May 14 St. Mary Parish Council amended agenda
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PUBLIC NOTICE
St. Mary Parish Wards 5 & 8 Joint Sewer Commission
P. O. Box 181
Berwick, La 70342
MINUTES
April 7, 2025
The meeting was called to order by Mr. Cooper at 6:00 PM.
Mr. Cooper ask-ed if anyone had a public comment. No comments made.
Present: Karen Sehon, Calvin Sanders Sr., Matthew Kidder, Tim Kyle, Michael Stewart, Brandon Monceaux, Marcey Carmouche, Billy Morgan (Morgan’s Construction), Pam, and Larry Fromenthal (Fromenthal Plumbing), Glen Duncan, Murtada Mousa (Providence Engineering), and Chris Cooper.
The board went over the minutes of the previous month’s meeting. Mr. Kidder moved to disburse the reading of the minutes and accept. Mr. Monceaux seconded the motion. All in favor – I.
The board then went over the treasurer’s report. The board said to hold the LnL Tree Service invoice until the job is completed. Mr. Carmouche to contact them to see if they would like partial payment for the work completed, then to let Mrs. Sehon know. Mr. Cooper reported the moving of $99,999.00 from LAMP to operating to cover this month’s ex- penses. Mr. Kyle motioned to ap- prove the treasurer’s report and sign checks if all are in order. Mr. Kidder seconded the motion. All in favor – I.
Mr. Murtada, with Providence Engineering, in reference to the 2024 financial audit concerning the public bid law for Taft St. project. He would like to speak with Mrs. Holcombe on this matter and the write-up. He show-ed an example of how to oversee bids and interpretation.
Mr. Sanders reported on the monthly maintenance. LnL Tree Service has not completed the job as of today. Station 7 has the backflow preventor in- stalled. The water will be put in the station this month. Mr. Stewart asked about the breakdown of the prices of installation of backflow preventors. The oil pump will be installed at Patterson Pond. Station 11 replacement pump is in. It will be installed this month. Station 3 has a pump to be installed. The welder is also putting guards on the belts. At the plant, the new water sampler is in. They are adjusting the parameters and waiting on the stage for final calibration. There are 4 pumps at Power Specialties being worked on. There is one pump at Quality Diesel being worked on. Station 9 is waiting on the contractor to relocate two lines agreed on by Fromenthal Plumbing. Mr. Carmouche and Mr. Fromenthal are looking into the best way to tie it in to relocate the lines. They would like to start this project no later than 4/23/25 on this project. Mr. Carmouche reported the handrails installed. He is working on pricing and information of contact chamber for self-floating aerators. He suggests going with bigger units that run $27,000-$32,000. He has discussed the specs with Mr. Mousa about the specs. He will give all the information to Mr. Mousa for a recommendation. Each pond currently has 2 aerators, looking into purchasing multiple aerators instead of just one. Mr. Mousa asked if the Station 9 rehabilitation be self- funded? Mr. Cooper asked about a low interest loan for this project. The board asked for more information on a low interest loan for the Station 9 project. Mr. Carmouche asked when the Waste Management contract ends? Mrs. Sehon said she does not know. He will contact them again; he thought it ended in February, and it was to be cancelled then.
Old/New business – Mrs. Holcombe, Kolder Slaven & Co., submitted the schedule of findings for the audit for fiscal year ending 9/30/24. It was to be submitted be- fore 3/31/25. It was submitted on 3/18/25. In the audit, findings were found for the project cost exceeding $250,000 for Station 10, Taft St project. The public bid law states that projects are all inclusive of labor, materials, and supplies. The proposal exceeded this amount. Anything close to this amount should follow the public bid law instructions. Mr. Murtada will investigate this for the Station 9 project before proceeding further.
The first quoted trailer was sold prior to the approval of the quote. Another quote for the same amount was issued and the trailer was re- served for us. Awaiting arrival of the trailer for pick up. A generator deposit was issued to M&L for approximate May delivery. The old generator has no value. We will need to advertise for market value. The generator is non-accessible, so they will need to contact Mickey/Calvin to see the generator. We will need to advertise for 15 days prior to the bid opening date. Motion to declare a surplus to start the bid process was made by Mr. Stewart. Mr. Kidder seconded the motion. Mr. Cooper asked Mickey/Calvin to contact LnL Tree Service about partial payment for completed work. Mr. Cooper mentioned the hiring of a new employee before 3-5 years due to the upcoming re- tirement of current employees. If everyone would start getting the word out to look for someone to hire. Regarding the penalties/late fees for customer invoice delays, it will be tabled for now.
Next meeting is scheduled for Monday, May 5, 2024.
Having no further business, Mr. Monceaux has motioned to ad- journ the meeting. Mr. Kyle seconded the motion.
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Chairperson
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Secretary/
Treasurer
Adv. May 9, 2025
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PUBLIC NOTICE
Accepting sealed bids for one (1) surplus 1997 Dodge Pickup, mileage 58,542
To be sold to highest bidder as-is, where-is.
Contact Jacob or Kenney at 985-384-8990.
Bids can be mailed to: Pickup Truck Bid, P O Box 322, Berwick, LA 70342
Adv. April 30, May 2, 7, 9, 14, 16, 21 and 23, 2025
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PUBLIC NOTICE
Accepting sealed bids for Qty- 1 surplus generator 150 kw.
Needs rebuilt engine and various electrical issues.
To be sold to highest bidder as is where is.
Contact Mickey @ 985-992-7254 or Calvin @ 985-992-6890.
Bids can be mailed to:
Generator Bid
P O Box 181
Berwick, LA 70342
Adv. April 16, 18, 23, 25, 30, May 2, 7 and 9, 2025
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PUBLIC NOTICE
PUBLIC NO- TICE — NOTICE TO BIDDERS The Louisiana Department of Wildlife and Fisheries (LDWF) will be selecting eligible hunters to harvest alligators on certain Wildlife Management Areas (WMAs), U.S. Army Corps of En- gineers (USACE) properties, Wetland Conservation Areas (WCAs), and State Wildlife Refuges located in various parishes based on a bid system. Successful bidders will be awarded the bid for a total of three years (2025, 2026, and 2027), provided their performance is satisfactory to LDWF. Bid application notifications and forms can be printed from LDWF’s website at https://www.wlf.louisiana.gov/page/alligator-hunting, be requested by phone at 337-735-8720, or obtained via email by contacting LAalligatorprogram@wlf.la.gov. Completed bid application forms can be mailed or hand delivered to and must be received by 11:00 AM on May 20, 2025 in Room 1007 of the LDWF Office at 200 Dulles Drive, Lafayette, LA 70506. However, bidders are hereby notified that LDWF is not responsible for any delays caused by the bidder’s chosen method of bid delivery. Failure of the bid to reach Room 1007 by the designated time and date shall result in rejection of the bid. Bid opening will be on May 20, 2025 at 11:30 AM at the LDWF Lafayette Office, 1st Floor Conference Room #1002, 200 Dulles Drive, Lafayette, LA 70506. The public is permitted to attend. Selected bidders will be notified by phone.
Adv. May 2, 9 and 16, 2025
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PUBLIC NOTICE
LEGAL NOTICE
Sixteenth
Judicial District Court
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PARISH OF
ST. MARY
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STATE OF
LOUISIANA
Deutsche Bank National Trust Company, As Trustee For Morgan Stanley
ABS Capital I Inc. Trust 2004-HE3, Mortgage Pass-Through
Certificates,
Series 2004-HE3
Vs. No. 137967 Div “F”
Luella Williams Miller (A/K/A Luella W. Miller, Luella Miller)
TAKE NOTICE, that by virtue of Order of Seizure and Sale issued out of the Honorable 16th Judicial District Court, in and for the Parish of St. Mary, and to me directed, in the above numbered and entitled suit, I have seized the following mentioned and described property, to wit:
That certain lot or parcel of land together with all buildings and im- provements thereon situated and all rights, ways, privileges and servitudes thereunto belonging or in anywise appertaining, lying and being situated in Section 46, T16S, R11E, Town of Patterson, St. Mary Parish, Louisiana, and being more particularly known, designated and described as Lots Four (4), Five (5), and Six (6), of Block E all of Cane Country Estates Subdivision as shown on a plan of land showing Cane Country Estates Subdivision, prepared by Glenn E. Miller, L.S. of Miller Engineers and Associates, Inc. dated May 17, 1984 bearing Drawing No. 5918 and recorded in Book 27-G, under Entry No. 206,458 of the Conveyance Records of St. Mary Parish, Louisiana, to which reference is made for clarification. Ac- cording to said plan of land, Lot Four (4) of Block “E” Lot Five (5) of Block “E” and Lot Six (6) of Block “E” of Cane Country Estates Subdivision each front Sixty (60’) feet on the North side of Leo Drive, Lot Four (4) of Block “E” being bounded on the West by Lot Five (5) of Block “E”, on the East by Lot Three (3) of Block “E”, on the South by Leo Drive and on the North by property now or previously owned by Mary Lipari Faulk, Lot Five (5) of Block “E” is bounded on the west by Lot Six (6) of Block “E”, on the East by Lot Four (4) of Block “E”, on the South by Leo Drive and on the North by property now or previously owned by Mary Lipari Faulk, Lot Six (6) of Block “E” is bounded on the West by Lot Seven (7) of Block “E”, on the East by Lot Five (5) of Block “E”, on the South by Leo Drive, and on the North by property now or previously owned by Mary Lipari Faulk.
LESS AND EXCEPT:
Lot Four (4) and Lot Five (5) of Block E both of Cane Country Estates Subdivision
Which has the address of 512 Leo Drive, Patterson, 70392
to satisfy the sum of TWENTY THREE THOUSAND THREE HUNDRED THIRTY-ONE AND 02/100 ($23,331.02) DOLLARS, WITH IN- TEREST THEREON AT A RATE OF 9.75% PER ANNUM FROM FEBRUARY 1, 2023 TOGETHER WITH ACCRUED LATE CHARGES IN THE AMOUNT OF $48.30 IN AC- CORDANCE WITH THE NOTE AND MORTGAGE, TOGETHER WITH LATE CHARGES ON ADDITIONAL DELINQUENT INSTALLMENTS AND ANY ADDITIONAL AMOUNTS WHICH PETITIONER HAS ADVANCED OR HEREAFTER ADVANCES, AS PERMITTED BY THE NOTE AND MORTGAGE, FOR TAXES, AS- SESSMENTS, REPAIRS TO AND MAINTENANCE AND PRESERVATION OF THE MORTGAGED PROPERTY, TOGETHER WITH ATTORNEY’S FEES IN THE AMOUNT OF REASONABLE ATTORNEY’S FEES and all costs of this proceedings, as well as all sheriff’s costs and commission
All successful bidders must have cash, cashier’s check or a verifiable letter of credit in favor of said bidder from a solvent bank, savings and loan association or other such financial institution authorized to do business in the state of Louisiana and full payment must be made on the date of sale. Letter must state that money is available on the date of sale.
I shall expose the same at public sale, for Cash, according to law WITH appraisement to the last and highest bidder, at the principal front door of the 1st floor lobby area of the Court House in the Parish of St. Mary, Town of Franklin, Louisiana, on Wednesday, the 11th day of June A.D., 2025, be- tween the legal hours commencing at 10 O’Clock A.M.
Sheriff’s Office Parish of St. Mary, La.
Thursday, the 24th day of April A.D., 2025
GARY L.
DRISKELL,
SHERIFF
By: Heidi Rineholt
Deputy Sheriff
Adv. May 9 and June 4, 2025
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PUBLIC NOTICE
CITY OF BERWICK, LOUISIANA
NOTICE OF PUBLIC MEETING
Public Meeting Date: May 13, 2025
Call to Order: 6:00 P.M.
Place: Council Meeting Room, 3225 Third Street, Berwick, LA 70342
Prayer
Pledge of Alle-giance
Roll Call: Lud Henry, Raymond Price, James Richard, Kevin Hebert & Colleen Askew
Minutes from last meeting: April 8, 2025
Treasurer’s Re- port
Guests:
The Beacon Shines on:
Berwick Ele-mentary School Student of the year: Ms. Mya La- salle
Police Report:
Fire Report
Public Works Report
Consulting En- gineers Report
Committee Re- ports
PUBLIC HEAR-ING
1. None
ORDINANCES – INTRODUCE/ADOPT
1. None
RESOLUTIONS/PROCLAMA-TIONS
1. Proclamation No. 02-25 – Pro-claim May as Older American Month
NEW BUSI-NESS:
1. None
Adjournment
In accordance with the Americans with Disabilities Act, if you need special assistance, please contact Jamie Keith, Town Clerk, at (985) 384-8858, P.O. Box 486, Berwick, LA 70342 describing the assistance that is necessary.
Adv. May 9, 2025
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CHICKEN SALAD
SANDWICH SALE
11 a.m.-1 p.m. Wednesday, May 14, Patterson United Methodist Church, 1204 Main St., Patterson. Sandwich $3, pint $8. Pickup at the church. Delivery available on orders of 10 or more sandwiches or four or more pints.
What’s the saying? All good things must come to an end? We experience a number of “lasts.” In the secular world, I recall The Last Picture Show, “The Last of the Mohicans” and “The Last Samurai.”
In the religious world, Christianity says there are four last things: death, judgment, heaven and hell. We give the dying faithful last rites, and we recall the Last Supper.
Taverns have a last call – which Leonard Cohen used metaphorically in his wonderful song “Closing Time.” I hope my weekly columns qualify as a special stop each week for those who read this weekly publication. But this will be my last time writing.
I have been writing a weekly column for newspapers across Louisiana since 2004. That’s almost 1,100 columns of my personal opinions, commenting on state and national issues. Besides these weekly ramblings, I’ve been able to tuck seven books into my portfolio. I haven’t gained a lot in personal remuneration, but I hope I have been able to continue receiving my readers’ respect.
I always wanted to be a writer, but the world of politics got in the way. Eight years in the Louisiana Senate, a delegate to the 1973 constitutional convention, eight years as secretary of state, a failed bid for governor and a final 12 years as commissioner of insurance.
When I ran for governor in 1987, challenging incumbent Edwin Edwards, I decided to put my writing skills to a test. My vision of Louisiana’s future was set out in a 188-page document called “The Brown Papers.”
I was convinced the public would be blown away by a number of changes that I felt needed to be made in running the state. Besides me, I imagine the only other person that read this document was my mother.
Following politics, I poured forward on writing about the highs and lows of Louisiana life. I found that voters have small expectations of what to presume from their elected officials. They just don’t feel whoever gets elected is going to make any real difference.
Oh, there are certainly Louisianians to admire out there. But they primarily come from the private sector; the musicians, the writers, a wealth of marvelous chefs, artists, and athletes.
You can urge your children to be accomplished in so many fields that emanate from the Bayou State. But as Willie Nelson would have phrased it: “Mama, don’t let your babies grow up to be politicians.”
The late Walker Percy, who was from Covington, has always been one of my favorite writers. We had a number of conversations, and he lamented to me that Louisiana should be much more than what he decried as “a slightly sleazy playground for tourists and conventioneers.”
And even though the state ranks at the bottom of the better quality of life lists, I personally still have hope. My birthday is this week. I’m turning 85. And I’m starting to wear down. It’s time for me to stop and smell the roses.
I hope I’ll be remembered as someone who made common sense when he spoke and never shied away from telling it like it is. Thanks for being a regular reader of my column. Perhaps I’ll see you in the future along the way.
Peace and Justice
Jim Brown
Jim Brown’s syndicated column appears each week in numerous newspapers throughout the nation and on websites worldwide. You can read all his past columns and see continuing updates at http://www.jimbrownla.com.
Gov. Jeff Landry’s budget left more meat on the capital outlay bone this year, giving legislators more room to include their own brick-and-mortar priorities.
Lawmakers, however, are being asked not to get greedy and to think carefully about their requests.
“My goal in all of this has always been to try to right the ship a little bit on some of these HB 2 projects and really try to stick to those core government functions,” House Ways and Means Chair Julie Emerson said, referring to foundational infrastructure like roads, bridges, water and sewer systems.
Last year, the administration left only about $6 million in bonding capacity for the Legislature, Senate Revenue and Fiscal Affairs Chair Franklin Foil said.
Legislators ended up pushing the total about 10% above capacity, so many of those projects didn’t get funded as the governor’s office chose to go with their own priorities, he said.
This year, there’s about $25.3 million in cash line of credit capacity remaining in HB 2, plus another $13.2 million in surplus dollars, according to the Division of Administration.
While it’s typically fine to go a bit over capacity in the capital outlay bill, as there always are delays that keep certain projects from going forward immediately, Emerson and Foil want to stay closer to that threshold this year.
It’s also worth noting that last year, lawmakers tapped the Revenue Stabilization Fund to pay for some projects, and a similar move is under discussion now.
But if they do it again, infrastructure might have to compete with another potential annual stipend for educators that could cost nearly $200 million.
As a reminder, capital outlay projects are designated Priority 1, Priority 2 or Priority 5. P1 projects will have money available next fiscal year, P2 is next in line, while P5 projects have official commitments but not actual funding.
The nomenclature dates back to when the process was based on a five-year timeline, Emerson said.
For a while (this predates Emerson’s time in the Legislature), P3 and P4 gave lawmakers a place to park a project that wasn’t really going anywhere, but they could honestly tell people the project technically was in the bill.
P3 and P4 are no longer used at all, and last year, the bill was so far over capacity that there was nothing in P2 either. This year, Emerson and Foil expect to utilize the P2 slot again.
As Emerson explains, it’s unfair to let members and local officials think they have those P1 dollars secured, only to have those projects drop down to P5 or go away entirely because there isn’t enough capacity.
“You shouldn’t have a bunch of P2, but you can have some in there where if you do go through your P1 and still have some capacity left, there are a few items there that you can move to,” she said.
“It gives the Legislature and individual legislators a little bit more control.”
Foil tells members to think carefully about their priorities when they make funding requests.
“You can’t just tell me ‘everything in my district’s important,’” he said. “You have to really give me your No. 1 and No. 2 priorities, so I can look at that project and see if we can make that work.”
Capital outlay for non-state projects legally is capped at 25% of the total.
For the locals, the competition for funding might be even more fierce than usual, assuming folks are able to raise the necessary matching funds.
Not only are voters reluctant to approve new taxes, tax renewals that once were routine are now a dodgy proposition.
“I’m finding some of these local entities are in pretty bad shape financially,” Foil said.
“So they’re looking to the state to do all of their local infrastructure projects, because they’re not able to raise the money at the local level.”
Foil is advising members, especially with local projects, that if the cost is under $1 million and it can be completed quickly, to try to find one-time cash opportunities in other bills to get the work done.
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If you were thinking of giving your mom a vacuum or a low-carb protein powder this Mother’s Day, you might want to reconsider.
In a recent survey by Mixbook of 2,504 moms and their kids, the overwhelming consensus was clear: please stop giving gifts that scream “you should be doing more.” When asked what the worst gift to receive from their children would be, Louisiana mothers said weight loss products, while cleaning supplies were the second least welcome gifts.
Trailing in third behind on the “please no” list were “How to Cook" cookbooks.
Worst gifts:
•1. Weight loss products: 32%
•2. Cleaning supplies: 29%
•3. “How to Cook” cookbook: 16%
•4. Gift card to your favorite store: 7%
•5. Chocolates from another holiday: 5%
•6. Self-help books she didn’t ask for: 4%
•7. Gas station flowers: 4%
•8. Last-minute homemade coupon book: 3%
When you forget,
and she doesn’tOf course, the only thing worse than giving a bad gift might be giving no gift at all. And yes, that’s happened more times than most would admit.
Over half of respondents (52%) confessed that, upon forgetting, their mom delivered the iconic “It’s the thought that counts” line. Another 14% reported that their forgetfulness has become a recurring anecdote at family gatherings (“Remember 2019? You don’t? She does.”).
A lucky 34% claimed their moms didn’t even notice, though we’d argue they just didn’t say anything.
So how do children usually realize they’ve committed this maternal misdemeanor? Surprisingly, 35% said their mom told them directly, while 31% got called out by a sibling.
Others found out through a targeted ad (24%) or the dreaded family group chat (11%), where nothing, not even your shame, stays private.
Emergency gifts
What happens when you’ve missed the deadline but still want to save face? Panic creativity.
Quick fixes people turned to:
•Cash: 35%
•Hugs and hopeful forgiveness: 31%
•A long, distraction-free phone call: 19%
•A handmade IOU card: 16%
And recovery strategies varied wildly:
•49% opted for a grand gesture ASAP.
•34% waited and overcompensated on her birthday.
•13% tried rebranding themselves as “the spontaneous one.”
•4% avoided all family functions for a few weeks.
What makes
a great gift?
It’s not always the biggest, fanciest present that wins the day. When moms in Louisiana were asked to name the most meaningful gift they’ve ever received, the answers revealed a heartwarming trend:
•27.5% said a handmade gift.
•21% said a special experience (like a brunch, spa day, or family outing).
•16% picked a handwritten card or letter.
•10% treasured a day where they didn’t have to do anything at all.
•Only 4% said a luxury or high-end gift stood out most.
That same sentiment showed up again when moms ranked gift preferences on a 1-to-5 scale (1 being most loved):
•Tech/luxury/subscription gifts: 2.19
•Flowers or chocolates: 2.36
•Something that makes life easier: 3.08
•A special experience: 3.65
•Personalized/handmade gift: 3.73
Turns out that even though handmade gifts are meaningful, they might not beat a smartwatch and a stress-free calendar.
Appreciation
runs deep
Despite the occasional misfire, most moms are surprisingly forgiving. Over half (55%) said they appreciate any effort, even if the gift missed the mark. Another 16% said they don’t expect gifts at all. But a combined 24% admitted they’ve been disappointed - either because the gift felt rushed or wasn’t useful.
And when it comes to budgeting, most people don’t need to spend a fortune to make an impression. 42% said under $30 is perfectly appropriate, while 32% felt $31–$50 was a good range. Only 6.5% thought going over $100 made sense — suggesting that love, not luxury, is the better currency here.
What Louisiana
moms really want
When asked how they’d prefer to spend Mother’s Day, nearly half (46%) said they simply wanted a quiet day at home with family. A fifth (20%) said a nice restaurant meal hit the spot, while others voted for special outings (11%), big family gatherings (9%), or even a day entirely to themselves (3%), a small but mighty group of introverts reclaiming their peace.
If they could change just one thing about how their families celebrate, 24% wished for more quality time and 20% craved an element of surprise.
Better planning (15%) and help with day-to-day tasks (13%) also made the list, but a contented 28% said they wouldn’t change a thing.
One of the most under-appreciated parts of Mother’s Day? Getting Mom in front of the camera instead of behind it.
•23% said they’re usually the one taking the photos.
•18% have to ask to be included.
•43% said their families make sure they’re in the frame.
•16% don’t care either way, but for the rest — it matters.
As for how photo memories are best delivered:
•35% want a framed photo for display.
•29% prefer a printed album or scrapbook.
•18% are good with a digital collection.
•9% love a video compilation.
And how does it feel to receive a personalized photo gift?
A whopping 54% said it’s one of the most meaningful gifts they can get.
DEAR ABBY: My cousin (more like a sister) has made some extremely rash and concerning choices over the last year. After she had her second baby, she left her husband and started seeing a series of borderline-abusive men. She’s now in the process of signing full custody of the children over to her ex-husband and impulsively buying a house out of state.
What I’m finding challenging is, she will accept nothing less than “full support” from her family and friends. She has cut off her sister, to the point of not attending her wedding, because she expressed that maybe it was time for her to talk to a professional about her mental health. She hasn’t spoken to her mother in months either.
I don’t want to cut her off, because I think she genuinely needs help and is experiencing something very challenging. But she’s trying to manipulate her ex-husband into giving her more alimony money, while she runs around with a man who verbally abuses her in public.
I think she’s a danger to herself, but if I say as much, she’ll cut me off too. Should I stay in her life so I can help when she inevitably needs it? Or should I take a harsher stance?
CONCERNED COUSIN
IN OREGON
DEAR COUSIN: Tell your cousin (who is more like a sister) you love her dearly, but she’s making some serious mistakes, and you are afraid for her future. It’s the truth.
Let her know that watching her estrange herself from her family has been painful for you, and if things don’t turn out as she hopes, you will be there for her.
Then back away until the dust settles.
DEAR ABBY: For the last 20 years, we have owned a comfortable home a few blocks from the ocean. With both a main and a back house, we can sleep as many as 11 or 12 people. We have always welcomed our children, grandchildren and their friends unconditionally. They, in turn, have been judicious about accepting our offer. Since we are now up in years, the work is becoming difficult for us.
Five years ago, one of our grandchildren married into a difficult family. While we are fond of our new grandson-in-law, he insists on bringing his parents, sibling and their family dog to our home. They are loud and ungracious. There is a difference of opinion among us as to whether we can or should refuse to continue welcoming them. Your thoughts?
TIRED IN THE EAST
DEAR TIRED: For a guest to bring other people (and their pet!) without first clearing it with the host is extremely rude. If the host shows reluctance, for the guest to insist is even worse. I’m sorry you didn’t nip it in the bud in the beginning. Explain to your grandchild that you are not getting any younger and hosting the entire family has taken a toll on you, which is why you WILL be restricting the invitation to only your family members in the future.
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Berwick has a new park thanks to a donation in honor of a citizen who is being remembered 20 years after his death.
The family of Ed Kyle on Monday officially donated a piece of land on the Berwick riverfront. It is now J. Edwin Kyle Jr. Memorial Park.
The property has been appraised at $350,000, Mayor Duval Arthur said. It’s not clear yet what the town government will use the park for.
Kyle was born Oct. 19, 1917, in New Iberia. After attending Iberia schools, Sewanee Military Academy, Tulane and LSU, he joined the U.S. Navy in 1941.
He served as a naval officer in the Pacific Theater during World War II and was awarded a Bronze Star for meritorious service, according to his obituary.
The same obituary describes him as a pioneer in the offshore oil field service business. He managed the family-owned Drilling Mud Co. in Berwick from its founding.
In 1955, he co-founded and served as the first chairman and CEO of Tidewater Marine, which designed and built the first oil field supply boat in its classic configuration.
Kyle died June 25, 2005.
Arthur remembers Kyle as “part of the woodwork” in Berwick.
In addition to his work in the oilfield service industry, Arthur said, Kyle also had connections with the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers. Kyle was able to help people interact with the Corps.
“He had a good reputation for being able to help people,” Arthur said. “That was his legacy, a helper, a mover and a shaker.”
The park has two large buildings, now used to store town and Fire Department equipment, and a pavilion.
The town may move its monthly farmer’s market to the pavilion, Arthur said. Other than that, “we’re looking for ideas.”
Jane “Mama Jane” Beadle, a native and lifelong resident of Morgan City, was called to her heavenly home on Friday, April 25, 2025 at the age of 96 while surrounded by her family, friends and care givers.
Mama Jane married the love of her life on August 31, 1947, beginning a lifelong partnership rooted in love and dedication. A devoted mother and community member, she was a room mother and substitute teacher, and actively supported her children’s activities, serving as a Brownie and Cub Scout helper, Den Mother, and assisting her beloved husband, Mona, with the local Boy Scout Troops. She was also deeply involved in her daughter’s high school softball program, offering many years of support and coaching guidance.
A woman of service and leadership, Mama Jane held numerous roles in civic and charitable organizations. She was a proud member and past president of the Business & Professional Women’s Organization, and a former member of the American Cancer Society. She served on the Morgan City Volunteer Fire Department Ladies Auxiliary and volunteered with the Louisiana Shrimp and Petroleum Festival. She was chairman of the Miss Morgan City and Miss Berwick Pageants and served as secretary for the St. Mary Guest Home Auxiliary. Additionally, she was a member of the Veterans of Foreign Wars Auxiliary and the American Legion.
Professionally, she achieved great success as a Mary Kay consultant for 8.5 years, earning high sales recognition including a coveted mink wrap. She also worked at Siracusa Jewelers for eight years and spent 15 years employed by Dr. Bruce J. LeBlanc.
Mama Jane had an extraordinary love for people, known for her generous heart and unwavering kindness. Through her church, she led a card ministry and faithfully served as a greeter for nearly 30 years, welcoming everyone with hugs and kisses. She regularly attended bi-monthly women’s Bible studies and seminars throughout Louisiana and Texas. A long-standing member of AARP, she was honored as Citizen of the Month on January 9, 1995.
She was a proud alumna of Sophie B. Wright High School in New Orleans, a prestigious all-girls institution, and carried her education and values with grace throughout her life. Mama Jane’s legacy is one of service, compassion, and deep faith, touching countless lives in her family, church, and community.
Those left to cherish Mama Jane’s beautiful memory are her five children, Raymond R. Beadle Jr. and his wife, Gloria, of Bayou Vista, Gary A. Beadle and his wife, Mary Jo, of Bayou Vista, Janie B. Boudreaux and her husband, Daniel, of Bayou Vista, Julie B. Gowan and her husband, Mark, of Bayou Vista, and Leo J. Beadle and his wife, Rena, of The Woodlands, TX.; 14 grandchildren, Renee B. Hartley, Gabriel Beadle and his wife, Jessica, Mary Catherine B. Urban and her husband, Eric, Gary A. Beadle Jr., Claire B. Zuniga and her husband, Johnathan, Lynette B. Pennison and her husband, Jeffrey, Chantelle B. Aquilar and her husband, Ricardo, Malachi D. Boudreaux and his wife, Paula, Mark E. Gowan and his wife, Brandy, Jonathan Beadle and his wife, Lauren, David Beadle and his wife, Brittany, Christopher Beadle, Jeremy Beadle and his wife, Marie, and Michael Beadle and his wife, Katelyn; 27 great-grandchildren, Jordan Hartley, Abram Hartley, Lux Beadle, Wyatt Beadle, Ivy Beadle, Eric Urban Jr., Knox Urban, Cruz Urban, Jolie Boudreaux, ParrisNicole D. Pennison, Annabelle Sarria, Andre Sarria, Juliette Boudreaux, Jillian Boudreaux, Micah Gowan, Gabrielle Gowan and her fiancé, Sam Champagne, Brooklyn Gowan, London Gowan, Declan Beadle, Lennon Beadle, August Beadle, Barrett Beadle, Eloise Beadle, Alexander Beadle, Harrison Beadle, Audrie Beadle and Noah Beadle; three great-great-grandchildren, Graham Peters, Harley Rae Carter and Jrue Gowan. She is also survived by her brother, Enos J. “Jimmy” Fangue Sr. and sister, Joyce F. Comeaux.
She was reunited in heaven with her husband, Raymond R. “Mona” Beadle Sr.; her son, Sheen Paul Beadle; her grandson, Thomas Leo Beadle; her parents, Enos and Mildred Fangue; and beloved pets, Tiny Angel and Beignet.
A memorial celebration of life for Mama Jane will be held on Saturday, May 17, 2025 from 9:00 a.m. until time of services which will begin promptly at 11:30 a.m. at Word of Life Family Church. Following services, Mama Jane will be laid to rest in the Morgan City Cemetery alongside her beloved husband, Mona.
The family would like to express their deep appreciation to Cindy Adams, Paula Arceneaux, Catherine Bourdier, the late Revon Dangerfield, Vicky Darnell (who spent more time with Mama Jane than at her own home), Lisa Gowan, Nell Lamury, and Tony and the late Tammy Miller for their endless sacrifice and care provided to Mama Jane.
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