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Daughter’s relationship choices disappoint mom

DEAR ABBY: I have a 23-year-old daughter, “Julia,” who I am close with. She has been in a relationship with “Joey,” a guy her age, for four years and living with him for the last 16 months. Joey’s a great kid who hasn’t had a lot of support in his life. I have been like a mother to him, and we are very close. He works hard, earned a college degree and plans on a career in law enforcement. I love him like my own.
The issue is, Julia has been working a part-time evening job. She works with a man I’ll call “Nick,” who is 10 years older and has a child. She has started having an affair with him. She claims to love Joey but is “torn” because she’s bored and wants to “have fun.” I am upset and devastated.
From the sound of him, Nick doesn’t have many great qualities. I believe she’s making a grave mistake and risks losing a great future. I have tried getting her to see it, but I don’t think I’m getting through. Should I continue or back off and see what happens? I feel like I am betraying Joey because I know about this.
TORN-APART MOM

DEAR MOM: As much as you might wish to, you cannot live Julia’s life for her. From your description of your daughter, she’s not ready for marriage or even a permanent commitment.
Joey may be the catch of a lifetime, but if she can’t appreciate him and the life he has to offer, he isn’t the man for her. Step back and allow her to make her own mistakes, because that’s how people learn. And when the truth comes out, tell Joey how sorry you are that things turned out the way they did and that you will always love him like a son.

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 50-year-old woman, and this is the second time my dad has mentioned that he and Mom thought about aborting me before I was born. He qualifies this statement by exclaiming, “I just called to let you know I’m so GLAD your mother and I didn’t go through with the abortion, and how HAPPY I am that you are here.” The thing is, until he said it, I never knew it had crossed their minds.
He knew his statement upset me, yet he brought it up again tonight in a phone call, with even more disturbing information — that they had even gone to a doctor to get it done! He uses subtle ways to sneak the new information in, even though he knows it’s hurtful. What is his motive? What does he want? Why does he do this?
PERPLEXED IN ALABAMA

DEAR PERPLEXED: Saying something one knows is hurtful is cruel. If you haven’t discussed this bizarre scenario with your mother, you should. Could dear old Dad be losing it? Is he seeking gratitude from you? Was he drunk when he made the call?
His behavior is so far from normal I can’t imagine why he would say such a thing TWICE. Because he may be trying to get a rise out of you, consider deflecting with humor or sarcasm or simply hanging up.
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Central Catholic volleyball raises money to fight cancer

Central Catholic hosted its annual Pink Volleyball Game on Tuesday to raise funds for breast cancer. Central Catholic Alumna and former volleyball player Laci Brown Cavalier was the honorary survivor and also served the honorary first serve of the game. Laci was diagnosed in October 2020. The Central Catholic volleyball team along with sponsors of the event raised $2,500 to help Laci in her fight.

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Woman arrested in Bayou L'Ourse-area burglary

Assumption Parish deputies made an arrest in a Sept. 7 Bayou L'Ourse area burglary with the help of video surveillance, Sheriff Leland Falcon reported.

Amanda Smith, 40, McGill Lane, Gibson, was arrested on a charge of simple burglary of an inhabited dwelling.

The charges result from a residential burglary on Flamingo Road in early September.

Deputies responded to the complaint Sept. 7 made contact with the complainants, who advised they were residents of the home. The victims advised that they had noticed items missing from the home.

The victims were able to identify suspects after reviewing video surveillance footage. One of the suspects was identified asSmith.

Detectives conducted follow-up investigation, which included interviewing a Smith.

At the conclusion of the investigation, warrants were obtained for the arrest of suspects in this burglary.

Smith was arrested and booked into the Assumption Parish Detention Center on a $10,000 commercial bond

Detectives were able to recover some items reported stolen in the burglary.

ALFRED JOSEPH LACOSTE

September 9, 1936 - October 3, 2021

Alfred Joseph LaCoste, a longtime resident of Patterson, passed away unexpectedly with his loving wife by his side at the age of 85 on Sunday, October 3, 2021, at Ochsner Medical Center in New Orleans.

Alfred was born on September 9, 1936 on a houseboat on Bayou Chene. He was the tenth of twelve children born to Clarence and Cecilia LaCoste. He was a loving husband, father, and grandfather who absolutely adored his family. Alfred worked the majority of his life on the water. As a deckhand in his youth to ultimately attaining his captain's license, Alfred worked all over the world. He was a true outdoorsman and an avid fisherman and hunter. A parishioner of St. Joseph Catholic Church in Patterson, he was also a member of the Knights of Columbus, Patterson Council 1710. Some of his favorite pastimes included whittling, creating all types of treasures, wood working, working in his yard, and especially time spent with those he loved. He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all.

Those he leaves to cherish his memory include his wife of 56 years, Barbara Plaisance LaCoste; their daughter, Tina LaCoste Pousson and her husband Bart; his grandchildren, Stephen Pousson and his wife Gennifer and Ross Pousson; his brother, Burlin LaCoste and his wife Mabel; as well as a host of nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Clarence LaCoste and Cecilia Aucoin LaCoste; and ten siblings, Elmer LaCoste, Sylvester LaCoste, Elvina Holt, Ellen Falls, Adam LaCoste, Ellis LaCoste, Nelson LaCoste, David LaCoste, Clarence LaCoste Jr., and Arthur LaCoste.

Funeral services will be held Thursday, October 7, 2021, at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Patterson during a 2:00 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial. Following, he will be laid to rest in St. Joseph Cemetery. Father Herb Bennerfield will be the Celebrant for the Mass and conduct the services. Musical selections will include Here I Am Lord, Psalm 23, On Eagles Wings, You Are Mine, Old Rugged Cross, and I Call You To My Father's House, with Manny Carlino as organist and vocals by members of the St. Joseph Choir. Serving as pallbearers will be Bart Pousson, Stephen Pousson, Ross Pousson, Ron Roy, Brian LaCoste, and Donny Toups. A gathering of family and friends will be held Wednesday, Oct. 6th, at Ibert’s Mortuary in Patterson from 6:00 p.m. until 9:00 p.m., with the Holy Rosary being prayed at 7:00 p.m., led by Ann Murray. No public visitation will be held Thursday.

Family and friends may view the obituary online by visiting www.iberts.com and are encouraged to share their condolences, cherished memories, love, and support for the family.

Arrangements have been entrusted to Ibert's Mortuary, Inc., 1111 Lia Street, Patterson, LA 70392, (985) 395-7873.

UPDATED: Patterson Council raises mayor's salary

Final Morey Park improvement project awarded; council studies street priority list

PATTERSON — Mayor Rodney Grogan is getting a raise.
The Patterson City Council voted unanimously Tuesday to raise the mayor’s salary from $36,000 to $48,000 a year while keeping the job’s $6,000 annual vehicle allowance in place.
The council also introduced proposed charter amendments that could, if passed by the council and Patterson voters, raise the qualification bar for the mayor and police chief, and allow the police chief to receive an immediate pay raise rather than waiting for the current council term to end, as the charter now requires.
But another proposed amendment, which would have required the mayor’s post to be a full-time job, proved too difficult to define.
Also Tuesday, Grogan urged council members to study a list of 23 street sections, many of them with only gravel for surfaces, to set priorities for $570,000 in proceeds from a bond issue earmarked for road repair.
Mayor’s pay
Grogan had asked for the raise at the Sept. 7 council meeting, when the ordinance was introduced.
His request was based in part on salaries in nearby municipalities. Grogan quoted figures that included annual pay of $69,000 for Morgan City’s mayor, $36,000 in Berwick and $62,000 in Jeanerette.
He also talked about the demands of the job, especially recently in light of Hurricane Ida and the COVID-19 pan-demic.
“The stress our job carries — but we continue to march on,” Grogan said at the September meeting. “I just felt the time was right.”
The council members generally praised Grogan’s work during his 11 years as mayor. But Councilwoman Tina Johnson asked what would happen if Grogan’s successor doesn’t measure up.
“You can’t be afraid of the future …,” Grogan said. “Please don’t penalize me and be afraid of the future.”
Councilman Joe Russo said he considers Grogan a friend and thinks he deserves the raise. But setting the salary shouldn’t be about personal feelings, Russo said.
“We should give the seat what it deserves,” he said.
After a public hearing with no public comments Tuesday, Russo, John Rentrop, Johnson, Lee Condolle and Travis Darnell voted for the $12,000 increase.
The $36,000 annual salary has been in effect since 2014, when the council raised it from $20,000.
Charter
amendments
Defining the mayor’s post as a full-time job proved to be more difficult. The council refused to introduce a proposed charter amendment making the job full-time after a long discussion about what exactly constitutes full time.
The questions from the council included: Can the mayor be required to work a certain number of hours each day? Can the mayor be prohibited from having job outside City Hall? If so, does such a rule effectively prohibit business owners from becoming mayor?
And even if the council settles on a definition, City Attorney Russel Cremaldi said, there’s still the problem of settling the legal language.
Darnell wondered aloud whether the city could require the mayor to work an eight-hour day.
“Now think about it,” Cremaldi responded. “How do you say that in an ordinance?”
Russo also said he’s concerned that a requirement might limit the number of people who would be eligible to run for mayor.
Condolle’s motion to introduce the ordinance calling for a vote on the full-time requirement died for lack of a second.
But the council successfully introduced three ordinances proposing charter amendments that must be passed with the votes of four of five council members and then by popular vote.
The proposed amendments:
—Would require the mayor to have a high school diploma or its equivalent.
—Would require the police chief to be certified under Peace Officer Standards and Training guidelines.
—Would allow the council to raise the police chief’s pay during the same term in which the raise is approved.
Currently, the charter says that if the council decides to decrease the pay of either the mayor or police chief, the de-crease can’t go into effect until the following council term. But a pay raise for the mayor can take effect during the term in which the council passes the raise, while the police chief has to wait until the next council term.
The amendment would create the same pay raise and pay cut rules for the chief and the mayor.
There is now no formal proposal for raising the police chief’s pay. Chief Garrett Grogan currently makes $60,000 per year.
If the council passes the proposed amend-ments by the end of December, the measures would go on the March 26 ballot.
The council’s passage vote could come as soon as Nov. 2.
Street work
The mayor once more asked council members to consider a list of streets needing work as the city tries to set priorities for the $570,000 in bond issue proceeds. Completing all the repairs on the list would exceed the money available by at least $200,000.
Gravel streets on the list are:
Taft from Hickory to 11th; Eighth, Ninth, 10th and 11th from Park to Taft; Tall Timbers from Luke to the end; Fern from Tall Timbers to the cul-de-sac; Dangerfield and Vaughn from Plum to Hickory; Willow from Taft to MLK; St. Mary and St. Lucy from Gabriel to the end; Sugarhouse from Joseph to Stable; Stable from Waveland to Kent-wood Water; Joseph from Waveland to Sugarhouse; Lucia from Leo to Mike; Progresso from Lia to Veterans; Morrison from Live Oak to end; Roussell from Cherry to end; Laws from Main to end; and Jake Street from Lia to the city limits.
The streets on the list with overlays are Park from Carmen to U.S. 90 and Shady Grove from Red Cypress to the cul-de-sac.
Morey Park
The council approved a Del Con bid of $99,000 to build the last piece of the Morey Park improvements, a 30-foot by 40-foot pavilion. Work by Kidder Inc. of Morgan City on projects worth $15,000 and $17,000 were also approved.

Three St. Mary COVID deaths reported Tuesday

Three COVID-related deaths were reported among St. Mary Parish residents for the 24 hours ending at noon Tuesday, according to the Louisiana Office of Public Health.

The deaths raise the parish pandemic toll to 212, including 66 since the first deaths of the fourth coronavirus wave were reported Aug. 1.

Eleven new COVID cases were reported in St. Mary on Tuesday, raising the pandemic total to 8,422.

The parish's vaccination rate is now at 38.6%.

Statewide, 1,021 new cases were reported Tuesday along with 41 deaths.

The number of COVID-positive people in Louisiana hospitals fell by 44 to 671 from noon Monday to noon Tuesday.

Two women arrested on drug charges, tried to sell 'something' to juvenile, sheriff says

(Editor’s note: The charges listed here and the narratives that go with them are provided by the police agencies that made the arrests. Guilt or innocence has not been determined in court.)

Two women face drug charges after a parent reported that they tried to sell something, possibly drugs, to her daughter, the St. Mary Parish Sheriff’s Office said Tuesday.

St. Mary
Sheriff Blaise Smith advised that over the last 24-hour reporting period, the Sheriff’s Office responded to 44 complaints and made these arrests:
—Melissa Jean Baldwin, 44, Marrero, was arrested at 7:35 p.m. Monday on charges of possession with intent to distribute a Schedule II drug, possession of drug paraphernalia, obstruction of justice (tampering) and introduction of contraband into a penal institution.
Baldwin was also named in a warrant alleging failure to appear through the Terrebonne Parish Sheriff’s Office.
—Margaret Mary Guidroz, 42, Patterson, was arrested at 7:35 p.m. Monday on charges of possession of methamphetamines, possession of drug paraphernalia, possession of Schedule IV drugs and possession of marijuana.
Guidroz also was named in a warrant alleging failure to appear in Lafourche Parish.
A deputy was dispatched to a business in Bayou Vista and made contact with a complainant, who stated that two female subjects attempted to sell something, possibly drugs, to her juvenile daughter.
The deputy located one of the women, identified as Guidroz, in the parking lot and made contact with her. Through the investigation, drugs and drug paraphernalia were located in her possession. Dispatch advised that Guidroz also held an active warrant in Lafourche Parish.
The deputy learned that the other woman, identified, as Baldwin, was also in the parking lot. An assisting deputy arrived and made contact with Baldwin. As the investigation continued, the deputies learned that Baldwin held active warrants, and drugs were found in her possession.
Guidroz and Baldwin were transported to the St. Mary Parish Law Enforcement Center for booking. No bail has been set.
—Cherie Ann Welch, 28, Baldwin, was arrested at 6:55 a.m. Monday on charges of general speed law, improper backing, and resisting a police officer with force. Bail was set at $3,250.
—Cody Fryou, 31, Patterson, was arrested at 10:37 p.m. Monday on two warrants alleging failure to appear on the charges unauthorized entry of an inhabited dwelling, simple criminal damage to property and possession of drug paraphernalia. No bail has been set.
—Corey Thomas Tarver, 44, Patterson, was arrested at 11:28 a.m. Monday on a warrant alleging failure to appear on the charge of possession of marijuana. No bail has been set.
—Ronald Wayne Johnson, 30, Patterson, was arrested at 7:20 p.m. Monday on a charge of battery of a correctional officer. Johnson continues to be incarcerated at the St. Mary Parish Law Enforcement Center.
—Cedric Benjamin Gant, 24, Morgan City, was arrested at 7:33 p.m. Monday on two warrants alleging failure to appear on the charge of violation of a protection order. Gant was released on a $11,000 bond.
—Nathaniel P. Valen, 40, Jeanerette, was arrested at 1:22 a.m. Tuesday on charges of no insurance and driving under suspension. Valen was released on a summons to appear Jan. 4.

Berwick
Police Chief David Leonard reported these arrests:
—Wanya Francis, 26, Live Oak Street, Patterson, was arrested at 12:08 p.m. Monday on charges of possession of marijuana (under 14 grams) and possession of drug paraphernalia.
About 11:50 a.m. Monday, the Berwick Police Department responded to a local business for a disturbance call. Officers met with Francis, who was identified as being one of the parties involved.
During the course of the investigation, officers detected an odor of marijuana coming from Francis’ vehicle. A search of the vehicle was done, at which time a small amount of marijuana and items of drug paraphernalia were located inside.
Francis admitted that the marijuana and paraphernalia belonged to him. Francis was placed under arrest. Francis was released on a summons to appear in court in January 2022.
—Hope Cubbedge, 42, Carter Lane, Berwick, was arrested at 7:04 p.m. Monday on a warrant alleging theft.
About 7:04 p.m. Monday, Cubbedge walked into the Berwick Police Department for an unrelated matter. During this time it was learned that Cubbedge had active warrants through the Berwick Police Department.
Cubbedge was advised of the warrant and was placed under arrest.
The warrant stems from a complaint the Berwick Police Department handled Sept. 5, in which Cubbedge and several others were involved in a spree of shoplifting from a local business.
Cubbedge was released on a summons to appear in court in November 2021.
—Juan Lopez, 42, Arlington Road, Morgan City, was arrested at 11:52 p.m. Monday on charges of driving while intoxicated (first offense), open container, no driver’s license and improper lane usage.
About 11:13 p.m. Monday, an officer observed a vehicle traveling up the La. 182 bridge on the wrong side of the roadway. A traffic stop was conducted on the vehicle, and contact was made with Lopez.
Lopez was advised for the reason of the stop, and officers immediately detected a strong odor of alcohol coming from his breath and person. A computer check showed that Lopez did not have a driver’s license.
Lopez was asked to perform field sobriety tests, which he agreed to do and performed poorly on. A search of his vehicle was conducted at which time several open alcoholic containers were located inside.
Lopez was placed under arrest and transported to the Berwick Police Department, where he provided a valid breath sample of .267G% BAC. Lopez was booked.

Franklin
Police Chief Morris Beverly said the Franklin Police Department responded to 12 complaints over the past 24 hours and made this arrest:
—Benjamin Picard, 27, Eves Street, Jeanerette, was arrested at 12:33 p.m. Monday, on a war-rant dated Friday for violation of protective order, remaining where forbidden (two counts), telephone harassment and criminal mischief.
Picard was booked, processed and released on a $3,100 bond.

Junior achievement: 11th-graders make big plays in Friday football

Staff Report
Big-time, big-play performances were the rule Friday night for east St. Mary football teams.
Junior running back Jayden Milton put on a tackle-busting show, scoring four touchdowns in Berwick’s 35-0 homecoming victory over Centerville.
Another 11th-grader, Central Catholic’s Damondrick Blackburn, ran for two scores and caught two TD passes to lift Central Catholic over McKinley of Baton Rouge, 38-6.
And still another junior, Patterson quarterback Caylon Davis, rushed for a touchdown and threw for three more to lead the Lumberjacks over Morgan City, 40-0.
Another clash of east St. Mary teams is coming up this week, when 4-1 Patterson goes to 2-2 Berwick on Thursday.
Thurday night’s action includes a trip by Central Catholic, 2-2, to Centerville, 2-2. Morgan City, also 2-2, travels to South Lafourche, 0-2, on Friday.
Central Catholic 38,
McKinley 6
At 6-foot and 210 pounds, Blackburn was more than McKinley could handle.
Before the first quarter was over, Blackburn had scored on a 28-yard run and on passes of 63 and 16 yards from quarterback Caleb O’Con, still one more junior who stood up and stood out Friday.
After McKinley’s homecoming halftime show, Blackburn resumed his show with a 46-yard touchdown run.
A McKinley punt hit one of the team’s offensive linemen to set Central Catholic up at the Panther 28, also setting up O’Con’s third touchdown pass of the night. He hit Freddie Calloway with a 24-yard strike. Fullback Kye Morgel capped the scoring with a 2-yard plunge.
Central Catholic is now 2-2 after an 0-2 start.
Berwick 35,
Centerville 0
Milton’s position on the Berwick roster is listed as “ATH.” Centerville might be inclined to agree.
Milton rushed for touchdowns of 21, 25, 11 and 16 yards to put Berwick’s homecoming game out of reach for the Bulldogs.
Brett Bearb added a 37-yard TD run. Jude Vasquez was 3-for-4 on extra-point kicks, and sophomore Luke Tarver added a 2-point conversion.
Like Central Catholic, Berwick has now evened its record after going winless in its first two tries.
Patterson 40,
Morgan City High 0
Patterson needed some time to get moving. But when the Lumberjacks started rolling, they rolled.
Davis put Patterson on the board with a 3-yard run 7:16 into the game. Just before the first quarter ended, Davis struck again, hitting Kyler Paul with a 35-yard TD pass.
Karson Paddie hauled in a 5-yard Davis touchdown pass in the second quarter. Fullback Mark Hilliard rushed for a 20-yard score to make it 24-0 at the half.
A holding penalty called back a Davis touchdown pass, but he came back with a 41-yard TD strike to Howard Kinchen. And Paul, in his role as kick returner, ran the second-half kickoff back 79 yards for a score.
A Hilliard run and a pass from Caylon Davis to Camron Davis added 2-point conversions.

JERRY KENT SARGEE

February 9, 1950 — September 28, 2021
Jerry Kent Sargee, 71, a longtime resident of Jonesboro, Georgia and former resident of Morgan City, passed away on September 28, 2021 in Jonesboro, Georgia.
Jerry was born on February 9, 1950 in Bunkie, Louisiana, the son of Claudie Sargee Sr. and Betty Stage Sargee.
Jerry served his country proudly as a United States Marine during the Vietnam War. He loved to be in the outdoors going fishing and he also enjoyed cooking, playing cards and watching football.
He will be sadly missed and lovingly remembered by two children, Tabitha Treadwell and husband Gary of Jonesboro, Georgia and Jerry Allen Sargee and wife Ellen of Douglasville, Georgia; six grandchildren, Brett Sargee, Drew Sargee, Robby Gossett, Kaci Gossett, Cailin Branning and Scott Cooper; six siblings, Kennon Sargee of Morgan City, Linda Purdion and fiancé Bill Nink of Cypress, Texas, Gary Sargee and wife Marlene of Patterson, Claudie Sargee Jr. and wife Margaret of Milton, Louisiana, Rhonda Comeaux and husband Perry of Labadieville and Marjorie Turner and husband Harris of Bunkie, Louisiana.
Jerry was preceded in death by his parents; his wife of 44 years, Karen Granger Sargee; his father and mother-in-law, Bernie and Evelyn Granger; his daughter-in-law, Olivia Sargee.
Private memorial services will be held at a later date.

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