
4:48 p.m. 2400 block of Tupelo Street; Medical.
5:10 p.m. 1100 block of Birch Street; Civil matter.
5:41 p.m. 6300 block of La. 182; Remove subject.
7:24 p.m. 600 block of Arenz Street; Complaint.
8:10 p.m. 6400 block of La. 182; Complaint.
9:11 p.m. U.S. 90; Hit and run.
Thursday, May 23
12:10 a.m. 1800 block of Cedar Street; Disturbance.
3:43 a.m. 100 block of Glenwood Street; Medical.
4:53 a.m. 7300 block of La. 182; Alarm.

Council looks at charter bill; security law OK'd

Enmity gave way to amity, with a touch of brevity, at Wednesday’s St. Mary Parish Council meeting.
The council, which made news with a series of sometimes acrimonious debates in the first months of this term, was a model of polite discourse as it moved on two of the most contentious issues, courthouse security and a possible rewrite of the parish’s home rule charter.
The council also honored two West St. Mary residents with resolutions to mark their passing, all in a meeting that lasted just over an hour.
The council introduced an ordinance by Councilman J Ina of Franklin creating the St. Mary Parish Home Rule Charter Revision Commission.
The ordinance cites Louisiana law that says charter commissions must have seven to 11 members who will serve until their proposed charter or revision is either adopted or rejected by voters.
The commission will have 18 months to submit its proposal to the Parish Council, which is not allowed to change it.
At least two issues seem sure to come up in charter rewrite discussions.
One is the status of the parish president. Parish President Sam Jones and former state Sen. Bret Allain have both spoken publicly about their belief that a full-time president is needed to represent the parish.
The current post calls for a presidential salary of $1,000 a month, unchanged since the charter was adopted 40 years ago. Proponents have pointed to six-figure salaries for chief executives in nearby parishes.
The change to a full-time presidency would not affect Jones if he abides by his one-term pledge.
The other issue is minority representation. Ina has argued that the Parish Council’s 11 districts include only two with Black majorities, even though the parish’s population is about one-third African American.
Ina has warned that if the council doesn’t take action, some outside force like the U.S. Justice Department might.
The current charter requires 20 days to elapse between the introduction of an ordinance and a passage vote. The next scheduled meeting is June 12, the 21st day since introduction.
The council also unanimously passed an ordinance by Councilman Rodney Olander of Franklin creating “security procedures and guidelines relative to maintaining a safe and contraband-free environment for the St. Mary Parish Courthouse,” according to the agenda summary.
The ordinance creates a Courthouse Safety Commission and establishes penalties for violations.
A rarity among state and federal courthouses, the St. Mary Courthouse does not require routine screening by magnetometers on entry.
Security inside the council chambers has also been an issue. One of those contentious debates has been over whether a deputy should be assigned to council meetings.
The two resolutions of respect honored Lucy Rucker Watson, retired after 28 years as a St. Mary Parish teacher, who died May 14; and Cathy Grimm Eave, a longtime St. Mary/Vermilion Community Action Agency employee who died May 11.
Councilman Dean Adams of Morgan City also congratulated participants and fellow council members for the success of Monday's town hall meeting in Four Corners.
The event was organized by parish Economic Development Director Evan Boudreaux. More town halls are in the works on a schedule still to be determined.

Bayou Vista bike winner

Submitted photo
Fourth-grader Trevor Hebert is the winner in Bayou Vista Elementary's latest bike drawing. He's shown with Flo Hebert of A-Bear Home Renovation, which donated the bike. Each nine weeks, one student’s name gets drawn from among those on the Principals List, Honor Roll or Positive Behavior.

Four St. Mary students graduate with honors at LSU

Four St. Mary students were among those who graduated with honors at LSU commencement ceremonies Friday and Saturday.
The honors graduates from St. Mary were:
—Emma Kate Simmons, Morgan City, summa cum laude, College of Science.
—Madeline Grace Nini, Berwick, cum laude, College of Art and Design.
—Stella Grace Falterman, Baldwin, summa cum laude, Ourso College of Business.
—Madison Elise Boudreaux, Franklin, summa cum laude, College of Agriculture.
Here are the spring 2024 LSU graduates from St. Mary:
College of Agriculture
Madison Elise Boudreaux, Franklin.
College of Art and Design
Madeline Grace Nini, Berwick
College of Humanities
and Social Sciences
Emma Lucia DeHart, Morgan City
Carson Riley Gagliano, Morgan City
Madison Nicole Williams, Morgan City
E.J. Ourso College of Business
Stella Grace Falterman, Baldwin
College of Engineering
William Blake Hidalgo, Berwick
Kyle J Pitre, Berwick
Joshua G Sanford, Berwick
College of Human
Sciences and Education
Ryleigh Nicole Arnold, Berwick
Camille Alexandra Baker, Franklin
Kameron McKay Patureau, Morgan City
Grant E Stansbury, Berwick
College of Science
Brailey Fletcher, Centerville
Emma Kate Simmons, Morgan City
Pinkie Gordon Lane
Graduate School
(Master’s)
John Barrett Hover Jr., Berwick
Grace Danielle Ibert, Franklin
Noel Marie Johnson, Franklin
Nicholas Dean Levergne, Berwick
School of
Veterinary Medicine
(Doctorate)
Allison Belle, Berwick

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