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State Senate OKs $150M for SNAP benefits

As the state Legislature finished its special session Wednesday, it requested $150 million to temporarily fund SNAP food benefits in November because the federal government shutdown could cut off benefits beginning Saturday.

The Senate passed a resolution also urging the federal government to refund the state the $150 million it will pay to continue SNAP benefits starting Saturday. Otherwise, there will be no funding for the program, leaving almost 800,000 Louisiana residents without benefits.

The Legislature moved to transfer the money from its Health Department’s budget Wednesday to continue the benefits.

After the Legislature adjourned, Gov. Jeff Landry complimented the House and the Senate and said that a surplus in the state government “gives us the opportunity to act with compassion and reason.” The Republican governor sharply criticized Democratic leadership in Washington for breaking down the social safety net some people need.

“We have to take care of our most vulnerable people,” Landry said.

More than two dozen Democrat attorneys general and governors have sued the federal government in Massachusetts federal court over Washington's withholding of SNAP benefit funding. The case is based on previous government shutdowns, in which SNAP funding was continued with money from an emergency contingency fund in Washington.

“I think that it is outrageous that the federal government is holding food money hostage,” said Sen. Valarie Hodges, R-Livingston.

The only objection to the calls for reimbursement across both chambers was from Sen. Jay Morris, R-West Monroe. Morris disapproved of the Senate’s resolution, saying it was not the state’s responsibility to “bail out” the federal government.

“It’s really pretty ridiculous that we are in some respects being forced to try to bail out the largest source of wealth in the world and that has ever been in the world,” Morris said.

He said the state funding sets a “bad precedent” of the federal government forcing program funding to states.

A hearing on the lawsuit is scheduled for Thursday.

Legislature delays primary election by a month

BATON ROUGE – The state Legislature ended the special session on Wednesday by voting to delay the statewide primary election next year for one month while the U.S. Supreme Court considers the legality of the state’s two so-called majority-minority congressional districts.
The final vote came in the state House, where lawmakers cleared the election delay in a 73 to 29 vote, which broke along similar lines with the state Senate in its 27-9 vote on Saturday. The vote in both houses reflected hard opposition from Black lawmakers who contended that the change is premature and will result in confusion and chaos among voters.
This legislation will move the spring primary election for Republicans and Democrats running in a party primary to May 16 from April 18. The voting date for five state constitutional amendments is also delayed about a month. A second party primary, or runoff, if needed, will occur on June 27 instead of May 30. Candidate qualifying dates were pushed back as well, and signatures on nominating petitions from Sept. 16 remain valid.
Republican legislators argued that a delay was prudent given the uncertainty of when the Supreme Court might rule. But opponents argued there was a bigger motive.
“The ultimate goal of this bill, regardless of if anybody wants to say it or not say it, is to change the dates with the hopes that the Supreme Court strikes down Section two,” of the federal Voting Rights Act said Rep. Denise Marcelle, D-Baton Rouge. Democrats also worried that a Supreme Court decision could remake congressional districts and eliminate at least one majority-minority district represented by a Black member.
Section two of the federal law bans racial discrimination in voting practices and drawing maps. If ruled unconstitutional, Louisiana’s maps would have to be redrawn, possibly eliminating both districts that favor Blacks, which include about a third of the state’s residents.
Rep. Edmond Jordan, a Black Democrat from Baton Rouge, echoed his colleague’s concerns about racial motivations. “I think the frustration most African-Americans feel, and I certainly feel, is that when it’s something that’s beneficial for us, it’s ‘Let’s kick the can down the road, let’s delay,’” he said Tuesday. “When it feels like it’s an advantage for the white citizens of Louisiana,” Jordan said, “It’s ‘let’s get ahead of this, let’s anticipate, let’s speculate how they will rule on this so we can be prepared.’”
The author of the legislation, state Sen. Caleb Kleinpeter, R-Port Allen, insisted that there are no ulterior motives. “We’re giving people more time,” he said.
The U.S. Supreme Court heard arguments earlier this year and again on Oct. 15 regarding the Louisiana v. Callais lawsuit, which objects to a “four-two” map that produced a congressional district it says is drawn entirely along racial lines that suppresses the non-Black vote. The Republican-majority Legislature produced the current map of six U.S. congressional districts with two majority-minority districts in 2024, both represented by Black Democrats Rep. Troy Carter of New Orleans and Rep. Cleo Fields of Baton Rouge. Two national leaders hold two of the other four districts; House Speaker Mike Johnson, R-Bossier City and Rep. Steve Scalise, R-Metairie.
Constitutional amendments on the ballot for the new May 16 voting date include a mandatory retirement age for state judges and a restructuring of state civil service.
The House saw heated debates again Wednesday over the new election dates. Rep. Candace Newell, D-New Orleans, called the Republican efforts, “the Trump Two-Step, which is legislatures rigging elections.” She argued that her Republican colleagues were, “willing to do the will of a president that does not care about Louisiana.”
Rep. Gerald “Beau” Beaullieu, R-New Iberia, defended the delay of 2026 elections. He cited previous maps that have been deemed unconstitutional. “Thirty years later, we find ourselves in the same vicious cycle of conflicts with section two challenges and their conflict with the 14th Amendment,” of the U.S. Constitution, he said.
On Monday, leading Black Democrats and Louisiana residents from across the state rallied in support of the current congressional maps. “This is about representation and this is about power,” Davante Lewis, a Democrat and a member of the Louisiana Public Service Commission, said on Monday.

Berwick woman arrested after unattended child reported

(Editor’s note: The charges listed here and the narratives that go with them are provided by the police agencies that made the arrests. Guilt or innocence has not been determined in court.)

A Berwick woman was arrested Tuesday after an unattended child in a parked vehicle was reported to the St. Mary Parish Sheriff’s office.

St. Mary

Sheriff Gary Driskell that over the last 48-hour reporting period, the Sheriff's Office responded to 89 complaints and made these arrests:

--Allie Nicole Williams, 19, Berwick, was arrested at 3:01 a.m. Tuesday on a warrant alleging leaving children unattended and unsupervised in a motor vehicle and simple battery.

On Monday, a deputy was dispatched to a business in Bayou Vista in reference to a welfare concern.

The deputy spoke with a complainant who stated that after arriving at the business, she heard an infant crying in a vehicle. No one was in the vehicle with the infant. The complainant called the SMPSO and reported the incident.

A few moments later, a female exited the business and when contacted by the complainant, became aggressive and began yelling.

Williams allegedly pushed the complainant with the door of the vehicle and subsequently sped out of the parking lot, nearly hitting the complainant with the vehicle.

The deputy arrived and made contact with the complainant and a witness to the incident, and began an investigation. Through the investigation, the deputy identified the driver of the vehicle as Williams, and obtained evidence that confirmed it was her driving the vehicle at the business.

The deputy obtained a warrant for Williams.

At approximately 3:01 a.m. Tuesday, deputies made contact with Williams and transported her to the St. Mary Parish Law Enforcement Center for booking. Bail has not been set at this time.

--Sadi Paige Taylor, 25, Morgan City, was arrested at 12:48 p.m. Monday on a warrant alleging disturbing the peace (fighting). Taylor was released on a $1,000 bond.

--Dowayne Charlot, 49, Patterson, was arrested at 12:07 a.m. Tuesday on an Morgan City Police Department warrant. Charlot was transferred to another agency.

--Amber Fendley, 40, Berwick, was arrested by the Narcotics Section at 12:39 p.m. Monday on charges of possession of methamphetamine, taking contraband into a penal institution, possession of drug paraphernalia and obstruction of justice

Bail was set at $36,250.

--Anthony Javier Jiron-Marquez, 20, Morgan City, was arrested at 9:37 p.m. Tuesday on charges of driving while intoxicated, reckless operation (no accident), driving on roadway laned for traffic and no insurance.

Bail was set at $7,500.

--Alexis Osiel Ruiz Torres, 29, Jeanerette, was arrested at 5:15 p.m. Tueday on a charge of unlawful production, manufacturing, distribution or possession of fraudulent documents. Bail has not been set at this time.

--Donald Thomas Dupree, 26, Morgan City, was arrested at 10:04 a.m. Tuesday on an IPSO warrant. Dupree has a hold placed by another agency.

Morgan City

Chief Chad M. Adams reported that the Morgan City Police Department responded to 63 calls for service over the last 24-hour reporting period and made these arrests:

--Zacolby Granger, 33, Leona Street, Morgan City, was arrested at 2:45 p.m. Tuesday on a charge of contempt of court (6th Ward Morgan City Court).

--Charles Austin, 45, North 16th Street, Glenmore, was arrested at 9:15 p.m. Monday on a charge of disturbing the peace.

Patterson

Chief Garrett Grogan reported this arrest:

--Kelli M. Melton, 38, Frances Street, Patterson, was arrested at 4:09 p.m. Tuesday on a charge of battery on a police officer. Melton was incarcerated at the Patterson PD Jail with no bond set.

Franklin

Chief Cedric Handy reported that the Franklin Police Department responded to 10 calls for service over the last 24 hour reporting period and made this arrest:

--Breyonna Verret, 24, Cynthia Street, Franklin, was arrested at 6:45 p.m. Tuesday on a charge of criminal trespassing. Verret was booked, processed and released on a $500 bond.

Hanson announces Homecoming court

Father Joel Faulk, Hanson Memorial High School Principal Connie Daigle and Head Coach Ryan Stoute, recently joined Franklin Mayor Eugene Foulcard in signing the proclamation to name October 27 - November 1, Hanson Memorial High School Homecoming Week. Members of the 2025 Hanson Memorial Homecoming Court are Madelyn Buchert, Sophie Butaud, Onnie Doucet, Emily Faucheux, Isabelle Freeman, Grace Hidalgo, Emma Judice, Mattie Judice, Makayla Miller, Aleah Moreno and Camren Rochel. They will be escorted by Logan Breaux, Luke Boudreaux, Andrew Burgess, Ethan Clements, Owen Vaccarella, Brenden Vilcan and Jude Walker. Homecoming Captains will be announced on Thursday, Oct. 30 during the pep rally. Homecoming Queen will be announced during halftime of the HMS home game against Highland Baptist on Friday, Oct. 31. Hanson’s homecoming parade will roll Thursday, Oct. 30 at 4 p.m., traveling up Adams Street, turning right on Main Street, turning around at the Teche Theater and making its way back. Hanson encourages everyone to paint the town blue and gold on Thursday.

City Council approves funding and plans for infrastructure improvements

Franklin Mayor Eugene Foulcard and the City Council met Tuesday, October 21, at City Hall.
Dr. Kristal Hebert, director of the Arc of St. Mary/Center of Hope, gave an update on the work her organization continues to do in the community. During the public comment period, Dianne Wiltz spoke up to praise Dr. Hebert and her staff for their dedication to their clients and the difference they make in so many lives.
Mayor Foulcard told the Council the city is gearing up for the third round of demolitions to clear out blighted and unsafe properties. “We’re ready to demolish another 26 structures on top of the 65 we’ve already tackled,” he said. “These are buildings beyond repair, but once they’re gone, that land can be given new life by a family or business.”
The mayor also gave an update on several projects Franklin hopes to fund through upcoming state capital outlay requests. Those include water treatment and distribution improvements — something badly needed, given that some of the city’s pipes are over 100 years old — and a number of road repairs throughout town.
“We ask for prayers as we keep fighting the good fight,” Foulcard said, giving a nod to the city’s hard-working water department crews. “We’re starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel.”
Franklin Fire Chief Chuck Bourgeois announced that the Franklin Fire Department has achieved its best-ever Property Insurance Association of Louisiana (PIAL) rating.
For the first time in Franklin’s history, the department earned a Class 4 rating — jumping two full points from its previous Class 6 inside city limits and Class 7 outside. That rating not only reflects the department’s hard work, but could also help lower insurance premiums for residents and businesses.
Chief Bourgeois credited years of improvements, including firefighter training, new software, upgraded hydrants, and a $590,000 training tower on Iberia Street. He thanked the mayor, council, city staff, and his department for their dedication. “We’re proud of how far we’ve come,” Bourgeois said, “and we’re already working toward a Class 3 rating next time.”
The council approved several ordinances and resolutions including:
-The sale of $1 million in revenue anticipation notes to support city operations
-A new policy for public participation in council meetings
-Grant applications to the state’s Department of Transportation and Development
-Certification for non-state funding for capital projects
-Permission for all local businesses to renew their 2026 liquor licenses
All items passed unanimously among members present.
Before adjourning, Ed “Tiger” Verdin ran through a full lineup of fall happenings including the City-Wide Clean-Up, Bayou to Main Marketplace, Harvest Moon Festival, Boo on the Bayou, Halloween Trick-or-Treat and Mingle & Jingle later this year.
Mayor Foulcard led a moment of silence for two longtime public servants who recently passed away — former Franklin Police Chief Roulden J. Guillotte and longtime St. Mary Parish Clerk of Court Clifford G. “Cliff” Dressel. The city plans to send formal Resolutions of Respect to their families.

Franklin Fire Department achieves Class 4 fire rating

Franklin Fire Department has earned a Class 4 Rating in the 2025 PIAL rating review conducted by Property Insurance Association of Louisiana. This rating recognizes the department’s commitment to fire prevention, emergency response, training and community safety.
The PIAL rating is based on an evaluation system that grades fire departments and communities on a scale from 1-10, with Class 1 being best and Class 10 being minimal fire protection.
This evaluation is completed every five years, and helps set fire insurance rates within the jurisdictional boundaries of the Franklin Fire Department.
A Class 4 rating is a direct reflection on the department, its staff, and the city’s commitment to fire protection. During the rating, the department was graded on several areas of operations:
-Emergency communications: 911 call taking equipment, dispatch equipment and dispatch protocols
-Fire Department operations: Engine and service/ladder companies, training, operation guidelines and staffing levels
-Water supply: Water supply system, hydrant size/location and hydrant inspection/flow testing
-Community risk reduction: Fire prevention activities, fire investigations and fire inspections
After the 2020 rating, the department administration and mayor met to discuss an improvement plan. That plan included acquiring land and building a fire training facility, replacement of over 90 old fire hydrants, replacement of old fire engines and additional staffing. A priority list was made and a plan was put into motion.
First, underutilized land was given to the fire department and a training facility was designed that met the requirements of PIAL along with the training needs of the department. The training facility was completed and put into service in 2024, in time for the grading year. Next, old two-outlet hydrants and inoperable hydrants are being replaced with grant money. This process is approximately 60% complete for the entire city. While they did not arrive in time for the rating, two engines have been ordered to replace two 30 year old engines. The final part of the plan is to increase staffing levels, which will be addressed this coming year.
Fire Chief Chuck Bourgeois expressed gratitude to Mayor Eugene Foulcard and the Franklin City Council for providing the funding for these plans.
According to Bourgeois, none of this would have been possible without his staff’s commitment to the department, the community and its safety.
This is the highest score Franklin Fire Department has ever received from PIAL.

Park named Law Enforcement Center warden

Sheriff Gary Driskell has announced several leadership promotions within the St. Mary Parish Sheriff’s Office, including the appointment of Charles Parker Jr. to the rank of major as he assumes the role of warden at the St. Mary Parish Law Enforcement Center.
Major Parker brings more than 16 years of law enforcement experience to his new position. He began his career in corrections before advancing through the ranks as patrol deputy, sergeant, and patrol lieutenant. Throughout his career, he has also served with neighboring law enforcement agencies and gained experience in the oilfield and transportation industries, where he played a key role in evacuating Hurricane Katrina victims from New Orleans to shelters across several states.
Upon returning to the Centerville facility, Parker continued to demonstrate leadership and dedication, serving as transportation supervisor, investigator and assistant warden—roles that helped prepare him for his new responsibilities as warden. Known for his integrity and commitment to public safety, he has been instrumental in fostering a culture of rehabilitation and dignity within the correctional system.
Parker is also known for reminding his staff, “Never think you’re better than any incarcerated person, especially because you’re only one wrong decision away from being in the same situation.”
Sheriff Driskell praised Parker’s professionalism and leadership, stating, “Charles Parker has been a very valuable member of our Sheriff’s Office team. He is a proven leader and is well respected by our employees. I am very proud of him and his accomplishments, and I look forward to serving with him for many years to come.”
In addition to Major Parker’s promotion, Major Nick Rogers will now oversee Special Services, which includes Marine, Policy and Procedures, Warrants, Courtroom and Courthouse Security, Motorpool, Inventory, Development and IT. Rogers, who previously served as warden at SMPLEC, is expected to continue implementing strategies that enhance efficiency throughout the department.
Samantha Poledér has also been promoted to captain and will continue her work alongside Major Parker at SMPLEC. Captain Poledér has been a vital part of the facility’s success and received her promotion during a recent captains’ meeting.

Morgan City police radio logs for Oct. 27-29

The following are the radio dispatch logs from the Morgan City Police Department. To report unlawful or suspicious activity, call the Police Department at 985-380-4605.
Monday, Oct. 27
6:38 a.m. 700 block of Freret Street; Theft.
8:13 a.m. 1800 block of Elm Street; Hit and run.
9:59 a.m. 500 block of Marshall Street; Medical.
10:17 a.m. 1600 block of Federal Avenue; Complaint.
10:34 a.m. 100 block of Chennault Street; Complaint.
11:33 a.m. Leona Street; Disturbance.
12:24 p.m. Federal Avenue/Freret Street; Vehicle Accident.
12:32 p.m. 500 block of Roderick Street; Medical.
12:39 p.m. 2400 block of Tiger Drive; Juvenile problems.
1:06 p.m. Pecos Street; Fight.
2:36 p.m. 200 block of Terrebonne Street; Disturbance.
3:01 p.m. 500 block of Marshall Street; Medical.
3:06 p.m. 3000 block of Mark Drive; Complaint.
4:33 p.m. Wren Street; Vehicle accident.
4:46 p.m. 500 block of Barrow Street; Stand by.
5:42 p.m. Walnut Drive; Complaint.
5:42 p.m. Walnut Drive; Complaint.
7:38 p.m. 1000 block of Brashear Avenue; Suspicious subject.
8:18 p.m. U.S. 90 East; Hit and run.
8:58 p.m. 1000 block of Brashear Avenue; Subject removal.
10:15 p.m. 2000 block of La. 70; Injury accident.
11:09 p.m. Morgan City; Medical.
11:18 p.m. 200 block of Brashear Avenue; Assistance.
Tuesday, Oct. 28
1:51 a.m. 1000 block of Maple Street; Medical.
6:50 a.m. 800 block of Youngs Road; Complaint.
7:31 a.m. 100 block of Wren Street; Medical.
7:56 a.m. 1700 block of Filmore Street; Animal complaint.
8:49 a.m. 1500 block of Ellzey Street; Medical.
8:58 a.m. 200 block of Aycock Street; Theft.
11:29 a.m. 300 block of Barrow Street; Animal complaint.
12:15 p.m. 2300 block of La. 70; Complaint.
2:29 p.m. 700 block of Brashear Avenue; Disturbance.
2:44 p.m. 700 block of Myrtle Street; Arrest.
2:46 p.m. U.S. 90; Reckless driver.
2:57 p.m. 1500 block of North Third Street; Animal complaint.
3:18 p.m. 3100 block of Karen Drive; Complaint.
3:35 p.m. 3000 block of Francis Street; Welfare check.
4:06 p.m. 2300 block of Cypress Street; Patrol.
4:21 p.m. Duhon; Assistance.
4:43 p.m. 1500 block of Ellzey Street; Medical.
5:11 p.m. 300 block of Everett Street; Suspicious person/vehicle.
6:49 p.m. La. 70; BOLO.
8:01 p.m. Morgan City area; Animal complaint.
9:15 p.m. 6000 block of La. 182; Frequent patrol.
9:40 p.m. 1200 block of David Drive; Assistance.
9:49 p.m. Front/Franklin streets; Frequent patrol.
10:57 p.m. Fourth Street; Suspicious vehicles.
11:18 p.m. Union Street/Federal Avenue; Complaint.
11:51 p.m. 7000 block of La. 182; Complaint.
Wednesday, Oct. 29
1:32 a.m. 900 block of Cherry Street; Complaint.

Jim Bradshaw: Hobgoblins still lurk but there are no Sabbats

At Halloween we think about ghosts and goblins and strange things that go bump in the night, but there’s one of those spooky phenomena that we don’t have to worry about anymore.
A memoir written about 1901 and attributed to Judge Joseph Arsenne Breaux tells us that “there are no longer any Sabbats,“ and that their disappearance made it “all the more important to gather what old timers tell of these astonishing apparitions.”
The unsigned memoir, written in French, was found among Judge Breaux’s papers and donated to the Louisiana State Museum after his death in 1926. It records what are presumed to be the judge’s memories of South Louisiana folkways in the middle to late 1800s. Breaux, a native of Iberville Parish, was an associate justice of the Louisiana Supreme Court from 1890 to 1904 and chief justice from 1904 to 1914.
The manuscript was edited in 1932 by Tulane professor Jay K. Ditchy and published as “Les Acadiens Louisianais et leur parler” (Paris, 1932). In 1966, George F. Reinecke translated and edited parts of Ditchy’s work and published them as “Early Louisiana French and Folklore” in a special issue of Louisiana Folklore Miscellany (Volume II, 1966).
According to the memoir, Sabbats were bands of “hook-nosed wrinkled old women, men of bad repute and strange appearance, and loose-moraled young people” who used magical whirlwinds and other devices to carry away the innocent.
“At the beginning of the last century [the 1800s] there were still a multitude of these phenomena, as well as wizards and little devils dancing in the deep forest of St. Martinville, the uninhabited areas of St. Landry, the woods near Grand Lake Verret, etc.,” Judge Breaux wrote.
“Aerial singing and melancholy cries were heard on misty nights in winter, joined to the loud strains of musical instruments.” From up in the air would come the sound of dogs barking, screams, and laughter. This was “the devil’s Sabbath” passing by, sometimes stopping in an isolated place for a nocturnal meal and to dance “infernal round-dances.”
A traveler passing by the place would be stopped by an invisible hand. He would hear “strange noise and rustlings, shouts, and laughter in the depth of the woods. At dawn, cloven footprints could be seen. … [Sometimes] women’s shoes, broomsticks, and the leftovers of a banquet were found in places just vacated by the devils, sorcerers, and witches.”
The judge recounted the tale of a man who, in 1785, “was chased one night by one of these infernal bands and said he had clearly seen men and women pass above him, up in the air.”
The man said he even recognized one of the men, whom he questioned the next Sunday after church. “The devils carried me off,” the friend said. Then, according to Judge Breaux, “The neighbors separated only after secrets had changed hands, secrets which [were] never revealed.”
But, if the Sabbats were gone, there were still other things to worry about, according to the memoir.
“People still believe to some extent in sorcerers, spells, and certain imaginary beings, like the lutin (hobgoblins), who enjoy tormenting men and animals. Fortunes are told by means of certain ridiculous practices. Marvelous cures are believed in and attempted; these work through the agency of mysterious words, … secret remedies, and assistance from sleepwalkers and guerisseurs or healers.”
Even as late as 1901, Judge Breaux asserted, “I know some prominent people who firmly believe that with one word, touch, or wink, sorcerers work on livestock and make them sickly or cause their death. They assert that a certain powder can kill men and animals, and cause the crops to fail.”
And, of course, the feu follet and loup garou may still be on the prowl “in the deep forest of St. Martinville,” or maybe right in the middle of town.         
You can contact Jim Bradshaw at jimbradshaw4321@gmail.com or P.O. Box 1121, Washington LA 70589.

Dear Abby: Lie told years ago remains a barrier to trust

DEAR ABBY: I met this guy at work and fell in love. We started going out, and he asked me to be his girlfriend. We moved in together pretty quickly, and I got pregnant. Three months later, I saw a text on his phone from a female co-worker. The first message said, “This is ‘Brianne’” and the second was work-related.
Everyone in the facility had to have his phone number, as his position required him to be called during the day. I know from others who worked there that Brianne had a crush on him. He deleted the first message that identified who it was from, but not the second one that was work-related. When I asked whose number it was, he lied and said he didn’t know. It led to a big argument, and he told me he lied because he didn’t want us to fight.
Eventually, we moved on to different jobs outside the company and got married. We have had no more issues in our relationship since then. It has been years, but I have never been able to completely trust him. I have tried to forget this but because of it, my trust in him is gone. Am I wrong for that?
CAN’T FORGET IN FLORIDA
DEAR CAN’T FORGET: I understand why you feel the way you do. Your boyfriend (now husband) shouldn’t have lied to you.
However, you state that your marriage has been on an even keel since your baby was born. If you want a happier marriage, start talking about this with a licensed counselor and ask what it will take for you to regain your trust in your spouse. People who focus on looking backward instead of the path ahead have been known to trip themselves up.

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for five years. Two years ago, we got engaged but — for many reasons — broke things off a month before the wedding. A few months later, we started talking again and have since built a stronger relationship. Our love is probably a hundred times stronger now, and we are again talking about marriage. The problem is that we live two hours apart. Due to our careers, we see each other only about once a month. We tried counseling, but it was difficult to find a time that worked for both of us.
While we are crazy in love, I am very nervous. I don’t believe in living together prior to marriage for religious and cultural reasons. He has shared a home with prior girlfriends. We come from different cultures, there’s a 12-year age difference and we’ve spent more time apart than near each other. We are beyond amazing when we are together and when we go on mini-trips. Abby, is this normal? Am I having “cold feet”? What can I do to get over my anxiety?
NERVOUS IN LOVE

DEAR NERVOUS: It is important that you get to the root of what may be causing the anxiety you are experiencing. Some sessions on your own with a licensed counselor may help you to do that. I hope you will give it consideration.

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